I can't fucking do it anymore.
I can't keep denying myself.
I'm trans and I have to accept it. I have to stop giving a fuck about what others might think.
>always feels like i'm looking a stranger in the eyes when i see my reflection
>feel weird about being called male
>hates having facial hair
>prefers to have long lucious hair
>just ordered some girl clothes and make up
The fucking evidence is piling up. And I need to stop lying to myself.
Tomorrow is the day. I'm gonna tell my doctor/shrink.
Hopefully I can get on HRT.
I know I won't ever fully be a girl, but the closer I am, the better.
Anything I should keep in mind?
>>6400644
Never forget yourself and never forget the favorites
also try to find happiness in the darkest of times
>>6400661
"the favorites"?
Good for you. As for advice, be proactive about seeking different doctors/shrinks if you're being gatekept. And don't compulsively browse 4chan when you're feeling vulnerable. Everyone has their moments.
>watching news with mom
>obv all they talk about at the start is Orlando
>she's been kinda bigoted in the past
>look over to see how she reacts
>"it's a hate crime if you ask me"
>lookit that, maybe people can learn how to not be fuckers
>news talks about trans victim
>"that's a she?"
>pic related
well, it's a start, right?
>>6400428
You sound like an insufferable faggot.
>>6400428
Yeah, OP, she'll be thinking just like you in no time
>>6400440
Well he did force the republican congress to some pretty strict terms.
so i was walking down the street with my partner and some guys went past who started guesturing to me about my partner (who wasnt looking) in an obviously mocking way. its hard to describe exactly what, but they were clearly making fun of me for being with them.
how do people deal with this? at first i got really pissed off at the for being disrespectful to them, but then i felt kinda shitty that i was getting mocked for being seen with them.
im in no way ashamed of being with them before i start getting flamed, but i identify as a masc/mostly hetero guy so being mocked in the street doesnt feel great.
I can't tell you from your perspective because I'm the trans person in my relationship, but I just kind of got used to it.
I just kind of stopped caring unless they physically attack me and I have a background in self defense so I'm not worried about that either.
>>6400346
Wow you're a pussy. You actually give a fuck what a random fucker that passes by thinks about you and who you love?
>>6400364
It's easy to say that when you're sitting at your computer
Have a question for all of you that have a visible "defect", for example a missing limb, psoriasis, bad scar, blindness etc... Not something like ADD or anxiety.
When you're looking for someone, either for dating or hook-up, when do you mention it? Do you mention in your profile or ad "by the way, I'm missing a leg" or do you get further down the road before revealing it, maybe even waiting until you meet for the first time, even meeting for sex?
Tell me
what is your "defect"?
when do you first talk about/mention it?
how do you talk about it (mention it doesn't affect you, discuss limitations)?
what has the reactions been?
what ratio of perspective dates/hook-ups blow you off after you mention it?
have you been successful in dating or hooking-up despite this "defect"?
Well, I now have a new fetish. I'll just throw it on the pile..
>>6399758
Honestly I don't see someone rejecting a person due to missing limbs, unless they're unable to function independently because of it. Blindness really wouldn't be a deal-breaker IMO.
But I don't think any blind people will be reading your post, OP.
>>6399758
>what is your "defect"?
i have an ileostomy and wear a bag on my side
>when do you first talk about/mention it?
always before getting serious with a guy. sometimes via text/email, sometimes when I meet the guy for coffee
>how do you talk about it (mention it doesn't affect you, discuss limitations)?
it really doesn't limit me so I just explain it's there
>what has the reactions been?
they vary. Some guys either come right out and say they'd rather not meet or suddenly have an excuse for not meeting. Some are OK with it.
>what ratio of perspective dates/hook-ups blow you off after you mention it?
I'd say half the guys I mention it to pass on meeting up
>have you been successful in dating or hooking-up despite this "defect"?
somewhat, but honestly I think the guys who accept this are ones who may not be as lucky in meeting/hooking up and are glad to find someone who will
I still dont understand it, how can a man be attracted to another man? Men are so ugly. How it is possible dudes like another dudes? Does gays have womens brain?
stupid FROG
>>6399478
Dont touch my frog. Its a good frog.
>>6399374
>Men are so ugly
Would you, Anons?
Hell Yes!!!
>tfw no japanese bear daddy
>chasing after pandas
AbsolutelyHaram.jpg
>be me
>18 years old, FTM (on T for a few months) backpacking through ecuador and the galapagos islands
>go to giant turtle sanctuary on santa cruz with local guide and medium-sized group
>male tour guide is being really nice to me, smiling, making a lot of effort to talk to me in particular even though english is not his first language
>shrug it off
>tour ends
>begin to leave when tour guide asks (in front of 6-7 people) "are you gay?" with a big smile
>holyfuckpleasenofucknotthisshit.jpg
>be stupid and say "what?" (to be fair he has a thick accent)
>he asks again louder. spaghetti is pouring from my pocket at this point
>smile, say no and then awkwardly separate
>dude seems genuinely disappointed and ignores me the rest of the time and so i feel shitty
>later realize that we were on a fairly remote island away from western civilization so saying no was probably the best choice
i honestly don't know what he coded me as. i usually pass as a twink (i'm thin and shave facial hair) or as a sporty lesbian. i feel a little bad for saying no because maybe the dude just really wanted to meet a gay person or something.
so who else in /lgbt/ travels and has to deal with this shit? what do you say or do in this situation? am i just paranoid and stupid?
definitely share some of your awful experiences traveling.
You're not gay, you're just straight since you're a female, even if your vagina and inner sexual aprts have been stretched out to resemble a pseudo-penis...
why would you ever admit to a stranger that you're trans? and fuck him for putting you on the spot
I make every effort to pass when traveling. it's safer to mind your own damn business on the road imo
>>6398987
>subscribe for more expert opinions
>>6398987
This post makes 0 sense. Try rereading the OP and going on some meds.
Can't you change at regular intervals? Is it a health thing?
And how does one even become a bottom? Do you have to ask?
It's not a massive thing but it is common yes. Some people only wish to bottom, which is the category I fall into, I've no real explanation as to why this is, I just get no real thrill out of using my dick.
I'm naturally very submissive though, so I guess that has some way to going to it, most exclusive bottoms will generally tend to be more effeminate and the submissive one in the relationship, so I guess it goes into a subservant dominance thing.
There are versitile people, essentially people that will switch between bottoming and topping, I'm sure relationships between such two people exist.
Its probably just a statistical thing that a lot of people prefer to bottom, its not like its some sort of unwritten law with regards to gay relationships.
>>6398824
Ahh, thanks for the explanation.
>>6398786
top/bottom is a huge meme
a large part of relationships don't have these roles.
It's just breeder normies trying to understand same-sex relationships through their breeder lens.
Are lesbians real?
>>6397401
No. I can confirm 95% of them are straight men roleplaying, an the other 5% are straight women mad at their ex boyfriends
>>6397401
are unicorns?
>>6397401
Absolutely not.
>Official shows condolence to those who have just died
>Reporter says why the official did not support lgbt before
CNN Logic
>Things a person did in the past somehow makes present condolences hollow.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkSUE7esjG8
>>6397194
They'll go right back to not support lgbt once this thing is forgotten.
>>6397199
>They'll go right back to not support lgbt
It may be more about showing condolences to those who have died
rather than support for the lgbt cause.
>>6397194
Hahahah when he said she's never been vocal about LGBT issues before the incident and she said but now I've put up a picture of rainbow hands in response to what happened.
She missed the point completely and dug herself a hole
why is it so rare to find a guy with long hair who isn't basically conan the barbarian buy also isn't so feminine that he gives an impression that he's trying to pass?
>>6396380
Because that's a hippy
>>6396380
Is aids skrillex trying to pass?
>>6396380
What do you mean by pass. I try to be pretty with my long native locks. Try n Look feminine and manly at the same time. Cuz y not.
I realized that sexuality can be used to manipulate normies and SJWs by using it as an appeal to authority to get them to listen. I use mine to shill for Donald Trump. I only do it anonymously on youtube comments and things like that since I'm not out irl. What do you do with yours if you do anything at all?
>>6395945
My brother is FTM and really into social justice
He probably doesn't pay too much attention, but whenever possible I try to make him less of a tumblrfag
>>6395958
forgot to mention I'm bisexual, which apparently gives me more license to talk about controversial things with him (like the BLM people he likes so much) than straight people get, because privilege bullshit I guess
>>6395969
Exactly, SJWs believe if you are "oppressed" your opinion is of more value. When they all think like that it helps when you can compete with them in their oppression olympics.
previous cancer >>6386336
tinychat com/notgaygen
What as the last party you went to gaygen?
I went to a party once. I had a terrible time.
>>6395063
>the official Clownshoes themesong
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gw_o7XUX3fg
ded thred
What's a boy pucci?
a mitherable lil pile of thecretth darling
>>6394866
B U S S Y
cool thread op
needs more ora
* Passthread 2.1 *
(Rainbow Edition)
Let's keep this train going!
RULES:
1. Post your selfie and provide what gender you are (MTF/FTM/femboy/andro)
2. Gender other people's pics and (*IMPORTANT*) Give them suggestions on how to pass better.
3. Don't point shit out if you're not going to offer any solutions
4. Be honest and dont rate based on attractiveness, just passability.
5. People pre or early in transition are welcome
welp whose brave enough to go first
:^)
please, lets judge the last few ones from the other thread first...
>>6394126
I just made a fucking post, jeez.
ftm, pre everything unless I magically was born producing T, sometimes I make awkward high pitched noises by accident and promptly leave the room. How do I make my voice like that of morgan freemans?
