Anyone else with sex anxiety? Im a gay male in my 20s, consider myself well educated in terms of safe sex and the facts, but for some reason I have never been able to overcome the social and health anxieties that come with it.
Ive always read that men think with their dicks, not their brains, but i feel like that couldnt be farther from the truth for me. Ive had sex (foreplay & oral) with about 7 guys, and anal with three of them. Ive had moments of pleasure during these times but there is always this cloud of anxiety that prevents me from truly enjoying sex.
I see others having extremely fulfilling sex lives- parties, orgies, etc. and it just sort of makes me feel like less of a homosexual. I'm not saying i want to turn into a total slut and throw caution to the wind-- but i just want to have an active, healthy, sex life.
I read things like the article below or hear stories from friends and i just get this sinking, horrible pit of envy and sadness in my stomach. That ive missed out and seem to be the only queer with this problem. https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/los-angeles-has-the-best-glory-hole-in-america
>>6151387
Grass is always greener on the other side. Get a bf that loves you. Or maaayyybe dont make your identity entirely dependant on your sex life and be a human with hobbies and do stuff? Youll figure it out eventually, anon.
>>6151387
Dude, OP, do not sweat feeling like you're alone with this. I'm the exact same way, I've done foreplay/oral with only three men and never tried anal. I thought that once I took the plunge and met with a few guys the anxiety would dissipate but it didn't. .
>>6151387
I'm pretty satisfied with my cum shooting dildo desu
>tfw on hormones for 1 year
>tfw hormones didn't modify my appearance to the point of being gendered female once
forever a hon
>>6151041
If you don't get gendered correctly after 1 year and you worked hard on voice and presentation, you will never pass..
This is the truth.
>>6151041
me too
we can make a hon club. HONS ONLY
I'm sorry to hear that. There has to be something that can be done though!
Hey, so I was told that taking a daily dose of 200 mg Aldactone and 4 mg Estriodal is enough to transition.
Should I be worried about anything? Will this actually work as hrt?
>>6150660
Add 5mg finasteride and 1mg progesterone.
Anyone got any info on this?
Tried google and most of the time, they censor the dose and not very helpful with the drug interaction.
>>6150668
So adding that, it would boost the effectiveness of those drugs?
Growing up in the early 90's the eradication of gender stereotypes and separete "boys' things" and "girls' things" was pretty big. No more did you have to play with dolls or race cars according to your gender and pink wasn't just for girls, men could want to become nurses when they grow up and women engineers.
Every person being an individual not tied down by their sex was a key point in how we should view people and give everyone an equal chance to make their own image and not stick to preconceptions.
Now two decades later this same society is obsessed with "If I like boyish things or act like a boy you have to call me a boy". Isn't that entirely contradictory? Gender is now the most defining part about you and you have to freely pick one according to your interests because you can't just be a girl if you're not girly.
How did this happen?
>>6150633
I have no clue. I remember in my rural, very conservative town we had an "opposite sex day" during homecoming week, and it was no big deal. Then just a couple years ago in a medium size city all of a sudden it was a big problem that a school was doing that. Like "what are they teaching our kids", "gay agenda" and stuff like that. Fucking crazy.
It's the same with all the girl empowerment. From what I remember in the early/mid-90's there was a ton of that, and again, now it's like somehow they've forgotten that ever happened.
>>6150633
I dont think this is as widespread as you're thinking. There's still plenty of butch girls and femboys and otherwise non-gender conforming people out there.
>>6150633
>Now two decades later this same society is obsessed with "If I like boyish things or act like a boy you have to call me a boy"
Yes it's contradictory, but that is absolutely not the message anyone is trying to get across.
I could not care less what anyone's interests are. If someone is designated female at birth, has completely feminine hobbies and interests, but still experiences gender dysphoria, wants to pursue transition, and considers themself a male, then that person is (trans)male. Same goes for trans women.
The thing is, society still pushes people towards defined gender roles, no matter how much people pretend otherwise. And it's even more so for trans people. The smallest deviation from a given trans person's gender role can make people question their entire gender, which is contradictory to what you claim to believe.
Basically, trans girls are not girls because they like "girl" things; it's because they experience dysphoria when living as males. Many trans girls have "masculine" hobbies like video games or computer science, and people still shit on them for that. Yet when their hobbies are girly, they get flak for "conforming to stereotypes." Does that make sense?
I've been looking at a bunch of websites online and most of them are counter productive and wastes of time, I'd like to go out and meet a nice MtF or nice feminine cross dresser to date or friends with benefits. I'm not that picky as far as looks, dominate and affectionate. What do you all think I should do?
pic unrelated
>>6150524
Dating websites, Tinder, Grindr. Gay bars.
>>6150524
>t. Chaser Detected
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Previous thread >>6149427
hugbox my shoulders
Quickly children
I am dying
Or I have a migraine
Not sure
>>6150412
Your tiny head makes them look bigger.
Anybody play BnS? Ever make girly looking males? I usually just make female characters in games, but I find the ladies in BnS are just too exaggerated. To my amusement you can do just about anything in BnS with the males.
Anybody know of other games with that kind of customization?
Pics related.
Made this for a Warlock class.
I ran these through Face++ just too see, and they all get 99-100% female.
These are all Jin, in case you're wondering.
>>6150081
I always make Hyper Masculine Renegades.
I tried to make a girl character and it just felt so shameful and uncomfortable. I used to give my characters sex changes in saints row. And then purge the save after 5 minutes.
Closeted Youtubers/famous people
Pic related. He's definitely a tranny.
I don't even know who that person is, but why do I feel like there's just the one of you pushing him being trans.
The easy answer
>>6149999
He just crossdresses a lot in his videos and puts way too much effort into it
Why are twinks and femboys so stupid?
>I'll wear a condom if you want, but I got tested last month and I'm neg
>Sure, I'll do it raw then
Poz count: 12, probably 13 by the end of the weekend
You're doing great anon, I just wish there was a way to confirm poz, one session probably won't cut it.
>>6149792
>one session probably won't cut it.
You could actually cut your dick and their ass.
Have long nails so you can scratch their hole as you are getting ready to go in. Also scratch your dick so there is higher chance transfer.
>>6149762
OY
is that one of those funny memes with long arms meme?
Do you ever wish you weren't gay?
>>6149638
Literally never. I have frequently wished not to be bi though.
ya. but its who i am and i can't change it so we better learn living with that.
when love comes every thing gets better :)
no
wish i wasn't trans though
Catty edition
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â–¶Transition timelines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
â–¶Voice Training:http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
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Previous thread >>6148273
Meow :3
>>6149427
First for bikinis.
Cates are the best
>TFW the gene lottery gave you a body so manly and gallant not even hormones can help you transition
So how long is it going to take science to figure out a way to alter bodies wholesale anyway? We already have robotic prosthetics. I'd settle for being a robot grill if that's my only option.
>tfw manly man chest
Just fuck me up
>>6150998
this
you need that big chest to hold your organs, you can't get robotic organs so you're stuck with that barrel.
>>6151035
Eh. Hearts are a thing. Lungs are on the way. Kidneys are a biggie. To be honest though it would be weird to become a robot just to look like a female mannequin. Not like actual robots look like real women atm.
Is the 2025 trans stereotype going to be "cyborg"?
Help me out dudes, I wanna be a cutie femboy as fast as possible
Pic is me, tips are also nice.
>>6149349
Alldaychemist
200mg spironolactone and 4mg estrogen
>>6149351
Are there risks to self-medicating or is this just bullshit to get me to pay a doctor and all that
Well theres pueria mirifica and some sites that would maybe give you an off brand of spiro but I wouldnt recommend it
a hon ni
Complete bliss. Love her so much
hon, the artist
factually a fucking terrible album
>The Balad of Dresses
Whos ready for some "surprise its a penis" greentext?
>be 18ish
>usual horny, white male cis scum
>at a small gathering, because apparently calling it a party isnt cool or something
>see an athletic looking girl with long hair in a summer dress talking animatedly to another person
>bounces on her toes
>no tits but oh lawdy i saw a jiggly butt under there
>decide to start making my moves and politely include myself in their comversation about the Ottoman Empire ro avoid my "friends" at the time, whom were playing the slap game
>i should mention these people were almost inbred levels of stupid
>anywho turns out shes actually quite fun to talk to and we click quite well
>crumple up my plans for a booty call and start forumalting a casual dating plan
>She seems surprised that i ask her for her number and blushes. Its fucking adorable and i am smitten almost instantly
>We go to the movies, and she is wearing a dress this time as well... how curious
>We go on more dates here and there, and she is just the cutest tomboy I have ever met
>one our third date i finally get the kiss ive been keen on obtaining
>on and on we go and she has yet to wear pants or short, only dresses and modest length skirts
>snuck a small peek once during minigolf and saw spats, neat
>finally get to the point she'll hold my hand, we're kissing more
>Dad enjoys her informative knowledge on subjects
>Mom thinks shes just the cats pajamas
>Neat.jpg
>Eventually we get to the point we start to view eachother as special partners
>Heavy petting, making out, etc
>However her grandmother is always fucking home and has the ears of a fucking fennec
>my parents make a point to be home as much as possible because they are home bodies
>my little drunk is too tiny
>she rides a bicycle everywhere so that isnt going to work either
>literally a month of us teasing the fuck out of each other with little butt grabs, playful pinches, etc
Con.
Keep going
>>6149102
i like the "i saw a trap and went to fuck "her" and reached down and felt a vagina and was surprised then she slapped me" ones better
>white male cis scum
you fuggin white male, stop triggering us :DD
