short answer: people who aren't very intelligent are also not very kind. you aren't very intelligent and the women you are exposed to aren't either. sorry

Your environment being toxic doesn't mean that it's the same way everywhere.

>>17363641
>people who aren't very intelligent are also not very kind
no. How did you even came up with this idea?

>>17363634
>ALL of them
also, no
I don't know how cunty the women around you are, but that's not the norm. At least not where I live.

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>not in the US so I actually get a decent pay

Americans' disposable income is actually greater than yours. Your incomes are higher but so is the cost of everything else, plus taxes.


>hospitality job

If you're doing one of those for the money that's your fuck-up. People work hospitality because it means something to them, not for the paycheck. See: therapists, counselors, nurses, etc.

You're basically damning yourself to be one of those cunt secretaries at the welfare...
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>>17363704

>hospitality is nurses and counselors

nah man, thats not waht hospitality is. hospitality is restaurants, hotels, tourism etc.

>>17363630
>How would you approach this?

You should have started looking for a new job as soon as your shifts (and thus income) started going below what you wanted.

If shit gets bad enough you can always go around the back of bakeries and grocers to the bins (not as bad as starving). They tend to throw out a lot of food that's in good condition.

It's cat food he'll eat it if he's hungry enough. He's playing you, it's what cats do.

Shit cat food will rek your cat's urinaty tract m8. And no food at all is even worse. Why do you have a pet if you can't afford it?

How did you get in this situation?

I used to go to this volleyball place. You could show up alone, write your name on a card and others would join your team. I started going there with others but I quickly realized I could just go alone and meet new people every time.

you have parents or friends right, go eat at their place and explain ur situation then check out welfare rights or local job opportunities. oh yeah and they´re handing out food bags for the homeless somewhere check the location from library internet

ps i feel sad for that black kid we all eat super well here and debate our insecurities while a 3 year old is starving to death somewhere

>>17363635
Sorry, I should have mentioned in the OP post that I suck at all team sports. Like, to the point where it's almost comical, and I just get scared and get really anxious and make it worse for myself. I used to do that with Basketball and Volleyball, but I stopped after being kindly asked to leave several teams/groups for being too bad.

Get a doggo

you enjoy being in love because of a chemical reaction in your brain developed through millennia of natural selection trying to get you to reproduce

go about your life the way you want to go about it. Love will likely come. If not, there's always other means for that sweet sweet serotonin release

>>17363649
I understand the chemistry behind it, but that doesn't really bother me. It's still one of my favorite things in the world, but it seems so elusive and rare.

In any case, I'm turning 30 this year, so I'm not sure how many more opportunities I'm going to get.

>>17363647
I've thought about a dog, but I doubt it would be even close to the same experience.

>>17363615
ever read henry david thoreau?

you're not alone in feeling the way you do. unfortunately modern society doesn't provide many means of escaping from it.

if you're willing to live ascetically for a few years and save money, you might be able to buy land somewhere remote and live off the grid. not many people do it, and I doubt they all succeed. it means basically never having anything "nice" again unless you make it yourself or become an expert dumpster diver.

start learning...
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Walden is always funny to me; if Thoreau hadn't had help from his mom and some of his friends (including Emerson, who owned the land he built the cabin on) that dumb fuck would have starved to death. OP, if you don't want to work to support yourself as part of the "system," your choices are to become independently wealthy and live the way you want, find some poor girl or family member to sponge off of until they get tired of your shit, or live the exciting life of a hobo until you inevitably freeze to death under an overpass or get TB. Good luck!

Also, OP, modern society? What? Even back in the time of the neanderthal, if you didn't bust ass to catch that antelope or mammoth, you starved to death and that was that. There was no magic utopia time where all humans could live free and do whatever they wanted with no consequences. Working for money today is just the modern equivalent of chasing the mammoth.

God damn nigga you gone fucked up.

>>17363621
Been with wife for 7 years, multiple lies after lies, cheated on me and possibly got pregnant by the dude and lied about it. This shit sucks but I don't get how me finally snapping is fucking up. Yeah it was fucked up what I did and I took a lot of shit from her too, was it deserving? No because no one deserves to get beat, but it was coming...

>>17363610
Goddamn, faggot, why the fuck are you still here?

You are wallowing and woe is me'ing. Get the fuck off of 4chan and get your life in order.

Holy balls

first of all, why do you assess whether or not you'd fuck someone or something instantly? secondly, why would it bother you so much that you instinctively wanted to fuck your past self?

children are androgynous, and it's well known that people are attracted to others who are pretty genetically similar. So this isn't that weird of a gut reaction. get over it

>>17363593
Fucking kek

I lost so hard

Sorry but m8, thank you

Shrink. Now.

Take a trip through the southern parts of bavaria (Bayern), because each town has its own brewery and castle.. or visit the Hallingen in the north. Helgoland is an historic interesting place to be. There are many great places in Germany.

>>17363656
No I mean a stopover from Australia to Germany. What are some good stopover locations?

>>17363589
Fly to Amsterdam then travel to germsland

>>17363561
Try a bar. Literally half the guys there could be looking for a casual fuck.

>>17363606
I'm only 20 can't go to any bars

It's in the name.
Have a friend? Ask to fuck them. Stay friends and keep fucking.

Were you guys dating then?

People do stupid things as teens. Some worse than others. She's your fucking wife and the mother of your unborn child. Let it go

>>17363554
If she wasn't cheating on you at the time who gives a shit. Threesomes are fun and youth is the time we usually do stupid fun things.

shameless self bump

please adv i need you

>>17363551
Why do you stay in contact with her? Why did you break up with her?

If someone can tell me the model of the phone it might help too.

Where did you find it? If it was in a store premises, I'd give it to the store so the person could retrace their steps and find it. Or wait for someone to call I suppose. Also I'm not Muslim but I'd return the phone because I'm a decent human being

>>17363528
Near a public park, and I thought I would be able to get into contacts after I charged it but then I saw it was locked.

I'm just being cheeky about the Muslim thing.

Don't bother, it's a slippery slope. I now need to drink 15 beer to feel like I'm 'drunk', and usually drink more. It's expensive and bad for you. Celebrate that you can feel drunk with minimum damage to your wallet and organs

>>17363511
This, if you get drunk too early then start drinking a bit after everyone else or drink slower.

Why is this a problem though?

1) Drink more often (not recommended)
2) Eat something before hand and while you're drinking (slow down how quickly it's absorbed)

We don't know what happened. Also minimal things like changing some words in your sentence won't change the outcome one way or the other. For what it's worth, put I hurt you though

>>17363533
In fast-forward.

>there was something that I supposed to keep a secret.
>end up telling the female 'friend' of mine as we were close at the time and she has kept her promise keeping secrets before.
>I thought I could trust her
>but she goes and tells loads of people about the secret.
>Girl I was dating thinks I was the one that told all those...
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>>17363601
>breaks promise
>wonders why girl doesn't want anything to do with you anymore
Just leave her alone, you've done enough damage