Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 549. page
I don't know much about HRT. But i'm close to the "chest expansion" at 19 and i don't want to get even fucking more masculine.
I don't know if i'm really trans and no therapy can help me here (No one knows shit about Transsexualism). I want to take the pills to stay "more feminine", and if i really discover i'm not trans, i follow my life more feminine and happy.
So, i've heard Birth control pills have hormones and can have somewhat the same effect. Is this wrong?
>>5544063
If you want to learn more about your identity, go to a gender therapist. The modicum of estrogen in birth control won't do shit without testosterone suppression, anyways.
>>5544090
That's the problem, there's no gender therapist where i live, or in a radius of 50km. I live in a extremely small city (Less than 40k habitants) and there's like 2 or 3 know mtf's in the city.
I don't think conventional therapists can help me with this.
>>5544063
Therapists only verify what you feel. I can't remember who said this, but they are like a glorified way to vent.
Just found I was gay(or started accepting that I was gay) two months ago, at first I was kinda relieved because I thought I liked girls but had too low of a sex drive to actually want to pursue them or think about them, or that I was asexual(i didn't want to be asexual because that would mean no sex).
Anyways, what's really making me depressed about the gay culture and grindr is how shallow and mean spirited these gays seem to be, even more shallow then girls. I'm afraid to put myself out their or pursue a guy because I can't handle rejection very...
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>>5543719
Well grindr is a hookup app after all, which means the people on here are looking for sex and only sex 90% of the time.
So don't be too surprised if you are judged by your physical appareance on there. You can't fuck a nice personality, after all.
Also, you really shouldn't get /fit/ to get loved, but because you want to improve yourself. You won't need steroids either. Most men are in terrible shape, so it's not hard to have a better body than the majority.
>>5543755
I'm just kinda spooked after the therapist told me that gays on grindr are really judgmental and have high standards. Also since I've always seen myself as straight most of my life, I've always been in competition with other men(like heteros do), not showing weakness, not complimenting other men for their looks, for heteros it's all about racking up numbers(fuck as many girls as possible). Also, since I'm gay and still feel pretty hetero I still have this aggressive mannerism toward men that...
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So wait, you're buying into this superficial stereotype because you think... gay guys are superficial.
Oh ok hun go have a protein shake or some shit.
Go.
I think all people have a mix of masc and fem traits, but should ID as the side they have the most traits for. This will require honest self reflection. If you have about an equal number of each, you could argue for a third gender
Could be legit, but 90 percent of them are just delusional snowflakes.
>>5541777
Nice trips
also i think SOME NonBinary genders are real
>Gray asexuality is considered the gray area between asexuality and sexuality in which a person may "occasionally experience sexual attraction."
If you experience sexual attraction, occasionally, you're still allo?
I don't get gray aces at all, and I can't accept them. They're allosexuals with low libido to me.
Am I being a bigot?
> partly asexual
It just means you have high standards or particular tastes. It also means you're a special snowflake.
If you ever get sexually-attracted to anyone, ever, even just once, it means you're not asexual.
>>5535821
that's exactly how i feel but I keep seeing tumblr posts that say otherwise using the term "ace spectrum" as excuse
pic related
There is no such thing as Asexuality.
ITT- first anal orgasm stories
No dick assistance.
>>5533644
I'm on mobile so I can't green text. Also how I lost my virginity. It was with a teacher. Might be my proudest moment.
Be me just turned 18 in January it's a week from graduation.
I have been talking to a teacher on grindr for 2 weeks.
Never incriminates himself but he knows what's up.
He's cute. Probably 27ish and teaches sociology
He said we can talk seriously after school ends.
We stay up talking all night and I get him to break.
He asks if I have ever had a bf.
I said no.
Let him know I'm a virgin.
I tell him I don't want to be a virgin when I graduate.
He says he can help if I don't ever tell anyone.
Score.
He picks me up next day.
It's Saturday and I tell my mom I'm going to a friends birthday party, and that a bunch of us are staying the night.
I jump into his car and I'm so nervous I'm shaking.
He is too and might be worse than me.
We go to his house and start watching to on his bed.
We drink a glass of wine cause we classy.
He doesn't make a move for the longest time.
He asks if I'm comfortable.
I say yes.
He asks if I want to get in the covers with him.
I say yes
>>5534093
Watching TV*
>>5534093
>can't greentext on a phone
>I mock you while green texting
>on a phone
tfw too tall to be a trap
How do I will myself to shrink?
You learn to accept your size and work with what you got.
It's not easy and definitely not fair.
>>5529882
It is very fair. If you are born a biological female you tend to look more feminine than a male who transitioned in to a female gender.
>>5529917
I was referring to life in general. No need to be bitchy about it.
Good or bad; Post em, lad.
>>5511153
>text on grindr for about 2 days
>he seems pretty cool
>tell me he just "needs to talk to someone without having sex"
>i'm ok with that
>meet up at his house
>while i'm making him coffee he slowly starts to kiss my back and all this super sweet stuff
>after 5 minutes i have his...
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>>5511309
Nice.
>>5511309
What don't you have to like prep your anus before anal? Or is it enough to just clean your butthole in the shower? Should I start experimenting with my anus before I take a cock into it?
I'm trying to get the balls to meet up with a guy tomorrow and suck each others dick. Hope it won't be awkward... i'm really anxious about it though
Why do I ejaculate less to gay porn?
You're a repressed heterosexual.
Do you want a real answer or a convenient off-the cuff nonsense explanation that sounds good?
>>5548394
real could be nice
Why do so many gays only go for white, short haired, bearded men?
>>5548007
That guy looks a little Persian.
Also whites are probably a majority where you live, men typically wear short hair, and beards have been making a comeback for the last decade.
>>5548007
As long as they are also in the correct height age and weight categories, otherwise they are as lonely as the rest of you who THINK they have it better.
>tfw the only group of people that find me hot are gays
>tfw straight
How does laser hair removal work? Are there any dangers? If so, what is the likelihood?
Are there different kinds of laser hair removal? What are they, and what are the pros and cons of each (including price)?
(Approximately) how much would it cost for each of these:
-arms (entire surface)
-legs
-stomach
-back
-chest
-bikini area
Does the bikini area include the entire pubic region, if not, how much is that?
Is there anything else that should be known?
Thanks!
Shameless self-bump! :)
>>5546912
Personally I would just invest in a really good electric trimmer instead
>>5546912
You can find all of the answers to your questions on the internet or the website of the epilation center you plan to go to.
As someone who had his ass hair epilated, I can tell you it's very comfortable being perfectly hairless all the time without any effort. It's also great to never have to worry about ingrown hair or infections, which happened with waxing and created small visible scars. I paid 420 euros over 6 epilation sessions. The whole process was pretty long (had to wait 1,5 month for the first session because I had waxed, then 1,5 month between the first session and the second and between the second and the third, and then 1 month between each session).
It was quite expansive and annoying (to wait this long for results), but in the end, I'm really glad I did it, as are all the tops.
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we forever frog editions now
>>5547586
good luck to her if she tries to target me
>>5547583
>That webm.
why
Im worried about my little half-sister. She is all mixed up in this social justice stuff. She is obsessed with this idea of oppressors thrusting victimhood onto her. When I can clearly see that she routinely chooses to be a victim, and always looks for opportunities to be a victim. Her mom always treated her like a victim, describing to her every discomfort and frustration and pain and fear as the fault of some external person or problem. Allergies, an inability to pick up the next line of text, bad teachers, brain chemical imbalance, etc...
She identifies her sexuality...
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I am become SJW the victim of worlds
>>5546756
>Her mom always treated her like a victim, describing to her every discomfort and frustration and pain and fear as the fault of some external person or problem
Same here. My sister isn't into Social Justice yet and thinks "feminism is just dumb" but she just got a tumblr so I'm waiting for the hat to drop.
What is it about women and their need to externalize all problems? It seems like everything about women is external.
>She...
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>>5546756
She's a human person who is different from you.
I need help. If this should be posted on /adv/ just tell me and I will post it there.
Getting to the point, I've been dating a guy for almost a year now. He loves me a lot and he shows it to me daily even in small ways. He's a catch as well, cute, intelligent and funny. The problem lies with his friends and family. They still won't accept him for dating a trans. His family is traditional and yes we are both Asian. They want him to have a child and all that to which I cannot give.
Lately, I find him just staring blankly and when I ask him why, he...
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Are you retarded, why in the hell would you two break up...
>>5546598
Doing shit to please your family when you don't want to is pretty much a mistake. Every azn I know who has rejected that whole thing (sydney here, went to a selective public school, know a LOT of asians) is pretty much happy with their choices, every azn still living by familial expectations is more robot with each passing year.
old >>5544066
/fit/ version >>>/fit/35579356
Why aren't you husbando mode yet?
>>5546480
that fucking pedostache ruins everything
grand theft auto
Too ugly to be a husbando tbqh
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1st for gem is too sweet and taking a man to build a bear workshop is a great way to not want to meet internet ppl anymore
>>5546450
>how u like those snaps bb ;]]]]
u can hug me I guess ........
