Are there types or a number of ways that trans people can be classified into based on how they deal with their dysphoria?
Two that I can think of would be going full nihilism or numb to everything and the other is living as close to desired gender as possible (for an MtF, having lots of fag hags and being feminine as hell; for an FtM, keeping hair short, wearing boys' or androgynous clothing, playing sports, etc.).
Did anyone deal with their dysphoria in childhood and adolescence in a different way from these two?
I have no plans of ever transitioning and don't really experience the crippling bodily dysphoria that most here speak of, so I don't really plan on HRT just yet. Though I am AGP and am a HUGE closet case, in that I can't get off without picturing myself as a woman during sex, so the burning desire is still there to become what I fantasize. I mostly just go to work, come home, play video games and browse LGBT to channel my hatred of myself onto others. So yeah, I guess you could say there are levels.
>>5650145
yes, being aware of the issue but largely unaware of the distress during childhood (no puberty yet) made me a girly fag. the numbness and shutting self away from people as a teen was a thing, but as i aged i couldn't achieve it alone, i turned to alcohol for oblivion and abusing testosterone to make up for my failings. neither worked and things only got more extreme and drove me to greater heights as people thought i was a hilarious drag king act or a deliberately aware social commentary on grotesque masculinity as in private a was quite shy, quiet, and reserved. i also turned to mdma for social events as it stopped dysphoria for a while and i could let people touch me without me freaking out, and i could dance to my heart's content. crossdressing in private, crying a lot and showering in the dark helped too, along with repressing memories.
so i'd say there were levels of in the closet trannyness- being a flamer, being numb, or full on repression
>>5650288
So how do you compare being numb and full on repression? Numbness is like feeling on some level you are trans, even if you don't know the word for it, and numbing yourself to everything? Is repression pretending it doesn't exist at all and being in complete denial about it?
So it's been a past one year since I decided to come out as a MtF trans, I was very androginous all of my life and I don't know if I wanna take hormones; I hear a lot of mixed things about them in forums, are they safe?
>>5650138
>came out as mtf a year ago
>still not on hormones
you're gonna be in a serious bodily shit storm soon if you don't get on that soon. This is assuming you're 100% sure you're trans. Getting on them if you wanna stay androgynous is probably a good idea too :/
>>5650138
They are completely safe as long as you are getting regular blood tests.
>>5650138
Estradiol (especially as you move from a low/negligible concentration to a high one) can precipitate deep vein thrombosis. Being young, exercising regularly, and slowly increasing your dose rather than starting at a high one are all great ways to prevent this. Do not take premarin, as it has many other chemicals to take into account, and is less effective mg for mg than bio-identical estradiol.
All anti-androgens available to adults have a host of risks that need to be gotten into individually.
The whole package puts you at heightened risk of developing breast cancer (vs. a male), and reduced risk of developing prostate cancer (vs. a male).
If you get blood tests and medical backup, the actual risks are negligible.
Straightfag here. Wanted to try an anal prostate vibration module and was wondering if you guys knew about what ones would work that are cheap (below $30) and would make my prostate quiver like a Tyrannosaurus in wood shop.
Oh, congratulations on the marriage thing. May you live married and have all the anal nuzzling your taints desire.
>>5650025
>below $30
Do you really want to use a discount toy on your prostate?
Do you also buy discount tires?
Gay white men who don't want to sleep with gay black men are not racists. They are prejudice and discriminating, but not racists. Racism is a set of practices and beliefs that creates or maintains a power structure of racial superiority. However white men denying black men sex does not maintain a power structure since a hook up or relationship does not add or take away power from one group on another. It does not promote superiority because there is no gain beyond sex, gay is not an institution therefore discrimination does not feed into the greater institution of racism. No one is preventing gay men from having interracial relationships, it doesn't support a power structure. Some gay men have a prejudice based preference for someone the same race.
>>5649981
The shit that cracks me up is that faggots expect moral decency on an app
used for mostly hookups
>>5649981
Except for the fact that black men are treated with less value.
>>5650103
It is funny. At least at gay bars you don't have to deal with awkwardness beyond "Go away."
How much do I have to drink on a daily basis to stop wanting to be a girl?
>>5649931
About this much.
>>5649931
>thinks the desire will go away
if you know you'll never pass, then learn to take solace in being a guy, because it's never going away
>>5649931
As much as you need to pass out.
Will any BI or GAY guys over 18 type dirty using good grammar as i jerk my cock and cum in the air on cam for you?
Add me to skype : david.samuels44
dirty using good grammar
>>5649829
dirty using good grammar as i jerk my cock and cum in the air on cam for you?
What a specific but understandable turn off. Its so easy to type like that tho.
So I've working at a really heteronormative company for 1 1/2 years
I don't know what my orientation is but I have been with more girls than guys. Though my most recent fuck it as a guy. We had a better connection than I've felt with any woman. I'm still somewhat confused but this test says I'm probably not heterosexual (scored 142)
http://vistriai.com/gaytest
One of my best friends was also gay and I seem to get along best with gays. I have a hard time I guess not seeing heterosexuality as superior due to societal constraints.
Anyway, I've been offered a job at a high end clothing store in the galleria and I feel like its more in line with who I am since I have such tendencies and am good with fashion.
Just want to know I'm not alone I guess. And this current job thing irritates me since I know straight families get highest priority for promotions.
this test is shite m8
>>5649846
Did you take the test?
Yes I took it I was in the gay zone honestly I it's a pointless test you shouldn't worry about it
So i'm straight and have been asked several times if i'm gay. Should I just start telling people "yes I am gay" ironically to fuck with them?
You'll make girls like you more... Saying no to a horny dude is easy as blowing anyone else off.
>>5649568
>You'll make girls like you more
But if girls think i'm gay will I have any chance with them?
Yes, do it. Then go about as you normally would. It's fun and girls will indeed like you more.
>>17302980
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>>5649396
If you're going to beg people to do something about someone's post, at least point out the board.
I think he refers to
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>>5650223
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Just watched this. Did I like it, or was I offended?
I thought it was good, but kinda depressing on behalf of all the important characters.
I liked it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZS6bD3SpIvk
I was always mostly attracted to males and was pretty sure I'm gay, but lately I've been feeling more attracted to women than men, does that make me bi?
>>5649225
Seems like you've been cured of the homo. Congratulations!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyFQVZ2h0V8
>>5649389
The comments desu
How do you know who is gay?
by activating your handy dandy notebook
Asking
Sometimes I feel like I just do. A subconscious blast of indicators. Like, I've spotted the homo with my peripheral vision.
I say 'feel like', because I could obviously still be wrong.
Other than using gut instinct, you have to get closer.
Is it because blacks are truly apes, and are less capable of having an alternate sexuality, or fetish of some sort? Like, I've never heard of a black guy with a sissy fetish. Or is it because caucasians are just natural sensitive, pussies and develop these strange fixations in early childhood?
Its way more discouraged in the black community.since alot of black communities is heavily based on christian values not only that if you live in a ghetto neighborhood then theirs a way more likely chance of someone getting their ass kicked.
There are some black trannies so I'd assume some of them were AGP. Anyway, most AGPs also have a high IQ, something also not very common in black population.
>>5649014
This.
Also, nigger nip that shit early. They don't like faggots.
Do those who think lesbianism is a myth think bisexuality (at least in women) is a real thing or should the lgbt just be G and T because everything else isn't real
(pic unrelated)
>>5648913
I think bisexuality exists, so it should be GBT.
Lesbophobes usually are also biphobic. Just like homophobes are transphobic or "sassys effeminate bitchy gay" are biphobic, transphobic and have a límited view on sexuality
Hey guys! I'm a 20 y/o gay, male college student. I just thought I'd make this thread real quick to see if you guys had any tips or advice for me.
So basically I had sex with a guy for the first time this last weekend.. It was pretty awesome. I can give you guys the full detailed story in greentext if you want.
Anyways I enjoyed it and definitely want to do it again. I think we both had a good time. We watched a movie and had a few drinks and then had really really passionate sex. It was pretty amazing.
He is 27, so 7 years older than me. Sorry for being so long-winded. I'm wondering if I should wait to talk to him again to avoid coming off as clingy or something even though I think I really like him. I don't want to come on too strong too fast. And also I don't want to come off as immature, considering he's almost a decade older than me..
Any advice? should I wait until he talks to me, wait for a few more days then hit him up, or just stop playing games and hit him up tonight and say that I had fun the other night we should do it again etc.. etc..?
>>5648866
fuck off
>>5648866
I suppose sooner is better, but see what other people say.
Also I guess tell us the story if you want to
