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How do I tell my longterm gf that Im gay? without breaking her heart preferebly?
>>5430797
Like ripping off a bandaid. Do it fast because drawing it out will only make it hurt more.
easiest way to tell her is having her walking into you having sex with another guy.
Maybe you can find a closeted relative or friend of hers to do it so you both can come out then. Gays gotta stick together after all.
>>5430797
Probably the best thing to do would be to break up with her for a different reason, then come out.
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>>5428087
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>>5430476
ADVERTISING IS AGAINST THE RULES!
Somehow "xD" is cringe but ":3" is perfectly normal.
>but why.jpg
>>5430475
Its ironic that you are listening to it now, because No Love is what you will get from everyone :^)
Also Death Grips is entry level, you casual slut.
Among your gay friends are u guys mostly tops or bottoms?
Im a bottom but most guys i know are tops
>>5430254
Never done buttstuff with another person I usually just like to suck the D and eat cum. Though I want to feel what it's like to get cummed in. Maybe some day.
when will this top or bottom meme end
>>5430254
Practically all the gay guys I've met look (and act) like bottoms.
>have huge crush on philosophy professor
>he's openly gay
>he gives me his number before break
>invited me to christmas dinner with him and his family, said they're all excited to meet me
I-is this really platonic? Is he for sure coming on to me?
>>5429785
go
report back
pic if possible
>>5429812
Will do, if you can wait until friday.
>>5429785
this sounds so dumb lmao.
so there are quite a few possibilities:
1. You're incredibly dumb and didn't realize you guys dated (unlikely)
2. He's a fucking idiot and invites someone on a first date to a christmas dinner with his family (a bit more likely considering he's lecturing philosophy and a lot of philosophers are also lunatics). having your man meet your family on the first date is also really awkward and should be a warning sign, like red flag tier.
3. he sees you...
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being gay because it's trendy and fashionable edition
last one
>>5428087
>>5429525
able to understand it from someone who lives in idk cumbria or somewhere else majority white and has barely met anyone else not white in their life but london offers a lot of opportunity to learn how not to be a typical white person
i guess intelligence by definition is the ability to learn + apply knowledge
>tfw your friend who did worse than you in the two classes you were enrolled with passed dynamics
>think to myself this has to be a god damn fucking joke
>see that i got a D+, the only D ever on my record (no Fs on it either and there's only 4 Cs on it)
>going through a lot of personal, financial and family issues all semester
>still made grades except this one class
>"what the fuck?...
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>>5429296
That's a perfectly fine reason to be excited, bring in that dosh j.me
>>5429304
Me too Kuppy, I know how that feels. First Christmas in 5 years that I havn't had a boyfriend for. It's hitting pretty hard.
>>5429310
What's on the 29th?
1st for steam sale sisters.
sweg
Told you tards. Told you.
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Shameless self bump
>>5429274
No need to bump. No one cares.
>>5429286
Oh you asked them all?
Does taking hrt remove your attraction to females and desire for sex?
I am doomed to be foreveralone and I'd rather not feel attracted to girls at all. Its coming to the point that when I see lewd images online I just get frustrated and sad.
No and no.
HRT just gets rid of dysphoria and gives you boobs.
>>5428846
Take an anti androgen. Spironolactone at 200 mg a day, bicalutamide at 25-50 mg a day, or cyproterone acetate 25-50 mg a day. That should lower your sex drive, be aware you'll be even more LOW TEST than you were before. Take them for a year, and come off them for 3-6 months for bone health, making a 15-18 month cycle.
Don't take estrogen, that's for girls, silly.
>HRT just gets rid of dysphoria
>come off them for 3-6 months for bone health
>Don't take estrogen
How is it that there is so much wrong in such a tiny new thread
>>5428846
OP, HRT can/does reduce sex drive, but not for everyone necessarily. Some people don't notice, or the reduction is not significant, but some lose a lot of their sex drive. A little testosterone would improve your sex drive; women...
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Is it possible to want a mtf without being called a chaser?
To make it clear, I am in it for the relationship not the sex. But my girlfriend(who is mtf) is saying that I'm only dating her because of her genitals. I don't play with her dong because it's common sense to me that she wants to be a woman, so touching the one thing that reminds her she isn't a woman would be complete autism.
I've never posted to 4chan before but I am a lurker. But to sum it up: My MtF girlfriend says I'm a chaser. I have never done anything that would lead...
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Sad bump
Tbqhf most of us trans women are fucked up. We most likely have self esteem issues, probably find it impossible to imagine someone is attracted to us, want a relationship but have trust issues... so on and so on.
You'll probably be better off with a cis woman, and I say this as mtf myself.
>>5428106
Yes.
As for your interactions with your girlfriend, that's something you'll have to work out together. You're just going to have to be very patient and understanding, because that sort of behaviour is often caused by self-esteem issues.
Wish I could do you better. But don't bump 7 minute old threads. This isn't /b/.
How do I convert a lesbo friend back into straightness?
u dont
>>5427975
Why?
I despise those faggots that feel the need to share their posts on Tumblr, acting like they are some kind of speaker for the homosexual community. I hate that most of them are Silicone Valley dwellers with high salaries and working in jobs that appear to be from out of those idiotic T.V. shows (my job that lets me bee myself and bee wacky xDDD), living in their expensive gentrified townhouses with their "true love" and their 6 other fuckbuddies in downtown San Francisco with their wealth and their good food and good drink and their expensive clothing, with so much...
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Focus on yourself instead of others
>>5427421
lol gg poorfag
I see where you're coming from. I don't care if there are gays wealthier than me, but it's annoying that they still feel the need to victimize themselves
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Why haven't you made a musclepanda your pup yet?
I wish I had an internet boyfriend.
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>>5426752
yes
>>5426749
first for sickining
How do you deal with your life if you are a tranny, NEET, living with parents (I wrote "parrots" at first idk why), have no personality, no friends, no boyfriend, feel completely empty inside, are too tired for anything new or old and are ashamed that your parents have to constantly deal with a failure like yourself?
>>5425329
You have nowhere to go but up. Start trying to do something with yourself. The worst case scenario is that you'll end up right back at rock bottom, which is a lateral move.
Hard to have a personality when you're depressed.
It's a long journey, but building your life up and living in the world will naturally lead you to find out what you like, what you enjoy doing, and who you are.
So, I'm the human embodiment of /pol/, but I know very deep down I'm gay. No one else knows and I'm not sure if I should embrace it, hide it or off myself. I surf /lgbt/ a lot, and I also frequent a gay bar, and no one there knows my "outside activities", and vice versa. Every time I meet a guy I like, I subconsciously chase them away for fear of being "outed" or someone hurting them that may be affiliated with me. I seem to be very attracted to effeminate males though.
What should I do... I can't just "change my life"...
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I've had gender identity disorder since I was four. Diagnosed by therapists all throughout my life, well before the wave of tranny shit was all over the media and the internet.
I want nothing more than to be a good, pure Aryan mother but I was born a male... I should want to be a strong exemplar of the white race but I can't shake the constant, burning irrational need to be a woman. I hate it, I don't want to be born a degenerate.
>>5425225
Your sexual/romantic side is going to start eating you from the inside if you repress it for long enough.
That being said, if you start being actually honest with yourself and everyone else, you might lose those friends, and you might lose them hard, like pic related.
You need to take care of yourself before you allow yourself to get washed around in politics. You should start working on this sooner rather than later, it's only going to get harder the longer you wait.
>>5425225
Delicious irony. Kinda hoping you either fuck up and get caught and punished hard for all the hateful shite you've ever said and done, or end up breaking down and coming out anyway.
I'm about to go hang out with a friend of a friend who is trans. and lewdness is likely to ensue.
My question is do I have to touch her dick? What do I do with her dick? Should I avoid it and pretend it doesnt exist? What if its bigger than mine?
Don't touch her dick unless she asks you to do so/makes it happen. My gf and I (we're both mtf trannies) both don't mind it, and the coolest trannies won't mind, or if they do, they won't make a big deal out of it.
>>5423591
Those are questions you should ask her before you two have sex. Only she can say what she like and what she is not comfortable with.
Just ask her
