Archived threads in /lgbt/ - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender - 388. page
>Be in college
>Meet this transgirl and really want to date her
>I ask her out and she turns me down
>Sad about it but move on
>Kind of become friends I guess? We didn't really hang out but we did talk here and there
>Eventually start dating this QT girl and I mention it casually
>Suddenly she starts talking about "polyamory" and "open relationships", talking about how a guy like me shouldn't be tied down to "just one girl". I feel a little uncomfortable about it but okay
>Eventually she just flat out asks me out and I tell her no
>She does the transgirl equivalent of "REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE" and gives me some of the most evil eyes I'd ever seen
Are all transgirls this autistic?
>>5849463
wait are trans girls not allowed to normal ree?
>Are all transgirls this autistic?
Yes
-t. gay man
>>5849463
Yes. Were actually you expecting to find a tranny that doesn't have a mental disorder? Kek
If I want to fuck a MTF because they're an MTF and not just a "female", I already fucked up, didn't I?
>>5847950
just fuck people you love
or fuck and dump, no one fucking cares
>>5847956
/thread
>>5847950
does it matter? just learn to lie really well
most of the men the trannies on this board are with lie about being chasers too. they dont realize that without us they'd be single
If you are trans, that must mean you care about gender roles. If you didn't care about gender roles, you would just act the way you want to act while staying your original gender.
So why do so many trans people complain about gender roles?
The more they say they hate it the more it is part of their sexual behaviour in the bedroom. FACT.
I can't speak for anyone else, but my problem is with my my body, not my "role," otherwise I WOULD have just kept acting the way I wanted while staying my original gender
>>5847209
this
So I'm staying with my best bro, I'm gay, he's not. I want to sleep with him (just cuddling) cause honestly i can accept him rejecting me cause he's not gay but i really like him and this pain in my chest is fucking killing me, but he won't let me cause he thinks it's "kind of gay". What should I do to convince him? or should I just kill myself?
There's nothing you can do to convince him. You just have to move on.
>>5846972
>>5846972
Worst thing, is that he knows about my situation, and he thinks it's "funny" to dicktease me, so that only pours salt in the wound, it deepens the pain, making it worse. Is it so much to ask to someone i've known over a decade and have shared a shitload of moments with?
How do you deal with the dysphoria these cause when you see them? Constant reminder of not being CIS..
For the fast few months I've started buying them and putting them up my butt. Anyone else do that?
You accept that you are delusional and that biology matters. That reality is what it is regardless of your feelings. You grow up.
How can I deal with never having a big penis. It is giving me terrible dysphoria.
>>5846251
gross
Any LGBT undocumented immigrants on here? What is your countries laws concerning LGBT immigrants, refugees, and undocumented immigrants?
illegal immigrant*
ftfy
>when you reach their boarders say you are lgbt Mehmet
>>5846091
>illegal immigrant*
I suggest you fuck off and die.
How do you deal with the fact that you'll basically be ignored by most people? At least with pale twinks they have the comfort of knowing being pale is more feminine and thus attractive even if they're skinny and even brown girls and male Asians are fetishisised by people. I feel like being coloured and male just puts me at a huge disadvantage. Also Is there anyway for us to integrate into gay culture? I feel totally alienated from any gay scene and struggle to fit in anywhere. I don't want to feel like this forever.
>>5845410
post your colored benis, bby
>>5845410
Stay away from gay "culture" unless you enjoy vapid people, on being gay, skinny brownie I've found other non whites hit on me occasionally, helps finding most white guys unattractive, but if you want a white guy, your outta luck.
>>5846632
>that pic
I have some stoopid thoughts/ compulsions that annoy me/ won't leave for some reason.
>be me 19 yo guy
>jerk off to gay porn constantly
>used to only jerk off to straight porn
>I cum, but I don't feel disgusted (¿I think?)
>fuck myself deep with bananas
>feels good man, but realistically this might be a sign that I'm a repressed tranny ie that I subconsciously want a...
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Sempaitachi gotta help me out on this one. I thought being aware that my interest in gay shit is just a compulsion/ delusion would be enough to make me a productive and confident straight person.
Don't matter that I was a bit into gay shit as a kid since those tendencies disappeared or something. And since gay people don't just realize their gay at my age, I'm realistically not gay, and getting
fucked by guys on grindr would be irresponsible and very destructive.
Has anyone got a clue what I zhould do/ pursue?
>inb4...
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Look, you exist somewhere on the Kinsey scale. You might be bi leaning straight, or the middle, or leaning gay but denying it. Just do know that being attracted to guys doesn't mean you have to participate in stereotypes. You're free to be your own person.
Jus b urself OP
How am I doing at one month HRT? When do I start passing looool. Also can someone photoshop me with long hair pls
>>5844318
You look fine
did anyone ever cure GID without transitioning? not interested in becoming a freak, just fix my brain desu
>>5844297
Just don't end up as a hon.
>>5844297
>freak
You'll be interested in knowing it's forever then. They've already found evidence which suggests it's genetic, since if one in a set of identical twins experiences it then the other will too.
>>5844351
what did i do to deserve this
>Dentist Jacobus Van Nierop could be sentenced to 10 years in prison and fined 375,000 euros ($413,000) if convicted. More than 50 victims are also seeking damages.
>Scores of people came forward with complaints ranging from multiple healthy teeth removed, pieces of tools left in teeth, abscesses, recurrent infections and misshapen mouths between 2009 and 2013.
>He claims he was suffering from a borderline personality disorder, complicated by a transgender issue and suicide attempts....
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>>5844157
HEDOESNTWANTTOPAY
It's horrible what happened, but that's a very manipulative title. It's clear that his "transgender issue" was just one facet on a diamond of insanity.
>>5844157
Reminds me of this time my science teacher told me that back when HIV was thought to be a gay-only disease, a gay dentist would cut himself on purpose and bleed into his patients' mouths to infect them. His plan I think was to get the world to pay attention to it and start treating it now that it was in heterosexuals.
Has anyone else never masturbated before? I'm an 18 year old virgin female, and still haven't even attempted to do it. I'm just still too terrified at the idea of having something shoved in 'there'. Which is why I can't even wear tampons...I'm bi so I do hope to have sex eventually, but for now I don't think it will be a possibility ;-;. Anyone else having this problem?
idk maybe see a therapist
or just get it over with and stick something in there and keep doing it until it feels normal
Girls don't have to masturbate by penetrating themselves, you can just try clit stuff instead
That's what I do
>>5843515
you can also rub around the outside if you want, not just on the clit
but really if you have issues with penetration it's worth exploring why that is and if you can overcome them
I live in an area that is predominantly white. How do I meet some black hunks in here and ... burn some coal, you know, take their chocolate sticks into my pale white hands and rub them against my budding breasts, showing off color contrast between our skin which is like really hot?
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Get a Jackd account
>>5843440
>budding breasts
Blacks don't like traps.
>>5843440
>I live in an area that is predominantly white.
Where you live?
I'm a white boy with a black bf here.
I might be gay I might be bi. I don't really know what my sexuality is. I've felt close to both I'm afraid of forming any kind of sexual relationship because I'm kinda fucked up from being molested as a kid. Send help plz. I'm a guy btw.
>>5843380
Just be you are self (;!
>>5843405
i read this in larry david's voice
Does anyone here have that tool that can measure voice frequency? I am mtf and I sound like this ftm guy so I am curious about how much Hz it is exactly?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1yVpMv8wJ0
>>5842918
I'm using a PitchLab on my phone and I can recommend it. I'm training my voice for a 4 months now and my friend said that I sound like a woman already. I don't believe it, but she said so.
This one for Android seems like a good one to try, it's pretty clearly designed for trans people working on their voices (it shows you text to read, you read it, and it shows where your voice landed in terms of typically male or female ranges), and is free.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=de.lilithwittmann.voicepitchanalyzer&hl=en
>>5842951
You have to sign in to download it so that sucks because I don't have a google account. But whatever. I played around in Audacity and if it's measuring correctly it's 122 Hz
In comparison
>males often speak at 65 to 260 Hertz
>females speak in the 100 to 525 Hz range
Huh, interesting.
