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I have a headache for over 16 hours (I woke up 16 hours ago with a fucking headache).
How do I help it without killing myself?
Lil bit of history:
>Chronic headaches (NEVER this extreme)
>related to sinuses, feel pressure, often feel itches in the inner ear or on the "inside of the jaw" if that makes any sense)
>inb4 paracetamol + codeine, dunked way over I should, no help
>my left side of the neck feels tense as fuck, also a bit painish, maybe the cause of this whole shit
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This isn't a quick fix but I struggled with chronic headaches for a long time. Found out through a blood test that I was deficient in vitamin D. Started supplementing with it and after a couple weeks my headaches drastically improved. Might be worth looking into.
>>16619503
try sleeping
Its that time again my friends
What should I get from McDonalds?
>>16619452
Diabetes.
>>16619452
#1 combo, 2 regular hamburgers, crispy chicken and 2 fish sandwiches and a diet coke.
>>16619486
I don't like the fish and diet tastes like shit
Finna get a Spire shiettttt
feel like i cant stop saying I while answering this question on a job interview.
This is a competitive position, what helps to separate you from other applicants?
Any help/advice would help
>>16619379
What kind of jobs are we talking?
Talk about your passion or drive or some shit.
Going to psychiatry tomorrow, full time.
I think I will stay there for at least 3 weeks.
What should I expect and what tips do you have?
>>16619354
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rayFCxOeOY
do this
What does /adv/ think of fuck buddy sites? Are they really worth the time and money?
>>16619346
great way to make money off of tards like yourself
>>16619365
I have signed up on two sites from my country but haven't signed up for premium membership on either.
How do I get nudes from this girl that I'm fucking? We aren't really dating but we've had sex like 3 times and plan to meet up again but I want something to jerk off to in the meantime.
If not how whats the best way to ask her if I can take a picture of her nude, I'm somewhat of a photoghrapher/filmmaker
>>16619329
Ask facebook
>>16619340
She doesn't have a facebook but she does use instagram
>>16619329
Just ask her if she would want to give you some pictures that you could fap to later and don't push it if she feels uncomfortable doing that. Don't ask in a cheesy way either, just be clear and precise.
Hello, /adv/, 19M virgin here.
Growing up, for some stupid reason, my dad never told me that I was supposed to pull my foreskin in shower and when peeing, and now I have it too tight to expose the glans. Honestly, I only found out that the head is supposed to be exposed during intercourse when I started watching porn (took me a while to figure out).
When flaccid I can pull it halfway down the head of my dick, and a bit less when erect. It IS NOT phimosis.
I started pulling it as frequently as possible, but I believe that it's going to take a long time to fix, and I really don't want surgery.
If some miracle happens and I come to get laid, will I hurt in the act? Is there any way not to? Can I, like, use my hand to hold it and put inside unpulled?
I drew this to explain how it looks like
You may not have phimosis but look into frenelum breve.
Hi anon, I was in the same boat as you. Let me tell you what I personally experienced. I was scared about sex because I had an overly sensitive (penis)head since it was never exposed to outside stimulus. I started to very slowly stretch out the foreskin slightly in the shower. I would also let some warm water pour directly on it, since it didn't really hurt. I did this every now and then. Eventually I could lightly touch it after about a year. I hooked up with a girl in my senior year of high school and I said fuck it if it hurts I'll fucking deal with it. Turns out, girls are pretty fucking lubricated. I could definitely feel some discomfort but not enough for me to stop. Flash forward a year. After so much fucking my foreskin got pulled to a natural state. The discomfort went away. So basically just fuck it, literally.
>>16620614
this
Do I have social anxiety?
I feel like I'm a lifeless person that not many people would ever want to be around. Introverted, I don't feel that anything I have to say is really interesting to other people/worth sharing. I don't like how alcohol or drugs seems to be mixed in to a lot of "social events"... "Hey, wanna come out for beers?" "-no." I don't feel the need to document my entire life through photographs and share it for everyone view or comment on.
I work hard, I'm friendly and get a long with people, but its usually just interactions that I have through work. I try to maintain a professional character and play by the rules.
The only reason I care, is because of a young woman I have been with for the past 5 years is losing interest. She's really been one of the few people I truly cared deeply for... Regardless, she wishes I had more friends. Is this all my fault? It has to be...
We don't live together, yet. So simply seeing each other is a pain in the ass and only happens a few times a week, usually on days that I don't work, because I pull 12 hour shifts. And even that being said, my days off are spent taking care of her and making sure she gets to work. So, what little time we have, I value (not so sure about her these days...)
There is obviously a lot more to this... However the main question is, would me not liking the above mentioned things be a factor in social anxiety? I don't really feel that it is, but I need to start trying to figure some of this shit out.
This test should give you a pretty good idea
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/disorder/liebowitz/
>>16619331
Thanks!
Only scored a 14... So I guess that answers that. So does this mean I just let the girl go? Cut our time together down from 8-10 times a month of seeing each other to 1-2 times a month? Until she complains more and says we never see each other any more, then tell her it's to late, my time is committed else where now?
>>16619368
I am no relationship expert. All I can say is that if your hearts not completely in it, there's no reason to continue the relationship. Whether you want to end it gradually or abruptly is up to you.
How do I act naturally ?
I swear to god I don't even know how to act naturally around people that aren't my parents and a few friends. By acting naturally I mean acting as I would if were alone, acting as I feel like I should, but I don't . I seems like I have social anxiety to the point that I can never let go and be myself, and I feel like I always have to keep in control, and this makes me always act detached, cold, serious, instead of being "in" the situation that is happening.
I really need help about this because I feel this is fucking up my life and this keeps getting worse and worse
>>16619316
You say that like its a bad thing
What's helped me a little bit is pretending like everybody is your friend, even complete strangers. Act like you've been buddies with them for years.
>>16619316
A-are you me?
How often do you think before speaking?
Is it normal to speak without thinking?
If it's just a casual conversation? I hardly think at all. Maybe if I'm trying to remember a detail or fact. I don't sit there and think before I say something. This leads to not really listening to what the other person is saying or awkward pauses.
My dad, doesn't like him, because he isn't "pure" anon's. His been with one chick, for about two years. And my father casting judgement on that. He is turning 20 next year, and I am 18. We meet around March, or February. He is a wonderful guy really, and I want my dad to know, that I am with him. The thing is, anon's, when we tried to make it official, one time and everybody is against it, because ya know he wasn't "pure", he kissed that girl, and because of that nobody, looks at him in good light, which is stupid, its because of our religion. We been sneaking out, meeting each other, Ive put alot in the line for him. Im scared that I may get kickout, people in this religion will look at me with no favour, but as time passes I don't give a single dam anymore, just care about the outlook on my father, and whether or not if I have a place to stay. The thing is I am still in highschool, wanna get out of there, before, I reveal it to everyone and move to tem buck two. And just make a run. Any advice =P?
Well there's a few clear options:
1. Be patient and wait out high school. If you guys really like each other you'll both be willing to make sacrifices.
2. Sit your dad down and maturely explain to him why you think he is pure. Hell, bring your boyfriend with. Just explain it to him in a way that validates his beliefs that your boyfriend's a good guy.
Like I said before, if you guys both actually, really like each other, it's just a matter of time. This whole debacle is a test of maturity on both of your parts (you and your boyfriend). Don't fuck it up, act your age, and you'll be golden.
You are 18 and free to make your own choices (or soon free), and your boyfriend's past is none of your family's business.
Tell your dad - and your whole family - that you expect them to just be happy for you, and not try to control your life and dictate your choices. And that if they can't do that, then you won't be in their lives any more. They have to choose between their stupid and controlling religious "morals" and having their child in their lives.
Because honestly that's what it sounds like it's come down to for you already. Lay it on the line, anon.
>>16620453
>>16620497
Thank you anons, may love proveal!
And we will act in our age, thank you for the needed support. :)
How do I deal with the fact I will never accomplish anything important in my life?
Alcohol.
>>16619301
and drugs
>>16619448
and California love
Need help clearing my storrage?? There's literally nothing in there so any adivce on how to fix?
Nothing at all, even had to delete a lot of my apps amd move to sd card to clear some space but didnt work to well
You basically can't do anything without doing a factory reset. Kind of a pain in the ass, but ya. I've tried all the cleaning apps and hours of googling shit, but there's really not much you can do. You'll slowly just lose storage space over time.
yo, so i've been dating this girl for a few months now. Within the last week though our conversations have become kind of dry, and when we hang out we always do the same thing. How can we spice things up a bit? The sex is great, and we really like each other, but over winter break and not being at college has caused us to become a bit bored.
What are some ways to improve conversation? What are some ideas for fun activies we could do?
breaking up is a fun one
grats the cupcake stages are over
If I am how do I be less selfish?
i love you
>>16619180
There's nothing inherently wrong with being selfish to a certain extent. It's a biological drive that keeps us alive. Survival of the fittest and all that.
That being said, understand that you can't really have meaningful relationships with others unless you're willing to make at least a few sacrifices here and there. The harsh reality of life is that people aren't usually willing to spend their time on you unless you benefit them in some way. That's fine as long as you benefit as well. Find people who offer a decent give/take ratio and they'll be your best friends.
This, of course, is far easier said than done.
I mean if I'm being selfish in my friend ships with others
