I've lost my motivation to lift /fit/
What's the point anymore
I hate my life, I hate how I look, I hate my stupid face, I'm lazy, I'm stupid, I'm procrastinating studying for my important exams and doing my coursework, I'm 22 years old and I've never even been on a date, I've never kissed a girl, I'm a virgin. The only girls who find my even remotely "possible" for dating are shit tier, low quality chubby sluts, am I really that low of a level person? I guess I am.
Lifting for almost two years, still look like shit due to shitty genetics, shit insertions and small frame. My life in general sucks as well, I threw my whole life away just so I could get an education and now I don't have anything to show for it.
I wish I could just get cancer and die so my mom wouldn't have to hurt my family by committing suicide. I don't see any point in this anymore. 14 year olds are fucking cute 14 year olds and having the time of their lives while I struggled my entire life, grew up in poverty, worked hard and threw away my youth and now have nothing to show for it. I don't have any friends. People think I'm stupid. I want to die.
Youth ends at 30, kid. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Find a hobby you can feel good about.
Think about what you've accomplished so far. Just fucking keep going.
Also, you need to lower your standards about women and get your dick wet. You don't have to marry the first one who takes you to bed.
>>36584209
>Youth ends at 30, kid
so there's almost nothing left. And then what? I don't want a family, I don't want kids. What will I have? fuck old used up, unattractive sluts for the rest of my life?
>Find a hobby you can feel good about.
I'm broke and I procrastinate too much already. What hobby? Lifting was my hobby, now I can't even stomach doing that anymore. I just wish I could get hit by a car or get shot so I can just die.
>Think about what you've accomplished so far. Just fucking keep going.
What's the point anymore? lost the best years of my life, I'm struggling with university, I don't have any friends. I threw away two years of my life just so I could make enough money to attend university and now that I'm here I realized that I threw away two years of my life for nothing.
>Also, you need to lower your standards about women and get your dick wet. You don't have to marry the first one who takes you to bed.
What's the point of fucking girls I'm not attracted to?
>>36584159
>I hate how I look
Then lift
>I hate my stupid face
Fix your hair and lower bf%
>I'm lazy
Stop being lazy
>I'm stupid
Just like 90% of the people around you then?
>I'm procrastinating studying
Load up on caffeine and other stimulants if needed and just get it fucking done
>I'm 22 years old, virgin etc
Just use tinder and other such social media to invite girls round for pizza and casual sex. 5% will say yes. Even more if you lift and diet correctly to look good like mentioned above.
>everything else
It's just excuses.
Dude. You're treating your life like a video game. You have only been playing for a couple of hours and you're regretting your character choice/progression route. So you're sitting about waiting to die so you can start again with a new character.
I understand the mindset. I really do. But you just need invest your effort into self improvement rather than fantasy and self pity. Or whatever else you're doing with your mental energy.
All of the problems you listed are fixable.
Think of yourself as a character in a game if you must. Except you get no re-runs. No start overs. No extra lives.
What steps do you take to improve your abilities? What are your "missions/quests" and how do you achieve them? What do you need to do to level up?
You'll realize that there is a set formula for all of these things. It's much simpler than it looks. You just need to fucking grind. Grind that shit every day. Become the man you fantasize about being.
Make us proud bro.
What does /fit/ eat for snacks?
I eat baby carrots.
Same. Easy as fuck and 1 dollar for a bag at Aldi
quest chips and QUEST bars bitch
>>36584114
Everything+hummus.
Fruit
Quark
Beef Jerky
That's it.
How much running is too much. Should I run everyday? I usually run 2-4 miles a day.
>>36583625
Enough to interfere with your goals, whether that be an injury or you're unable to gain weight which can be remedied by eating more.
That said, 2-4 miles a day isn't that much of a biggie imo.
>>36583659
I'm working my way up too more. My goal is five miles in the mornings and lift in the evenings. I may change this as. I go on.
>>36583693
You'll be fine, just be careful squatting with tired legs.
As you progress to intermediate status and you want to continue upping mileage/poundage might be worth checking out the book below, I haven't read it but the author is Viada is legit:
https://www.dropbox.com/s/ken8qwnlixfq2nw/The_Hybrid_Athlete_by_Alex_Viada.pdf?dl=0
Stay safe anon.
>Chest day
>All the bench racks are occupied
Wait bitch damn I'm almost done
>it's a ''gym is full'' episode
>>36583394
>its an "all the squat racks are being taken by SS reddit DYELs" episode
Well whoever it was that replied to me in the thinspo thread on /fa/, I have considered what you said, and it would probably be in my best interest to get fit.
At the moment I'm waiting on a broken wrist to heal, so I wouldn't be able to lift anything for 3 weeks minimum. What else could I do in that time while I wait?
Since I woke up I've threw away all the junk food in my kitchen, gave my cigarettes to a homeless dude, and read part of the sticky to avoid asking dumb questions.
Just wanted to thank you for making me realise I don't want to be a skelly all of my life.
Post ass
>>36582703
Keked audibly.
>>36582703
Nah I'm not a grill
Hey /fit/, I'm the anon who was complaining yesterday about my annoying female gym buddy. I'll put a picture of my original post.
Anyways, she texted me today to go to the gym and I didn't respond so she called and I just told her I'd prefer working out alone and I don't want her as my gym buddy. She was just like "oh...okay" with a sad voice.
Did I fuck up, /fit/?
Its probably for the better because a female gym buddy is a gains goblin.
>>36582508
Tell her you don't need a gym buddy. But she can be your fuck buddy instead.
Post results.
>>36582508
Someone really needs to fucking talk to one another. Lotta tension from what i'm reading, also will probably lead to >>36582540
>>36582508
No one gave a fuck before, no one gives a fuck now.
>Being this sociaIIy retarded
>BIogging patheticaIIy
>This desperate for attention
>Non fit posting
>Saged, repoted
How do I get into "slender but buff" Kamina mode?
>>36582406
do some push ups every once in a while and you will get that physique
>>36582406
It's called being lean. Just lose bodyfat until you look like how you desire. If you don't have wide as fuck shoulders, you're fucked though.
>>36582406
Rows
Here guys, check this out. /fit/ is a fucking retard about it one vs other - make sure you are educated.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_XH6TV4HZuc
>Jeff Cavaliere
>Natty lifting for YEARS
>Superior knowledge of the human body
>A lot of really educational shit for free on youtube
>Should be the True King of /fit/
*btw I'm not Jeff Cavaliere
ftfy
Jeff Cavaliere videos are like this:
> Dont do this movement because is causes injuries
> try the movents i sell
The way I see it... pullups without thumbs will get you over a wall (physically). One set to failure of chin ups at the end will give you a little more bicep pump for vanity.
Also, Jeff is not natty.
>just hit 1/2/3/4 plate and she's still not satisfied with me
nobody is satisfied with 1/2/3/4
>>36582060
But I dont know what to do next
>>36582049
It's just anime you faggot.
>mfw look in the mirror
>tfw body dysmorphia
Who else, lads?
You most likely just look like shit
It's usually reverse for men, so, if you think you look bad, you probably look a lot worse than you think
>>36581844
>Not recognizing reviewbrah
Motivate me to go to the gym today /fit/.
DYEL skinnyfat here.
>>36581523
Look in the mirror with your shirt off
Your welcome
Take off your clothes and stare at yourself in a mirror for 5 minutes. If you don't want to change, you're lost.
so how does it feel /fit knowing that after spending hundreds of $ on your "pre-workout", "during-workout" and "post-workout" steroid-infused drinks... after countless failed attempts at "no-fap", and after re-reading your bible (Starting Strength) until the pages fall of.... well how does it feel knowing that this lady can out-lift you and do it whilst maintaining a natty lifestyle?
https://youtu.be/2RsmAJNx6XM
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What a fucking dumbass. Seriously, what idiot can't make a proper thread?
>>36581211
jealous DYEL detected.. trying to attack a straw man and not attend the question.
>>36581204
>>36581240
>can't format a post
>incorrectly points out straw man
>implies 225 is an impressive deadlift
Back to Redit, my friend.
I think her spine is poking up out of her ass. What condition is this? Why is this manlet adjusting her ribcage? What the fuck is wrong with her bones?
am i supposed to know who this is?
>>36580862
what the fuck is happening in this picture?
What is it with the French and electing manlets? She's only 6'4"
>going for a set of 5 deadlifts
>accidentally do 8 reps
>get bigger instead of stronger
>>36580648
nice meme
>bust out one more rep because feeling like a mutant
>lose all my strength, don't achieve hypertrophy
Might as well have eaten a bag of Doritos.
>>36580648
>going for five reps
>accidentally do six
>panic and realize I need to get to 8 reps
>fail at seven
>tfw completely wasted set
How many days a week does /fit/ lift ?
>http://strawpoll.me/7227957
3 days niga
>>36580440
>not 1 day masterrace
>thinks he'll make it
6 days.
PPLxPPL.
I have a home-gym and I thoroughly enjoy lifting though, about to hit 4 years lifting and still love it more than ever.
I just love lifting, if I didn't I def wouldn't have a home-gym and I def wouldn't be lifting more than 3-4 times a week.