i don't know if this belongs here but i need help
tips for bottoming for the first time?
I've read some stuff online and my one friend has told me about his experience but i just wanna get more info
by the way my bf is 8 inches
>shoot water up your ass
>shit it out
>repeat
>lube up something that resembles a big dick and stick it up your ass a couple hours before
>repeat
>poppers
>meth (optional)
Be safe have fun!!!
>>5671657
>Ok
>Ok
>alright
>Ok
>uh huh
>sure....
>Don't do this ever
Good luck! I'm a bottom myself can only say I'm jealous, have fun!
Does the Father-Son relationship determine one's sexuality?
I recently read a very interesting article on the possible connection between father-son relationships and homosexuality. It includes molestation, fatherless or distant relationships, lazy or violent role models, overprotective smothering from the mother, rejection of the son and vice versa, and more. While I can't deny the studies seem to be well controlled and conducted, I can't help but agree that the stigma against homosexuality plays an important part on the perception of this study, where as it is mentioned that the son is the one who rejects the father first, who then in turn rejects the son in some or all of the aforementioned variables.
Regardless, it's a very interesting reading, especially for someone like me, who was openly mocked and rejected compared to my older brother, by a piece of shit role model of a father.
Thoughts and this? Does anyone feel like this could be true?
Link to the article is here:
http://fathersforlife.org/dale/childhood_of_homosexual_men_2.htm
>>5695151
pretty interesting read
My mother was a alcoholic growing up and my father was detached from me emotionally and was gone a lot because of school and would be studying a lot.
I turned out trans :^)
I think if you were the bottom in your father son relationship you turn out gay but if you are the top you will probably be straight. My dad only sucked me off and I think that is why I am bi.
>>5695151
My father was completely emotionally distant and generally thought I was a pretty worthless person. My mother and female members of my family smothered me.
>tfw e-boyfriend tells you he doesn't love you anymore
How do I move on and leave him?
By realizing this isn't not a bad thing because life goes on. He was a lesson, something to learn from for your next experience. And you might feel like the next one won't feel as special, and you're right, because each love you will experience will be special in it's own way. Keep your chin up kid.
Also 2 suggestions:
Don't online date, it's just not the same, physical contact, body language, and tone play an important part in growing as a couple.
Also, sorry to say it, but most people won't respond to posts like these because we've all been through it and know you'll be fine without advice, but also because they don't care.
>>5695056
Find another e-boyfriend to fill the void... What's yo digits bby?
But seriously, just take time for yourself and do things you enjoy... That's what I did when I found out my e-boyfriend was actually a catfish. I was naive and never thought gay guys catfished other gay men, especially if they met in a video games.
>>5695083
Thank you anon. I appreciate the response and the advice. It really means more to me than you think.
>tfw you say something in class and the transcriber prefaces it with "male student"
>>5694377
>tfw your cute physics professor said "Sir" to call your attention
>tfw your parents think there's a push for transgenderism by the government for population growth control
>tfw they should have noticed you were not interested in reproducing since long before you came out
>tfw you keep thinking your mother is trying to dismiss it by saying it to herself
>tfw it's probably just an "I know better than you" tone
>tfw your mother asks you if it is cold in your room (was wearing my coat)
>tfw I said I didn't know (I put the jacket on before, when I was in the cold living room, not my bedroom)
>tfw she said, "How could you not know? It's your own body."
>tfw she ends her sentence in that unsure way you do when you realize something, like when you contradict something you said earlier (probably the irony of her statement when combined with her ignoring that I am trans)
>>5694622
Oh, I forgot.
>In the context of my mother's call to my father about the conspiracy theory about the government
>She said to my father that my brother I originally came out to says he sees the push for it now and he doesn't believe I'm trans anymore
>tfw
At least the youngest brother (17) still believes me.
Who the fuck is transcribing your classroom discussions
Whats up faggots
So my little 14 yo bro confessed to me last night that he wants to turn trans
How easy would it be for him, also would he make a good looking girl, he's skinny fat
Fuck off mods I'm 18
No one gonna reply?
At 14? Unless the first few years of puberty have utterly ravaged her, your little sister will have very little masculinization interfering with her transition, and plenty of time to socialize with other girls.
Post a pic otherwise I can't tell you shit
How can I accept ftms?
>know a ftm irl
>not on mones, just uses binder from time to time
>told me about this guy he's dating
>explains the guy claims he's not gay, but expresses interest in my friend
>ftm friend says "he" caught the guy making out with another
>ftm questions guy
>guy says he might have some interest in dudes and is willing to expirement
>ftm friend and guy are going on a date soon, "he's" worried if the guy will be weird about the date
>to add my friend feels worried about leaving the house in boy clothes
I know there are similarities between this and mtfs (myself being one). But the mental illness part of the trans thing shows brightest with ftms in my experience.
Is this a sign that transitioning is crazy town? or maybe ... i don't fucking know guys
why do i permit mtf but not ftm, and i shit talk my trans feelings 24/7 jokingly, out and proud too.
>>5694289
I can't see anything in your greentext that seems particularly wrong or strange, besides the couple times you put quotations around the word he.
Listen, how are we, or anyone for that matter, supposed to take you and your gender issues seriously if you can't even empathize enough to understand and accept your friend who is also transgender? You can't even use his preferred pronouns without being sarcastic.
You've heard of the saying about throwing rocks and living in glass houses right?
>>5694289
Step 1. Stop being a piece of shit.
>>5694345
It wasn't sarcasm but indicators to keep him separate from the potential bf. As proof there are no quotations till I begin juggling them both.
Women have looser gender barriers than men, and aside from his binder he just comes off as a tomboy. Why is the guy afraid? Technically it'll be a straight date, resemblance wise.
Why be afraid to leave the house in boy clothes?
This is extremely acceptable for women and is a top fashion trend.
I guess I'm saying that in contrast with men, transitioning is much less drastic and anti-climactic for women to the point where even I don't get it..
I'm a little in denial of my own feelings, and I think experiences like these are only adding to the fire.
Anyone else have positive experience with breast and butt augmentation?
I'm a 5'10" transwoman and decided to go the non-hormones route and skip the therapy as all that. I've gotten many compliments from men who have told me that they didn't realize I was trans until I told them. Most people agree that I'm passable. I have never touched hormones, but instead opted for fat grafting in my butt, as well as butt and breast implants by Dr. Karabis. I have also maintained a low-protein high-fat diet and gotten laser hair removal. I would recommend gummy implants for a more realistic look, although I wish they made them in larger sizes.
Some of you may recognize me because of my tripcode, I have posted several pictures of myself before and linked my tumblr and I have received nothing but support from this community.
The main reason I decided to go the non-hormone route is because I enjoy having a high sex drive and wouldn't want to sacrifice that aspect of myself.
nobody gives a fuck and even if this troll post was real youre going to look so fucking disgusting eventually
>>5694195
>no hormones
So you're a crossdresser.
>>5694210
You're free to label me how you want. I have been called a crossdresser before and I'm fine with it. However, I have realistic breast and butt implants and although I'm bisexual I'm in a loving committed relationship with my live-in boyfriend.
who else here doesn't fit the 'gay' stereotype? nobody can tell I'm gay at all unless I tell them. I'm not attracted to super flamboyant queens nor do I act like one. but I feel so isolated from the gay 'community' because I feel like I'm not like almost any of them.
We have this thread every day.
There's more of you than than there is if them.
Masc4masc ID cards are given out the 1st and 15th of the month
I can relate but I love flamers, they're beacons of light and joy in this disgusting miserable world of ours
>>5692545
Literally everyone you huge faggot, we have this thread every twenty minutes. You aren't special.
P.S. It's pretty gay to be that worried about what other people think of you
Who here is on the spectrum? has this intersected with being mtf in any way?
>>5691427
>>5691530
kek
>>5691530
Hah, implying anyone is actually genuinely trans and it's not all just fetishes and autistic horseplay. Implying yall niggas ain't all BPD having motherfuckers.
Being a mtf autist trumps being a BPD mtf because people with borderline personality disorder can be really petty and mean spirited. Autistic people generally don't go out of their way to old grudges and hurt people. Or maybe I'm being too unfair towards people BPD?
I passed an examination for the autism spectrum last week and will get the results at the end of the month
I'm pretty confident I'm aspie though.
So with that in mind, I never related to masculinity in any way. I don't have any of the aspirations that males typically have, down to the desire to fuck someone with my penis. I want to get rid of my body hair, I want long hair, I want to stay skinny and to have smoother skin. But I don't care about having tits or a vagina or being called miss. I'm really lost and confused because I don't know if I have gender issues because of asexuality or if I have asexuality because of gender issues. The fact of the matter is that I feel depressed and uneasy about both. I can't stand the idea of staying alone, and I can't stand the idea of aging like a man.
And in turn I wonder how much of this is simply all due to gender/sexual nonconformity that comes with being on the autism spectrum. Shit really sucks.
How many cocks have you sucked? Highest score wins a prize
>12
1
does mine count?
> just turned 19
> still virgin
> TFW relationship virgin
> still no top bf to cuddle and give myself to
Why even live
I'll fuck and cuddle you, but you should know I'm a manwhore and I'll pity fuck anything.
>>5690753
I'm in the same boat hue hue
i just turned 18 but i won't be able to live on my own until i graduate high school in summer. might not get independence until the autumn season when college starts too. so i was wondering if there are ways to feminise my body or reduce the damage testosterone has done/can do until then? i'm desperate for anything. i'm at my breaking point.
The damage is probably done. 18 is too late to start.
>>5690684
nooooo! don't say that! D: it's not my fault i had to live in a 3rd world country the past half of my life! why is it that now of all times that i can go back to america, i'm already fucked?
>>5690719
Biology doesn't give a shit if you're privileged or not, you're going to be a lot worse off for failing to start earlier.
>have almost perfect cute cis internet boyfriend
>be ftm
>he prefers girls
>tried to get me to think about not being trans
>so he can tell parents he is straight cause its easier
>have to pretend im a trap around his friends
help me im suffering
pic included is me right now
>inb4 sees thread and breaks up with me
>>5690438
>inb4 sees thread and breaks up with me
I would break up with him if I were you desu
I mean he likes girls and you're getting the body of a man. That's just not going to work.
>>5690527
This, OP. You're a gay man who wants to date a straight man. How can we help you with this, foolioso?
>>5690557
im in denial
>bisexual male
>sometimes want men, usually want women
>don't want my GF sexually and only slightly romantically when in the mood for men
>don't want anything to do with guys when in the mood for women
>personality changes based on who I want to fuck
It's like there are two different people fighting for control of my body. What the fuck do I do?
sometimes I wish I weren't bi but at least I don't have the cycle thing going on like some bi people do.
my sympathies, it sounds awful.
Telling everyone helps. You tried that? I know that feeling bro, and your confusion will become their confusion.
Is ... this true? This made me paranoid a little because while I never played with myself in the bedroom or any room except the bathroom I do finger myself pretty often so yeah obviously there has to be some contact between my fingers and whatever even though I wipe my butt a million times and keep it super clean. Still I am scared, I use regular soap to clean myself afterwards and I have never smelled anything bad on my hands so is there still poop? Do I have to use gloves from now so it's not spread anywhere?
>>5689715
Of course there's still poop. Not much but much more than any home where there's no anal play. It's really nothing to worry about but it's not a good thing.
>>5689715
I can't fucking believe I have to say this to a functioning adult, but keep your fingers out of your asshole you sex-crazed freak.
Poop particles get launched into the air when you flush the toilet. Everyone already breathes in poop particles on a regular basis, and touches things that they've landed on (like the flush handle).
