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Heeeyyyy. I am too scared to have sex because STDs and sex itself seems really fucking gross! I have no friends and no social skills and I live with my mom still. :) I also have never been on a date or anything, mostly because people want to make eye contact and touch hands and weird shit that makes me uneasy.... so any how I hate my life a lot :(
so my question: is anyone else scared of STDs so much they NEVER want to have sex? My usual replies are "use a condom!" buuuut I am pretty sure that doesn't stop STDs completely!!
what do you think /lgbt/?
>>5602785
well, everything is life has risks. Not having (safe) sex because you might get a STD is like not going outside because you might get run over by a car.
Yes, it can happen. But what's the point of living 100 years if you never leave your house?
It's normal that social interactions like dates make you feel uneasy. It happens to all of us. The trick to get over them is to be willing to be uncomfortable and just do it. Once you do it and realize you survived despite how awkward it could have been, you'll feel better and will go for it again. The more you do it, the easier it'll get.
>>5602847
>well, everything is life has risks. Not having (safe) sex because you might get a STD is like not going outside because you might get run over by a car.
Hmm, I feel like there are definitely some major differences between going outside and having sex.
>Yes, it can happen. But what's the point of living 100 years if you never leave your house?
I am not sure, but the only reason I leave the house is to go to work and pick up food/groceries
>It's normal that social interactions like dates make you feel uneasy. It happens to all of us. The trick to get over them is to be willing to be uncomfortable and just do it. Once you do it and realize you survived despite how awkward it could have been, you'll feel better and will go for it again. The more you do it, the easier it'll get.
The trick is people want to touch hands and talk about their lives. I don't like such things. Do I have to pretend to care about someone else's life to date? I am unsure if I want to put forth that much effort
I genuinely thank you for the reply, though! Stuff to think about
>>5602861
>I feel like there are definitely some major differences between going outside and having sex
I'm not saying the two actions are alike. I'm just saying that avoiding everything that could potentially harm you might let you live longer, but your life won't be too exciting.
>Do I have to pretend to care about someone else's life to date? I am unsure if I want to put forth that much effort
Well, yes, you can pretend to...
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I have no clue what my sexual orientation is or if there even is a name for it, so hopefully /lgbt/ will help me out with this.
I'm a 16 year old boy who met a (~3 years younger)boy online. I liked him immediately and asked to be internet-boyfriends out some months later, he said yes. After talking for a long time with him we both agreed that for example males touching each other is horrible and that we would never ever do that. We have a lot of things in common and we like each other very much. I basically hate everyone and I've never liked someone, I also...
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>>5602668
What do you find disgusting about yourself in a gay couple? Being with a man or being a man ?
Do you like dick? Do you separate the dick from the man as a fetish object? You sound a lot like me, I'm asexual and I've had several fetishes but I was never sexually attracted to anyone.
If you really hate everyone though, you need to see a therapist. Maybe it is tied in to why your sexuality is broken and regardless, it's not healthy.
>>5602673
rude
>what am I?
Underage Banned
Is there actually any real dating websites out there for gay men that don't just end in a 1 night hook up.
The lack of replies on this thread says a lot.
We have to stick to the "old fashioned way" if we want a loving relationship it seems. It's the same with straight relationships too nowadays though. I was talking with my friend last night, And he was talking about how all girls on tinder and such only want to fuck and not be in a relationship. He said he was blaming himself for a while but it's the same with pretty much everyone he knows that isn't already in a long term relationship.
>>5602401
>Gay men not engaging in behavior that spreads STDs like wild fire
Good luck m8
Any dating website can for more than one night stands.
But in order to make it work you have to be LESS OF A WHORE.
What did he mean by this?
He has a mental illness where he thinks he is a girl
>>5602340
/thread
>>5602317
That is a girl?
it's gradually making it's way around
http://strawpoll.me/6626139
i don't know how i'll justify the thread here though
debian is for lesbians?
arch users seem to be mostly trans women?
>>5602175
Can confirm, I'm MtF and use Arch...
And damn it's a pretty Arch.
>>5602175
I'm cis les and use Slackware in my potato. Apt sucks so Debain and its derivatives can go to hell, I want to be able to install/remove/upgrade what I want and only what I want. Arch is OK, but non-ironically Gentoo is the king. If my potato didn't take a whole hour to compile a single dependency I would install Gentoo on it.
Yaoi edition
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>tfw no precum soaked penis to suck
Enjoying my hair today tho
>>5603411
Sighhhh, good morning kayla
>>5603429
Hey anna was looking for you
it snowed ~
>gaygen
пpoлeтápии вceх cтpaн, coeдиня́йтecь!
>>5602015
>liking soviets instead of nazis
Untermensch
>>5602033
You mad, fascist scum?
>>5602038
Yes I am, communist bastard
>tfw you poop from your vagina because you don't really have a real vagina
at least some guys like calling my hole a pussy and my dick a clit.
>guys like calling my dick a clit.
that's gross, people are so gross
>>5599242
nigger what
>>5599242
>tfw you poop from your vagina because you have rectovaginal fistula
>tfw falling in love with a tranny (and not even a particularly pretty one at that)
Can you all give me links to trans hate articles because I want off this ride. Google won't show them and I don't know where to look except 4chan
>>5598817
Tell us your story, anon.
>>5598885
>befriend a tranny on tinychat, so know how "she" looks
>she has a qt gf
>talk for a while, become friends
>decide to visit, she's out of country but it only costs 100 eurodollars and can stay at her place
>have fun drinking booze and watching comedy shows
>start to get attracted to her
>still...
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>>5598931
Do whatever makes you happy, anon.
>being attracted to this makes you not straight
Someone explain this to me because it makes no sense at all.
>>5588145
turn the shemale around so we can his front side. Then we all know OP is a thirsty cockslut.
That kinda does look like a man-ass, even if that picture was posted out of this context. That being said, I don't think it makes you "gay" per se. It all depends on what you think of fem-presenting males.
>>5588162
he calls himself a pussyboy
What's a good way for a guy to get a girlier shape?
Main probs: Legs, love handles.
Doing bycicle treadmill daily, gonna start doing squats.
>>5602871
Bycicle treadmill?
You mean stationary bike?
>>5602891
Yeah, pardon my english.
Can't do shit for shoulders, so don't sweat it too much
Squats for your ass
Hip abductions and lunges for your hips
Eat like a fucking pig on HRT, as the fat you take in on hormones will get redistributed to your ass/hips/tits
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8sxCaPBEAY
>>5602819
>LGBT protections
from what?
>>5602819
Is hoosiers canuck speak for furry moose fuckers?
Growing up I was the fat kid and no one wants to go to the dance with the fat kid or flirt with the fat kid. Then through high school I started to lose weight and my face got more handsome and I got a new haircut and cared about style. Needless to say I went from about a 3-4 to a 7-8. And people started to notice and I started to get attention but I didn't know how to respond. I was absolutely clueless about flirting and romantic gestures and my confidence was very low. Fast forward to me now at 20. I have more confidence and can kind of flirt but I haven't even so...
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>>5602430
It's ok anon. Soon you'll grow into a bitter virgin who hates everyone and will stop caring. I suggest investing on cats. I've got three of them and more cuddles I could ask for.
>>5602430
I'm sorry to hear that, anon. Keep at it, though. It's going to happen one day. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 23 but holy fuck was it a beautiful and heartwarming moment. It was worth every lonely, drunken night I spent alone as a teen. Just keep at it and it'll happen.
>>5602430
Honestly you just gotta keep on moving forward. You and I sound very much alike when it comes to dating, though I had success in the past, not so much now.
Keep living for you. Do the thing that you enjoy and you'll meet someone along the way. Don't live life for others affection, its a lonely kind of life
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▶infographs suck for makeup
▶Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000...
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>tfw no facial animesation surgery
>>5601579
Soon. Soon...
;~;
>>5601577
When I got surgery, I was hoping for it to be completely flat like the drawn line, but I still feel like my eyes are kind of deep set and it sticks out a bit in profile.
Don't go to the middle east.
>>5600761
Did not plan on it, OP. Ever.
Fuck that place.
I want to make it to Mecca for family reasons.
I'm technically muslim but seeing as I'm posting here it's not really compatible with me and really most of the western world. My grandma was really spiritual and hoped get grandkids got to see it. None of us really wants to, but I loved the broad
they literally worship a stone that looks like a vagina
