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As a 21(M) who likes to read and watch movies, what demographic group is more fitting for socializing?
>>16895278
Everyone likes reading and watching movies at that age.......
14 year old girls
>>16895362
not really. at least not guys. every single guy i know doesn't read. A lot of women do but they normally read shitty romance novels.
Hey, /adv/. I wonder if anyone knows a really great book on following through and finishing projects.
I just got through the book "How to win friends and influnce people", as I've seen it recommended so many places, and was impressed by the amount of powerful examples and all the work that has been put into making it. I would just love a book that is as good, but on the subject of project management. Google just gives me tiny 5 tips articles, but those never stick.
Am I legally allowed to masturbate to the bible? Cause the virgin Marry lookin hot
>>16895218
>hurrrrrrr duuurrrrrrrr
0/10
Confess after. Not against law
I'm always awkward with people in any social situation. I just want to be a fun person
But how?
Be yourself. True friends are going to be accepting and loving even if you're a little awkward.
>>16895217
But myself is shit.
I want to be be able to enjoy parties and bars and clubs.
>>16895228
Be someone else then.
So I'm a specialist in the Army Guard.
Long story short we are doing annual training at our home station. I live 45 mins away and have been driving home everyday against orders BUT I had gained permission to go home every 3 days to prepare meals to bring in to avoid eating MREs at lunch. I'm prediabetic so that's a no go.
I stayed one night but after realizing the food wasn't going to cut it(breakfast and dinner) I started driving home to prep meals and live the lifestyle prescribed by my doctor.
After 4 days they caught on and are...
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Go to a MTF and request a letter regarding your medical situation. They might help you.
>>16895199
>Did something in violation of orders
Pal, you are at the mercy of your superiors
Grovel
National guard is shit. Completely useless when deployed. I'd rather have a troop of boyscouts backing me up on deployment. At least they might have survival skills.
How do I move to America successfully?
How easy would it be to find someone willing to share an apartment with me?
>>16895181
It mostly depends on what country you came from. If you don't even have a place to stay, you'll be stuck at custom indefinitely.
Who do you talk to when there's nobody for you to talk to? I feel really depressed. My girlfriend is preoccupied with Uni work, and none of my friends are ever there to talk when I need them (now), plus it's 1AM.
I don't really know if there's any applicable advice for me right now, I just want to make sure I don't do something stupid.
Use that 7cupsoftea website. Play an online game with randoms. Go on Omegle. Do something.
Loneliness is just failed solitude.
>>16895167
Thanks. I'll check it out.
how flexible are you with facial aesthetics when it comes to looking for a significant other?
can a guy/girl be plain and average?
>>16895119
I'm pretty confident. i think i have a good looking face but my jawline is pretty average. get told i am good looking. its definitely easier for a plain and average girl to get a partner than a guy. I'm about a 7, maybe an 8 on a good day and i find it harder to get a partner than 5/10 girls. I'm not complaining though. would piss me off if girls where constantly bothering me.
I look very plain, so I don't expect to be with someone very beautiful.
I try use make up (concealer, mascara, lipstick, nail polish) but also to maintain natural look.
>>16895138
You say you don't expect, but how hard is it for you to cope and settle with someone who isn't bad looking, but certainly doesn't spark that reaction when you see them, visually obviously?
Just wanted to get a consensus.
I recently had a job interview. I studied previous interview questions and dressed in suit and tie (engineering inspector job with PE experience). My first job interview was super serious and long so I was banking on something of the same thing
However, when I get to the office, everyone is wearing jeans and a t-shirt. I am extremely out of place, even as a potential recruit. I interview with two dudes and they ask me What I did at my old job and any relevant experience I had. I replied with my rehearsed lines and prepared myself...
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>>16895080
No. Your opportunity was during the interview. inviting them to drinks would be strange.
>>16895080
You'll just get ignored. That post-interview thank you letter is all you should send.
> I really want this job so I want to give this place 110%
No you don't. If you REALLY REALLY wanted this job in the first place you would stalk the office the day before and saw how they dresses.
Just see what happens, it would look really bad if you asked the bosses to get together at the bar with you.
Canadian tard here.
I need a new career that aint shit tier and has a good solid future.
Was thinking of going to college and entering the trades, maybe HVAC or refrigeration. Any tips?
>>16895075
everything, other than engineering, accountancy, nursing, medicine or related to these, are pretty much useless
>>16895100
Nursing's a shit tier gig? Wow wouldn't think so.
Are there any likely reasons why someone could just not be interested in relationships?
I'm straight, and have normal hormone levels, no other health issues, I find women attractive and I have no problems with being good friends with a chick, so it's not that I'm just nervous around women, but I just have no interest in relationships, and haven't for years.
Or to be more accurate, I find someone attractive, start to get to know them, find them interesting, and then it just sort of stops there, and it even reaching that point is kind of rare....
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>>16895045
>Are there any likely reasons why someone could just not be interested in relationships?
In my case, I got cheated on by someone I really cared about and that ruined relationships for me.
And then I found casual sex, rendering relationships pointless.
>b-but muh love a-and muh feelings
Get a dog.
>>16895048
Sure, but I don't really want to accept that. I have absolutely no interest in casual sex, and I do have a dog, as well as plenty of other healthy relationships in my life, but this is kind of bothering me, it's obviously not normal to just stop being interested in people when it reaches a point where relationships are a possibility.
I've had a pretty bad relationship in my past, both of us got pretty hooked on benzos and did some pretty messed up things, and there was a fair bit of violence,...
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Simple details,
He's my stepdads close friend, I'm gonna call him Mr.W.
Mr.W is about 23 roughly?
Went to pick stepdad up from work and Mr.W commented how hot I was
A year or two later my step dad and my mum married
Mr.W was there with his new but heavily pregnant girlfriend, we both go out to smoke.
He flirts, touching my leg and apparently his girlfriend is jealous of how he looks at me?
Fast forward a year, Mr?W send me his mobile number randomly.
Suddenly he is flirting non-stop sexually and in a general way.
Now it's a bit...
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Just ruin that family. It'll feel great, trust me.
>>16895013
>I have morals! I wouldn't let him cheat on her with me
Wanna bet on it?
>>16895013
Just remember by the 5th time you fuck him he'll be cheating on you and complaining to the new slut about what a bitch you are.
Relationship help thread....../RHT/
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ.....
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Someone...
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>>16894972
You've just copypasta'd the header from the "questions for the opposite gender" thread then reposted it with a different OP pic and some wierd title. Did you think you were te only persson here who has been on /adv/ more than once?
My sister has huge tits and I want to fuck her and she said we could but I don't know if I should. Please respond quickly my parents are out for the next 5 hours
>>16894971
G'day ausbro, you're up late with all this funposting
Do it and post pics
That's easy to figure out, just do the opposite of what the internet tells you.
Every single person I know I really don't care. Even family. I fake that I care. Also, birthdays, commemoration, holidays, conversation... Nothing makes sense. So I went into a psychologist. She said I don't have empathy. I can't fit in the society. Well, I can surelly fake it and live. But I will never be happy.
Really? I can't find happines? I mean, in movies and shit, love is always the answer. Building a family and et cetera. But for me this is retarded. I don't feel emotionally attracted to anyone. Only physically.
Can I be happy with only...
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Do daytrading with someone else's money. Not like you care.
>>16895028
What?
We can't tell you what will make you happy because it's different for every person.
Go volunteer your time somewhere important. Make the happiness of others your priority. Whether you play with animals at the shelter or play dominoes with old people at an assisted living center, stop focusing on your own made up problems. Go get some perspective and quit boohooing.
