How does one get over his best friend who's not gay?
I've already came out to him a year ago, he rejected me politely and we're still the best of buds.
Since then, I've done a better job of not getting jealous over him (because he doesn't owe me anything, he's straight I get this).
But idk, just the other day we were at the beach and as we were working on burying our other friend, were both squatting and he had these short trunks and his dick is just hanging out on that underwear net that trunks have and I could not stop looking until I couldn't anymore.
He's slowly starting to feel like a brother to me then I catch myself doing this!?
Sometimes I hate being gay, it's nothing but problems for me.
Honestly you just need to get out and find guys that you can have a relationship with. If you're just focusing all your attention on your frienas of course you're still gonna have jealous feelings. Will your attraction ever go away? Probably not. But at least you won't have as many conflicting moments anymore.
>>6518594
You don't good relationships are like best friends who are committed to each other and fuck. For you it's always going to feel like there's something missing.
Either suffer in endless torment or drop him. And trust me it won't get better if you stay with him, only worse.
>>6518768
Yeah that's what I've been thinking lately. Maybe it's best for the both of us.
Ever since what happened in Orlando I've been having people tell me that I need to hate this or that religion and support this or that political party. I can't talk to my friends or even just strangers at a bar without hearing this kind of thing. It's not going away. People are still so mad and they need to make sure everyone else is too. There's always been activism in our community but this has gotten unbearable.
I believe in god, but I'm not really religious beyond that, and I've never voted or had any interest in politics. Since when did being a fag mean you had to have strong opinions on these issues? I just want to suck dick, not hate christians or muslims or democrats or republicans.
I admit that I'm not very well informed on any of this (I find it super boring tbph) and people who knew me understood and respected my decision to stay out of it, but now I'm being told that I have to educate myself and pick a side. They get so frustrated that they don't realize how much they're upsetting me. I had a close friend snap at me and call me an idiot because I couldn't answer his political questions and tried to change the subject.
I can't handle these feels, /lgbt/. Is it not possible to stay out of all this bullshit anymore? Can't you be gay and just want to be left alone?
>>6513121
Don't ever let people force you to be interested in anything you're not interested in. Tell your close friend that isn't cool to make you talk about it and put you down when you're not interested in the subject. Politics aren't that important anyway. For your own safety though, do watch out for Muslims.
>>6513121
You can, and that would be ideal, but honestly this issue affects you and not having an opinion or knowing anything about it shows a level of naiveté unbecoming of an LGBT person.
>>6513121
>I don't like real life issues and the world
>I just want to practice escapism and not do anything meaningful
Orlando happened. Make up your mind about it and speak or crawl in a hole and never grow up.
You sound insufferable either way.
>tfw bf
>>6508572
>tfw no bf
>ffw this willl never change
>>6508572
>tfw My dad took my virginity
Not my best of life choices
Updated/added to mine. Now with 100% less Yahtzee ( ._.)
Oh yeah, new thread
> updated mine a bit
>>6505885
> - Mr. Robot
> - using overpriced meme tech
> - fav comedian is a nigger
> - wants to look like a school shooter
> - bi-scum
> - left wing libtard
> + oldschools games
> + Rammstein
> + piracy
> + cynical pessimist (optimists are annoying)
> + Dr. House
Don't like those retarded x/10 ratings, probably wouldn't befriend you, but would meet for a lan party with you and others.
compliment, insult, and recommend me things
>>6507192
> + playing an instrument
> + law and order
> + more or less decent fashion style
> + cute pokemon
> + total degenerate (porn, weapon, drug)
> + WoW because I was a fan once
> + cooking
> +++ Bill Burr
> - Punk
> - left-wing
> - Pan, u wot m8?
Should be fun to hang out with you.
What have people called you when they found out about your asexuality? A prude? A late bloomer? Confused?
Old: >>6371180
Friendly reminder that you can hide the thread by clicking the little minus sign to the left, or by filtering "/acegen/" through 4chan's settings (top right).
>So, what exactly IS asexuality?
There are two commonly used definitions, the first (from dictionary.reference.com):
asexual (a-sek-shoo-el) in medicine
3. lacking interest or desire in sex
And the second (from asexuality.org):
An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction
(to prevent confusion; latter preferred)
>soitsfuckingnothing.jpg
If it helps, asexuality is recognized in the DSM-V: "if a lifelong lack of sexual desire is better explained by one's self-identification as 'asexual', then a diagnosis of... [male/female sexual/arousal disorder]... is not made."
>Okay, so, that didn't actually tell me anything.
So you want to read more about asexuality. Cool.
If you want science:
http://www.asexualexplorations.net/home/extantresearch.html
If you want popular articles/videos/websites:
AVEN - The Asexuality Visibility & Education Network (asexuality.org)
Asexuality 101 (asexualawarenessweek.com/101.html)
Letters to an Asexual (and other relevant videos) (youtube.com/user/swankivy)
>/acegen/ I think I might be asexual!
Do either of the above definitions apply to you? Both? Yes? No? Not sure? Start by asking yourself whether or not you experience sexual attraction as it is described here: imgur.com/pdIxHYc
>[questiongoeshere]
Hey, we're pretty chill, so if you've got a question: ask it.
I've personally been called "confused" and a "late bloomer" when I hint at my sexuality to my family members.
What happened to the last thread?
>>6439420
idk, I think it 404'd?
Is there any way to make your nipples more sensitive?
Bumpo want to be qt femboi
I'm male who wishes to be fem, wish I can get pregnant, it can make your nipples very hard.
Play with ya nips. Like, regularly. Whenever you're alone, just have a pinch. Every day. Been doing this on and off in pursuit of /twink/ over the last few months. Nips definitely feel pointier and more sensitive.
And switch to green tea from coffee/soda/English tea, drink lots of it. It's actually tasty too. Something about test in milk, and vitamins etc in green. Don't quote me.
Did any of you get a Brazilian wax before? How was it?
Also do you prefer your bottom without a hairy ass or do you like hair?
Pic unrelated
>>6533970
I prefer a hairy ass, but I would absolutely destroy JB's silky smooth hole any fucking day.
Hairy ass and legs are amazing. Especially love eating hairy ass.
Hair on the chest/back/shoulders is less necessary.
I have a ton of hair, Im hoping to figure out how to keep some of it shaved efficiently. Notably on my back and shoulders. If you figure anything out, keep me posted
>>6533970
I've done it myself. I had a little bit of blood at the side areas where the joint between my legs and groin were but that actually seems to have left pseudo-permanent hair loss. Haven't grown hair there for like 1.5 years now lol
Actually it would be nice if it came back because I don't wax regularly and it just looks weird
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> No bullying
> No hugboxing
> No *actions*
> No drama
Let's do our best, girls!
Previous thread →>>6531866
>tfw none of the women in mybodygallery look like u
>tfw ur a girl
: )
can we please stop with the transfeminine nonsense? the people here seem to barely fucking tolerate by the books semi-passers as it is
So, a few months ago I realized i was also attracted to guys. big whoop.
But this isn't about me. This is about my good friend of 3 and a half years i would like to start a relationship with.
I know that there's already a heap of suggestions you guys could throw at me, a lot of them being "don't even try it will just ruin your friendship" since I imagine threads like this pop up every day.
But here's the kicker: He says he's straight, but me and my friends have caught him multiple times getting off on traps. (not irl. We caught him on webcam/screen-share; my life isn't a poorly written porno.)
I haven't told any of my friends or family that i am bi yet, and obviously he technically isn't right now. I know all of our friends and family would be okay with us both coming out, but my main fear is that he would back out because he would be so uncomfortable.
A lot of plans, may of them his own, have been aborted simply out of it being too awkward.
How do I the gay?
>inb4 take HRT and become his trap dream.
pic the closest thing i have to something related.
bump
someone here has to know what to do
please
>>6533549
succ his cock
>>6533663
better than nothing i guess.
In all seriousness I have thought about getting the two of us out camping and drinking and once we're completely pissed just going down on him.
Problem is that either ends in a wonderful relationship or a restraining order.
VALAR DOHAERIS! And yes, this is coming from a true feminist.
- LETS HAVE A FEMINIST ANTHEM GIRLS!
>>6533532
yea, women need men to serve them in all things because they can't do anything other than bitch, moan and complain.
your axewounds arent worth the effort
>>6533924
When are straight men going to realize this and rise up?
This board has nothing to do with feminism. Why are you posting here?
>And this is our son's room. Careful not to startle him, he spends his day watching anime and eating female hormones
I wish I could spend all day watching anime and being a cute girl. Instead I have to program. rip.
>>6533444
This can't be me because I have a blanket for a door.
>>6533444
You guys don't know anything about me. I pay video games watch movies scans guys who jerk off for me.
My girlfriend has a really low sex drive and mine is pretty high. I try to initiate things a lot but i don't want to be overly pushy so i end up backing off or getting rejected.
this makes me feel crappy/unwanted, i think she feels bad that i'm feeling like this also.
Not sure what to do besides masturbate constantly, which i already do.
to make this /lgbt/ related i feel like i want to unload all my sexual frustration on some poor sissy's bum.
thanks for reading my blog
>>6533273
Break up with her
or
communicate with her and tell her you're sexually frustrated, and see where it goes from there
>>6533289
We have been together for a long time, i really care a out her and she me, but im starting to think there isn't a future moving forward.
This has slowly become more and more of an issue.
I just want affection and physical contact like we had.
>>6533273
break up with her
she is obviously taking some BBC behind your back
How do the tops of you like their bottoms nipples?
>>6532672
>tfw puffy nipples
man i really hate this shit
>>6532672
Sensitive
>>6532676
more to play with :P
i dont really know why. It started with me watching some weebshit on yutube and saw this guy with girl legs. Honestly the first vid i have fapped to that wasent porn. How can i explain this to my grandma?
>>6532554
> How can i explain this to my grandma?
you don't
>>6532554
If you're doing this because you grandma is a trap you want to fuck:
don't
>>6532554
"straight"
Sorry if theres a thread for this, i didnt see one.
Im ftm. Been on testosterone for a year. I pass. Transitioning has made me feel better, though i do feel crazy for being trans.
I dont regret transitioning. But im afraid in the future i will. I guess this fear is normal since transitioning is a huge change with permanent aspects.
I dont think ill stop hrt. But does anyone else have fears they will one day regret transitioning? Even if you pass?
Yes but i just think about how my life could have been a shit ton worse if i didn't transition. Just think about all the things about yourself that have changed so far and how you feel about those changes.
>>6532502
You're FtM so there's only like a less than 1% chance that you will so don't worry
>>6532542
How would it be worse?