Seriously, am thinking of going gay. Am a khv and I have fairly androgynous appearance. If I don't get a gf by next year, am going to start wearing makeup and growing my hair long and get a bf. Fuck this dating dating game.
Have you actually tried asking a girl out?
Androgynous boys get plenty of ass but you still have to be a boy/man.
Seriously just make a girl laugh and ask. Even if its autistic and awkward you still did it.
If you transition or go gay because you're a failure than that's just really pathetic and sadly common among chans
Source straight male
>>5186144
let me tell you a story
>be me, kv clueless straight dude
>dating game is too hard, try the gays
>hit jackpot with this one fag, he pretty and sociable
>he somehow falls in love with me, idk why
>shows me how to socialize
>i'm top and he shows me how to fuck his butthole to make him cum
>shows me how to be a good kisser
>tells me I stink and gives me male hygiene products
>tells me I dress terrible, shows me how to look suave
>straight up tells me why I'm annoying and to cut it out
>I cut it out
>now I know how to talk to basically anyone
>looking fly
>smell good and am clean
>know how to fuck butts real good and kiss like a god
>meet some girl
>she's cute and we click
>dump my bf for her, sorry m8, I'm actually attracted to her
>figure out how to PIV eventually
now I got a gf. I don't know man. Try out a guy, he might help you out.
>>5186160
>Have you actually tried asking a girl out?
No, but I just sense they are not attracted by talking to them and reading their body language.
Women would always look away when I look at them or give me hope by checking me out then look away.
At least guys come up to me and have good conversions without it being awkward or full of pressure. Whether they are interested or not.
Alright, be honest now, how many of you are /pol/acks who came here to fight degeneracy and ended up discovering your burning love of cocks/estrogen/etc?
>>5185956
I swear to god, 60% of /pol/ would get a hard on for traps and shemale porn and then claim themselves to be "not degenerate" or some bullshit.
>>5185983
I honestly think a lot of degeneracy posters are closeted gay and/or trans, like a middle aged guy who'd be intensely homophobic and then try to suck dicks on craigslist
>>5185956
I came here because I'm bi and now I hate trannies.
BREAKING NEWS!:
GIRLS CANT LOOK THROUGH TELESCOPES NOW!
>I'm too autistic to understand metaphors
>tumblr feminism
>>5185899
How about just not interacting with the crazies and giving those of us who are 'sane' a chance to prove ourselves first?
Why am I even responding, this board is just one slightly different version of this thread after the other nowadays.
Is it possible for gays and transsexualisms to be religious?
Or is this board 100% atheist?
>>5185638
i'm a trans occultist
>>5185638
yes.
trans wiccan otherkin here
>>5185669
Bi occultist here.
I asked this guy out and I like him and he told me he liked me too then kissed me and then tweeted the love letter out on twitter that I sent him and tagged me and called me a faggot what do I do in this situation?
>>5185516
Is he a chanfag? Maybe he called you a faggot in a loving way.
>>5185516
talk to him. duh
>>5185516
how old are you?
lover letter? really?
maybe he likes being a bully and is sexually excited and humiliating you. or something like that. If you back down and cry like a bitch it wont help anything. I would just take it like a man and be nonchalant about it (or even develop a competitive attitude i.e. - strike back)
So what's the real scoop on this whole regret thing and "fake trans" people?
A lot of the stories all seem to come from Christian and Conservative websites which makes me skeptical, but then again they include stories about seeing transition as a solution to mental problems, and I've got a lot of fuckin' mental problems, so I get concerned.
>>5185150
williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/AFSP-Williams-Suicide-Report-Final.pdf
>>5185161
They asked about regret, not suicide attempt rate.
>>5185161
>>5185150
Lunatic finge sites aren't terribly credible.
Especially when every peer reviewed study proves they're full of shit.
>>An established body of medical research demonstrates the effectiveness and medical necessity of mental health care, hormone therapy and sex reassignment surgery as forms of therapeutic treatment for many people diagnosed with GID… Therefore, be it RESOLVED, that the AMA supports public and private health insurance coverage for treatment of gender identity disorder.
>McHugh does cite one study from 2011, by Cecilia Dhejne, MD and colleagues at Karolinska Institute in Stockholm. However, he misunderstands Dr. Dhejnes work. In the paper, Dr. Dhejne states that the study was not designed to draw conclusions on the efficacy of transgender surgeries, yet McHugh does exactly that. A closer reading of the paper shows that the increased mortality is in those who had surgery before 1989, and that mortality in trans people after 1989 is not statistically different from the general population. A recently published paper by Dr. Dhejne and colleagues shows that the regret rate for those having surgery from 2001-2010 is only 0.3%. Dr. Dhejnes work shows that outcomes for transgender surgery have improved tremendously in the past 30 years, which supports the HHS decision to remove trans exclusions.
>The American Psychiatric Association and the World Professional Association for Transgender Health no longer view transgender identity as inherently pathological. Dr. McHughs views are stuck in the past.
>Dan Karasic, MD Health Sciences Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, UCSF Member, American Psychiatric Association Workgroup on Gender Dysphoria Member, Board of Directors, World Professional Association for Transgender Health
Now why >>5185161 would rather ban science and go by the deluded people at the ends of the political horseshoe is beyond me.
For the purposes of debating gender and lgbt is the status of that person relevant?
picture related
The status of the person you are debating?
Queer and female points of view should be given more weight on issues pertaining to queers and females because those are the people who actually have lived experience being queers and women. Plus the fact that the groups have been historically silenced and marginalized means that they should be given a space to speak and be heard.
>>5184871
This is bullshit. If you're asking a question such as "do you think __ is a slur" then yes their membership to that community is relevant. If you're debating something like whether abortion is morally wrong, you being female and having the ability to grow babies is completely independent of whether or not abortion is morally right, therefore your opinion bears no more weight than anyone else's.
If your true love was a devout Christian who wanted a chaste relationship (kissing allowed), would you do it? Sex could happen, but it would lead to severe depression and guilt for your partner.
>>5184411
would I be allowed to seek sex out side the relationship?
eitherway probably not. I would get to much built up frustration
>>5184411
I would bc I am that christian
>>5184411
I don't date retarded people, so no. Not like I believe there's any "true love" for me out there anyway.
Did you grow up with parents who were together or seperate?
I never knew my father.
Together, they're still together
>>5184193
I never knew my father either. Now I'm a gay femboy. Coincidence?
>be almost over girl
>pretty sure drove by her couple nights ago
>feelings back
>zombing around in a haze
If you're out there i want you so bad.
Tell me about who you like /lgbt/ and why. Id like to hear, it might help me.
I like my older friend that I met through my sister, who is both straight as a pole and unintentionally flirty. It's tough, anon. I mostly just try to ignore it, nothing good will come of wanting what I can't have.
>>5184070
>I mostly just try to ignore it
So hard.
Normally I only like girls, and since pretty girls are a dime a dozen I never get hooked on one knowing that 30 more are just around the corner, but for the first time I met a guy online who I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with, yet there's no way I can have him, and it hurts because guys that fit my preferences are very rare, so much so that I've never seen one in person.
straight white cissy here.
I was wondering, do gay people feel mad that they're grouped with transgenders in the whole 'LGBT' thing? It seems like they have nothing in common
>>5183959
Why the hell would that woman's bathroom not have stalls?
>>5183959
>that image
jej, but pretty much. I'm not opposed to tranny rights, I think the bathroom shit is utterly stupid, but because we're grouped together it's stopping gays from getting shit done.
Yeah it seemed like a pretty sloppy grouping.
Like, "trannies are usually gay so just put em in there too!"
>>5183852
Before the usual useless bashing begins, let me ask you, Really? you have to ask? I know people on here tend to be attention seeking, but you REALLY need someone to tell you you look good? c'mon, you look great.
>>5183852
Qt patoot. Provide a decent pic (not angled, not blurry) if you want 100% honest criticism though.
Why did you make an entire thread for this
> grow up Mormon
> family still Mormon
> friends still Mormon
> Mormons have new rules literally making being gay worse than being a murderer
> New rule prevents kids of gay and lesbian couples from being able to get baptized
> see people agreeing with and applauding this decision
I'm not surprised that they said it. I'm just surprised at how much it hurts.
>>5183635
>not religious
>don't give a shit
life is good in sin city
I never understood how people could be legitimately Mormon. It's as bad as scientology in terms of how ridiculously unbelievable the beliefs are.
Gold plates buried in a hillside? Deity endorsed polygamy? Magic underwear? Banning coffee as sinful? Jesus in America?
Why anyone would listen to what the Mormons say about anything, including lgbt rights, is beyond me.
>>5183690
Adam and Eve? Forbidden Fruit? Original Sin? Son of God? Resurrection? [spoiler] Psycho Mantis? [/spoiler]
What is life like as a sub anyway?
I am strictly top but theres a part of me that just wants to go full blown aids whore tbqh
>>5183543
It's sad and depressing unless you actually manage to find someone who cares for you and still wants to keep you around long term.
>>5183571
What if you just want to be fucked by everyone and everything to be degraded into oblivion to the point where you kill yourself?
>>5183573
Being a sub does not mean you want to be a slut, silly Anon. I'm monogamous as hell and need to be in a relationship with someone before doing any lewds.
But if that's what you want, you'll become a mess that no one will want.
So i just got into my first real relationship with a guy i really like. Ive known him a little over a year. How do i not fuck this up or get fucked over? I already deleted all the hookup apps. Just general relationship advice . Thanks(:
you're gonna have to be more specific
>>5183507
About wht?
>>5183493
>Be honest
>Lie as little as possible
>Have open communication, make sure you and he feel comfortable talking about literally anything
>Laugh on the rare occasion that poop comes out when he pulls out. Seriously, have a sense of humor about shitty aspects of your relationship, and discuss them positively. (Pun inteded?)
>Meet each other's needs, and vocalize those needs. Nobody is psychic, and whats obvious to you, may not be obvious to someone else.
>Be direct with your intentions, what you want, how you want it, etc.
>TALK ABOUT SEX AND TRY NEW THINGS, dont be afraid to say you dont like something, and dont be afraid to encourage something
TL;DR Dont be a faggot, just be a decent person senpai
