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I want to do a very simple animation in photoshop. I have the animation panel up, but how do I make it so that every frame is not exactly the same? Like, if I draw a star in one frame the same star immediately appears on every other frame. How can I make it so that each frame stands alone?
Hi Anon.
Photoshop is not the best software to start trying animation out on. There is an animation thread on /ic/ that is your best bet.
>>16901920
God fucking dammit kate leth
>>16901920
got to kat . cr
download a crack (xforce usually)
get flash
it's still pretty complicated, but more accessible. and theres tons of video tutorials.
you're welcome
Is it illegal to impersonate an employee at a hypermarket?
I was digging through some old stuff and I found my Fred Meyer outfit (complete with name tag and ribbons) from when I used to work there years ago.
I was thinking of wearing it to my local Fred Meyer (I live in different city from the one I worked at) and just shop or do some stupid shit. Any ideas of what I should do? Please give me SOPHISTICATED suggestions because I am an intellectual. I'm not going to do retarded shit like knock shelves down or defecate on something.
Is there any way I could get into legal trouble for doing this? I honestly don't care if I'm banned from that store, I'm moving shortly anyway.
Why would you do something that retarded.
>>16901923
Because I'm a stupid faggot.
I disagree with society on almost everything. It's hard for me to truly connect with people because they aren't passionate about anything and in general are just apathetic. I'm abstinent and I want a wife who is the same way. Every girl I find always ends up being bad for me in some way (either it be drugs or are liars who use me). None of them want to find the deeper joys in life. They only care about simple pleasure that will never satisfy them. I just want to find someone to legitimately love but I can't find them. The ones that are close don't want to love back either. No one I know is happy, they just fake it and they never want to ask why.
wtf wrong with me.
you had me until abstinent. But you're not wrong. People aren't happy for the most part. But it sounds like you're more attentive to detail than most people are even to themselves. Remember, if you work on improving yourself and pushing past these things, you can attain a status from which you can be in a position to spread positive messages about self introspection to these people.
tl;dr be the change you want to see
cant help you with the abstinence tho, I love the p00sie
>>16901833
>It's hard for me to truly connect with people because they aren't passionate about anything and in general are just apathetic.
Plenty of people who are excellent in their field (don't take that to mean "job") are passionate about what they do.
>I'm abstinent and I want a wife who is the same way.
Why are you denying yourself a basic pleasure and placing value on this denial?
>Every girl I find always ends up being bad for me in some way (either it be drugs or are liars who use me).
You are desperate or a shitty judge of character. Both of those are your fault, not society's.
>None of them want to find the deeper joys in life. They only care about simple pleasure that will never satisfy them.
See point one. I personally know a girl who is abstinent (out of choice) and passionate about her art.
>wtf wrong with me.
Probably poor, ugly, low iq, delusional, or some combination of those.
>>16901839
I mean I love it too but I've tried to satisfy myself with it and it doesn't work. But you are right. I should be the person that i'm looking for.
>Be nice around people I care about/have interest in.
>Have common courtesy.
>When someone wants to share something like an album or a movie I watch/listen to its entirety with them.
>Don't expect them to do the same for me but assume they would want to if they had the time.
>Try not to speak out of a place of ignorance.
>Try to criticize only when I believe that what someone is doing is wrong.
>Have deep, complex conversations with others.
>Just talk to people and try to reap the benefits for both of us.
>Get told I'm clingy and desperate by everyone.
Why? I'm just doing what my parents taught me to do. Am I just destined to be alone?
>common courtesy
this. ill be honest the only thing that would make me agree with your friend is the attention seeking nature of your self description but it was to make a point
no, those are all basic things you're not wrong for doing. whoever said that to you probably is just not used to people not being dicks, so dont pay it much mind
>>16901834
We're all attention whores. We're all human. We all want to fucking socialize with eachother because that's the only thing that prevents us from raping eachother or just plain killing ourselves.
I will never love a girl who does not look or act like Elizabeth. After losing my social autismo and dating 4 girls this semester at uni, I've realized that I can't bring myself to feel anything for them. I simply don't care. I am stuck in love with a fictional idea of a person. Pls, fellow anons, give me some advice on where I go from here. Do I continue with my delusional pursuit? Do I an hero? If you can't or don't care to help me, feel free to share your own similar feels.
>>16901812
Don't delude yourself into thinking you can't fall in love with a real person or that interesting ones don't exist. You just haven't met them, and many people can go through life without meeting any.
>>16901812
>losing my social autismo
Try again
>>16901815
I know you are right. However, I cannot deny that this is in part due to the fact that I enjoy being in love with this particular fictional character. The relationship feels so real to me. That being said, I am aware that this is a problem, and want to fix it, but I'm afraid that your piece of advice is no longer effective despite it veracity. Thanks anyway.
>>16901819
Losing my social autism does not mean that I am no longer autistic at all. I apologize if my statement was confusing.
2 weeks ago my friend gave me a piece of chocolate to eat that im pretty sure she bit off of.
Later that day everyone tells me she had mono and she blows it off saying its not like a kiss or anything.
Now today my sinuses are running and my throat is a little sore. I can usually tell when Im getting sick because my erection quality takes a nose dive right before then. Am I fucked. Do I have mono. I didnt even get to get it by kissing a girl.
Ive been reading and it usually take 3-4 weeks to show signs so Im hoping this is an unrelated sinus problem since it doesnt hurt to eat yet and I only feel like when I dry swallow. My throat isnt dry either.
Probably just a cold. Or maybe it is mono. Or AIDS.
What are you, fucking gay?
>>16902027
Not gay so its not aids.
>>16901805
>Do I have mono.
there is no way to know for sure without a doctor's examination and possibly blood tests. you must know people can't diagnose you over the internet. are you just looking for someone to say "yeah you might have gotten it that way, see a doc"? in which case, yeah you might have gotten it that way, see a doc.
So I'm 22 year old New Zealander with a fairly decent amount of work experience for my age. I just got back from Aussie and I was unsuccessful finding a job at any service level job.
I've been back here in Nz and applying for jobs still, and I got a Maccas ( Mcdonalds) interview it went great and then they called me in the next day for training I was there for 20 minutes and then told that they would contact me if I got the job.
I thought I did great but I still haven't heard back from them.
If you're being turned away from Maccas you're doing something wrong with your life right?
My Cv has been checked and is really good, I do take in mind that New Zealanders rarely find work in Aussie but my esteem has taken a serous blow.
Bills are everywhere and I'm not on any benefit (its pending) I feel like this is going to be the rest of my life.
The best I seem to do is live pay check to pay check. I'm 22 now, this is not what I pictured my life to turn out like.
I want to study law but I can't afford to live because I don't get a student allowance and my family is poor.
I think I'm going to be stuck this way forever.
What do I do?
>>16901796
Look for intern roles or work experience roles in companies you'd like to work in. Most of the work experience would me more targeted for recent high school grads but it would still be worth a shot. While waiting for maccas to get back to you, try other places. I had a friend who worked in subway in Aussie for a year and he got paid roughly ~$20 NZD an hour
Just work and save up for a year, and then come back to NZ and study there. You'd still qualify for student loans and maybe student allowance too if you just claim that your parents don't support you.
I'm irrationally afraid of interacting with women in my daily life and also fantasize about being dominated by them. Am I an actual mysoginist? And should I talk about this with my therapist even though she's a woman? Will that affect things too negatively?
you're afraid of women, doesn't sound like you hate them. Care to elaborate in this?
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Do women get turned on when a man yells at them?
Seems like it would trigger some primal caveman shit in them.
>>16901792
Only if you look like this
personally, it scares me. but yelling/confrontational anything scares me. but i've never really heard of yelling being a turn on/turn off
The majority of women? No.
Maybe someone is.
Bear with me, please. I'll try to make this as simple as I can.
>girl at work likes me
>everyone at work wants me to go for it
>19 year old kissless virgin with no dating experience
>don't really want a relationship because stress and anxiety
>things end up happening where I'm just pressured by everyone to just exchange numbers with her
>get to know her a little better
>we share some similar interests, but she can sometimes come off as an edgy/trashy teenager (I mean, she kinda does live a trashy lifestyle, but I sorta do, too. Just not on her level)
>also, she's kind of a butterface and her body isn't too great, but I'm not sure if a person like me should be complaining
>a while later, she tells me she has a boyfriend, but hasn't broken up with him yet
>this comes out of left field and I question my trust of her
>during this time, she once texted me if I wanted to cuddle because she felt "lonely"
>didn't bother texting back because despite what she may say about her BF, I'm not gonna dis someone like that
>eventually tells me she broke up with him [spoiler]over the phone[/spoiler]
>now I guess we're "officially dating"
Is it bad that I really don't want to go through with this? I get that I should at least get some experience, but not like this. Especially if I'm dating someone from work. If a breakup happens, I don't think I'd be able to stomach the awkwardness and all that.
Not only that, but she seems annoyed that sometimes I'm just not feeling like doing ANYTHING with her. Sometimes, I'm just really tired and don't feel like doing anything at all, ESPECIALLY after work.
Can you guys help me figure this out?
>>16901789
Why will you do something you don't want to do? If you don't feel anything for her , be smart and polite and show her that you only want be her coworker. Otherwise she will get mad and fuck all your days. If you want fuck with her, be smart and use protection, my cousin fucked a office bitch now He's her personal bitch with no life.
>>16901857
I feel like it's too late now. Everyone at work pretty much knows about us "dating".
>>16901789
Thank your lucky stars you get this opportunity at some experience. Maybe don't fall in love with her. But few betas ever get this perfect of an opportunity to get them on track socially
I usually don't come here often because of the insane amount of fucked up racist, or just fucked up in general, things ppl say online. It gets to a point where I'm actually scared that there are people out there that actually think like the ppl who comment online. Does anyone else feel that way? It's like a very sad, scary uncomfortable feeling.
>>16901751
Yes, I am afraid to post because I am afraid people might tease me. I built up the courage to reply to you because I sense a kindred soul.
>>16901751
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EogjXitgw0
>>16901773
Thanks. the last time I was here I posted about easier ways to cope after my dad died of a heart attack. The responses were cruel. No idea why people are cruel in the first place when a person's just asking for advice. Normally people are mean to people who do something negative to them first.
I'm on the way to the career I want, but I've always wanted to pick up some kind of art or other skill with which I could express myself creatively. When I was a kid, I wanted to write. Then I wanted to draw. Then it was solo game development. Now I've picked up magic tricks. I always try a thing for a while, then give up. I know it has to do with my really shitty self-esteem, and how being bad at things makes me feel like I'm worthless.
But I'm not sure how to get past that. Logically, I know it's silly to base my worth as a human being on my ability to do a card sleight, for instance, but if I try and try and can't get it right, I start to hate myself, and the more I keep going, the more depressed I get.
I know I should see a psychologist, and I'm going to start seeing one on campus week after next, after Spring break, but do you have any other tips for me?
I really want to stick with it this time.
>>16901748
>I know I should see a psychologist, and I'm going to start seeing one on campus week after next, after Spring break, but do you have any other tips for me?
No.
You and everyone else. It's not even a mystery - things get exponentially harder for less and less tangible improvement/gain. You also start coming up against your natural limits, and the requirements to specialize. Specializing takes up a lot of time, sometimes what seems like your whole life, suddenly a lot more is on the line, and you don't know if you want to commit, especially given the effort and the questionable reward. It's easier to just step back.
The answer seems to be that you need to just pick something, though after careful consideration, and focus on those things. There are exceptional people throughout history who can excel in various fields, but most just don't fall into that category.
>>16901748
Have you ever sat down and learned how to practice? Because, what I'm getting from this isn't that you're insecure, but that you don't know how to systematically approach developing a skill. Most people's conception is simply repeat an action until you get it, or slow it down if you're having particular trouble. There's no getting around practice, but you can get more out of it.
>Block out time
Find a consistent time to practice something. Even if it's 30 minutes. Set aside a chunk of time where you will have no interruptions, or distractions. When you feel your brain start to wander off and go to other things, you need to force it to focus on the task at hand, because when you make those kinds of demands on your brain, you're telling it "hey, this is important. Pay attention"
>Take things slow
This is important, but there's more to practice than just this.
>Break things down
Usually, tasks are a few skills piled on top of each other. If you can break things down step by step, and rehearse one part at a time, or one aspect of it, instead of trying to do the whole thing in one go, you'll see more progress.
>Set goals
If you set tangible goals, you'll see tangible results. Let's take a card trick for example. Maybe your goal could be to do the entire trick from memory. Maybe the goal for the next practice session would be to do it without any hesitations, or maybe your goal is to practice cutting the deck perfectly even four times in a row
>Come back to old skills
Foundations are important. Even when you've practiced a skill, and got it down, you need to come back to it. You can start off a practice session by going over what you learned the previous day, and if you got it, move on to your next goal, and maybe three or four days, check back in and see if you still got it. Seeing new skills built, and being able to retain old skills helps keep motivation, and also keeps you from having to relearn things when you move onto more advanced stuff
>>16901927
One more thing: if you can, find someone who will help hold you accountable, and keep you motivated. You're going to be told to do things for yourself, but having someone there to appreciate your hard work is always nice and keeps you motivated to continue on
What makes certain people stand out? What makes a person noticeable and what makes a person invisible?
>>16901730
Status and being exceptional at things.
>>16901736
P.S. Irl it's a lot more complicated than that. Irl most successful people you will meet lucked into it one way or another. That doesn't mean they didn't work hard or couldn't have fucked it up, but there is usually a clear chain of circumstances that most people will try to retroactively take credit for, though it wasn't initially much of a conscious decision.
Hi guys, I'm here because I need unburden , I'm 18 years old, and I have a serious problem of self-esteem, I'm ugly, too thin, I have an unattractive face and very unlucky to relate to people, a while ago I met a girl online and we were very good friends, the problem is that I delude with her (even knowing that she has a girlfriend, if she is bisexual)and I hope to have something with her, even long-distance (she lives in another country) I know that sounds silly, but she is special, he had never met anyone with a way of being so incredible, but recently not talk with her so often, we have just distanced (partly it's my fault, I stopped socializing with her because I do not want continue to feel hurt, I know there will never be anything more than a friendship between us)
>>16901726
Is her name "Lux?"
( I will continue here) so... all my life I have been a complete failure in everything I've done, I've been harassed, and also I feel like a completely useless, I had only one love affair In my 18 years and was ephemeral and empty
(I will continue here) so ... all my life I have Been a complete failure in everything I've done, I 've been harassed, and also I feel like a completely useless, i had only one love affair In my 18 years and was ephemeral and empty, I am currently in college, but I feel unmotivated and I have no courage to live, I don't find meaning in my life, (I forgot to mention I'm bulimic too)
>>16901769
what would you like to be?
How to cover a bruise??? On my arm.
>>16901700
Bandaid
tattoo!
>>16901700
sleeve
