I want to start MTF transition but i don't want to go to any doctors. any advice?
>>5180898
Go to a doctor. If you're too poor or afraid to visit a doctor then you may not be trans.
>>5180957
>If you're too poor [...] you may not be trans.
Watt?
>>5180998
True story, even here in the UK you are at the whim of some apprentice shrink that will shill and tell you they can't help you until you go to their private practise.
You basically have to act like you will chop your junk off if they don't help. That's plan B for me.
>8 months on HRT
>face hasn't changed a bit
>still the same "handsome" caveman facial features (nose, jaw, ears, brow bossing) and high germanic forehead I got from dad and his dad while I got typical fag features like DSL, long eyebrows and eyes from mom
>vomit-inducing skinny fat body with narrow waist, no hips and a Hank Hill butt
>me wearing women's clothes = literally a dude in a dress
>be scared to show my honface outside now that I have tiny misshapen breasts
>no sugar daddies will never pay for my HRT as if it even work on my long midface
I mean I must be stupid to continue taking le sugar pills and I feel that I should just stop and kill myself like any sane foreverhon person would but at the same time I am intrigued by where this is all going.
>he fell for the transitioning isn't retarded meme
Ugly now ugly later
Quit being a deadbeat and start saving up for FFS. You can kill yourself or you can take what you've got and do your best with it.
>>5180736
I can't save up for FFS because I am a filthy NEET.
is there an association between autism and trans?
picture related
>>5180428
Only autists actually think they can become the other gender
>>5180457
still not as bad as masc4masc
Going by the one study I managed to find on that topic (I think it was a Dutch study, it's been a while and I don't have access to the computer where I'd have it buried in my bookmarks).
IIRC, the results where that there wasn't a specific link between them, but that it did alter how the dysphoria can present, and in effect make it harder to diagnose for it. Basically it messes with the dysphoria shit dealing with social stuff and nuances dealing with aspects of the identity stuff. Can't remember the specifics of the conclusion, but I'm pretty sure it mentioned that diagnosis is more reliable in focusing on physical aspects rather than heavily psychological.
More "my body is X, but I would prefer to have Y and see myself with Y in the future", less "I feel like I should be treated as a Y instead of an X".
Admittedly, I do recall that the number of subjects wasn't nearly enough to make it definitive, but it was interesting nonetheless. If nothing else, my own gender psych that also happens to have a lot of experience with ASDs said that much of that was stuff she has noticed over the years herself.
hey legbutts
am i doing my profile on OKC right? why am i not rolling in cute bois?
>pic related
Because you're a crazy fucking cat bish.
because "bakestaybed"
>>5180416
You look too much like a woman to attract gay men.
My little brother is 4 years younger than me yet when he hit puberty he looked way more masculine and older than me. He always gets mistaken as my older brother when we get introduced together.
There was an incident were I was around 14 years old when we had a fight and I suddenly realized that he was stronger than me.
From then on he slowly began to surpass me in many aspects in life: he got mulitple gfs, is really attractive and more successful in uni.
Idk when my trans feels started but it could be well around the time with the fight.
I'm now 1 year into transition and still have a hard time being around my brother as a 'girl'. Its just so weird that I'm his sister now yet I failed to be his older brother but I tried... fuck
Fuck his girlfriend and kekold him to show him how much better you are.
>>5180250
but I now have tits and a shrunken girlcock ;_;
>>5180201
Hey anon I'm in the same situation, I have two younger brothers both of which are much taller, bigger and manlier than me.
but in my mind that's kind of natural since they're both cis guys who grew up completely differently from me, our differences in taste and attitude despite our similar upbringing just re enforces the fact I'm not a guy.
Oh and don't worry about failing to be the older brother because now you have a chance to be the older sister which'll probably be a lot easier for you
So, just out of curiosity, can us trans folk give blood?
Long story short, there is going to be an event at my uni where people can give blood to save lives. I know for a fact I have AB negative blood, which is literally the rarest blood type within the ABO system, so I'm not even sure they'd have any use for it.
But still,I can't help but wonder if I wanted to, could I give blood?
>>5179791
if you're mtf and have had anal sex with a man in the past year you can not donate blood unless you have your gender marker changed and pass 100%.
>>5179791
>if you're mtf and have had anal sex with a man in the past year you can donate blood as long as you claim you haven't
fixed
>>5179791
nope
Are you into bondage?
If so, why?
I'm into it, alot. Such a shame my bf hates it though,
>>5179479
same here. Im really into it and my bf kinda is, but he's still really mild about it. Pretty afraid of him being weirded out by me if he found out exactly how into it i am
My bf is scared he would hurt me if I'm bound and such.
Pretty shitty, some people aren't just into it.
>>5179601
hes afraid of just tying you up? that sucks
Who /questioning/ here? (in terms of gender)
I've been questioning for a few years now. I've mentioned it to my parents and I'm sure they think it's just a phase. I'm starting to think that I should just repress the small amount of dysphoria that I have and stop being such a faggot.
>>5179007
>You are born with a political party it doesn't matter what you view and how you act you are either LEFT or RIGHT and no inbetween
>Gender is the exact same as Sex there might as well be one word
>There is no such thing is a mental aspect of yourself everything you are can be determined by what you physically look like
>>5179007
We think about it so much because transition is always an option. Usually not a good one, I would say, but it's a big decision to start transitioning nonetheless.
>mfw when fugly grills cant get dick
>mfw when fugly grills go lezzy and fuck eachother
>mfw when attractive "lezzies" always go back to the dick
>mfw when grills lust after gay homos
>mfw when gay homos never want sex with grills
>mfw lesbianism doesnt exist
>>5178815
>mfw transbians are straight men who want dick
>mfw everyone just wants dick
>>5178815
>mfw someone uses "when" after mfw
lesbians in ltrs dont have sex
who knew mutants with vaginas lose their appeal?
Gay online / app dating is the world's biggest nightmare
>>5178718
yeah well maybe if people stopped giving a shit about other peopels sexuality then you could just hit on dudes in public and we could curtail this stupid hookup bullshit
>instantly drop a guy if I find out he's ever used a hookup app
>been single for 3 years since literally fucking everyone is going through life with smartphone blowjobs
>will be single forever because everyone's a filthy slut
>>5178862
Has someone you had no interest in ever hit on you? It feels like hell took a dump all over your apartment
>1st gay experience thread
>be 14
>goes to friend's house for school project, nobody at home except 2 of us
>did work for an hour
>start to get bored
>start talking about vidya games, mundane topics
>convo veers towards girls and stuff
>he starts asking me questions regarding masturbation, how often do I do it, whether I watch porn etc
>he brings out his brother's dirty magazines
>we start flipping the pages
>I could sense he was getting fiesty
"hey anon...wanna jerk off?"
>sure.jpg
>both of us took off our pants but left shirts on
>its obvious we are both rock hard
>agreed to pull down briefs together
>holy shit his dick is big, uncut, easily 6 inches
>start to jerk off together
>start jerking off each others' dick
>ended up with a mutual blowjob
>it was summer so his crotch was sweaty and musty, but that really made it hotter
we didnt shoot in mouth or whatever, just cleaned up with tissues afterwards. He made me promise not to tell anyone, and we never got the chance to do it again. He has a girlfriend now.
Well... I'm at my best friend's house right now, and I really want to suck his dick.
he knows I'm gay, and he told me he was bi (I think he only likes traps) my worry is that things will get awkward between us and I'll lose my best friend.
do I suck his dick or not?
If I wanted pasta I'd go to an Italian resturant.
>>5178714
Tell him he's a good boy/cute and watch his ears turn red.
If so just go for it.
>Find men unattractive
>Decide to date other women who look like this
Why?
Because lesbians are just women who couldn't make it in the straight man market
>>5178564
Straight men don't even have standards, like, literally they don't at all. There will always be at least a straight man that will fuck the ugliest piece of shit.
>>5178736
Wrong. Straight men won't fuck this shit. That's why shit starts fucking other pieces of shit.
Hey /lgbt/ do you think Pope Francis is gay or straight? I know he doesn't act on his desires whatever they may be but do you think his inclination is towards men or women?
>>5178346
idk'
but hes def the kinda person i would eat pizza with
>>5178346
Definitely not gay. He's wearing white after Labor Day. A gay guy would know better.
I don't know why people glorify Pope Francis so much. He might not be as blatantly evil as the last pope, but he still supports a ~problematic~ religion and way of thinking.
Hey /lgbt/, I have a very serious question. What does dysphoria feel like? Is it something you feel physically? Is it a mental state? A thought? An emotion? Pic related, I imagine it feels like an existential crisis.
walking down a crowded street in the middle of summer wearing this
>>5178139
Hot, uncomfortable, sweaty and embarrassing?
>>5178152
Yes, for me also generally pissed at shit and/or on the verge of tears while doing that.
How do i officially know if i'll ever make it as a cuteboy/mtf
How do i officially know if its too late to transition (without looking like a broad shouldered, cleft chinned, shovel handed, adams apple, rocky horror picture show looking freak)
How do i tell that i officially have the wrong bone stucture?
Does HRT do anything to make your shoulders look less wide, or make your belly/legs/ass look girly? and what does it do for your face?
How do i know in other words, if i shouldnt bother and i should give up.
I want to be a girl, or at least a cute framed. cute faced femboi.
what do
>>5177720
We'd have to see a whole body then close face pic and your age. If you already got widish shoulders and a cleft happening and you're 17+ you're screwed.
>>5177890
I dont know where i score with that. i have a softer face but a tiny bit of a cleft. i dont know about shoulders.
are you asking for a picture that way you can see if im fucked?
im almost positive im fucked though
>>5177890
no cleft chin, around average shoulders for my height but 25, why life
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