Straight woman here. I think a guy I'm into is gay.
> Been kinda crushing on this guy.
> Get to know him over time.
> Finally decide to ask him out.
> " No thanks, not interested in a relationship right now. "
> Hrm, well damn. Maybe I can persuade him.
> " It doesn't necessarily have to be a committed thing. "
> " We could just fool around and have fun for a while. "
> He looks slightly irritated.
> " I'm a virgin. "
> Aside from being so open about it, he said that in a very dismissive way. Almost as though he was saying it more to get me to leave him alone than because it's the truth.
> Think for a minute, decide to get a bit flirtier.
> " Well I could help you fix that. "
> He laughs.
> " Nah, 26 years so far without, and I've never particularly cared. I'm sure the next 26 will be a breeze. You have a good one though. "
> He leaves.
> I don't even understand what just happened.
I'm curious, because the only explanation is that he's gay and doesn't want to come out. So, is there anyway to tell?
What a badass, rekt
Some men are stoic as fuck like that.
Or aesexual, but face it Franny, even if he was straight he's just not into you
Can somebody explain to me why most people on this board hate Caitlyn Jenner so much?
Murderer
He's a mentally ill circus act who parades himself on the mass media stage and wants to be treated as a hero for embracing his mental disease.
It seems that trannies A. Dislike much of what Jenner has stated and done in terms of lgbt opinions, his seeming lack of desire to try to pass with voice etc, and the car killing thing, and B. Are further pissed that this person that they despise is now more or less seen as the face and spokesperson for trans issues.
Hey bi people who are sexually attracted to both sexes but "romantically attracted" only to the opposite sex:
Do you really believe sexual and romantic attraction are separate (per tumblr) or do you just want a socially acceptable life?
>>5337675
I'm arguably bi but I've only ever been able to maintain romantic feelings for same gender relationships. So a bit of an inverse of your question target but yeah I think their separate. The things I'll pop a boner over are hilariously varied but my emotional attachments just aren't there, once the initial lust fades a bit the lack of romantic feelings invariably makes the previous object of attraction becomes a bit gross.
To put it another more crude way, once my boner stops overriding my logic I lose all interest. Being aware of that though ended with me being monogamous. Almost 11 years now actually.
>>5337675
Depends on the person.
I could see a bitchy twink that embodies all the negative gay stereotypes of being a club ho and "Spheakhs like lykea fag yaknowhatImean?" and only want to fuck him/xim/xir. I could also see a weak femboi who is the perfect antidote to all the bitchy vaginal jew bitchery and marry him to avoid being screwed in the divorce.
But it may vary for others.
>>5337742
>a bit the lack of romantic feelings invariably makes the previous object of attraction becomes a bit gross
Da fuq did I just read?
Any bi people here who are attracted to androgynous males above all others?
I'm attracted to andro/fem guys exclusively, masculinity is gross.
>>5312712
Bi guy here. This is me exactly. Fuck.
>>5312780
The image?
Post pics!
(Self-)Acceptance Edition
Have you come to accept your sexuality? Yourself? Care to share anything about your journey to acceptance?
Old: >>5108801
Friendly reminder that you can hide the thread by clicking the little minus sign to the left, or by filtering "/acegen/" through 4chan's settings (top right). For those of you who continue to insist that we do not belong here: /lgbt/ is the most relevant board on 4chan for the discussion of GSRMs (gender, sexual, romantic minorities) which includes asexuals and asexuality
>So, what exactly IS asexuality?
There are two commonly used definitions, the first (from dictionary.reference.com):
asexual (a-sek-shoo-el) in medicine
3. lacking interest or desire in sex
And the second (from asexuality.org):
An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction
(to prevent confusion; latter preferred)
>soitsfuckingnothing.jpg
If it helps, asexuality is recognized in the DSM-V: "if a lifelong lack of sexual desire is better explained by one's self-identification as 'asexual', then a diagnosis of... [male/female sexual/arousal disorder]... is not made."
>Okay, so, that didn't actually tell me anything.
So you want to read more about asexuality. Cool.
If you want science:
http://www.asexualexplorations.net/home/extantresearch.html
If you want popular articles/videos/websites:
AVEN - The Asexuality Visibility & Education Network (asexuality.org)
Asexuality 101 (asexualawarenessweek.com/asexuality-101/)
Letters to an Asexual (and other relevant videos) (youtube.com/user/swankivy)
>/acegen/ halp! I think I might be asexual!
Do either of the above definitions apply to you? Both? Yes? No? Not sure? Start by asking yourself whether or not you experience sexual attraction as it is described here: http://imgur.com/pdIxHYc
>[questiongoeshere]
Hey, we're pretty chill, so if you've got a question: ask it.
Just don't hold it against us if we take awhile to get back to you; we're the slowest general on the board.
Where do I find an ace homo? Where do you all congregate. I must know this!
>>5170264
You know, I don't really think many asexuals congregate to begin with
>tfw no one believes you when you say you don't masturbate and never have
As a tranny, how do I make myself more fuckable to straight guys and chasers alike?
>>5377443
kill yourself. then no one has to put up with your tranny shit anymore
Colostomy.
>>5377449
wow rude, kid
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Previous thread >>5375151
xth for elanna
mtfg, is it a weak beer, strong beer, or whiskey night?
>>5376790
Let's just cross our fingers and hope Angie and Kayla don't see this thread.
Reminder that you too can be a pretty girl (or boy). All you need is an Oculus, a Leap Motion, and a little bit of patience.
>>5375957
You know, I may never be able to transition, but perhaps VR that send information directly to your brain via your nerval network will become available just before I die. At least then I can be truly happy.
>>5377140
I'd be amazed if that level of VR showed up before indefinite biological life extension.
>>5377161
>indefinite biological life extension.
any estimates for when this could become real?
>tfw i can and i enjoy to get off to nude men fapping and cocks, but 3D gay sex is 2nasty4me
>tfw im mostly romantically attracted to women
>tfw i also like nude women and can fap to them as well
what the fuck am i? i would consider myself bisexual, but irl i always tend to stick to girls only, i love them too much, on the contrary i get disgusted by gay people and i want to avoid them as much as posible but when i fap i almost always end up searching for men or yaoi
>>5374424
You're attracted to men, but not gay sex? Sounds like denial.
>>5374424
>Being this deep in denial
>>5374424
Being disgusted by gay people and avoiding them while masturbating to pictures of men all the time sounds a lot like being in the closet.
The only correct answer to "what sexual orientation am I?" is "who the fuck cares".
Hai /lgbt/~ :3 Kinda new posting here, but I really need your wisdom and protips in a thing or two that are bothering me every single day.. So:
I'm kind of a femboi.
[ 22 // Bi (F15%--M85%) // Bot/Sub ]
Not even "kind of". Those very few, carefully chosen friends and people that i hang around with, can witness the real, playful, feminine, fashionate, submissive, emotional/poetic, and hygienic me.
They are extremely scarse, and in very, VEry few in numbers, which means i'm lonely as fuck....
And that is only, because I've had a ROUGH past so far. I deeply fear discrimination, used to violence, and have had to go through a mixture of stalking, vandalizing, and extreme bullying -- for, get this,
TEN-FUCKING-YEARS.
All year round.
I was an easy target. Not bi/gay/femboi yet, but i got angry VERY easily.
Also i was severely depressed, confused, REALLY anxious, and got VERY pissed off very easily.
And to think -- from such pathetic thtings as pointing that i fo exmpl had a wrong colored shirt..
I dropped out of school because i began abusing narcotics -- couldn't take the torture anymore and broke down. Too many missed courses.
Began with pot like everyone, but my love 4 alcohol increased a LOT in 1,5 years..
That drunken stupor: "lawl i can try dat jhusth onche" led to harder and harder drugs like near pure speed, meth, cocaine, tranqs/benzos, psychedelics, RCs, and finally my kryptonite:
>STRONG opioids
(painkillers like: fentanyl, oxy, hydromorphone, morphine, heroin, methadone, buprenorphine, and all you can imagine)
Mostly i took i.v. speedballs with either
oxy, sub, or fent + F'ing strong european speed paste which was _exceptionally_ pure sulfate. (also called "base" somewhere, just sayin.)
The amount of my friends and kinda-friends is under 10 who accept me for kinda who i am
So basically I still live an extremely bizarre life. Some of you might guess who i am, by this post.
but yaya, I need your help now. This is not the time to F around.. Please.
Whats your question?
>>5373605
lol this.
you only got a few friends, but they're real friends, and sounds like your worst days are behind ya.
>>5373591
I don't see what the problem is.
sag for shitthread
What's the best way of chasing cross dressers and transgender people?
Be a 9/10
otherwise kill yourself
>>5373520
I mean, I get women, it's not hard, but it's hard separating women from transgender.
>>5373502
in the western world, being a girl.
in 3rd world, being a man.
das about it.
Is there any kind of community that isn't tumblr that accepts agender as a legit identity? I am agender and I feel dysphoria regarding both presenting male or female, I've felt this way ever since puberty made me change. Sure it was alright meeting a couple of people on tumblr who weren't fucking insane and didn't make a habit of doxxing people who inadvertently misgendered them when they wore a dress and makeup, but trying to find like-minded people who aren't demiagenderflux-girls makes you feel kind of lonely.
>>5373396
>I am without gender, or "Agender"
>I feel gender dysphoria.
It's one or the other, shitbag.
>>5373404
/thread
>>5373396
Good luck. Some truscum bloggers are pretty open to non-binary people (with dysphoria), including agender people. But since all the ones I know have dropped the truscum name (because like any word, a whole buncha stupid people started using it), good luck again in finding them.
...try snarkytransman and sidneyia. Off the top of my head, they're okay.
>That feel when you're Catholic and homosexual, and actually believe in the religion and other paranormal phenomena, but still get hurt that people only see you as a piece of filth
>That feel when they just see the (great) love you had for your ex-partner as simply "lust", but you know it was much more than that, but no matter how you explain it to them, they will always say it was nothing but "lust"
It actually hurts a lot.
>>5368292
Nobody can take your love away, pal.
Do you think going Lutheran might help?
>>5368292
>That feel when they just see the (great) love you had for your ex-partner as simply "lust", but you know it was much more than that, but no matter how you explain it to them, they will always say it was nothing but "lust" brainwashing does that to you
>>5368337
>going Lutheran might help?
I don't think so. See, I actually believe in the faith (probably the result of always having believed - to this day - in the supernatural/paranormal). I know it sounds silly, but it's the way it is.
I just wish that little line from Corinthians didn't exist. It's just a tiny little line, just one out of an entire compilation that took thousands of years to put together - but the impact it has.
http://www.vice.com/read/the-week-long-meth-fuelled-sex-parties-taking-over-londons-gay-scene
"“People are often awake for days with no food or water, just fizzy drinks and Dunns River Nurishment [a nutritional milk supplement]," Tim told me. "But the stupid thing is that no one can ever come, because crystal meth stops you from coming—as does Viagra—so it's just never-ending sex. It’s painful. Most people end up with no skin on their dicks and some end up in hospital because of panic attacks brought on by too much crystal,” he continued."
______________________
Please tell me this shit is not making a comeback across the pond.
We dealt with train wreck of a phenomenon in the 90's and it destroyed countless young lives.
It was to the young gay scene what crack was to the blacks in the 80's. Nothing short of dropping a bomb on a population.
For gods sake, have your fun, but stay away from this shit.
If you're already doing meth it's pretty safe to say your life has already gone straight down the shitter.
Gays once again leading the way in disgusting self-destructive behavior.
>>5367763
We'll sidestep the sensationalist skinless dick bit.
Not to take away from the tragedy, but to focus attention on solutions: the substance doesn't matter. You could inject a gallon of absinthe in your scrotum. People in a "sex party scene" are going to destroy themselves somehow because they have deep issues and lack of healthy support.
Post waifus and husbandos, qt girls and qt boys, handsome men and handsome women.
Keep it sfw.
Sherry Stringfield <3
My handsome man-dar is shit but here's a surgeon at least
