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im 18.5 mtf pre anything, do i have any chance of passing/looking somewhat feminine? other than my fucking witch nose
>>5601838
no but you're pretty cute
Get some makeup for those eye bags
>>5601838
I'd say you have a very good chance. Your face looks quite feminine (I first thought you were ftm)
and you are still very young (transition wise) non-passing age begins with ~25
>>5601838
You're pre-HRT? You're gonna be fine. When I first saw the pic before reading the post I thought u were an FtM who just started T
>tfw found out about dysphoria treatment (mones) way too late and I am FOREVER doomed to be a gross unfuckable wide-shouldered hips-deficient hon everyone can laugh at
not true post pics
>>5600669
If cute fails, just get awesome lady-muscles and be a sexy, statuesque, amazonian beauty.
>>5600669
If your concern is just having broad shoulders, that doesn't really make you much different from the millions of other non-tranny girls who are insecure about the same thing:
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=broad+shoulders+girl
Don't you hate when you like someone and then for some reason a year or so later they get fatter or older and not as hot as they used to be when you first saw them?
>a year later they get older
You don't say.
Gay men really are complete idiots.
Okay now first off I don't usually post here often, going around forums asking for help in my personal life is something that I would usually not imagine myself doing, but I guess like I am just looking for some insight.
It has taken me a long time to really get to terms with my sexuality, I mean I remember going through a lot of shit in middle school which made he hate being gay, then I just sort of had it in the back of my head throughout high school, sort of pushed it back through college just to finally open up to my close friends and win up telling them I'm gay through that, something that came by me talking about things like how I could never figure out why tits are supposed to be attractive, or women in general, how having to be intimate with a girl felt like this horrible thing that was pretty hard for me to explain... stuff like that, stuff that I guess pretty well says "well how the hell could you be straight"
Yet here I am, I mean I am 27, I have a much better idea of who I am and I finally feel like I am starting to get to the point to where I can feel comfortable with myself, but yet I still find myself holding myself back, or simply feeling held back by all this anxiety that I feel at times which feels like it could be brought on by my family since I still haven't come out to them yet.
Now this honestly feels like a big issue that I am having trouble with overcoming so maybe that is why I am finally posting this asking for... well I don't really know what but I am just tired of feeling conflicted and confused as to how to move on with my life and finally embrace a real relationship since this two life thing that I have been keeping up honestly seems to kill every chance I get at a relationship with a guy.
I mean take my most recent relationship, I pretty much just fell off the face of the earth despite the fact that I had numerous good dates with the guy and felt a genuine joy from being with him that felt new to me but I just got scared I guess.
Coming from a similar background, minus the dating there are going to be things to worry about that you didn't even know existed for you to be worried about, the more you learn the more you yearn to be back at where you are now because living in the illusion that you could have a relationship with someone is better than knowing or all the reasons for why you've fucked your life over.
I mean I wouldn't go that far, I wouldn't say my life is fucked over so much as I am just finally focusing on myself and what my needs and desires are but I am just having this anxiety hold me back from feeling comfortable with myself at times.
>>5607295
that anxiety is probably you sheltering yourself to not worry about real things, so its basically protecting you.
getting rid of anxiety would take some years and that would easily land you into gay death seeing as you are so close already. It's better to just forfeit right here and now and find some other thing in life to be content with.
Going by what I see, identities are constructed from sexuality, hobbies, interests, skills , peer groups, income, etc. It's hard to believe that one can come to identify as a gender without some form of influence from outisiders. I see threads all of the time on message boards where a poor, confused kid is told that he's really a girl, he then responds to rhe thread a week later, feeling severe bodily dysphoria because of her new found identity and how much one needs to change to match their body with that identity. These are just my observations on the matter of course,...
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Id,_ego_and_super-ego
>>5607110
it's a little of both, anon
we're born and raised in some environment and have a predisposition to matching what we were raised in
but we're conscious, living things and have some amount of control over what we pay attention to, and can create ourselves anew in a million different ways
have fun being human!
>>5607110
Well how do you feel about your own identity?
I'm sorry to bother you all. I don't know if this is a common thing or if you may get mad at me for asking this but what dose demiromantic mean?
You can only fall in love with people you're already really good friends with
>>5607020
It means the person you talked to browsed too much tumblr and is most likely mentally unstable.
>>5607040
Literally this. Also pls go back to Tumblr.
Like dude on dude? Or is it all shit?
Young fly red, throw dat boipussy!
No sorry, I only listen to real music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mfc4EVHlNu0
Genuinely good rapper, the gay thing isn't a gimmick, but he's not shying away from talking about gay sex explicitly.
>posting in rate thread
>have by far the most replies of anyone
>people telling me I'm pretty
>getting attention from people irl
>a year ago I was walking around as a depressed teenage boy not even knowing as I was trans
Feels pretty good, but I can't brag about it to my friends because they would tell me to fuck off for being conceited.
>>5606531
you have shitty friends m8
>>5606550
I like them. But I'm not sure how I would work this into the conversation without it seeming narcissistic. And I don't want them to take is personally, like I'm saying I'm better than them.
Does anyone here epilate?
How did you get started? How long did it take you to do your whole body the first time? Do you have to do any prep work or do you just do it
>>5605279
Not OP but another question: out of all the ways to get rid of hair, which one is the best and takes the least amount of time?
>tfw you love having a smooth shaved supple body l but you cant because it takes upwards of two hours to do everything.
Is this just me?
is this just me?
>>5605279
I epilate but I'm pretty sure I don't know crap about what I'm doing.
Exfoliate before and after and soothe skin with lotion but my legs still look like shit afterwards.
All other areas are all dandy, arms and belly and all, but legs are all spotted red forever.
>>5605458
Having another person wax you is the fastest (and best). Epilation is easily the most convenient.
>When she and her husband began donor egg treatment to have a child, a doctor finally explained that she was genetically male. She was 36. At the time, his words were: "To put it simply, if you were to perish in a fire and your body was burned beyond recognition, the coroner would presume that you were male."
>if you were to perish in a fire and your body was burned beyond recognition, the coroner would presume that you were male
>>5605144
Where's that from?
Nothing matters when you're dead
>if you were to perish in a fire and your body was burned beyond recognition, the coroner would presume that you were male
How would you gayfags feel about your boyfriend referring to you as "sweetheart" or "hunny" (or some shit like that) in public or private? Is it cute or would you feel put off and talked down to?
Also what's the general rule with PDA?
>>5604607
I hate pet names and PDA but I'm kind of strange I think. Most people seem to do that shit and it's annoying.
>sweetheart
fine
>hunny
NNNNNNNNOOOOO
>public or private
I'd prefer more professional things in public. I don't want him shouting "SWEETIE" across mcdonalds to get my attention. In private he better call me the nastiest shit.
>PDA
Don't do it. It has to be brief, affect no one else, and not be too emotional. A brief kiss upon dropping off your babe at work, is acceptable. Making out while waiting to order popcorn, don't do that shit.
>>5604607
>sweetheart, hunny
Unless its sarcastic, fuck off. In private you can call me whatever you want.
>PDA
Nuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
>wish I was a boy
>5'3
>big hips and ass
>don't want to live my life as a non passing manlet
Anyone else decide not to transition because they would never pass?
>>5604249
Lets just swap brains then.
There are tons of 5'3 me . What's going to give you away is your female bone structure.
>>5604282
>There are tons of 5'3 men
they've all killed themselves
How much spiro will it take to die?
>>5603946
As much as possible, if that's your goal. Although I heard organ failure isn't a particularly nice way to go.
>>5603949
How bad is it?
dont drink any water, take a few sleeping pills, take 1000+ mg of spiro.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lKbVpamvqQ
This is my local trans protest group.
...Why can't I find any sane trans friends?
>>5602820
I'm a tranny, too. But I gotta say I really enjoy when those delusional hons say: "I'm a woman." Like I'm not gonna judge you, if you believe that, but you might want to check yourself. You're not really a woman just now. Especially pre HRT. Girls that didn't go through puberty yet, aren't women either. There's more about being a gender then muh feels. It's about the experiences in said gender and the ability to actually have the right psyche too (HRT).
>>5602820
>Why can't I find any sane trans friends?
"Where can I find some cheese that's less cheesy?"
>>5602820
It's Florida, the weirdo state. What the fuck do you expect from turbo weirdos?
What are some good voice modifying software that can make me sound like a girl over videogames? I want to get free shit by pretending to be a girl and possibly turn straight men gay.
pic unrelated
>>5602384
http://www.yesonvc.net/disease/feminization_surgery.asp
>>5602470
too expensive, I'm trying to make a profit not lose.
you might have some limited success if you spend a while adjusting settings in MorphVoxPro and then speaking a certain way. it's not going to sound good though and probably won't pass.
I'd just start practicing the because anyone can do it
