Motivation and being nice edition
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Previous Thread >>5322459
First for being nice.
>>5323978
cant wake up
>>5323978
You're not even nice you fucking piece of shit.
Transgender women are 49 times more likely than the general population to contract HIV!
http://news.yahoo.com/one-group-people-acquiring-hiv-204557712.html
HOLY SHIT!
>>5323731
its almost as if a higher percentage of mtfs do sex work than other demographics and are thus more sexually exposed to HIV positive people... whoa...
But I never slept with anyone how could I have HIV?
>>5324206
Because statistically all trans women have HIV.
tinychat: /gaygen/
previous: >>5322571
Imma delete this one too
>>5323658
Bitch I deleted the other one FUCK you
i honestly hope we never get off this stupid planet and never explore the stars
How do I convince my extremely wealthy mom to help me with my transition
info
>kicked me out for being trans at 15
>literally told me to get aids and die
>homeless and nowhere to go, had to suck it up and work, no possibility to afford hormones or laser
>24 now still haven't transitioned because of numerous setbacks such as suicide attempt, emergency room for eating nothing but ramen for almost a year, dropped out of college 3 times now due to stress at inability to transition, losing my apartment one year, losing my car the next, and being permanently injured working construction
>desperate and on the verge of suicide
>mom is sorry for how she treated me, says she loves me
>says she'll accept me no matter what i do but obviously is disgusted with me being trans and doesn't want me to transition
>she is married to a millionaire and could easily help me out but won't
So how the fuck do i get her to help me
That's an awful story and I'm truly sorry to hear that. Do you think you could get her to just support you for general finances and fund HRT on your own? Spiro and estrogen aren't very expensive
>>5322658
Have your therapist explain to your mom what is fucking you up.
>>5322679
This.
Get her to handle everything BUT the transition. She's going to need time to come around and pushing will ruin a potential meal-ticket.
http://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/nov/30/brain-sex-men-from-mars-women-venus-not-so-says-new-study
So the whole transgender brain thing has been debunked. What happens now?
OP this was already posted but the trans people are like radical islamic jihadists and live in their own little circlejerk world so they don't care
>>5323630
It's more like this doesn't actually contradict anything and in fact reinforces the idea that a male's brain can be distinctly feminine
>>5322442
>more baseless causality assumption
jesus christ i hate people sometimes
Can we talk about internalised homophobia?
Post your stories, breakthroughs and issues with it.
For instance, today I was playing Fallout 4 and found myself reluctant to romance Paladin Danse because he's a man, and I'm a man. I'm attracted to men, but for some reason I autopiloted and assumed it would be wrong. Fuck.
>>5322145
Wait-wait-wait! You can romance the Danse?!
I've always thought of homosexuality as had something to do with being morally loose, psychopathic behavior, gluttony and no self control. I've also most of my life seen some homosexuals as being mentally ill, that their mental illness lead them to being gay.
Now that I've accepted that I'm gay(again) and stopped repressing it and getting off by watching big cock straight porn, dick pics, and kekoldory, tranny shit etc etc.
Now I just go right for the jugular, which is gay porn, were I see myself in the porn as being the submissive, it feels like I'm a teen again discovering porn. I get so hard by watching gay porn and accepting that I just want the dick personally(and not us girls as proxies).
I've still got a lot of internalized homophobia. When I see a flamboyant gay I still get the "ohh what a unbearable faggot" but not as much.
Also I can't shake the image of gay old leather bears and bug chasing...
>>5322158
I've fucked the black minute man guy, turns out he's a submissive bitch. The lone wanderers dick must be great.
Why do Lesbians have moustaches?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JePugX1YkG4
>>5317906
why do all lesbians have to look like fat truckers? What's the appeal for god's sake
>>5317906
Girls with moustaches are kind of cute d.e.s.u
>>5318929
they re not , in this case we should just call her a trans or a boy ! at somme point enough are enough with the gender juggle !
I'm MtF transgender and I want to be a police officer. I've wanted to be one for as long as I can remember. I feel so completely confident that even if I make it I'll be a laughing stock, no one will want to be friends with me, and certainly neither my fellow officers nor criminals will ever respect me.
What hope is there?
>>5314241
>neither my fellow officers nor criminals will ever respect me
You belong anon, you belong.
Well when you're pointing a gun at a criminal, they might respect you more. Besides police work is like 80% paper work unless you work narcotics. So don't worry about it. Besides if you prove yourself as an individual people will learn to respect you. Even in the military trans people can earn the respect of their fellow soldier (assuming they aren't disbarred from it because trans people aren't technically allowed to serve still)
>>5314277
>trans people can earn respect from normal people
Lol nope that's a total hugbox.
Age/Gender me please?
20 y/o trans girl
>>5314135
early 20s, mtf
>>5314135
Ben?
I identify as gay and am a total bottom, but I hate gay porn. I can only get off to straight born. Anyone else have this situation?
Funny thing is it's usually the opposite with straight people worried because they can only get off to gay stuff lol
Gay porn is shit desu
oh, another trans thread.
>>5299296
Lol how is this a trans thread? I said I was gay, not mtf
>>5299270
I've heard this before and maybe this is it. The guys just don't seem to get into it that much sometimes, idk.
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What will hormones do?
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>>5279395
Yep, desu I was pretty clear I don't want anything to do with that transgender shit, just want my meds and get a female body, don't care about all the social implications, cause I'm transsexual, my problem is my body, not my social life. I couldn't care less how people percieve and treat me, I just wanna be happy with the shell I'm stuck in.
But he wasn't happy with that so I had several appointments where I just told about what I've been doing cause I didn't know wtf he wanted from me, even though he kept asking how he could help me and I kept saying I want his okay for prescriptions and after some 10 months I told him fuck this I'm self-medding, goodbye.
Costs me a crapton of money with laser and medding and SRS but I'd likely have killed myself if I didn't do it.
He told me to go shopping in female clothes, try myself out around people and when I mentioned I don't wanna do makeup, he pretty bluntly said but I have to. Seems to me he never met a girl from rural areas. All the women in my family are manlier than I am and still perfectly female.
Heck, I went with unisex clothes and did some light makeup just to appease him but he still pussied out from taking the responsibility.
I think this is more or less an exceptional case, but either way, fuck those gatekeepers. Good luck to you.
>>5281130
bump
>>5278230
Sounds like it will be a schizophrenic collection of tattoos.
>>5279395
Not me. I got a referral to an endocrinologist from a psychiatrist on my first meeting with him. My face was pretty masculinely shaped, but I was shaven. I also don't think my behavior was masculine. I've yet to see an endocrinologist because the one at the hospital he works in is booked up to March. I'm trying to get in contact with some others.
>>5281130
The Mayo Clinic actually provides healthcare?
>gay general
Who was your first crush that made you realise you were gay?
>>5322571
first for vinnie from biker mice
>>5322559
>biscum
>N O T E V E N O N C E
yeah... r i g h t...
>>5322580
>Stop teasing me, you guys don't exist.
breh pls
show off your cosplay skills /mtfg/
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>>5321366
1st for ealers are not sluts.
first for elanna's cute ticklish feet
>had a dream where I invented a trans survival guide/kit that was filled with all kinds of cheap makeup with brushes and guides on how to use them; guides for every kind of problem you could have and low-cost products for them; low cost hair products and guides on how to best take care of your hair; things like flat irons, blow dryers, epilators, tweezers, and other tools; and to wrap it all up, some nice candy.
hmm. if I wanted to actually bother with this I would need some time and probably a lot of money.
Just started crossdressing. Went out and bought a few dresses to try them on, realized I am a transvestite. The only problem, /lgbt/, is that I am muscular, and I don't want to lose muscle tone (enjoy being strong), but I want to look hot in a dress, and I like this one with low cut back and bare arms. I think I look like a monster, help me, or tell me it of no use, i need advice of some kind.
I just think it is dumb that guys can't wear dresses, because I think certain guys look hot in dresses and don't even need to take hormones or lessen muscles because they look hot in a different type of way. But I don't want to go out looking like a delusional monster.
I don't need compliments, I will most likely go in all for this anyway because it is very sexually exciting to me, but I just want honest opinions on if I look straight offensive, or if I look alright. Be honest please I don't need anyone to be nice I just need feedback to help me think out of a good outfit to out in public with.
Ever since discovering that I'm a total transvestite two days ago I have been unable to think about almost anything else, other than which clothes to buy, shoes, make-up, and where to go to show it off, and the need to shave body. But if you guys think I should never go out in public, let me know now, so that I can go to places where I'm least likely to get beat up for trying to get away with my evil deeds >:-)
More dresses, sorry for the messy bathroom, I haven't fully come out yet (not to family) and I still feel uncomfortable doing this around people I know because although it is fun to me I feel like other people feel uncomfortable around it and I don't like upsetting people.
I am afraid to come out. Not because of family but because I have no one at school who would support me. I recently changed schools and I want to come out so I can feel better about myself. But I'm afraid if I do everyone will turn me away. BTW there are not LGBT groups here.
>>5321323
Just make sure you are physically safe. If you feel uncomfortable about it then don't.
>>5321323
You only have to do it when you're comfortable
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