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>you will never be pregnant
>you will never wait the longest 3 minutes for your pregnancy test to tell you you have a family
>you will never hold your child against your chest and feel him suckling for milk
>you will never bring life into this world, building it cell by cell inside of you until it is perfect
This is the only good thing about being trans imo
>>5568357
thank god
>tfw you always feel completely alienated from the rest of the human race
>tfw time passes slowly and you worry about everything
>tfw you don't know if you can do this for the next 60 years
>tfw you're not even sure you want to
ok my turn now
>tfw boyfriend left me on st valentines day
>for a 18 yo boy
>be depressed for months
>shit from other aspects of life adds up
>start thinking about ending it
>one night you recive a text from a classmate who is asking for help for the coming test
>agree to help and study with him
>spend a lot of time together...
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>be me, closeted mtf
>watching that theroux doc on TV
>desperately want to turn it over but parents interested (in a really bad 'look at these freaks hahaha' way) and don't want to raise suspicion
>that hispanic 14 year old on easymode comes up talking about how she realised she was trans while watching a documentary just like this one
>realise she is going to have a happy and normal life in a way that I will...
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>tfw dad is dead
4month hrt ppprogres
>>5571406
>doesn't put any effort into their appearance
>expects changes
LOL
>>5571406
damn, test works fast. you don't look anything like a girl anymore
>>5571406
Give it more time.
How do people have sexuality confusion?
How are people so stupid that they don't know what makes them cum?
Why do people make such a big deal about it?
>>5570315
People need to just stick with "maybe i'm assexual or some shit like that, i don't care".
This is what i've done. I find girls extremely appealing but their genitals are gross. I hate male features but dick is awesome. Tried with both, couldn't cum with either.
So i just don't care. Feels good to don't live to have sex.
>growing up, everybody tells you "boys are supposed to look this way, girls are supposed to look that way!"
>growing up, everybody tells you "boys like only these genitals, girls like only those genitals."
>"Do u hab girlfriend yet, anon?"
>"Do u hab boyfriend yet, femanon?"
>"Boys only have dicks and muscles "
>"girls only have vaginas...
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>>5570384
wish somebody said that when I grew up tbqh
Hey guys, I need some advice and I am too tinfoil hat to ask this on Reddit.
Last week I met a trans girl through Reddit, on a subreddit where we hate both her (Ill just say her, other shit is too weird) gender/sexuality/condition and her ethnic group, and I frequently do too, sorry guys. Shes from a different country from me, but we could meet up in a 2 hour train ride. Shes smart, shes pretty, shes kind, she shares my hobbies and interests. Only difference is that she is about 4,5 years older than me, but I have no problems with this (turning 20 myself in a few months)....
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>meet anon
>plow anon
>stop being a virgin
Wear a condom bucko. She's probably got AIDS.
>>5569557
>i frequently hate her gender/sexuality
Fuck off
>>5569588
Great to see the eternally offended present, I expected you
Info plz
Random tranny + eyeliner?
Eyeliner is magic dude, just slap it on someone if their looks stop you from falling in love.
>>5568584
who this is?
they's hawt
Hey people, so my gf's laptop was left open on a Facebook conversation she was having with her gay friend, and basically she admitted she was bisexual to him, but didn't know how to tell me or her friends because she was worried about the reaction. She doesn't know I saw it, and I haven't said anything because I don't want her to think I was snooping.
Personally I'm proud of her,and I hope that she can trust me enough to tell me, because I love her dearly, but we were on the subject of bisexuality earlier today and she didn't seem to...
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Your story is cute
My advice would be that you should tell her that whatever she turned out to be you'd accept her or something like that (if the occasion comes up)
It's always nerve wracking to come out, I think that if someone told me this kind of thing it would be way easier for me to tell them
>>5564993
I hinted at it, because I want her to be as comfortable with it as possible, the messages also said that she didn't want me to think she'd leave me for it, and that it was just the way she felt. So I reassured her that hypothetically if it happened that i'd love her just the same. I just hope that she has the heart to tell me and it's not upsetting her that she'd think I'd end our relationship :/
bumping for more advice, will check in the morning, (approx 6 hrs) thanks in advance to anybody who gives me some advice
As a member of the trans and gay communities, the push to unban gay and trans people from donating blood pisses me off. I hate that my friends just assume that this is discrimination--a lot of people do, but the AIDS infection rate for trans youth hovers around 30% and it's going up.
We shouldn't be allowed to give blood.
I'm sorry, but it's objectively true. I've noticed that a lot of these kinds of pushes are initiated by straight people who have no idea what they're talking about. they see 'discrimination' and want to...
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>>5561074
Is the testing really that unreliable though?
>>5561086
The tests still aren't adequately sensitive, and often aren't adequately performed, and NO test CAN be adequately sensitive for the sheer volume of transfusions. Even if it's 99.99% sensitive, a _lot_ of blood transfusions happen. Even a 0.001% infection rate is stupidly high. In just the past decade, about a million new HIV infections happened worldwide because screening failed or wasn't adequately performed. There are also many countries where screening is too expensive or the equipment doesn't...
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the weird thing is, gay people discuss it all the time! I don't know a gay person sufficiently into gay culture who would be caught dead or alive saying that HIV isn't a gay disease.
It's mostly straight people that "want to help" or gay people that don't socialize with other gay people
How hot are you legbutts?
https://howhot.io/
don't be afraid
its okay
to be ugly
>>5540414
I'm pretty hot actually
>>5540414
it either defines me as a 45 year old woman or a 35 year old guy. same pic. make up your goddamn mind, robot.
I get anywhere from "underage"-21 and male or female results are 50/50.
Also labeled as "hmmm.." Most of the time, sometimes as "ok"
Daily reminder to stop posting on /pol/ with your fucking comics etc. fags
>>5573058
We'll stay on our containment board if you stay on yours, you double faggot.
Elf edition
Everyone loves elves!
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>>5572720
>>5572707
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>>5572721
Ok, I'm going to have to take your word, given clearly despite my best efforts, I'm just plain not able to see it. Fucking dysphoria.
>>5572724
Pookie...
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WHY don't we ever have a Beatles edition?? You bitches need taste.
>>5572798
pookies eyebrows make her look constantly super fucking high
I'm in the process of transitioning(mtf) and I've realized how much time and thought have been wasted on planning my transition, it's like a game to me, but it feels like a useless effort.
Ideally, I'd like to actually have a life outside of always talking and thinking about transitioning and find some sort of hobby outside of jerking off.
I don't wanna be 40 on my 3rd round of FFS, realizing how much time I wasted on useless shit because I was going to be an ugly 40 year old anyway. Time is flying. I'm 22 now with no college degree,...
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>>5572603
I assume that trannies find hobbies the same way that cisgender people do: by trying new activities for shits and giggles. If you like the activity, keep going. If you don't, then try something else for fun.
>>5572603
I build and shoot guns for a hobby...
You could try that.
>>5572603
Maybe take some time to try out some of the hobbies you were discouraged from showing any interest in while you were being raised as a boy. I recommend crochet. It's repetitive and soothing like meditation, but you have something to show for it when you're done.
>young, introverted gay
>just started college
>signed up for the gay/straight alliance
>starts this week
>wait shit i forgot im a child who knows nothing
>what am I getting myself into
This is actually the first time I'll be really meeting some people that aren't straight. I've grown up in an awfully conservative/christian environment and need to meet new people.
Anyone...
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>>5572345
I tried going to some LGBTQ+ event at my university and just felt really out of place.
Everyone was extremely extroverted with really bubbly personalities and i was just kind of shy and introverted.
I spent the day drinking coffee and eating donuts by myself, listened to a couple lecturers speeches and decided to leave early since I clearly didn't belong there lol
Try not to get molested or taught that you can only express homosexuality by being a huge slut.
Also read lots of /pol/.
>>5572345
it will be dominated by snide narcissistic faggots who will give you the stink eye if you're not someone they want to fuck. there are no straight people because there are no allies, and there is no help because it's just Billy's or Jamie's opportunity to hold court
just kill yourself now and save yourself the trouble
Anybody else here codependent AF? My gf left for a 2 week trip this morning and I've been crying on and off for 12 hours about it. I wish I had the courage to kill myself so they felt awful for leaving me. I know that's super crazy but it's true. I'm a lesbian, I'm wondering if codependency is more common in lesbians or gays
mtf and codependent as fuck. my life revolves around my bf right now and I know it's unhealthy. I've been having a lot of panic attacks lately I hope he doesn't leave me
>>5572249
Why are you lesbians so clingy?
>>5572648
(Straight guy so dont qoute any shit i say on this board)
I feel like it depends more on the person than the sexual oreintation weither you are independant or clingy AF.
/lgbt/, I want my boyfriend to be more open/rely on me more for emotional/mental support.
> Been dating this guy for a year.
> Really starting to think he's the one.
> He's literally the phrase "salt of the earth" incarnate.
> Incredibly patient, kind, smart, calm, and practically skilled.
> Is fit.
> Enjoys work, also great home maker.
>...
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>>5555172
I feel like that last paragraph is exactly what you need to say to him
Not everyone likes to share their emotions.
Everyone deals with their shit in different ways.
