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Should I get a prostitute and get it over with?
Someone told me to keep my vcard when I was 23 years old. Should I listen to his suggestion?
>>17369537
if ur virginity is so useless you could give it to a prostitute, then its not worth losing at all.
why pay to lose it?
>>17369546
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>if ur virginity is so useless you could give it to a prostitute, then its not worth losing at all.
>why pay to lose it?
My virginity is priceless. That's why I kept it for so long. So I should ask for money to the girl who is willing to take my virginity now?
>>17369546
Nice assumptions and shit logic there.
Hello, I've been sick for ten years. I can't seem to find any doctors who are any good and actually listen to me instead of saying "Oh, you have depression? Prozac time," when I've got cold sweats, fatigue all the time, muscle aches, etc. on top of the depression. Where do good doctors live?
Pic related, i'm always exhausted n feel shitty
>>17370801
try a private clinic. youll be kissing the ground i walk on. trust me. i just didnt go cause i already knew what theyre going to say. maybe you need some direction.
>>17370801
also my personal opinion - if theyve found nothing wrong with you, then try exercising lightly and eating healthier. try putting more light in your room and putting motivational music on. if you skip over all of this then you cant ever have energy!
>>17370822
I have done all that already ad nauseum, tried every herb and supplement there is, tried therapy and positive thinking, etc. I'm sick dude, you can't just skip it away
I graduate next May with a computer engineering BSE. I am interested in what joining the military with a 4 year degree has to offer. Pay wise and just overall is it worth it. A few questions:
How competitive is it? I'm not at the top of my class, but unless I fuck up I will graduate magna cum laude. Not sure if GPA matters all that much though. Basically, would I have decent chances actually being commissioned or should I not exactly bank on it?
Which branch would be best, considering my major? I don't care about being deployed, relocated, put in a dangerous spot with snack bar potential, etc. Just where the best opportunity would be for comp engineering major looking to be commissioned. I assume Air Force, but I have no idea.
Generally speaking, what kind of pay could I expect if hired/commissioned? Is it worth it overall with the benefits and such? I want to serve my country so there is that gratification of course, but I want to weigh this against going into the work force before making a decision.
Thank you.
talk to a recruiter
>>17370236
There's an enlistment thread on /k/. Yes, you're trying for commission, but it may help. A lot of initial entry stuff is similar.
>computer engineering BSE
Navy or Chair Force.
Any people in a happy long-term relationship here?
I'm just wondering how many heartbreaks does it take on average to find someone you truly click with.
The thing is that I never did the relationship drama and break-ups as a teenager so now (at 26) every bad experience and heartbreak absolutely crushes me (while other people my age are probably already numb to it). Is it even worth it?
Please share your experiences.
>>17369394
there is no average. even if you did the math you already admitted that your life is outside of the norm. and other people are too.
you have people in their 40s who are permasingle and cant seem to figure out why. people in their teens do marry their highschool sweet hearts and make it work.
more often than not, you just float through life meeting one person after another, truly clicking for short bursts of time (in the grand scheme of things) and moving on when you've outgrown one another.
what do you mean by truly click? perhaps you truly did click with these people but the almost inevitable break ups just happened cuz... well they're almost inevitable.
what was your longest relationship?
and yes its worth it imo.
The other anon is right. It is worth it.
It really is a wonderful feeling to go through life with the person you love. To grow alongside that person as an individual, to have someone challenge life with you. It is wonderful. Please don't stop looking. You will endure a lot of heartbreak to get to that point, but I guarentee you it will be worth it.
>>17369439
meh, i just meant its worth dating and having fun. im not a believer in finding one partner for life.
Already have planned, lights, disco ball, dry ice, beads that you put on the door, a marquee, a dj, and security. I also want a hot tub in the back for the afterparty me and the girls.
have any of you experience in the matter? pls chime in.
>>17369032
Booze?
Are you in highschool? If so your house is gonna get trashed. Not worth it just go to someone elses place.
If gou are an adult, you are going way to tryhard m8. I find a wii and alcohol is literally all i need, and even the wii is optional i also avoid anything people can play their music on so i don't have to listen to shitty edm.
>>17370057
Nah I'm recruiting tough guys to throw out anyone fuckin shit up
So, my boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 2 years. Like most couples, we decided how to divide chores.
I cook, clean, pay most of the bills, and financially bring in 3x as much as he does.
He has one job: take out the trash.
Yet often when I ask him to he flies into a rage saying he doesn't have the time because of work. At the same time, I cook huge meals and keep the house spotless and I work as much as he does, in a much more complex job that involves a lot of 'homework'.
Today he finally took out the trash after the point where there were 3 full trashbags sitting in the kitchen and then he couldn't be bothered to replace the bag.
I ask nothing of him and it's still too much. What do I do?
>>17370193
Jesus Christ you two sound like my parents. I don't know if I should give advice as every time I try to tell my father or mother to change for each other, they don't bother to listen or just plain ignore me. You're not doomed to be like them though as you are in a somewhat new relationship as it's only been 2 years and whatnot and not everything is established yet. You still have hope but I suggest to surprise him at work with something nice,(if you can because some jobs are just not compatible with what I just said.) Get him in a real good mood by doing what makes him happy and proceed to start talking(in a subtle fashion) about why he gets so angry when he has to take out the trash. Ask if it's something at work that's troubling him so much or something along those lines. Do what I said, see what happens and post his reaction/explanation.
Bump
>>17370193
You're dating an asshole. If you don't want to put up with the things that an asshole commonly does, don't date an asshole anymore.
You're welcome.
I'd like to ask about a delicate subject. Cheating.
Basically, has anyone here done it even though they loved someone and if so, why and for how long?
Basically I know it sounds like an oxymoron but I'd like to understand how or why this could happen.
If that's too triggering and will invite too many shitposts, I rephrase to has anyone here cheated and felt guilty but kept doing it for whatever reason?
And this is a question I'm aiming primarily at guys.
Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend who for all intents and purposes was great for you, and what advice would you give for someone who's having thoughts about it?
Dude guys have cheated on the hottest women in the world. Sometimes with filthy prostitutes. It's an impulse you either follow or you dont and if you do there's always going to be some bullshit way for you to rationalize it to yourself. Have fun
>>17370434
Yeah i'm actually currently in this situation. I'm in a relationship and have a fwb, but no deep feelings for my fwb, we're able to just hang out like normal friends, then i have endless love and adoration for my SO. I guess it's just a thing that some people can do and some can't. They just have to be two separate worlds.
>>17370434
I did. I only kissed another woman, but it was enough to make me feel guilty and nearly ruin a relationship.
If you love someone and you're considering cheating, sit down with that person and talk to them. Sometimes people just grow apart and sometimes people feel neglected. I know that I personally just felt very lonely. The two of us had gotten so comfortable with one another that we stopped feeling like we had to talk. We no longer had those long drawn out conversations that made us want to date in the first place.
If your partner truly loves you, they should be able to work with you to understand your feelings. It may be that you need to walk away from the relationship. Or may you just need to talk to that person.
But don't cheat. It will eat away at you.
How do I leave this? Holy shit people are so stupid and poor here
I'll switch places with you.
>>17370398
Ok you can take my angry poverty ridden redneck parents too
>>17370424
Thank you. It'll be a nice change from the silence
Just signed my first ever lease. Renting a small home in a cove in the city with 2 roommates for the next 12 months. Pretty small, but a great backyard. All advice welcome.
>pic unrelated
This is a blue board. Don't post random nudity to try to get our attention, this isn't /b/.
>>17370362
Good advice
>>17370371
Do you know these roommates?
Acabo de Violar y Matar a un perro para ver si me Gusta la zoofilia, es para ver si me dejan de gustar los niños para que no digan que me gusta la Pedofilia, asà que he querido que me den un consejo, como hago para que no descubran mi gusto sexual?
>>17370346
Pinche cochino.
>>17370366
La mujuer cocina la emparedado
Time to get this pedo shit out of here
I'm just a lonely potatoe looking for a hot frie any tips
>>17370334
Cut yourself into pieces and hop into a fryer.
>>17370341
That is so deep :/
I'm afraid to get burned
So, I've been friends with this chick I met on a forum for a good.... 3-4 years now. Anyway to cut to the chase, yes, feelings got involved, I liked her, she liked me, I feel in love with her, she got a bf, drama happened, took a break, I got over it, and we kept casual friendly contact with her.
Basically, we used to be really close before feelings got too... cumbersome, would share pretty much everything, write long ass messages to each other, talk everyday, share intimate photos, etc...
And after, we became more distant, but that's fine plenty of girls out there, etc... but we were still friends, and message each other like once or twice a year, have a bit of a catch up, talk vidya or whatever, and then return to our usual lives. And it was cool.
But until about.... Jan of this year, she suddenly felt a bit more hostile. I messaged her, and her usual sarcastic snark was more mean spirited, like she was pissed. Figured she was having a mood swing or w/e since she's bipolar, so I just let be.
Come back to the forum a few months later, and send her a message. Weeks pass by, and it goes unread. Since I notice she's active, I tell a mututal friend to message her casually, and see if she replies. She does, and she called him out at some point, and tells him to be honest and tell her if he messaged her cause of me.
So here I figure I'm defo being deliberately ignored. Can't quité wrap my head around it, and when my friend asked her about it, she just have him a nonanswer referring to the drama from the fallout we had like two years prior.
I shrug, and figure she'd get over it.
Fast forward to about a month ago, where I casually send her a message about something pertsining to her interests, and... still ignored.
Sucks, but she doesn't owe you friendship. Let it go. She knows how to reach you if her feelings change
And now, it's kinda irksome. Since I can't wrap my head around what I could have possiblly done to piss this chick off do much she flat out wants nothing to do with me. I mean, bear in mind, we were very close and intimate friends for some time. And this sort of action is something you'd do to someone who did something really serious.
Like, if she wanted to just cut off all contact with me, or whatever, she could just tell me. I'd stop messaging her, but to inexplicably ignore someone like that for pretty much nearly a year. It baffles the ever living fuck outta me.
I should note that prior to December, the last talk I had with her was last year, wishing her a Happy birthday, and then showing her somoe ohotos from a trip I was having in Japan right at that same time. And prior to that it was a Skype call we had like almost two years ago where we put an end to all the back and forth from the drama and whatnot.
It's just really bizzare to me.
Any ideas?
I'd message and ask her what the fuck is up, but again, she's not reading my messages.My only option would be to publically call her out and tell her to PM me and tell what it is I did to piss her off so much. But I can't be bothered desu. Had enough of that shit two years ago.
Like I said, if she just wants me to stop messaging her altogether for whatever reason, it's fine. She need only tell me.
But she's never said anything of the sort, and only till around Dec did her attitude totally change. Nothing that's happened in the past two years even compares to the shit that went down during the drama and stuff. So i'm just baffled. And moreover, considering her mood swing and flaky nature messaged going unread for long periods of time is par to the course. So how am I even supposed to figure that shit out? Only reason i figured out i was being ignored is cause I got a suspicion of it, and asked a friend to cobfirm it for me.
>>17370332
This. You are being ghosted. You will probably never know why. I am sorry, but the least horrendous course of action is to let her go. Anything else will only make this worse.
Okay so I've always had panic attacks but the really got to be an issue when i was 14 or so. I've gotten used to them occurring AT LEAST once every week if not everyday. I've also had my experiences with psychosis. So about three days ago I had this really bad anxiety when I woke up for no real reason. Well that night I got a really severe attack and felt extremely dreadful and threw up out of fear and cried most of the night. This happened again last night. It feels much worse than a panic attack but not quite as severe as a psychosis. Does anyone who suffer from similar disorders have any idea what this might be?
>>17370250
>Does anyone who suffer from similar disorders have any idea what this might be?
Go see a doctor. Anxiety disorder is a medical condition that can be treated with medication and therapy.
Doctor. Now.
>>17370253
OP here. I have been to the doctor and have been diagnosed with panic disorder among other things. This just seemed a lot worse and like nothing I've ever felt before. Not sure if I've gotten worse or what
>>17370267
Are you on benzos? It sounds like you need benzos
Hot girl casually says text me after a hug goodbye.
Do I
a) Text her
b) Not text her
c) Masturbate in sad loneliness
>>17370147
Text her AND masturbate maybe?
Obvious choice.
Text her about inane things and masterbate to the knowledge that a girl wants to talk to you
>>17370176
>>17370202
thanks for replies. i can just see it ending with nothing happening which kills my enthusiasm
First time posting here as OP, ill try to keep it simple.
>Had one looong teenage relationship, other one for like 2 months
>Looong one ended one and a half year ago
>Left almost all friends after realizing friendship with them only caused me stress
>In fact, when i look back, i realise i cannot keep friendships longer than 2-3 fucking years max.
>All alone now, one good friend in my life
The trick is, im not sad, or feeling lonely. Actually i feel alot beather, and i mean fucking alot. Found new hobies, new music to listen too and actualy started caring about future.
Before, all my energy was wasted on worrying about mine relationship problems, but now, there is none of it.
I just feel fine, ok, beather than ever, key word is stable. I always wanted to be fucking psychologicly stable.
The question is... Am i asocial, does this shit make me psychotic in some way. I never had problem leaving people, for good. Not saying a word to them.
Should i even try to get someone new in my life?
Best period of my life is when i was with this gir for a longest time, with one/two close friends, but even then stress was there.
It would help me grately if you would ask me Q. about anything, im a bit lazy to write it all in one post.
pls respond
Some people just have a couple friends. What becomes a problem is when the people you care about want you to do things with them, but you are too selfish to understand that, so you just decline their invitations. That's how you'll lose them.
If you get lonely, go make some friends, if you aren't lonely, then why care?
>>17370145
If you're under the age of 25 then its a miracle that any of your friendships lasted 2-3 years in the first place.
The older you get the more you realize that the friends you made when you were a kid are pieces of shit. People change, they mature, then need new friends to replace the old shitty ones.
Teenage relationships are meaningless. Teenage friendships are meaningless. Stop worrying about it. The kids I knew in high school are either married with kids, still in the same town doing the same shit, dead or in prison. It doesn't inconvenience my life in the slightest nor is it a negative reflection on me because I'm not still friends with the stupid assholes I used to smoke weed with when I was 19.
