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How can I let loose and discover myself?
I see a lot of people pull off bizarre looks, lifestyles, or attitudes with confidence and comedy at their side.
I have trans feelings, but I have a hard time accepting them.
I can't help help but think it's a phase, but a lot of people have really shined as themselves in this new "phase".
More detailed info on my situation.
>comfortable with genitalia
>had feelings since elementary
>out to everyone
>have gf
>go out dressing with her often
>posts on /soc/ frequently
>gets rated high often
>i enjoy the compliments but it's more or less to confirm that other people see me as f when in public
>similar to how I choose female accounts in chats
>not to trap or attract, just be comfortable.
another piece about me from another thread
>Identity crisis
>Have transgender feelings since 8
>become publicly out at 16 to my mom
>get things started at around 19 (present)
>mom keeps thinking it's a phase
>says she doesn't really see it in me
>it starts to get into my head
>well, maybe i don't see it either?
>i'd always liked girly things, played girl characters, drew women, etc.
>but on the outside or as most people know me I was rather masculine, a confident boy
>i didn't dislike being the confident boy
>wonder if this is just a phase..
>could it just be AGP?
LSD
you will feel as yourself.
Spoilers: AGP isn't actually a real thing.
I'm from Bogota, Colombia. A big tourist destination for people worldwide with high inflation rate (so it's cheap for foreigners).
I've met some guys who've told me I'd be a good escort. I'm young, good looking, and a fluent English speaker.
I was wondering /lgbt/'s opinion on doing escort work. I'd be paid pretty well as long as I get the attention and marketing necessary. I'd be independent.
>>5640238
If you want the money and you don't mind selling your dignity, whatever. Why do you want us to tell you that you're worthless anyway and should just get the money if that's what you really want? Just do it, retard.
You know when you get a dry mouth because you get dehydrated so fast due to your spiro.
But then your mouth also gets dry because your high af.
Thats a thirsty girl.
P.S. smoke weed every day and shiet.
>>5640117
>Thats a thirsty girl.
Hngghhh.
>>5640117
i feel you man, i wake and bake every morning and night. the times i take my spiro
>>5640243
Do you ever grind up your spiro and snort it with your coke?
Is there any hope for someone like me? Even as a little child I always felt more womanly than male.. I absolutely hate my hairy fat male body and I hate being male in general. I don't have the money for surgery and I doubt I ever will as I'm uneducated at work a shit call center job with no savings.
I also have a medical problem.. I was addicted to heroin when I was a teenager and got so constipated that I pretty much destroyed my asshole. (See: bowel obstruction.) So even if I could transition over, no one is going to want to have sex with me because my only...
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>>5640092
I just don't get what you people are thinking when you toy around with heroin...
Why would you EVER think that's a good idea, unless you were going for the golden shot anyway?
>>5640jusyne be as cite as you cn anon =}
Just know you had your fun with heroin
I've never done it and never will do it, so you got something I don't.
tfw you will never be a skanky bimbo shaking your big bunda in front of a crowd of horny men.
why even live?
>2016
>being this autogynephilic
>>5639895
this is a perfectly fine mtf feel
>>5639871
C-Can you learn move like that?
Since I'm on hrt I noticed that my penis sometimes leaks fluid. Its really annoying because recently I also developed a rash there and the urologist said that its probably because of my smaller prostate because of the hormones and he can't do anything about it.
Does anyone else have the same problem?
>Starting hormones, destroying your perfectly good endocrine system to fulfill an extreme, self seeded sexual fetish. Natural selection is real my friends.
>>5639811
>doesn't want to destroy his own body to become his own fetish and fap his atrophied penis away while the song Goodbye Horses plays in the background
we got ourselves a pleb here
>>5639787
This might be TMI. I noticed there can be a little extra that comes out after I pee which is uncomfortable, but if I press that space in between the scrotum and anus, the rest comes out so it's not dribbling after.
Tell me /lgbt/, would you take in this syrian gay refugee? Give him a warm home and love him?
http://news.yahoo.com/gay-syrian-refugees-hope-life-tested-dutch-camps-034324173.html
>dutch camps
Oh these "poor" refugees are in for a nasty surprise.
>you will never know that feel when you experience the taste of Western freedom for the first time
One thing that confuses me is why he's surprised that he's bullied by other immigrants.
I mean aren't they part of the reason he fled from Syria to begin with?
http://www.buzzfeed.com/meredithtalusan/cissexist-bullshit-translator#.wpzeZDqoeX
If you're different, you have to be realistic enough to expect to be treated like you're different. You can't expect the whole world to bend over and kiss your ass and give you special treatment. Trans people are freaks, and I mean that in the best possible way. If I tell someone that I like trans people, they tell me I'm fetishizing them. if I tell people that I don't like trans people than they tell me that I'm a bigot. if I ignore them, than they accuse me...
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>>5639556
Okay?
Maybe you should tell that tumblr, because we're not the trannies you seem to be looking for.
>linking to buzzfeed
once again, OP is the biggest faggot of all
>Buzzfeed
Literally the shittest of shit-tier clickbait.
A 2 minute look through the comment section shows that the majority of trans folk commenting actually have no problem with this "cissexist bullshit".
Heard this today:
>"If people can't control their own emotions, then they have to start trying to control other people's behavior."
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAK0KXEpF8U&
Seems appropriate.
Hey /lgbt/ will I ever love again?
Yes, just steer clear of bisexuals from now on.
>>5638956
Yes. You dont believe it now but yes.
probably not
>19 yo
>in a relationship w/ a 23 yo dude who would kill for me
>he's really attractive but my love is fading for idk reason
What. Is. Going. On.
I have everything I've dreamt about
>>5638852
iktf anon, I think I'm broken or something.
>>5638852
Maybe you just have a boring life? Maybe your a boring person? Maybe you just need someone who knows how to have fun? I know myself that a normal life is a boring life, and that no matter how attractive a girl is, if shes to boring i cant enjoy her company.
>>5638852
You've just been romanticizing a relationship and secretly just want to be a rabid slut and your subconscious is afraid of commitment.
I have been with my husband for 3 years. I love him but I have been finding the intimacy very dull lately.
I have been having extreme urges to hook up with a stranger (no strings). I feel as if I need to experience my sexual side more before I completely settle down.
What are your thoughts?
Sounds like you can't stop being a gay male. If monogamy and dedication aren't for you, just say so and go back to doing what gay males do. Or, work out the details with the poor sap you're with to either improve the physical level of your relationship or tell them you want a fwb.
Tell your partner that you're finding it dull and see what you can both do to improve.
Thanks for your opinion. I don't want things to end between us. I have a feeling things have gotten boring for him too. So at least it's a level playing field (no pun). The way I see it, sex is sex and nothing more UNLESS the person you're with means something to you.
Is gay death only a thing for femmes? Cause guys age WAY better than girls.
Also, I'm 19 and still closeted, should I panic? Romance is a big thing for me, but hearing that I only have a few years left makes me panic and want to go full grindr slutmode. Though I am into older (masc) guys, so I'll still be able to keep high standards, right?
Gay death is a maymay. Unless you're only into slutty emo twinks I wouldn't worry too much.
>>5638751
It's bad but not as bad as you imagine it to be.
Those straight guys that are into women and secretly also wank to shemale porn ... those are the ones, for whom everyone over 25 or so is already way too old.
If you're simply gay and into other gay guys, you can relax, Anon.
>>5638751
I dunno I'm 26 and the only thing holding me back is that I'm an autistic retard. On dating sites it appears I have a pretty good chance I'm just incapable of social interaction.
It never even crossed my mind that I was a girl before I found out what transgender was in my adolescence (though I always knew I was different) - is this normal?
yeah, any other questions?
>>5638549
I never knew transgender was a thing when I knew wanted to be a girl so I just started hormones out of curiousity and then figured transsexuality actually exists.
Why would yours not be normal?
>>5638549
Not very unusual at all. A very large minority of trans people don't "get" a clear idea of their gender identity until after puberty/into adolescence, and becoming aware of transition is a big kick in the ass to give it a little thought.
So, yeah. You're in good company.
My dream is to live in a small neighborhood where everything is in walking distance, there's low crime rates, and I have a white collared job while my white husband has a blue collared job. How can I go about achieving this?
>>5638534
Be white?
>>5644068
and then get beat up for being a faggot
no thanks
Live a life free of sin and repent, so you can go to heaven.
