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Any advice on telling a MtoF transgender to not see each other anymore?
I'm recently saddened by the fact that my crush already has a boyfriend. So since I had been addicted to watching trap or shemale porn I decided to date a MtoF transgender.
We just had our first meet last weekend and the thing is, she is not what I expected her to be. My issues...
>yeah she may look like a real female but I'm totally turned off by her kind of androgynous voice.
>she still has a d*ck and it's a massive...
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>>16617259
Transwomans Perspective here
First off its MtF no "O" its what is more common in the community and everything
otherwise here are the things, No person is entitled to need to like another person. People are entitled to preferences, just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.
as for each one of your points,
>Voice can be worked on but it could also be that she fucked it up or is unwilling to work on it
>Surgery can...
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>>16617259
>What should I do now /adv/?
Watch this video...you're welcome.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
>>16617361
>just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.
You're Pathetic.
He's got this trap harassing him and threatening to show up at his work and you're calling HIM a dick?
Phimosis guy in the UK here.
I was wondering if anyone could tell me roughly how long the entire process (from going to the GP to walking out of the hospital without a foreskin) takes on the NHS.
Also if anyone has any advice on how to handle the recovery period I'd be very grateful
>>16617151
My dad had it done, I was young though so I don't remember much. He wasn't at the hospital for very long and he was back the same day. He said it was uncomfortable for a few weeks but didn't go into much more detail than that
>>16617151
Just stretch it out like everyone else, idiot.
Got one 2 or 3 years ago. I got partially sedated so i was awake the whole time. ( you will never forget the smell of your own skin being burnt ) I dont rememeber how long the whole proces took but after surgery i had little to no pain or discomfort. I heard it differs from pl to ppl though. I can tell you it sucks afterwards though. Having no skin anymore that is. I heard there are 2 different ways. One fullt circumcised and one half. I dont know what it depends on for getting one or the other.
I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years and a few months. We've both had our fair share of shit which interferes with trust in the relationship. But she is jealous as fuck.
She tells me that I can't look at girls, talk to them, have them as contacts on my phone, talk to them on my phone, have any female friends.
Any chance of her changing? Or just a naturally fucking insane person?
As Sheldon Cooper would say, "Bitches be crazy".
Lose her soon--I had a girlfriend like that and had to end up sending her to the State pen.
How do you become bestfriends with someone? Does it just naturally happen? Is it bad to try and force it?
Its something only women do
>>16617130
Hang out, do shit that you both like together, just generally shoot the shit. You can't force it, it'll just kinda happen if the person is, for lack of a better term, "compatible" with you.
>>16617215
This is literally the opposite of truth.
>>16617258
Op here. She told me i was her best friend but sometimes i feel like at times we don't get along or something and i feel like she thinks I'm a retard. What do i do
>Me messaging a chick:
Hi there!
How's it going?
Doing anything this weekend?
>Her:
Hi!
I am great
How are you?
Yes, I work for the Colombian Embassy, and we are going to do a huge party, the next Sunday
Is she saying no or what? Why do I say?
Inb4 aspergers, I have social anxiety and shit
Stop being a twat and just carry on talkig with her you aspegers ridden pumpkin
She's told you she's doing something this weekend, so she's answered your question. You made the critical error of asking if she had plans without following it up with a suggestion for her. Depending on how well you know her you could follow it up with something along the lines of 'if you have any spare time you should grab a coffee with me.'
It's imperative that you phrase it in such a way, not softly offering like 'would you like to do something?' where she has the option. Make it seem like you're doing her a favour, basically....
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I got really sick and had to spend some time in the hospital. I lost touch without of my social group while I was away.
I'm starting to get better (can walk and talk almost normally, no longer in hospital)but I'm really lonely and would love to make friends and maybe even try dating. The problem is that I don't know how.
Tl; dr: how to make friends. Pic related, it's me.
>>16617118
I guess I'll add a few details about myself.
I'm 32, I like to play music, cook, read and watch weird movies. I live alone with my cat. I'm into alternative spirituality and other /x/ stuff. I'm str8. I used to have a very active social life but that all went away over the last few years as I got too sick to leave home very often. I'm mostly better now but still a bit weak.
Bump
Hey anons!
Im a 19 years old guy. Im together with a girl for ten months now. Lost my virginity with her. First months of i couldve fuck her for hours and she came up to 10 times. Last months as im falling in love more and more our sex life have become much more intense and hot and I just cant hold longer than hour and I really feel bad about myself, i feel like im not giving her enough. Shes having only up to 3 orgasms now which are much stronger than the 8 ones but i want to give her those 8 at the strenght of the ones shes having now. Were having sex with no condom only...
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bumpity
>>16617077
translate pls
Masturbating is not cheating, your girl is dumb. Second, don't worry about lasting longer. Just nut. Then use your hands or mouth to keep her up until your dick comes back. Then go at it again. Make sex a two round event for you guys. I mean, jesus, you're already lasting long enough.
What should I do about a perverted female coworker?
I enjoy what she does, pressing her tits against me, sometimes sits on my leg, pressing her crotch against it as I bounce my leg up and down, and laughing at humorous dirty pictures I share, but the problem is she's engaged.
She is flirty with the other guys at work, but she seems to be more open towards me. I feel like we're heading towards a dangerous area.
>>16617052
I'll take things that never happened for 400, Alex
Fuck her lmao. Just make sure no one finds out haha.
>>16617053
Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it hasn't happened to someone else.
I'm serious.
For a while I am seeing people in my life sticking guns (shotguns/pistols) into their mouth and pulling the trigger. Last night I vividly remember some girl I knew and then she turns around and the back half of her head is missing. So it's as if the face is only intact like a mask. I'm trying to remember what I felt in the dream and I can at best describe it as deep grief and fury masked by confusion.
Why?
This was after a few weeks of straight sex dreams, too.
I'm 22 year old male if that's a clue.
>>16617039
First of all, I take the C.G. Jung approach to dreams, if that says you anything.
I have no idea why you have that dreams or what they mean, because i´m not you. This dreams are a generated by your subconsciousness and only have a message to you.
So I can only ask questions and maybe help you to understand your dreams, I can´t offer any clear message.
Who exactly are the People you see killing themselves, close friends or just people you know?
Do you feel any connection between their act and yourself,...
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do depression meds really fucking work? I've been in sertraline for a month now and I don't feel better. I only feel apathetic. My life is still a piece of shit, and I have no will or ability to do anything about it. I stopped taking the meds today. Fuck this.
Lame Pepe because I don't feel like adding a pic
>>16617008
Ask for a change in meds. As for "do they work" it depends. for me they didn't, only made me crazy emotional.
Hi ADV need some suggestions on what I can do with a S3 phone that has a broken LCD ie no picture and has been factory reset.
Was wondering if its possible to use as android TV device with a Micro MHL To HDMI HDTV Adapter Cable.
Any ideas or other suggestions?
Links too guides appreciated
Cheers
Is the type of stuff I fap to bad for my health?
>>16616982
what do you fap to?
>>16617011
Uhh here is an example
>>16617029
Yes.
How hard is it to move to another state?
I'm 22 and im still living at home. The driving force with my wanting to leave is that my parents are constantly yelling at each other and I no longer want to deal with their shit when their arguments spills into my space.
I can get the money easy I just want to know how hard it will be. or if anything how hard would it be moving out in my own city first and then out of state
You man listen,
I telling you this straight up. Wait it out. I can relate to what you are saying, just listen to your parents and don't doing anything illegal or stupid.
They are your parents for a reason. Listen to them and talk into a neutral and affirmative tone. Yelling and cursing at them ain't gonna solve squat!
Just be a good and simple man. That is all to it and live your life the way you want to.
Peace out brother!
Everyone in my family hates me and wants me to kill myself and so do i. Someone please help me, i literally fuck up everything and im a broken human
>>16616904
stop being such a whiny bitch and do something about it instead of just giving up. spite for your enemies will motivate you to succeed
>>16616912
Thats what i was thinking when they were being cruel to me. Like they want me dead, but them being that cruel gives me a reason to live if only to spite them. Inheritance wise they would benefit from my death a lot, I do try to change my life, but I also mainly feel hopeless. I hate even leaving the house because becauseI have panic attacks and im fucking ugly and awkward as shit, so it makes it hard to change or keep changed. Like I said ive been through a lot and this is just one more thing cutting me down and...
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My boyfriend keeps comparing me to and pointing out 10/10's. He keeps saying he wishes I was hotter. I'm skinny already but he wants me to wear sexier clothes I guess but I'm not a show off.
I've told him just how horny I get when I look at him. I've said I love him but he won't say it back. But we have amazing sex.
Why am I not enough for him
>>16616887
this is some delicious bait
do you need advice for anything
