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I have been thinking of transitioning (mtf) for around 5 years now, im 18 so not too old but i want real unbiased answers. Do trannies ever acctually ever end up looking/sounding like the opposite sex and not a failed experiment? I have heard yes and no from various people and i have no idea who to listen to.
Pic unrelated i just needed to post something im pretty sure
>>6361072
If you're 18 then you're probably fine. But what are your measurements? I've heard you're best off if you start off short, narrow shoulders, and a bit chubby.
>>6361095
Im tall as shit and a skeleton. The shoulders are the only things i have going for me.
>>6361103
Maybe you could be a model?
What's your face like?
Look at it like this;
We used to separate ourselves by race (to an extent we still do) but then we learned race doesn't determine personality/behavior/ literally anything about a person but the physical/genetic aspect of race.
A Black man fluent in 6 languages with an M.D. is for the most part genetically identical to Lil Wayne. But the first example breaks our expectations of that member of that particular race, while the second one adheres to them.
We celebrate black men who break the mold and go on to better things than the streets/sports/music...
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nature and nurture
>>6359838
>but then we learned race doesn't determine personality/behavior/ literally anything about a person
When did we decide this? I find it hard to believe that thousands of years of evolution in response to ones surroundings do nothing to shape DNA.
One of the best explanations for white peoples comparative success is that they lived in colder climates, necessitating that they anticipate the future to survive harsh winters, have less children, and invest more into those children,...
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>>6361935
This. Not the race part, but as a mtf I want to be held to the same standards as women and I'm sure all trans people, ftm and mtf, feel the same way. It's the whole point of transition and the whole reason why we care so much about passing. I'm not in it to be cute, I'm not trying to be my own waifu. I'm doing this because I want to be treated like what I've always wanted to be: a woman.
What's the dumbest thing you've read on /lgbt/?
>It's not gay to have sex with MTF's because of their feminine features
>>6359390
why is that dumb
How do you define "gay"?
I would define it as the sexual attraction to the same sex
If you're straight you would likely find passable MTF attractive
>>6359390
you think that it'd be gay to have sex with a trans girl therefore you think it'd be straight to have sex with buck angel or some other bearded muscular bald ftm guy, therefore you're autistic and don't understand how people work
get out of here autist
>>6360943
Shut up and stop trying to rationalize away your faggotry straight boy. We all know you want to suck cock.
For every straight guy who says fucking an mtf isn't gay, there's a dozen who have sucked tranny cock.
You don't suck female cock. That's a contradiction in terms fammy
/pol/ said American transgenders were jealous of ladyboys.
Is this true?
>/pol/ said
>Is this true?
No.
>>6359344
Go back to tumblr
>>6359266
that fucking does it. Let's dump /pol/ and find us a real man like /x/
I've heard some women say this regarding the desirability of lesbian sex, since the woman knows a woman's body.
Is there some gay manifesto that really makes being gay sound desirable that would persuade me to pursue gay sex?
No.
If the vagina is like a Rubik's Cube then the penis is like one of these shitty toys third world kids play with.
Much more user friendly.
>>6359189
You're either a clueless woman or a man with no sense of self-awareness.
>>6359178
Men satisfy women better than women
Men satisfy men better than women
Women aren't good at anything
i disagree with being trans
i dont think ill pass
yet i still want to be a woman
what do
>>6359135
If you're trans than you may as well transition as early as possible because it can only get worse and the dysphoria will never be better.
I'm sorry that there's no other way to go about it but anyone can pass with a combination of effort, decent genetic luck, and reasonable youth.
>>6359135
You won't know if you don't try.
>>6359135
>i disagree with being trans
How ate you disagreeing with a passive, mostly subconscious state of being?
>i dont think ill pass
Most people think that, at first. Hormones, experience living as your target gender, and *time* do for most people who start young. Those that get a later start more often require some surgery to mask exaggerated male attributes.
>yet i still want to be a woman
>what...
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It's really fucking coming to this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAHvLAJ-5aQ
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>>6356651
>>6344314
Hi.
What are good online dating websites? (other than tinder and okcupid)
What a dumb video
- implying non-hets aren't ladies or gentlemen
- implying trans men and women aren't ladies and gentlemen
- using a ton of different synonyms for trannies
like nigga you're just making yourself look dumb
Straight? guy here. I've been having some gay fantasies recently that have been making me question my sexuality, and I'm trying to learn more about these urges. My question is, how do you know if you're a top or a bottom? What are the characteristics of people who are tops and people who are bottoms? For guys who enjoy topping, what do you enjoy about it? For guys who enjoy bottoming, what do you enjoy about it?
I'm straight too, but I'm curious about bottoming, even though I've never tried it before. I don't know why I prefer it over topping, though.
>>6358972
Why you "need" to know you are something? you are you, just try everything and enjoy you don't need people tell what are you I am mostly straight, but I like traps, anal pleasure and shemales and I just love it, it makes me feel good, at the end is the only thing it matters check porn of all kinds and ask yourself in what situations you will feel pleasure to be involved, know your own fetishes and fantasies
>>6359037
Im just trying to learn and understand things from/about gay people
I'm a straight guy but I'm more attracted to butch lesbians than any other type of girl. It's pretty fucked up. I'm that guy who talks to butch girls on OkCupid annoyingly trying to convince them.
Once, I started talking to a lesbian who was interested in experimenting with a guy but then she stopped responding and I was devastated. I need to get over my obsession with lesbians - it just isn't realistic and only hurts me.
Alternatively, how can I seduce gay women with short hair?
>>6358289
take hormones
>>6358301
I'd probably die or some shit. Stereotypical manly man. It's pretty fucked. Is there a word for this? You know how gays are attracted to a segment of the population of which few are attracted to them and doesn't seem natural? But it's me as a straight guy and I can't be with butch lesbians.
Fuck.
Am I like, transgay?
>>6358289
You can't, get over it.
You'd have to happen upon a butch bi.
Good luck bro.
Is there a difference between safe sex and raw sex? Ive only gotten fucked in the bum with a condom. Is it better with out one? Can you feel it when the other guy cums in you?
>>6358254
Well, it's usually pretty tough to tell when a guy cums in you, it really doesn't feel like anything from my experience.
The main advantage is that the lube doesn't seem to dry up. I guess the oils, sweat, etc. on your dick maintain the moisture and it makes sex much more comfortable. I've found with condoms it's usually best to switch to jelly type lubes like what is used in hospitals for catheters and colonoscopies. With bareback you can use basically anything without issues.
For topping many guys have a hard time finding which condoms they like as well, and often they'll use that as an excuse to go bareback and then blame condom manufacturers for all the diseases they get I guess lol
So overall I'd say safe sex and bareback can be exactly the same in terms of enjoyability, it's just that most people do not have the drive to put in the effort to improving their safe sex experience since the path of least resistance is simply ripping that condom off.
You'll definitely feel the HIV afterwards.
respect yourself and your partner. wear a condom.
Have any of you legbutts ever been in an abusive relationship? Either as the abuser or the abusee?
My girlfriend is hella wrong for me, but we have such history together that I let it slide...
My boyfriend has only ever hit me once in anger and I more or less deserved it.
>>6358167
Shitballs. That's terrible. My girl has only ever hurt me emotionally and psychologically...
>>6358133
I'd think it would be kind of hard with gays. I'd have no problem beating the shit out of my bf haha
Hi /lgbt/. I've found some interesting case studies we should talk about....
1. A ex-Pedophile lost his urge to rape kids after a small egg-shaped brain tumor was removed from his right frontal lobe. Months later, his sexual focus on young girls rekindled, and a new scan revealed that bits of tissue missed in the surgery had grown into a sizeable tumour. Surgery once again restored his behavioural profile to "normal" and he has since had no interest in kids.
2. Those with temporal lobe epilepsy have been found to experience sexuality changes (females...
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7. Rugby player woke up "gay" after a stroke: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2130900/Chris-Birch-Rugby-player-woke-gay-stroke-says-hes-happiest-hes-been.html
>>6358013
You're retarded.
5% of the population had severe brain injury without noticing, or having any noticeable effects, other than turning lgbt.
How could you even entertain this dumb as fuck idea?
>>6358041
Why are you so angry? It's very possible that there are numerous lgbt ppl who have had a brain injury of some kind, experienced brain trauma, or perhaps have a tumor or something going on inside of their skull that might can cause them to turn back to "normal" if they only knew it was causing them to be /lgbt/.
Have you had you had brain scans done to make sure your brain is healthy?
I will never look like a woman and instead I will always have to settle with being "that weird castrated guy with long hair and gyno."
Still must beat having no way whatsoever to get hormones
>>6357299
You will always be exactly who you know you are
What will be is what you will know to have been
I bitch about trans people these days. Not the actual people themselves, but the ass hat agitators who build up unhappiness in them by telling them society should start turning external reality upside down, and if society doesn't want to, it is somehow 'attacking' trans.
I actually like trans. I dont understand them completely. And the ones from my era seemed a lot more level headed. This new generation seems to be manufactured by deliberately causing confusion among you as if its targeting people who are already emotionally challenged in some way. The perception is that trans are innately emotionally unstable.
I think trans may have intellectual inconsistencies, but I dont regard them as crazy until one actually starts trying to convince me Im insane for distinguishing male from female.
And thats why Im here, to thank them. All the ones who probably dont care much or feel they have anything invested in the battle between what has somehow become a left/right issue are being dragged into the media circus. I can empathize, seriously.
So you have to deal with this crap just like I do, and didn't ask to. And I wanna thank you all for your patience, because you probably dont realize you are part of key moment in history.
We are at a point where we seriously talk about going to court to determine what is male and female. Reality itself is now on trial. No matter what your opinion is, this is good, its healthy, its a long over due correction, regardless of the outcome.
We need some ground definitions again. Whatever they end up being, at least there will be some new consensus one way or the other.
It took the concept of male and female to make this happen. I am grateful. Rather you know it or not, the crap you put up with has brought us to a key point in our social development that is necessary.
tl;dr
>>6356347
Unrelated, what is the black/white flag supposed to be?
>>6356394
P sure it's the straight flag ?
Ive been on estradiol only for 4 months becausa of some bullshit doctors, but i plan to take cypro too. Is 50 mg cypro and 4mg estradiol any good? Should i take em all at the same time each day?
>>6355515
You generally want it split between morning and afternoon with antiandrogens. I hear some transgirls taking E doses through out the day, but I just take my E all at once. my understanding is the half life is 24 hours so
>>6355635
I see, thing is my antiandrogens are 50mg a pill so id have to split it i guess. Ill look more into it, but dosage wise is it any good?
>>6355775
It's good anon. Also Cypro's half life is somewhere around 50 hours meanwhile your average estrogen pill diminishes effect at around 20.
What I do is take 50mg Cypro + 2mg Estrogen + my vitamins etc on morning after breakfast, then on evenings usually after dinner I take 2mg of estrogen and my melatonin to fall asleep easier.
