How are some people still figuring out their sexualities as adults?
>Seriously who doesn't know who floats their boat by the age of 15?
>>5803988
Sexuality can be pretty fluid and confusing, especially during your teenage years. It becomes pretty clear by around 20 at the latest though. These people who are "figuring it out" later on just consciously pushed themselves deep into the closet when they were younger. It's not a realization, it's an embracement.
>>5803988
I had a general idea of who I liked, but I grew up in a very conservative area so I forced myself to never explore it, never talk about it, never mention any of it, and bury it. Now in my 20s I'm still repressed and sexually confused, even after coming out. All of these people have been in the LGBT dating circut for years and I'm bumbling into it now like wtf am I doing pls help me.
>>5803988
Took me until I was 18 to admit to myself I was gay. I had some major fetishes (abdl) that obscured that fact for awhile - namely I would "self-insert" while looking at abdl pics - telling myself that it's the fetish, not the guy I was getting off to. Denial is a bitch.
But yeah - I know dudes in their thirties who are still "questioning" and I think it's ridiculous.
If TERFs, gendercrits and radfems want gender abolished then women's spaces shouldn't be allowed to exist because they arbitrarily segregate people based on their biological sex. They're unwittingly reinforcing sexism and arbitrary gender roles by forcing others out of certain spaces or into certain labels that hinge on their bio sex.
>but muh raep victims and womyn's shelters
So what? If some bitch gets triggered by seeing a male, then that means she's either delirious or a blatant sexist, how is this the male's fault? And the very idea of women only shelters is sexist and misandrist. Shelters should be made to accommodate everyone regardless of bio sex. All lives matter! Everyone should be treated equally.
Radfems, including the subset of terfs, do not want gender abolished.
Do you even understand the different between second and third wave feminism? It's these bullshit sjws who want gender abolished and shit.
I'm not either personally, I think they're both imbecilic and feminism has been downhill since Wollstonecraft tbqh.
But women's shelters are needed, there is a demand for them. There are also men's shelters like YMCA. These places function better when divided by gender to give the right care to the right demographics and leave women feeling safe and actually being safe.
>>5803719
My experience with women only spaces as an obvious dude is that they are either A) not safe and ment to bully and exclude, especially transwomen, with "safety" just a thin veener or B) not really 'women only', but more like 'for women, mostly but dudes are welcome too just don't be dicks please'. I've been to plenty of Bs, and people are usually chill and welcoming.
>feminism has been downhill since Goldman and de Cleyre
fixed that for you
>>5803719
TERFs don't call themselves TERFs, they call themselves gender-critical. Originally that meant they were in favor of abolishing gender roles, as they were something that holds women back. However, now they view gender as a "loophole" which allows men to invade female spaces. They don't realize that discriminating based on sex is in fact enforcing the gender roles they originally wanted to abolish.
How does it feel to date a man that is a chaser? I think i beginning to like the idea to have a one, even though i am misantrophic, because a guy (i love their cocks even though i am bi) that wants me just because of my tiny sissy cock makes me horny.
>cuddle with him
>watch movies with him
>let him suck, ride my cock and fuck me in the ass everyday
>kiss him
>use drugs with him so we can be like Mr.J and Harley
>>5802244
>because a guy that wants me just because of my tiny sissy cock makes me horny.
AGP
G
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Yesssssssss, tell me more about how tiny it is.
i don't think i've ever been with a guy who wasn't a chaser. it's just nice to be appreciated as you are instead of trying to live out a fantasy of being who you wish you were
Logic dicates that im correct.
FTM women:
>dress like men
>act like men
>talk like men
>emulate men as much as possible
>reason for doing so: makes them feel comfortable about themselves
Butch lesbians:
>dress like men
>act like men
>talk like men
>emulate men as much as possible
>reason for doing so: makes them feel comfortable about themselves
The only difference between the 2 is the FTM has come to terms with their mental ilness, the butch lesbian is unable to except the fact their brain feels comfortable being manly even though its all they do all day.
>>5802075
The only difference is butch dykes don't wear fake penises.
>>5802095
>fake penises.
>what is a strapon
>>5802075
Butch lesbians = FTM in denial
Twinks, bottoms, fags = MTF in denial
hey leggbutts
straight cisgirl here. I just caught my younger brother sleeping with his best friend. we share an house together and i was away on a trip but came home two days early and found them both asleep naked on a pull out floor mattress thing we have in the living room. my brothers friend was sprawled out and my brother was curled up to him with his head on his chest. There was also a thing of lube next to them.
I didn't wake them up, just went to my room and went to sleep. Not sure if they know that I saw them.
What should I do?
Nothing, it's none of your business. If he doesn't want to talk about it, there's nothing to talk about.
>>5801728
Seconded.
>>5801722
As long as he and his friend cleaned up after themselves, probably better to do nothing. Closeted, he and his friend will be much more discrete than they would otherwise be, so there's no gain in outing him.
Who is very afraid of HIV here? I mean, exaggerated fear.
I hate this virus so much. I'm still virgin because of it.
>>5801653
sounds like an excuse because you can't get laid
>>5801653
I have an exaggerated fear of it becaue some people close to me died because of AIDS
But that really didn't stop me from losing my virginity. Just be responsible and practice safe sex.
Not having sex because you might get HIV is like not leaving your house because you might get run over by a car. Yes, there is a risk, but if you wait for the green light and look at both sides before crossing the street, the chances of it happening decrease considerably.
>>5801653
Look OP, you're only going to live once
Don't live your life in fear
If it makes you feel safer take Prep and always wear a condom
That way you have a better chance of getting HIV from a homeless man tripping on the bus and accidentally injecting you with a drug syringe tipped with HIV.
Someone posed an interesting argument.
If you don't give diet pills to anorexic people, why can you give HRT to trans people?
Halp. I honestly don't know why.
Leave Shirazu out of this....Anyways, anorexia is a complex mental illness/disease of the mind, and being transgender doesn't inherently cause harm and isn't an illness.
Giving a meth addict meth is different than giving someone who's uncomfortable with their nose a nose job. You feel?
>>5801088
Sorry.
I... Guess I understand. Still not 100%, but yeah.
Gotta stop hanging around /pol/ "P-PLS KILL TRANNIES MUH FEELS" fucks, I guess.
But isn't trans really a mental illness, niceness aside? Then what is it, an anal illness? If it isn't an illness then why does it need to get treated with HRT anyway in the first place?
>>5801115
Well, trans is a medical condition, that much is for sure. But it's not an illness in the sense that there's no true solution for it. You know, a lot of trans people decide they wouldn't like to transition for a plethora of reasons, but some would kill themselves if they were announced if it was impossible.
Besides, scientifically speaking, it's not an illness because it is something that exists since birth. You do not develop these kind of things. However, they appear at some points in life, and then the choice is either to accept or repress.
That's basically it.
Here for the ones who care more about looking feminine like they want, and discussing that, more than labels and pronouns, and despise arbitrary intergroup toxicity.
▶ Should you use 'he' or 'she'?
If you want to be nice, use what the person prefers if you know, or if you don't know use 'they'. But in any case, don't get pissed about anyone about pronouns because the whole point of this thread is to say 'fuck labels'. Labels were designed several thousand years ago to separate masc males and fem females, not for us.
▶ Should femboys transition?
"Transition" is a black box, separate it and treat every piece at a time. Do you want a feminine body? Take hormones. Do you like long hair? Grow it out. Do you like feminine clothes? Wear them. Do you think 'girl' describes you better than 'boy'? Describe yourself how you want. Don't think one part compels you to agree to every other.
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Makeup: https://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860 and /r/MakeupAddiction
▶Skincare: https://reddit.com/r/SkincareAddiction/wiki
▶Hair care: https://reddit.com/r/HaircareScience/wiki and /r/FancyFollicles
▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
first for perineum rubbies
What's a femorf
I was born male, I like to look like a girl and take hormones, I pass about 9/10, and I don't know what I should say to people? Am I a feminine boy because I'm bi? I feel no real attachment to calling myself a girl, nor am I opposed to it, but when 9/10 people call me "miss" it seems like "girl" describes me who I am better. I don't want to change myself with the target of being a girl, I just want to be myself and it seems that "girl" seems to coincidentally describe me better than "boy".
Back story first 19 MtF 1 year HRT. Where do trans people, more specifically MtF's, find bf's and fuckbuddies? I like to think I pass decently because I usually get compliments at work from random customers on my hair and skin. No matter how much time and effort I put into my appearance I still have never had a guy come up to me or act interested in me. I've tried going out and looking in the usual places chasers go for us, usually in like cute little geeky places like retro game stores, but I still don't have any luck there either. I'm not unapproachable either as I'm very shy, but I always try to smile so I don't look bitchy. I've seen couples come in to where I work where the "girls" that the guy is with isn't passing and is still using their male voice yet somehow has a bf. It drives me up a wall because I feel sexually frustrated. It's like there's a secret that everyone else knows to finding a bf or fuckbuddy that I don't know. I'd ideally like to find a bf, but at the same time most guys don't want to be seen with us which is understandable, but why can't I seem to find someone to at least fool around with. It's like I constantly see people on here talking about fucking this guy and that guy I'm just like how doest one find this "guy" in the first place. On the sex side all I expect is you bring the condom, on the other hand though I've been told I expect too much from a potential bf too from the girls I work with. Is wanting a guy who I can go out with, play video games/cards with, cook for, take care of, fuck, and give money too in exchange for basically someone who will walk around with me and let me hold on to their arm really a lot to expect. Any answers to where I can start finding people would be great because I can't deal with being alone much longer.
Where do you live?
>>5794367
Bait
>>5794406
MA I would go to clubs to look but I'm not 21 and the clubs that are 18+ all suck.
meta edition;
/mtfg/ing about /mtfg/
▶Zeemaps: https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1843968
▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV (embed) (embed) (embed) (embed)
▶Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge (embed) (embed) (embed) (embed)
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶MTFG Radio https://www.dubtrack.fm/join/mtfg
▶Discord (new): https://discord.gg/0qFz5Shp1aVSTsTz
▶IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat #mtfg
Previous shitshow >>5816926
First for coping with reality.
I hate it when transgirl stuff 100% mimics my life and forces me to admit I might be trans
Literally made me cry
Why are you still around?
Life is short.
I have no friends
>>5815020
Because I'm at work and it's boring.
>>5815020
Because I'm desperate.
trainsgendered edition
▶Zeemaps: https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1843968
▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV (embed) (embed) (embed) (embed)
▶Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge (embed) (embed) (embed) (embed)
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶MTFG Radio https://www.dubtrack.fm/join/mtfg
▶Discord (new): https://discord.gg/0qFz5Shp1aVSTsTz
▶IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat #mtfg
Previous thread >>5815192
#adrididnothingwrong
>>5816926
first for choo choo chewing on cocks
>not sugar daddies edition
heresy
Hang out, don't freak out and remember
>don't tripfag
>don't respond to shitposters
What's your go-to drink?
>>5809184
Whiskey. A lot. Just fuck me man. Anything, as long as I drink enough to almost be hospitalized.
>>5809184
>getting rid of the most important rule
Vodka. Anything vodka.
Cold glass of milk/water is also acceptable.
discuss
>>5800094
who the FUCK is this stupid meme
>>5800150
this qt
>>5800579
You have a trip now?
University legbutts, have you gotten involved in your campus LGBT club? If not, why? If so, how are the people there? Is it full of SJW nonsense?
>>5798825
mine was.
someone posted a pic on an event page saying they were too nervous to come out to the event, so instead they stayed in and did art therapy. They then posted a picture of an animal that could have been drawn by a 10 year old, covered in glitter.
They were praised by everyone.
I don't need that noise in my life.
I've been to my trans club and it's pretty worthless.
Tumblrinas ruin everything.
>>5798834
do you have the pic?
