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How does it feel to cuddle with your bf?
>implying I've ever been in any form of relationship
>implying I'm not still in the closet and never even kissed anyone
>>6541557
s a m e
For the past five years it's been great, we still do it every night. Now our Cat joins in.
ITT: Coming out tips
Pic unrelated , just a meme
>>6541443
My tip is not to come out unless there's a good chance everyone will take it well.
Is there really a need to come out to family and straight peers?
>>6541480
More just to get it off my chest and because mu bf is coming to town he has nowhere to stay
>>6541515
Then just introduce him as your bf when necessary.
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Everyone in this thread RIGHT NOW must answer these questions:
(HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING regardless of your sexual orientation)
>Which trip would be your best friend?
>Which trip would you cuddle with?
>Which trip would you top? (Optional)
>Which trip would you bottom for?
>Which trip is wife material?
>Which trip would you kill? (Optional)
Rules:
Anon is not an acceptable answer
Skipping is not an acceptable answer except the optional questions
tfw no pp in bumbum
>tfw MtF and like piv but only if my partner is doing basically all of the movements
Am I a gross fetishist /lgbt/? ;-;
How do you reconcile your identity as a woman when your cock is balls deep in your girlfriends pussy?
>>6541257
I dunno anon, I'm just blushing and taking it and its really lewd.
Most of the time I feel pretty uncomfortable with my cock though. I'm getting srs as soon as its financially feasible.
Also I don't have balls.
>>6541268
It's not uncomfortable when it's rock hard and jammed into a wet pussy though apparently.
I want to look like and be just like my mommy, because she and other females have had a dominate influence in my life. The only thing is am not gay, but I do have bi-tendecies from time to time.
To make it even better some people have actually said I look like my mother when we are together. My mother doesn't mind me being feminine and all, she always thought I was cute and she and my big sister used to dress me up.
Any advice on transitioning?
>>6541161
If that's your reason then my advice is to not transition.
Rant thread. Anything goes, I could not care less at this point.
(Pic unrelated)
Me:
>Pre 4chan:
Straight, gender comfortable, no real anxieties
Post 4 chan:
faggot, cross dressing, delusional, tranny, wannabe snowflake, so much self hatred you could drown if you wernt used to it.
I blame you anon. Fuck you. If I never came to this cesspool of shitposting and faggy lonely 20 something year old, self destructive pricks maybe I would have turned out normal, and not ended up like this.
Ever since you started getting into "politics" you've became a real dick towards me. Why are you suddenly attacking me and being so mean, do you not want to be friends anymore? Did you always think that way about gays or did you just get "enlightened"? I don't understand what you're even saying anymore. I'm sorry I haven't been chatting with you so much anymore, everything you say is just so depressing. I still want to be friends. You used to be so sweet. I want to know what's wrong. I don't think you're happy right now.
I don't know what love is
I get that you aren't a shut-in loser like I am and that it's unreasonable for me to expect a normal person to have the same priorities as a miserably lonely autist, but I wish that we could chat more often. I wish I could make you feel better about your ex...
>bottom wanting to do anal sex
>constant reoccuring hemorrhoids
should i just kill myself?
>>6540643
I also have this problem.
Wat do?
>>6540643
yeah, its going to hurt
...so?
Not exactly an easy fix but getting surgery to remove them does the trick. I had recurring hemorrhoids and ended up having them removed surgically, never had an issue since.
Do you visualize yourself as you are or differently?
Innately I visualize myself differently, then reality slaps me when I am reminded of how I really look.
I keep forgetting I'm not white
I find deluding myself at least a little to be more effeminate than i really am is one of the only ways to keep carrying on.
Mirrors fuck my shit up senpai.
I don't visualize myself as anything I just often don't internalize that the person in the mirror is me
Trannies are people that can't handle the stress of being gay, so they'd rather "transition" into the opposite sex altogether?
>>6538022
That's Blanchards definition of a homosexual tranny, but not what is bwlieved today.
Isn't transitioning violating a bigger social norm than being gay?
>>6538028
it's true like 50% of the time still though.
>>6533708
Love thy neighbor.
>>6537799
>tfw no bf
how does this make you feel?
>>6537878
I wanna see the nips
>be me
>be a top twink
>don't be able to find a hot masc muscle bottom who likes to be topped by twinks
>>6537481
Shit happens
i wish you better luck on ur next journey of life
>>6537481
Iktf.
>>6537481
you would literally have an easier time as a tranny looking for muscular bottoms
I would probably just pretend to be versatile and then only top lol
Alternative is become a transvestite/crossdresser and you'll probably find a number of muscular manly dudes who want to bottom for a "girl"
>that feel when every time you hug someone you cringe heavily internally because you know they can feel your tits
>that feel when you can't play music with people without your tits being revealed by your guitar strap
>that feel when you used to be in several regularly gigging bands playing multiple shows per week but you quit all that because it's too awkward to be this boygirl thing on stage
>that feel when anyone who spends any decent amount of time around you will eventually notice them because it's impossible to hide them 100% without using a binder or other uncomfortable means.
At least I can suck my own nipples I guess?
>justfemboyfeels
i am a closet mtf and i can say with at least 86 percent accuracy no one notices your tits and those that do just think they are 'bitch tits' no one cares, they only care about themselves.
Its so fucking cringy to hug with these booblets. I know they can feel the breast buds pressed in hard. Usually I am on top of it, and do a weird sternum hug thing that avoids the nipples
>tfw never get hugged.
A little depressed right now because in real life I am never approached by guys that I am attracted to... and when it happens online it's purely for sex and in the most vapid one word conversations that I literally cannot bear. I literally couldn't give a fuck less about hookups anymore, I have zero energy for trying to get them or engaging in them. So I hold out for the idea that I'll meet someone in real life but... no luck yet. And for the record I'm conventionally attractive. What is even the point.
>>6536906
OP here,
actually the further mess is that I am down for hookups. But could there be at least a little effort for fucks sake, like can it not be
Him: Hey
Me: Hey how's it going?
Him: Not bad u
Me [already annoyed]:Ehh just hanging out at home
Him: Nice
Jesus fucking Christ. And oops at the screenshot in the op. Killing myself in 20.
>>6536921
RU ded yet?
>>6536921
Do you want poems of how he'll push you down and massage your ass while fucking, of how you're his little fucktoy and how horny your greedy butthole is, of how he'll grab your neck and kiss you from behind, all the while forcing himself into you over and over?
Seems like a lot of effort.
Is there anything more lonely than being an effeminate straight cis male?
>Talking to men is uncomfortable and awkward because it feels like I'm constantly trying to defend against being emasculated/falling into a submissive beta role in the interaction, and avoid doing anything that seems gay
>Talking to women is easy and delightful, but women are never attracted to me because I'm not masculine, and I'll never be one of the girls like a gay guy
>Set off both gay and straight people's gaydar
>Deeply questioned whether I could be actually gay or trans, but concluded that I'm neither, just a man who,s personality and mannerisms are more typical of the feminine
The western world is highly supportive of gays, trans, and masculine women, but feminine men are shunned and unwanted by all.
Forgot to add, only resources I could find relatable are this wikipedia article
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queer_heterosexuality
I try to explain my 'condition' to people on 4chan often, and they just think I'm a repressed gay or trans. I saw a shrink for 2 years and asked him about this, and he just told me about how there's no real definition, social or biological, of being masculine or feminine so need not be concerned with it and just be myself.
>>>6522759
femgen might be willing to help you
>>6536607
I feel you. I have this friend who is the same way. IDs as genderqueer recently but I think they're just doing it for social reasons. Feels no gender dysphoria whatsoever, but everyone thinks they're a gay man but they only into womens.
>"Hey, Anon. I see that you brought your...friend to dinner."
>tfw still closeted and no bf
>>6535714
As it should be, Anon. Don't fall for the "Coming out of the closet" meme.
>>6535916
... enjoy
