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How can I stop being a such a nice and sympathetic person? It's leading me to do stupid things like buying people a bunch of crap because a situation they're in.
Or currently, I'm possibly going to marry a single mom who just divorced abusive husband so that she can stay with me and move away from him since I'm in the military and going to Germany. She's a situation I should really get away from but I can't because I feel obligated to do good. I haven't even fucked her and here I am feeling as if I have to marry her because she's...
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>>16616218
Here's the thing: you're not nice, you're just a pussy.
You aren't feeling the need to marry this girl because you believe her happiness means more to you than your own well-being. To me, it sounds like you still put your well-being happiness above hers, which is fine. No one but you can decide what's important, but what isn't fine is that you just don't have the backbone to go up and tell her
>Look, I want to help, and I want you to be safe, but I don't want to put myself in this situation. I don't feel comfortable with the direction this relationship is going, and I don't want to get roped into something I'm not ready for.
There's more than one way to do good. You don't have to marry her, but you don't have to dump her at the wayside.
>egypt
>black
Do people really tell themselves this
Memorize Atlas Shrugged
Problem solved.
Developed feelings for an ex's distant cousin. They aren't close at all. She seems flirtatious towards me. Thought I was being delusional until others made the same observation. What could go wrong?
It doesn't matter if they're close, it'll most likely hurt your ex. Only do it if you're fine with that.
>there's this girl that I flirted with
>basically nothing happened
>saw her at the mall
>didn't say nothing and turned back like if she was not there
>days after that she texts me "hello" at 2am
>I reply back 10 hours later
>no response
Should I insist?
Doesn't sounds like you have anything to lose if you do insist.
Stop being an insecure faggot.
Let it simmer. She's the one being thirsty at 2am
>>16616185
She could be well hydrated and just horny.
I have a friend who's gotten famous from posting photos and claiming then as his on Instagram. The thing is I'm the only one who knows that he's actually stolen 90% of them from other lesser known Instagrams.
What do I do? Obviously this very wrong of him, but he doesn't care because he has 26k followers and growing. He's starting to get offers from companies like Tostino's to advertise for them.
He won't tell me who he stole them from either and I can't reverse search it because he takes screenshots and crops the photos...
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>>16616134
Why the fuck do you care?
Quit being such a sir white knight cuckington.
I just graduated college and I'm moving to another state. I want to deactivate my facebook account mostly because I don't use it and I don't like others checking in on me through it, but I don't want to seem like a weirdo for not having one or hurt people's feelings by doing it. I'm not worried about meeting new people and saying I don't have one, but I'm more worried about my family or college friends taking offense at it for some bizarre reason. Anyone done this before or think I'm just worrying too much?
>>16616112
Most of them won't care.
>>16616112
worrying too much.
if you deactivate it not many people will have a chance to tell you how upset they are about it. i do recommend for the very last post, putting up your email for a day. everyone gets a chance to write it down.
i did it. only two people wrote to me. interesting experience.
>>16616135
Thank you, that's a good idea.
So I've been dating this girl for about 2-3 years now, we've said I love you and everything seemed fine, then suddenly she asks "So this guy has become single...and something might happen between us, are you ok with that?" I mean what do you even say, of course I said no, but now there is just like toxic cloud hanging over every interactions, I dunno, thoughts?
Leave them. They clearly have no respect for you.
>>16616111
She was shopping while you guys were together. Dump the trash bag.
>>16616111
No thots here except your gf.
Ayoooooo
19, Been red pilling hard since Grade 10, iv studied and dived into the negative truths of the world. Contrast to when i was a kid and the world seemed so perfect with out flaw. At this time in my life i slowed down on school work and spent days of my free time popping red pills of knowledge. I went through negative phases, Shroom experiences, some form of enlightenment. Iv grown and still have a lot to learn. Iv have had a hard time switching from learning the truth to actually changing the world around me. It seems as if 95% of the population is either Blue Pilling or Purple Pilling. [Red Pill: Researched and has full awareness of the reality of the world - - - Blue Pill: Disillusioned and unaware of the injustice to human kind - - - Purple Pill: Tasted the red pill yet remains neutral by acting as a blue pill (Many people are purple pills and often have a "Fuck It" attitude towards life)
I believe people need an icon, "Eggs in one basket" ... The idea of revolution being characterized into a single person and through this characterization prove my self to the people, show them i know how to revolution. I mean no one has ever tried it? Now this level of operation would be life dedication to certain skills: Coding, Public Speaking, Educating, Manipulation, etc.
First i would educate: Youtube Videos(Fraud Economy, Basic Red pill stuff, Truth)
Code: Create a new type of social media platform(Something that actually connects people)
Public Speaking: Educating people in my own area
Manipulation: Famous part, i need to get lyrical and spit fucking bars. Revolution doesn't happen sitting on a fucking computer. People need to bump to the idea of revolution. Through public speak and practice i will lyrically spit truth.
All in all, i just want to know. Fellow Anons do you think its possible, if i can nail all those subjects to perfection. Could it get people to rise up quicker, revolutions inevitable...
>>16616098
You sound like an immature faggot.
>>16616098
>19
There's your problem right there kid. It's okay though you're young.
Just to play devil's advocate a little. Out of those certain "skills" you listed you forgot history and economics to name a few that would be very vital to understanding how to incite a revolution....
Then I read your post again and noticed this
>get lyrical and spit fucking bars
Okay, never mind you really are a young and dumb kid.
>>16616098
you sound even more deluded than you described your childhood self.
How do you deal with instant regret after ejaculation? Even if I masterbate to something weird after I'm done I'm so disgusted. Same happens with women. How do I stop myself from being disgusted? Or how do i make myself not do stupid shit while I'm horny.
>>16616075
Come on their faces, so they'll always look stupider than you feel.
>>16616075
That's your brain telling you that masturbation isn't right for you.
I used to get this a lot when I was younger because I was raised Christian and taught that masturbation was inherently wrong. I tried to go without it and, after about a month of no-fap, I would always start having dreams where I raped women I knew. I'd cum in my sleep and wake up feeling horrified, literally sick to my stomach. I decided I'd rather mitigate my carnality than ignore it because the latter clearly didn't work, and just started masturbating whenever I felt like it. When I was a teen, that would sometimes be multiple times a day, but it's way...
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My mom drinks every night until she becomes a wreck crying and screaming to herself all night. She runs around the house making me and my dad miserable all day by yelling bitchy comments and she'll mumble rude shit under her breath every time she walks by you. For whatever reason she wears like 3 pounds of perfume and it's cheap shitty perfume. She wears so much that it's all I can smell and she leaves her door open right after spraying it for some reason. Everywhere she goes in the house a nasty old lady musk smell sticks. I got the smell of her perfume on my...
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>>16616065
It's okay, Anon. I'm sorry to hear that, but you need to do what will make you happy. Just because she is your mom does not mean you need to be a slave to her bullshit. Do not let her drag you down. It's your choice to put up with this. Best of luck my friend.
>>16616071
Where do I go though I can't afford an apartment or anything with minimum wage
Talked to your dad about this anon?
I was interested in someone until they dropped a bomb that they did something pretty fucked up in their past. No idea what to do now.
If they were remorseful, what's the maximum shittiest thing in someones past that you would let slide?
I think anything can be forgiven. But the question is, are they likely to do it again?
>>16616061
>But the question is, are they likely to do it again?
This.
>>16616054
>I was interested in someone until they dropped a bomb that they did something pretty fucked up in their past.
What was it?
>>16616064
They molested a family member, but kind of tried to justify it by saying that they were molested themselves. They seem to feel pretty badly about it and I highly doubt they'd do it again, but damn bruh...
tldr; Should you delete pictures of your ex off facebook?
So I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We dated for around 6 years. So pretty much every picture I have for the last 6 years has had her in it or been an activity we've did together.
I haven't added a potential dating prospect on FB yet, but I was wondering if this would be a big deal to an average woman. It's going to look like I did nothing for the last 6 years or you'll see a bunch of pictures with my ex.
I don't pay attention to it or ever look back at them, but it...
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>>16616039
Nah it's fine. Just make sure your status says single.
Do what makes you comfortable. I didn't want mine there so I removed them. I think I saved them before but when I reformatted I didn't back them up.
I reckon it may send mixed signals but as long as your status is single then it should be fine.
I make a lot of money, but I still hate my life. I thought going to high school would change things, I thought going to college would change things, I thought getting a job would change things, I thought getting an even better job would change things.
Why should I keep living? Nothing seems to change.
My job is stressful, and on top of that, I have a few other side projects because I want nothing more than to get very rich, I'm not sure what for, but I think it's because I want to be independent to "do what I want".
And "what I...
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>>16616021
>I want nothing more than to get very rich
You sound like the typical Jew to me.
>>16616032
You sound like a typical faggot.
Find a partner, start a new family and keep it together.
How do I fill the hole and stave off the loneliness while I work through the multi-year process of making myself somebody who's fit to date?
Prostitutes.
Can I ask what you're doing during this multi-year process to make yourself a suitable bachelor?
Those feelings usually come in waves, when you feel it coming on spend lots of time with any dateless virgin friends you have but don't actually talk about those feelings with them. I would recommend a D&D group.
Also masturbate a lot.
>>16616030
I'm back in college at 29, getting my degree so I can move up in my career.
To afford it I had to move back in with my parents.
I'm also out of shape and working on that, and trying to overcome the confidence issues that afflict so many on this site.
I'm looking at like 4 more years until I have a real job and my own place again, and it's not just that I don't know how I'll stand the time in between, but that I'm afraid I'll become terminally inept when it comes to dating by that point.
Hookers aren't an option, first of all I think I'd feel worse about myself after doing it, secondly bringing a hooker to my parents' house would be insane, and thirdly I can't really afford any of the hookers I'd want to be with.
>>16616076
I try, but I have so few nowdays, and the ones that are still around make me feel worse, sadly. I feel like I'm stuck in some kind of halfway life, where I'm more socially adjusted than any of my single friends, and all my "normal" friends are long-term dating or married.
I was in a serious long-term relationship until about 3 years ago, and everything went to hell at once, my industry collapsed, I broke up with my ex, etc. Most of my friends date from that period, and the way it "should" have been was that we'd be a bunch of married couples doing double dates and shit, and only my life went off the rails.
D&D has always frustrated the shit out of me, some friends play but they're so fucking aspie that I want to flip the table over when they spend an entire hour arguing about one turn.
Obviously there's plenty of fapping going on, but it doesn't really make up for being alone and single.
So i just got a gf for the first time in my life, we've been dating for a month or two but because we met at college we haven't seen each other for a while due to the christmas break. Anyway we have done a bunch of texting to each other, and she told me that she draws hentai for fun. She doesn't want to show them to me but for some reason it makes me really uncomfortable. I actually saw a few of them and i don' think she knows i saw them, but they are really hardcore. Worse is I like most of you like hentai... so what do i tell her? Without her thinking I saw her images without her permission?
Obviously, this is your 'in'. You need to ask politely if you can fuck her like one of her tentacle monsters.
Not even joking.
>>16616013
i would but she might like me because i appear "innocent"
>>16616038
Then just innocently ask i-if she's into that sort of thing... It's embarrassing, but it's okay if it's with you, Hentai-chan!~
How do you guys get motivated to change your life for the positive? There are hard things I need to make myself do, but I can't find it in me. Any advice?
>>16615995
>How do you guys get motivated to change your life for the positive?
The knowledge that I get to come home and shitpost on a Turkish hotdog eating board is what motivates me.
Really easy
Don't let you dreams become dreams
>>16616014
Well, that makes sense to me. Seems like you've got it all together.
