Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 293. page
I'm going to try to go stealth mode and buy some girls cloths at walmart. The thing is, I don't want to get noticed. How can I tell if something will fit on the fly? I mainly just want to get a top.
Check the sizing chart. (Google "brandname sizing chart")
For tops, shoulder and length measurements are best to go by. If it fits appropriately, the sleeves should not flare and the armpit area should not pinch. Flared sleeves are also sometimes a result of bad cuts.
>>5973458
>>5973512
Thanks! Does this seem right?
>As long as you don't grow up in legitimately dangerous circumstances you will most likely mature at a normal healthy rate and so will never do anything intentionally mean spirited or cruel from the age of like 14 onwards
>You won't feel the need to give other people a hard time to relieve insecurities and protect an ego
>You won't judge people because it'll seem creepy (rambling about strangers like you've known them for years doesn't become not weird just...
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Fear negates all the circumstances you described at first.
>>5973407
(Most) people aren't inherently malicious, often times these people are actually trying to help. Think of your stardard gay-bashing christfag. It's not that he or she hates gay people, it's that they honestly believe those people are misguided and they're doing their best to save them from hell. Or take your standard /pol/ack who doesn't agree with trannies. Most of those people seem like they actually sympathize with anons who suffer from gender dysphoria, but they seem to believe gender dysphoria...
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>>5973738
>Most of those people seem like they actually sympathize with anons who suffer from gender dysphoria
oh honey..
Is it false advertising to say I'm bi when I'm really only attracted to women and really femmy guys? I sometimes get messages from normal dudes on dating sites and I hate having to ignore them or turn them down cause I'm not into normal men at all. Sometimes I just chat with them for a while to be nice, but I feel like I'm leading them on. I honestly don't even know if I could do a ltr with a femme guy anyway cause they inevitably get more masculine as they age.
Would it be more practical to just say that I'm a lesbo?
Sexuality is fluid. I identify as gay; I've always been 90% gay and there is no reality in which I'd give the generic woman the time of day. It's just that sometimes I really, really want to bang a milf. I think it's a leftover perversion because I learned what sex was at age like, five, and I just imagined sleeping with every woman ever.
Funnily enough, I really only like older men as well. I'm sure there's something more to read into there but it doesn't bother me so I just fuggedaboudit.
>>5973105
Not really. it's not like there aren't straight or gay people who are only attracted to a certain type of person. Gays who only wants twinks, straight women who only want Chads, etc. Just put on your profile that you're bi but only like men if they're feminine or something.
>>5973391
This.
What's the problem with stating what you actually want.
Is it possible for me to unironically identify as 'gendermeme' without being seen as a joke?
Let me explain. My gender has been influenced by outside fads and expectations a lot. It's like the universe has 'shifts' between masculinity and femininity: for example, 2010 was midway through, and this caused me anxiety. 2013-2014 was VERY masculine with people like Kanye West gaining prominence again, and the appearance of lumbersexuality. The recent years, however, have been very femme and it feels like its staying like that, which makes me comfortable.
How do I avoid being made fun of for a legitimate, perceivable, time-measurable strand of genderfluidity? Are there any other gendermemes? Is there a potential new, easier to use name for this that still includes 'meme' because that's the core concept?
>>5973047
yr just an extra pretentious and ~~~unique~~~ transtrender, pls kill yrself
sincerely an actual trans person
>>5973069
>being seen as a joke after asking to not be seen as a joke
thanks anon this wouldve been you in the 90s
I feel like I can't possibly be the only gendermeme so that already invalidates accusations of being a special snowflake.
>>5973047
I honestly am a little disturbed and enlightened how much I identify with this post. I didn't know what we were was called Gendermeme but I think we're both very gendermeme.
If we're both gendermemes I'm sure this board has to be full of gendermemes too. I'd like to hear some of your stories about being gendermeme to help me know if this is something I should start identifying as, Its already spoken to me so I'm tempted to make it my entire personality right now.
Watching...
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They complain nobody likes trans girls
Find someone who likes trans girls
>eeewww a chaser
If anything this retarded logic is evidence that lots of trannys have female brains.
Trans girls are retards, go for traps instead
Say you went up to a straight male and you asked him out, but he asked for your positives compared to a "real woman", and would be willing to date you if you could answer him honestly.
Cause I'm having trouble trying to think of ANY positives. Dating a real woman has many benefits to the man in question that you could sort of apply to an M2F as well, but here are your negatives compared to a real woman:
-Can't rear children and continue his genetic line. Being with you is a dead end. (And saying "not all men want kids" is a pussy way...
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Literally only for fetish purposes
>>5972760
straight guys don't go for mtf girls
if you met a "straight guy" as a mtf he was most likely lying and was well aware that you were a mtf
Seen literally this exact copy and paste, word for word, a couple months back. Better luck next time.
>Are you made of solid gold that would be worth abandoning friends for?
Yes
Is there such thing as an attractive gay guy?
>>5972392
I'm a straight guy that exclusively fucks dudes
>>5972392
>cavill
>straight
lmao
P sure the first one is a lesbot, pham.
Are there any other trans here that go to Quest Labs on Bank Street in Granby, Connecticut to have their blood drawn?
Just wanted to ask some questions because I think I recall seeing a thread here a while back from someone who said they werent there and they mentioned being abused or whatever and I wanted to know if it matches up with my most recent experience.
Basically just want to ask questions, any help would be appreciated. I hope you're here and see this, whoever you were.
Is trans blood even human? i always wondered this.
>>5972064
No we're immortal superhuman vampires blessed with the power bestowed upon us by the ancient stone mask.
But seriously please help if you can.
Please respond.
Does this board have issues with gender fluidity or demisexuality? Obviously different people are different just wondering if it's generally a more inclusive board or not. My first reply was kinda hateful
>>5971859
back2tumblr with your memegenders
alternatively kys
>>5971859
I can't speak for the entire board but I think demisexuality/gender fluidity are ridiculous concepts. I don't hate the people, I just think they're confused
>>5971859
>gender fluid
>demisexual
straight cis people hijacking lgbt
So I need a question answered. I currently dating a transgirl, first time for me dating a transgirl. Going through hormones and has good development. Shes still working on voice training. I keep wanting to make sure I am saying the right terms and everything. So I asked her some questions like "How do you refer to your genitals as to not offend?" which she was very pleased with me asking before assuming. She refers to her penis as a clit, I don't always want to say that as the word clit is cheesy and will eventually be awkward to only say that. What are some other...
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>>5971566
Oh boy are you in the wrong place, m8... Ask her about this, for real, she'll appreciate it.
>>5971613
I would, but im trying not to bring it up anymore to stop reminding her.
I would just say private area.
Am I the only one who stopped watching RuPaul's Drag Race after Season 5? It seems like the show went down hill from there, especially with Carmen Carrera's extremeist SJW campaign against "She-Mail" because it sounds like "She-Male"
>Durr dah durr
Is it just me or has the show gone down hill not only with the quality of drag queens but with the pc bullshit, with whatever that phrase is that they replaced she mail with.
Season 6 was the best tho. This one probably will be even better (and let's just pretend that s7 never existed).
>>5971561
four was the best.
>>5971561
Haven't watched, what was bad with season 7?
Can someone explain to me why the gay community is so racist? I can understand not being attracted to X, but why do so many of you allow this lack of attraction to dictate your social behaviors? You do realize that you don't need to be sexually attracted to someone in order to associate with them, correct? Is it just traditional racism, where you prefer to associate with exclusively white people, or are you people literally so sex crazed that you feel like you must experience sexual attraction just to talk to someone? Which is it?
>>5971250
>talking to people you are not atracted to
For what purpose? What can they give you someobe you'd like to fuck can't?
Unless you have the obligation to talk to them (like your boss), it's a huge waste of time
I went to china just over christmas and I felt the same thing. Why were these chinese so racist for just hanging out with other chinese people? The lack of diversity really bothered me.
Later I found a group in a slightly seedy bar that told me that many chinese were racist. Rich chinese people were often fair skinned and liked to travel to places like Thailand, were they discriminate against the thai-chinese that are more brown skinned, and they would not hang out with them. It seems the lighter your skin is in china the more you are revered. Really disgusting.
>>5971441
>No one ever talks to you because you're so unattractive.
It's so lonely being me.
Is it offensive to trans people that androgen blockers for "chemical castration" are sometimes offered as a form of punishment for sex abuse felons?
http://www.citynews.ca/2016/04/04/could-chemical-castration-cure-gordon-stuckless/
>>5971022
One more step to the end of masculinity, I'm for it
>>5971022
No it's hilarious
>>5971022
Why would they find it offensive?
Legit asking, is it possible to have a male friend who's straight?
I recently made friends with someone and every time we interact, I get a slight erection. I very much want this to be friendship only, but I can't help it if he has a cute face.
Yes.
Act like a goddamn adult.
>>5971008
Just don't catch feelings for him. I have a straight who I didn't think much of at first but then he got too comfortable near me and now I have a crush on him.
I never thought that I would fall for the 'falling in love with the straight guy' thing but I did. Just be careful. I'm paying for it now and it sucks.
>>5971046
Not OP but it happened to me once. As a freshman in high school there was a guy who I THOUGHT was flirting with me (even gave me backrubs) but I came out and he was disgusted.
Being gay fucking sucks.
So I'm engaged to my long term girlfriend, but I want to explore my sexuality before we tie the knot.
I've dreamed of getting fucked in the ass hard while someone else blows me.
How would I go about fulfilling this, when I only have straight friends?
>>5970773
Bath house
Buy two dogs
Ask your gf is she wants to invite another guy in for a one night thing.
