Is it ever worth it to confess to your straight friend?
I've been crushing hard on my friend and I've felt the urge to just confess to him to get it off my chest. I don't know what it would accomplish but I just want to get it out in the open and try to move on from there, but IDK if that would actually do anything or help at all.
are you kidding me..
If you don't mind losing a friend? Sure
Mind losing him as friend? NO
Even though you would risk making it a bit awkward I don't agree with the posters above saying you'd lose a friend. Does your friend already know you're interested in men? And are they accepting of that? If they have no problem with it I don't think you will lose a friend because either (1) they aren't into you and you move on in order to maintain friends or (2) the feelings are returned and all is good.
How long have you liked them OP?
I am very much on the stance that you should tell him just because (I might be assuming) but it can be super overwhelming and stressfull to keep feelings bottled up. I had, and still have, a crush on someone and that has been going on for 7 years and I regret it every day that I didn't say something sooner.
Sorry if I started rambling but let us know OP what you decide and how it goes, I'm rooting for you!!
Hey /lgbt/
I'm less than a year from finishing law school now. I'm working in a law office and making some money for myself.
The problem is, I'm a depressed tranny that goes to work in a suit every day. I'm so busy between work and school that I barely can keep myself shaved, and I've already put on 5 pounds due to depression eating. I thought having some money would get me to get mones faster, but I feel like I'm slipping further away due to never having any time to myself. And I'll be 25 in August. I don't want someone's charity, and have never used my trans identification to get further in life, my law school completely unaware of me being trans until the Dean had me in contracts in my first semester. But I'm starting to see no way else to get to where I wanna be. I've already been to a shrink and have been diagnosed with dysphoria.
What I'm asking is, should I give it all up? Find a sugar daddy and just become a bimbo. And where would one find someone willing to do this? Fetlife? I don't want a chaser that'll drop me halfway through the process. I suppose I should say that I'm very much willing to become a bimbo like Amy Anderssen. I want to get a full body make-over, even willing to give up a row of ribs or two. How do the porn trannies get their huge fake tits and fake asses from?
Plz halp
>>5966695
Qt 8/10 gril > brainless bimbo
>>5966874
I mean. I'll still be a lawyer/lawschool educated. Intelligence diminishing pills don't exist as far as I know.
If you want to think, dress, and act like a bimbo, you can listen to hypnosis recordings. There are many, but the most popular ones are the Little Miss Squidgy series by Miss Julie (TTS voice) and Bimbo Blessing by Goddess Gracie (also TTS) which is free.
can we have a hugbox thread please?
Have you tried OKCupid? I don't pass,live as dude and I'm thinking about making a account.
I'm sure they're some people out there that will give a girl that looks like a boy but is really a girl on the inside a chance. At least I fucking hope so ;_;
>>5966647
*hug*
>>5966686
I downloaded the app but didn't make it very far. Maybe I can change search parameters or something but it only found one person near me?
also I'm scared to upload a pic. People I know might see it :(
Detroit city baby
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dte5Z9j9oWA
my home town :)))
That is absolute bull shit. I had to run away from Detroit, Motherfuckers suck the dick of the church.
fuck you
Hello /lgbt/, I'm an heterosexual young man here, but I would like to add some gay and trans people for becoming my friend on Steam. If anybody is okay, please don't hesitate and add me as a friend, we can play together and having fun. :^)
>http://steamcommunity.com/id/ashemaletube
>>5966504
Cool :)
>>5966504
Cute, but I'm not on steam.
>>5966504
>heterosexual
Yeah, right.
for like 20 seconds and tried to fuck a trap but couldn't get hard. Am I gay? I mean I jerk off to shemales, but when the reality set in, I just couldn't get it up, and sucking dick was the fucking worst thing ever.
There is no going back now.
You're 100% gay and doomed to the life as a homosexual man. Sell all your jeans and start buying G-strings.
Cmon dude.
Folks experiment, dont even worry about it just bang what you like.
>>5966230
Are you from the states? Your story seems kinda similar. I was on receiving end.
>>5966262
i am. lol
Anons, I need your help with one thing, basically a simple question I guess.
How can I know if I'm trans?
I don't want to go to a therapist before being at least somewhat sure I'm really trans.
Can any of you ask me something or at least help me find out what's going on with me? I can answer anything you throw at me I just want to get this bug out of my mind.
Sorry if I'm sounding stupid or you're all sick of people asking the same question over and over.
>>5966133
do you think you're a male/female?
do you like being a male/female?
>>5966139
>do you think you're a male/female?
I don't really know, this bugs me out. Biologically I'm obviously male but there's something wrong with me.
>do you like being a male/female?
Hell no, when I go outside I feel like everyone is looking at me and I'm super uncomfortable with myself.
Give me a more complex set of questions please, This is not really giving me confidence in myself and what I am.
What kind of Pokemon are you, /lgbt/?
Pic related, it's a butt plug.
Ditto
I can be whatever you want me to be
Also passing advice thread
>put beanie on
>insta pass
Also mods I'm 19 not 17 this website just sucks ass at age
>>5966032
17 is not that far off from 19, just like having a baby face is not that far off from looking like an ugly girl.
>>5966046
I was just making it clear to avoid a false ban kek
Computers are not smart enough to look at jawlines it seems.
So, I'm 24, thinking of transitioning, everyone I care about knows it and has my back.
But the big problem is, could I ever pass transitioning at 24? Is it even worth it?
unless you look like that and are asian then no i'm sorry
>>5965668
Age isn't the deciding factor, it's genes. But generally the older you are, the more difficult it will be, but 24 isn't too late at all for most transgirls.
.. It just all depends on how much you were shafted by testosterone I guess. Remember, bone structure stays, but fat distribution doesn't, and same with muscles, and so on and so fourth.
We'd have to see a picture to judge, honestly. But you can look through other girl's timelines and compare your own facial features with theirs. http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
>>5965668
Genes > age.
Its near impossible to predict.
Or go and listen to the self-loathing memelords in eternal self pity over not transitioning at 3 years old.
How can i maintein my cock erection and size while being in sissymones?
>>5965376
What makes you think you need your cock to be firm when you're a sissy? Yours should just flop around uselessly.
>sissymones
>wanting to get erections
>fucking "sissymones"
AGP should not transition.
touch it
When I first started to use 4chan I thought it was just a place for shits and giggles. I only really knew about /b/ so that's what I would use but I have now ended up here and after reading posts on her for like an hour I would like to say I feel really welcome and like I have found my people.
Thank you
You're welcome anon, I hope you enjoy your time here.
>>5965352
I'm glad you feel welcome
stay safe
>>5965352
I bet yer a tranny.
The other best boards are /d/ and possibly /tg/, btw.
Never been on this board before but /b/ was fucking useless, apologies if this isn't the kind of thing you're supposed to post here, BUT:
basically ive got this super femmy friend, even without hormones. Hes been dropping me hints left right and center that hes a bit of a sissy and a CD.
So besides the obvious, getting him really fucked on drink and drugs and broaching the topic, how can i subtly indicate that id like him to dress up and feel free to act more femmy around me.
We're good friends so I dont just want to lay it all out there and get completely shot down and lose a friend over it, but I need a way of subtly introducing the topic whilst still being able to play it off as a joke or some shit.
Any of you had any experience with subtly discussing your friends gender issues without completely alienating them?
I've got the clothes, need a bit of makeup, just need the makeup now.
But seriously, any help would be appreciated, im new to this kinda thing, and again, sorry for any faux pas
i just realised the formatting in that post was a nightmare, sorry
PLEASE DON'T TELL ME THAT'S A MAN.
Next time he drops a hint, drop a hint back.
I just want to say that if you ever see a 'bait' thread about transgender people chances are that person is repressed.
I say this because I was that person. I would come in here quite regularly spout bullshit. All the terrible /pol/ arguments you can think of;
'muh chromosomes' 'you'll always be a mutilated man' 'it harms children' 'mentally ill'
I did it all.
Why? Because I was fighting against my own transgender thoughts. I wanted to so desperately prove that this was wrong so I could also believe that I wasn't really a tranny, that maybe there was a chance if I proved it wrong then I would stop my own thoughts.
That isn't to say all bait threads are closeted people, but whenever I see them I see my closeted self in these posts.
We know
>>5964997
I'm sorry if someone here actually believed my bullshit or felt bad because of my shitty posts.
I'm transitioning now btw.
Hah, the floundering is pretty transparent sometimes.
Good on you, OP, for working through your shit.
What if I had an orchi and doctors meanwhile discovered a method of turning off genes that make testicles testicles reverting them to ovaries? I can't even decide to go ahead with the orchi because the idea of eliminating my chance at fixing my ovaries rustles my autism.
>mfw seeing my gonads ending up in the hospital trash can
oh dog what done
>>5964891
if they were able to do that they could grow you a new pair and that wouldn't happen until you were old as fuck so...
cut off your balls
CUT OFF YOUR BALLS
cut. OFF. your. B A L L S
>>5964891
Just cum into a 3d printed uterus
