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What's the safest way to experiment? Craigslist seems like it's begging for an STD, and going to a gay bar seems like committing too much for something I'm unsure about.
I don't even feel particularly attracted to guys, but I like crossdressing. So it's kinda just something that I want to try once... Thoughts?
>>5383964
Going to a bar isn't a big commitment. Going in drag is probably fine, but don't expect a ton of guys to want to experiment with a xdresser. I might, but most guys want masculine hairballs. Just going out en femme might scratch your itch.
>>5384013
Well, I don't feel a desire to do anything in drag - if I experimented, I'd probably not go far enough to dress up anyways. Maybe if I figured out I really liked it, but I'd have to see.
I don't want to go out dressed at all - I don't think I'd ever want to no matter what. Too much of a stigma, and it's not part of my identity in any way. Bars are a hard option because I know a LOT of people in my city. I'd probably run into someone I know, and that would cause a...
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>>5383964
I dunno really but wear a condom, or make him rather. Even if you really don't think you'll need it, gay men are infested with disease. Maybe date them for a few days or a week first, give some meaning to it besides sexual tension so it's interesting too.
mtf here, is my voice passable?
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1JgTfF23QXs
idk why but that screechy sonic them feels really soothing to me.
You pass.
11/10 you fooled me.
>tfw you feel pretty for the first time
>>5377394
pretty fucking depressed
>>5377394
Post butt in panties bb.
>>5377394
sorry hon, you're not fooling anybody but yourself.
Do you like how you look?
Are you attracted to yourself?
Maybe I have gender dysphoria.
But even if I were as sexy as a man could possibly be, in any shape/mode/type/race, I can't imagine being able to look in the mirror and feel happy with myself.
But I could if I were a pretty girl.
I'm pretty fucked up right?
>>5377128
Welcome to being trans, friend.
I can't remember the last time I looked at myself in the mirror and got depressed.
probably when I was a little kid or something.
I have terrible acne scars and oily skin.
I'm also really fat and not in a cute chubby way.
My face is also uneven and I have very droopy eyes.
the older I get the grosser I look.
its kinda funny
not really though
>>5377128
>But even if I were as sexy as a man could possibly be, in any shape/mode/type/race, I can't imagine being able to look in the mirror and feel happy with myself.
>But I could if I were a pretty girl.
That's a pretty tranny thing to say desu senpai. Might wanna think on that a little
Have you ever mixed sex with and kind of drug? Once I dated that guy that really was into marijuana and we smoke pot after I bottomed to him and the whole experience was the best sexual and emotional experience I ever had, I really felt connected to him at that post orgasm high. Tell me your stories of drug use and sex!
Took acid, smoked weed and fucked my (now) ex for hours. Shit was amazing. I really know why the hippies did it back in the day now.
Yeah either i'm high and fly high fucking with my bf, or i'm alone and I tend to stroke at least one time during my buzz... shit feels soo good
I once snorted xanax with this guy and we fucked for HOURS. Can't remember most of it. We didn't even remember his brother walked in on us that night lel.
>>5389134
>>5390904
Bumping for answers
Post qts you're too scared to talk to
>>5390908
gross
I'm bad at making new threads edition
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>>5390195
I know all that you dummy, I even said if you don't want to post it here don't or just write it out in a word doc to yourself.
>>5390219
I hope he brings me a rhinoplasty and a bf.
>>5390222
>what did you do ?
got tied up and stuff
>wat.jpg
I don't have anything against traditions and holidays as such, I'd rather not associate them with religion though.
Why are gay men insanely narcissistic?
Not trolling. Every gay man I know is a #yoloselfieswag drone, whether they are 14 or 50.
>>5389882
It's not that gay people are insanely narcissistic, it's just that insanely narcissistic people all become gay
The flamboyant gay men you see all the time are narcissistic. The quieter ones minding their business not being complete divas aren't.
You know, like how some straight people are narcissists, and if you see them you think "god he's such an asshole", but don't give a passing thought to people that don't give you a reason to.
The difference is that you're falsely associating gay narcissists' narcissism with their being gay, but not associating a straight narcissist's narcissism with their being straight.
What gives, faggot?
>why do i notice attention whores more than normal people
gee, i don't know
I have a problem.
I'm ftm, 21, entirely pre-op, gay, and simply terrified of sex. As in, I sometimes remember that dating involves sex and get so scared and upset that I cry for a few hours and sometimes need to self-harm to calm myself down. This would not be a problem, but I'm also painfully lonely and want a relationship.
I've never been abused or had bad experiences with men (straight or gay) and save for dysphoria, I can't imagine where the dread comes from. I'm not an asexual, I want sex in theory but not in practice.
How do I overcome...
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You could date someone who struggles finding a date at all and then they would be content of merely having someone and not mind not having sex.
But in all seriousness you need to sit down, possibly write down why you might be afraid of it. Convince to yourself it isn't that bad.
Then watch porn and realize nothing immediately bad happens after sex.
Unfortunately in this hypersexualized society we exist in, finding an abstinent person is near impossible.
>>5389721
Where do I find a guy like that?
The only guys on Grindr want sex ASAP and the only guys on OkCupid are far far away, too old and crazy.
I hate to be picky but I have first hand experience that +10 year age differences in relationships don't work.
Also I can't find any of them attractive and I'm scared of all of them.
>>5389711
Do you dear anything in particular about sex?
I would have asked this in /adv/ but I would realistically value your input more.
After submitting an application and interviewing, I am about to start working in gay porn. I haven't fully accepted the offer yet, because I wanted to take some time to think about it.
I am doing this for the extra money. However, there are some things that make me worry that I don't think I've ever had full answers to.
Will I be safe being a gay "pornstar"? They say that they make sure everyone is clean, but I have doubts.
We have not discussed...
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>>5389604
Well, I know zip about the business, but for safety questions, I assume you're not going to do bareback stuff? Most studios/whatever don't I assume, but that's the one thing to worry about no?
>>5389636
The studio I'm in talks with does have some bareback scenes, and I'm not sure if that's something they'll give me a say in or not if I sign with them...
But yeah, safety is one of the things that's making me uneasy about all of this. I'm sort of assuming that I'll be taken care of since they'll be making sure everyone's good and whatnot, but I doubt things are perfect in that kind of industry. It scares me.
The majority of the models are twinks, by the way.
You're scared. You're scared because you think there's still hope.
The only hope you have is to accept the fact that you already have HIV. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you'll be able to function as a porn star is supposed to function.
What tribe do you or your qt come from?
Old thread
>>5387575
>>5389130
That's nice. It's my favorite place on earth too, but I've never been overseas.
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0kiap0SQmMk
Enjoy the rest of your day, my Nordic friend.
>>5389134
your tiny chat doesn't work
>>5389149
Come visit me in New Zealand.
Is transgender dysphoria fundamentally different from other forms of dysphoria people feel and demand that they have their bodies altered to fit what they think it should be in their mind? A woman who blinds herself because she feels blind inside, a woman who wants to be crippled because she feels like a wheelchairbound person, the boy who wants to be korean because he feels korean on the inside.
Shouldn't these people all be grouped together? It seems like at their core their mental issues and needs are the same as trans ones. Do you think these people should be...
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>>5389068
Sure.
If you read some of the conclusions of studies regarding biid and sex dysphoria, there is an overlap with the idea of an incorrectly integrated neurological body map. The primary difference is that while dysphoria diminishes significantly with hormones and surgery, biid sufferers, as those with dysmorphia, tend to merely shift the focus of their discomfort to another aspect of their body, and so biid is comparatively less successfully mitigated with surgical intervention.
Basically, a little bit, but not really.
Yeah, it's the same shit. Also, many of those limb dysphoric people end up self-inflicting wounds upon themselves, forcing their docs to amputate the limbs.
The question is, if one believes they will lead a happier life presenting as another gender or losing a certain limb, is it really that bad to cater to it? Sure, it's fucked up pumping hormones into your body and getting your dick chopped off but really, do you realize how little we know about the human mind compared to what we know about the body?
You could say that since we don't know shit...
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I, for one welcome our new Insect Overlords
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â–¶Makeup Tutorial: http://imgur.com/a/JO33K/
â–¶MTF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/36HC6ZmT (embed)
â–¶Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
â–¶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
â–¶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
â–¶Voice...
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if anyone want a santa hat added to their reaction picture I will do so for free
>>5388601
:(
>>5388621
ernest though
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaMMro3VEmA
>>5388527
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bag1gUxuU0g
>>5388632
see
How do you deal with ignorance or bigots? Like if someone says something hateful to you, to make you feel bad? Or maybe someone who is genuinely misinformed about the lgbtqap community?
>My friends tell me they don't believe in bisexuality, because they don't understand how a person can like multiple genders.
>Calmly explain to them that the sexuality spectrum isn't simply gay and straight and that there is so many things in between.
I don't really get angry at ignorance unless it has...
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>>5388343
>lgbtqap community
>p
See this right here! Vote Trump!
>>5388355
You don't believe in pansexuality?
>>5388370
Just another special snowflake.
How are you holding up during this holiday season?
Old stuff >>5386160
>tfw legit have a bunch in common with rugby
>tfw understand his humor
>tfw straight man with a small crush on rugby because he's funny as shit and im funny
>im muscular abd hairy and slightly overweight and not his type
>completely understand his feels about newfags and general faggots taking everything so seriously on the internet
Why is rugby so cool family?
>>5387587
iktf
wussup trippy baybays?
