>come anon-kun ~~ lets lose your virginity
m-mommy told me not to talk to strangers
>>26443782
>those earrings
fuck no
>>26443825
asdadasdasdgfh45g4
Can someone please explain to me the difference between sex and gender?
Lately there has been this trend in culture to make this distinction between sex and gender. I'm pretty skeptical of there actually being a difference (i.e. both words refer to the same thing), but I could be wrong.
What do you autists think? what is the difference between sex and gender? Is there even one?
I suppose the implications are that if this distinction doesn't make sense then transgenderism kind of loses it's foundation. So for trans people there has to be this agenda to push for this distinction to be accepted within mainstream society (at least for the political trans).
And obviously if it doesn't exist, as in it makes no sense, it's confused, not conceptually sound then all this bigender and agender stuff is nonsense, and the entire basis for transgenderism would crumble, right?
I'm just skeptical of it. Every time someone explains it it seems muddled. I've heard people say eg, sex is your body - your testicles or ovaries, and gender is your mind. But that makes no sense because your mind is your brain right? Or at least depends on your brain. And your brain is part of your body, so it's not really a distinction. Like why would the body be wrong and the mind be the right one, for trans people? Why not the other way round? What does it even mean for a body to be mis-matched? That makes no sense in terms of biology, nature doesn't try and make things correctly, and get the mixed up. Things just evolve, divide, reproduce, etc. There is no 'supposed' to be x way.
Please educate me on the difference betwteen sex and gender. Basically the problem comes to down to me finding it odd/incorrect/nonsense to say or think of myself as having a male sex and a male gender. I don't feel like there's two at all. Seems wrong.
> But that makes no sense because your mind is your brain right?
Assumption.
>That makes no sense in terms of biology
Testosterone and estrogen production are different in different people. If you do research on males with less testosterone, you'll notice physical and psychological differences.
From a practical standpoint- sex is only important due to reproductive needs; gender is a cultural expression for whatever means.
Gender is the sex you get to choose. That's literally all you need to know.
>>26443663
>Like why would the body be wrong and the mind be the right one, for trans people?
because if you operate on the principle 'body is right, the mind is wrong' then someone with a cancerous tumor would be wrong to want it removed (because the body naturally has it, the brain is mistaken!)
>That makes no sense in terms of biology
i'm sure you're an expert biologist.
>nature doesn't try and make things correctly
now this is true - and you should remember it because it invalidates appeals to nature when saying people shouldn't have gender identity disorder.
>There is no 'supposed' to be x way.
this is true, but you have to remember that when you take that too far you end up with 'stop whining about your tumor' tier logic. diseases as a whole are basically defined in their relationship with society (you're depressed? that limits your ability to function in society and therefore gets a medical classification. you were born with no legs? that limits your ability to function in society, and therefore gets a medical classification, you were born thinking you should've been a woman and it's causing you problems functioning in society... you probably get the idea)
now as for shit like agender, genderqueer, etc, that's basically bullshit (and even if we accept it based on the cultural definition of gender, it's basically irrelevant in the mainstream culture and only relevant in tumblr-y subcultures, so the greater medical-classification-because-it-hurts-you-in-society thing doesn't apply.)
the difference between sex and gender is essentially as the image explains, the distinction between the two things is useful in certain contexts even if you don't need to make it 99% of the time (or generally, in casual conversation).
i find it odd to think that we're on a rock orbiting a ball of fire, but i don't need to think about it all the time because it's not relevant to daily life.
This board has such a black and white thinking process
>It either is or it isn't
>It either does or doesn't
>You're either with us or against us
What an empty way to live
>>26443639
i find your post to be in between shit and not shit
>>26443639
if your not first your last ricky bobby
>>26443639
That's most people. Binary thinking is something you grow out of through contemplation and philosophical study.
So I've been wanting to try lsd and my friend said he has "clear gel acid." I always see you guys telling people not to get the research chemicals. Is "clear gel" the real thing?
>>26443595
I mean, it can be. Its fairly easy to gel acid- or any other RC for that matter.
>>26443635
Yeah, but is it different than paper like I always see, I've never seen lsd irl
He probably means it's coming in geltab form.
It's one of several ways LSD and RC's can be packaged
ITT: post your dream gf
>>26443517
I've had this gif for years and I still don't even know her name.
>>26443562
stacy mcbitch
she's a qt imo
>men age like wine
fat balding wine
>>26443460
>25
>tfw no friends or gf in over 10 years
>probably look older due to depression
Don't keep running away from life anons. Waiting to get a gf when you are older is a terrible idea.
>>26443488
just bee yourself
originalbloxxxx
>tfw my sister just called me a virgin
I mean, it's true, but still, it's hurts.
The correct response is to call her a Dirty Cunt.
She wants to squirt petrol into a fire then let the Bitch Burn.
How old are you guys? How is that even an insult? Are you in high school?
>>26443446
cum on her tampons to make her pregnent
did you know this mentally ill shitshow was also a PEDO on top of it all!? just read about that today on places like here https://adamlanzasmigglesfiles.wordpress dot com
nobody gives a fuck you disgusting piece of shit kill yourself
>>26443131
Sandy hook didn't happen and you know it.
>>26443131
Huh? I have seen that interview. Where does it show he is a pedophile? I often wondered if Lanza killed those kids because he thought it would reduce overall human suffering to kill children who hadn't had a chance to reproduce or become jaded.
The girl I lost my virginity to gave me HIV. AMA.
>>26442996
Did she have tattoos and piercings?
>>26442996
what does pussy taste like
Pepe or Wojak?
Guess the person thread. Yes, I'm bored as fuck. Kill me.
Buenos noches, mein Fuhrer!
>>26442927
Looking at the hair, Adolf Hitler?
>>26442927
Da og 88
What are you faggots drinking tonight?
Pic related, cranberry juice and vodka.
miIk
Got some tequila (Cabo Wabo) don't know what to mix it with or if I should just drink it straight.
My bf's cum
Why did he do it /r9k/?
He was handsome
>>26442714
because he was lied to as a child
Because he was angry and didn't realize he had nothing to offer because all he did was play WoW and throw coffee on them when they walked past lol
>>26442748
But blonde hair fags are cucks
Hi wagecucks. What are you doing tonight? Drinking yourself into oblivion wasting your hard earned money to try and feel like you did something fun. Enjoy your hangover tomorrow. Remember, it's back to the grind on Monday, unless Mr. Shekleston calls you in tomorrow. Thanks for the NEET bux.
>>26442652
Jokes on you faggot, I work weekends too
Yes, I am in fact
thats why i like to add cocaine into the mix, makes me feel like im involved in everything
>another Friday night at home
Let's share each others misery, bros. What are your plans for tonight?
>>26442644
don't be sad
/r9k/ is at it's best on Friday and Saturday nights
>>26442644
going to bed at 6:30 pm cause my body can't keep a 24 hour sleep cycle
>>26442644
Went to gym, lifted, ran. Now gonna shower and lotion entire body. Then drink wheat ale with some madarins in it and watch Three Outlaw Samurai, and probably eat a frozen pizza.
>2016
>Not actually Uber mensch
>pick one
So what is a failed normie?
>>26442545
Someone who tries really really hard to be a normie obviously, and fails at almost every step.
Shit like asking a girl out to prom and then going out to prom, wanting to be invited to Chad and Stacey's parties on weekends, studying really hard in university, etc.
A robot just gives up along the way and inevitably comfortably drifts through life like a snowflake in the wind
>>26442616
So what about someone who was a normie but slowly began to icolste himself to the point where he doesn't leave the house unless it's for food or school but still has friends that he talks to and is able to talk to grills with no problem
>>26442545
I am probably the definition
>rich af parents
>6 feet, not overweight, somewhat fit
>people tell me I am pretty
>not autistic, just next level socially akward
>first contact with a grill at a party with 15
>"can I lie my head on your shoulder anon?"
>"uhhh yea sure"
>to spagetti to make a move
>bullies make fun of me because I am such a robot
>went through therapy after high school to get over my anxieties and depression
>tfw you just started developing social skill at 20