Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 478. page
i've been thinking about this a lot lately and i feel like society and the trans community really push you to seek out this ideal of being a woman. you're supposed to identify strictly as a woman, and try everything you can to prove you're just a normal woman at heart. but i don't understand why that would have any appeal or make any sense when i can't think of a single thing that all cisgender women have in common, other than two x chromosomes and being referred to as women. i can't even see a chromosome or talk to a chromosome or anything like that, so i figure it would be weird to care about not having one. and what's the point in needing to be referred to specifically as a woman? i am what i am and no word is going to change that. as far as i'm concerned it doesn't really matter if people think i'm a woman, a man, or a fish. what matters is that i'm comfortable with my body, that i feel free to explore my femininity, and that i can be myself without feeling insecure about it. so why should i try to be anything in particular other than a well-adjusted, well-rounded, kind person?
i'm sorry about the wall of text but i just had a lot of thoughts that i wanted to get out
if you only read the title and respond to that then that's ok. i'm not expecting anyone to trudge through a wall of text when they don't want to
>>5632525
You already said that everyone is different.
I'm just nervous what picture of myself I show if I'm so obviously trans but don't try to fit into a female role at all.
Afterall I very much do want to be seen as female and I feel I got a lot of shortcomings to compensate for.
I think this would be much less of a concern if I pass.
earlier today a guy told me i wasn't trans because i said i don't want to be a woman. he said it doesn't matter that i take hormones, or that i mostly wear clothing for women, or that i wear makeup, or that i'm training my voice to be less resonant/higher, etc. if i don't have a strong feeling that i'm a woman, then i'm not trans. but i don't understand why anyone would try to be a woman when the word doesn't even really mean much of anything. i feel like it actually means a lot more to say that i'm feminine than to say that i'm a woman
Whu do trans people always look depressed? They never look happy no matter what they do.
not depressed porbably just sad
>>5632423
Look pretty miserable to be. Which makes me think its more of a mental illness imho.
>>5632418
Because being trans just sucks in every way?
And you can't give it a break either.
All of you are fags
>>5632187
*most of you are fags
>>5632187
Shit u got me
>>5632187
You're forgetting about the dykes and trannies, OP. But then I shouldn't expect any better from a faggot like OP.
Why are lesbians so jealous of Chad? They seem to be almost offended by them.
>>5632097
Look at those guns! They are clearly afraid they might lose when challenging a Chad to an arm wrestling contest for his ho. :^)
>>5632097
Shit, would fuck the left one in a heartbeat desu
gay general
study more - you know you should
>>5671729
Man I have
I only have accounting exam left
First for body goals.
Second for relationship goals..
I'm so lonely and bitter... Am I Liz lemon?
>masturbate at least daily
>normal cis guy
>stop masturbating
>after a few days i start wanting to be a girl
>masturbate again
>it goes away like before
T-this is normal right guys?
Does it mean that I've got a testosterone deficiency or something?
Like if it is, I'd rather get a suplement or something, cause it's getting harder and harder to fap (no pun pls).
>>5671081
AGP? I understand what you mean, but I've never really had a problem feeling like this. I'm pretty sure that I'm not genuine when I feel it, I'm pretty sure it's just a sexual thing. Maybe you are the same, but you are just dwelling on it heaps?
>>5671081
What do you mean when you say that it's getting harder and harder to fap?
>>5671106
Like I used to be able to fap to literally nothing. I looked at it mostly like a chore, so I would just masturbate doing whatever I was doing before a shower, not even thinking about it.
Now it takes an extremely specific type of pornography before I can even get erect.
>>5671094
I hope not. The two seem sorta independant of each other, but they don't ever happen at the same time.
