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>Have you hugged a tranny today?
its gotta be said, 5652 is growing on me
kind of like a fungus, but with extra banter
>>5558899
>dem dubs doe
>tfw banned from /fit/ for shitposting
Share your stories and/or fantasies
>Be me
>BF and I moved in together
>I want to fuck someone else now
>He kinda knows but would never let me
The end.
>>5558870
you can't do that f a m.
The purpose of a relationship is for it to be monogamous, to establish security for both of you. Having one partner go off and sleep around compromises that. Also it puts your partner at risk for sleeping around outside of the relationship and possibly contracting an STI of some sort.
Either play the dating game or don't, there's none of this one leg in the other leg out bullshit, it doesn't fly.
>>5558896
The security lies in the emotional side of it. There can be emotional security whilst you're having fun with others.
>>5558917
>The security lies in the emotional side of it.
also finances, living conditions and whatnot. People didn't just start being monogomous out of a vacuum, it happened because it was the best method of conducting a relationship. I'm sure once upon a time we tried the polyamorous stuff, but it just didn't work.
>There can be emotional security whilst you're having fun with others.
Well you first need to be emotionally healthy to feel a sense of emotional security, if you're emotionally content with your partner sleeping around, then you're mistaking something else for your emotional health, because that should throw up many flags in the psyche of a healthy person.
Do any of you gay guys and gals do it?
You meet a straight person, feel an attraction rising up (purely physical in my case) and then try to shut it down?
Am I right in doing so or should I not bother about it so much?
>>5558826
you don't have to shut down your attraction per se, just realize that nothing is going to come out of it. it's definitely possible to have the hots for a straight person while still being realistic that nothing going to happen. not all lust has to have an endpoint/goal.
>>5559242
>I usually use hate to block it, finding as many mistakes and errors on that person as I can. Works pretty well.
This. A thousand times this. If you can't find any mistakes, invent some. Cut ties with them completely if you feel like you can't resist.
I have no idea how bisexuals make friends. Usually when I become good friends with a guy, I'll end up being attracted to him to a certain degree, which can range from - yeah, if he initiated something I wouldn't shut it down, to oh god, fuck me right now, I NEED it, please, I beg of you - a quick handjob! a blowjob, anything!!!
Since most guys I know and am friends with look either above average or smoking hot, I have to resort to finding flaws with a microscope on them, otherwise it's guaranteed I'll fall for one of them.
Girls are your safe haven. At a new job or place, if you have the option, always choose to befriend women instead of the guys. Avoid shallow whores, find the intelligent, introverted ones. Trust me, they'll have your back through hell and back, as long as you show them kindness and respect. Most of the clever ones aren't into girly stuff either, so you can talk to them about a wide range of topics without being pressured to "omg, like, let's go shopping". Just make it clear you're not interested in that.
Homosexuality means: You like people of same sex as you and dont feel atraction for people of the other sex.<br />
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My question is why most homosexual males are into anal sex?<br />
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I mean just very few heterosexual males would like being pentrated by A GIRL using strap on.<br />
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Why being atracted by the same sex (while and not being atracted by the other) suddently make man like being analy penetrated?
Straight men wouldn't consider having anything up their ass because the stigma that the only men that do anal play are the gays.
I've had the best orgasms from anal, so if straight guys want to miss out because they might catch "the gay" if they try it, so be it.
>>5559034
Just because you like doing sutff with yuor ass that doesn't mean it's going to be good for everyone else. Not to mention that are gays that don't like it all.
Because I love dicks and i'd love a dick to go into my ass because it would feel amazing. It would also feel awesome being pounded by some fit guy.
Hetero sex is the pursuit of creation and is the pursuit of the ultimate erotic pleasure, a "magic" meeting of the yin and yang.
Homosexual sex is mutual masturbation. BUT homos are not lost souls pretending they're not straight. Instead, they are yin AND yang and do not "need" sex as much. They are both masculine and feminine.
This is why they understand both sexes and can identify problems in communication between the sexes, they feel "outside the box".
This is why they are highly intuitive and often times indifferent to petty squabbles. The closest thing to "world peace" would exist as a mostly homosexual one.
Why are gay guys more "feminine"? Because they choose to be. They choose a feminine ego because they were rejected - or perceived themselves to be - by their masculine peers or homophobic parents. The opposite is true for lesbians. Have you noticed how the over-the-top gays are less intelligent? It's because they assume that the world is composed of just 2 states of being: masculine or feminine. The guys who have a "kinda gay" way about them are the more intelligent ones as they allow themselves to embrace both masculine feminine virtues within themselves, similarly to straight men. The ones who are overly straight again choose that identity, but as a different kind of protection; they want to hide rather than fit in.
Discuss.
As a bisexual male, you are fucking retarded
>>5558657
And you're delusional. You're open-minded but you don't actively seek a sexual connection with both sexes. Think of it in the context of chemistry, it just doesn't happen.
So /lgb/, can anybody here tell me why I can't seem to fall in love with people anymore? Everytime I go out on dates with people. I just become increasingly more annoyed with everything that they do and say. Am I simply dating the wrong people? I don't know, all I know is that it feels like I can't have a connection with anyone because their flaws just blare out at me and keep me distant.
You sound like an absolute asshole. Until you fix your own flaws, you're probably better off not wasting other people's time and pointing out their.
>>5558434
You sound 17. Just be single for a little while, fuck some shit up, open your mind. Then start dating.
>>5558690
Well that's not very nice. I'm just trying to get some insight here. Dating seems to be easier for other people and I just wanted to know if there was something I could do to have a better experience, or at the very least feel something for someone.
any tips on shaving? or should i go for waxing? i only want to do electrolysis on the necessary parts, like face and shoulders. maybe chest too.
Wow, haven't seen Teto in forever.
>>5557482
Just laser it. Laser everything. It's what I'm saving for.
And if your body hair's light enough that it doesn't work with laser, chances are your hair never needed it to begin with.
>>5557619
but cis girls shave their legs... so there's no need for laser there.. right?
So I'm gay, literally cant get an erection over a girl (in porn or real life). But,while guys get me rock hard I don't connect with them on an emotional level.
Also, a couple of years ago I had a huge crush on a girl, became fucking obsessed with her, but still not physically attracted to her.
wtf.
Congrats! You have schizophrenia!
See a professional.
Were you in bed with the girl?
>>5557128
>Were you in bed with the girl?
We tried to have sex once, nothing happened. we just cuddled instead.
Idk man theres just days where i wake up and think i want to fuck a trap in the ass or have them furiously throat fuck me or brutally fuck me in the ass. I'm bi so dick and chicks get me hard so why not a combo! ^-^
>letting the dickgirl fuck you
lamo it;s like you could never ever understand
>>5556661
What?
>>5556664
transgirls hate using their dicks. b-but wow that girl in the op pic makes me hard~ i want to lick her feet so bad
A tourist on grindr really wants me to come over to his hotel for some bjs tomorrow, he has a really nice face and he knows it's my first time, he's also in a nice hotel not some sleazy hostel.
It's just that I'm so nervious, what if I have a panic attack? what if I don't get horny and find sucking dicks to be not all that what's it's up to be. What if I'll have a nervous breakdown after the sex and I scare myself emotionally? What if I can't get hard? What If im not really gay, it's kinda fucked up being a straight man that has actually sucked a dick.
I'm also afraid that I get too nervous to get in the mood.. should I take an anti anxiety pill before I meet him. I have social anxiety so...
Any tips for someone who's been mentally in the closet for most of his life? And hasn't had many sexual encounters in the first place.
I don't want to wake up tomorrow and getting cold feeted.
I need some encouragement because I really need to explore my sexuality and enjoy life just like everybody else.
>anon woke up with a severe headache and his kidneys missing
>>5555740
Don't scare me anon...
Oh my god get over yourself dude, it's a dick, just go suck it if you want to and don't if you don't and shut up about it either way
Christ straight guys are insecure...
Fellow mtfs, how do you see yourself in the future after your transition? What's your long term?
Where do you see yourselves 10 years after your transition?
I don't even see myself in 10 days
I currently live on a day to day basis
>>5553941
>Where do you see yourselves 10 years after your transition?
A guy with a semi-healed surgical scar where my dick used to be, wearing adult diapers for the fecal incontinence from a life of receptive anal intercourse.
>>5553941
Elegant woman.
>be visiting Berlin
>go sex club
>have unprotected oral sex
>have sex with girls afterwards
>now chlamydia
what are the chances of getting Chlamydia from a blowjob?
I was both receiving and giving
several guys
>>5552402
very high
>>5552407
OP here, fucking christ
:(
>>5552407
I was thinking getting STD from a blowjob was low.
I heard gay men are a considerably disliked group in within the LGBT community.
Why is that?
You're thinking of bisexual men
There wouldn't be LGBT without gay men.
Gay men are to queer circles what straight men are to the rest of the world, i.e. loud and space-taking.
>>5552040
Gay men are okay. It's the limp-wristed lisp-speaking fashion-packed faggots that ruin it.
Trump has vocally stated repeatedly throughout the years that he doesn't support lgbt rights, but he went shopping with Rudy Giuliani while the mayor himself was in drag, and claims to have attended acquaintances' gay weddings. Now the time has come. He is going to win. What does /lgbt/ think of the US' new president, someone that is more likely to ignore/turn down our rights and draft transgendered women than represent us equally as a nation?
As a final note, put this into perspective:
Average likes and fans on Facebook (arguably more representative of the younger crowd)
Trump - 20-60k likes per post/over 5 million fans
Bernie - 10-40k likes per post/over 3 million fans
Hillary - 3k-20k likes per post/over 2 million fans
Average attendance of rallies (arguably more representative of the older crowd)
Trump - 9k
Bernie - 5k, however set a record over 19k at Portland, OR with thousands outside the center
Hillary - under a couple thousand, falsely claims to have had near 6k
Bernie and Hillary barely stand a chance even if they worked together. Say hello to your new Lord and Master.
Don't worry, Trump is a businessman and a pragmatist. He doesn't support "lgbt rights" because that's code for "status quo of the left". That doesn't mean he's going to go on some crusade to repress gays and trans people.
ALL HAIL THE GODKING
CAN'T STUMP WON'T STUMP
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Trump, the only client that I crossed his name out in my little black book. Must have really been a asshole back then.
Cis male biscum here.
I'm kind of new to the whole "bisexual" thing, and am pretty confused about this whole "sexual fluidity" business.
I was pretty damn straight until I hit 30. At least I think I was. Then - out of nowhere it seems - I started finding men (pretty boy types) more and more attractive. I started watching gay/bi porn for the first time in my life... and I enjoyed it.
I still have a definite preference for women, but I can't deny that I have a desire to fuck dudes and be fucked by dudes.
What really throws me for a loop, though, is that one week I will be really into gay/bi shit... and then the next week I will be mostly interested in women.
These changes are totally chaotic (as near as I can tel)... and sometimes it makes me wonder if I really AM bisexual.
Is this how the whole bi thing works? Are we slaves to random fluctuations in sexuality?
Some of my straight streaks" could be driven by self-loathing. It's hard to tell.
Does the ride ever end?
>>5551229
it's called pedosexuality
I came out three years ago. At first I went through the same sudden fluctuations you did, but over time it settled down. I think it has something to do with the novelty of being more free and open with yourself.
I'm straight as long as I don't have internet access.