Is there a single worse feeling that a parent can feel than when their only child tells them that they're gay?
It's at that moment when they realise that they will never have grandkids. It's at that moment that they realise that their genetic legacy ends with their one and only child. It's not so bad if they have more than one child since the other ones can always provide them with one of the few things that they ask their children for. But when they only have one child, it's all over. Sure, gay couples can just adopt kids but it's not really the same as having grandchildren who share blood with you.
when they say they are trans
>muh pure blood
>muh genetic legacy
What fucking century is this?
>their genetic legacy ends with their one and only child
>implying that same sex babies aren't going to be a thing within the next decade or two
(1/3)
My friend is pissing me off, and I don't know what to do/say. He's FTM and started transitioning around 6 years ago.
I've been through some tough shit in my life, and have been all sorts of abused. I was even in one of those mental institutions where I was starved and beaten. Me and him have always been really cool with one another, and have always been a good ear for each other.
The past 3 months though, my friend has been going on and on about how there is nothing worse in the world than being trans, and that people who "just have mental illness or depression," don't know what real pain is like. He's constantly finding ways to subtly or not so subtly demean my experiences/abuse.
As far as I know, he has never been physically abused, raped, almost killed (as I have been). His trauma comes from growing up with a neglectful mother who was a hoarder, and he and his dad moved away when he was 16 (he's 25 now).
I get that it isn't a good way to grow up, but it's really irritating me that he's claiming that there is nothing worse to go through than what he has been through and being trans. And yes, I've talked to him about it before, telling him how I feel invalidated. He apologizes, but then just starts the bullshit right back up again a moment later.
Finally this past weekend he lost it or something. I was staying at his place, and I came downstairs to find him speaking in tongues. He claimed that it was an ancient language he was speaking......okay......
Then he started going on about how this body is not his, which is normal...but it threw me off because he said he used to having wings, tail, and horns...
His voice had changed and everything. He said, "It's so difficult to sit in these human bodies. I don't know where to put my tail."
And he just kept talking, saying how he was a dragon-god that was sealed away in "this body" while doing 'evil laughs' that made me want to vomit with how fake he sounded.
>>5855615
(2/3)
I basically just ignored him. He then said to me that he was going to let his "other self" come out instead, so that I would be more comfortable around him. His mannerisms and voice changed again, as he was now some girl who was supposedly a goddess of true justice that was cursed to live in his body.
The way he spoke sounded so fake with 'her' too. That's what was pissing me off the most, I think. It was feeling like I was dealing with a child who was simply playing pretend, but he was legit believing that he had these two different beings trapped inside of him. The goddess explained to me how she and the dragon-god combine to form one personality that he is by default, but now they want to be separate.
I eventually just said that I was tired and wanted to go to sleep.
The next morning, it wasn't over....he comes downstairs and speaks in his dragon voice, "I don't want to go to work today, I can't deal with humans right now."
Later we decided to go to the mall, and the whole while in the car, he kept telling me that the goddess wanted to be in control, and asked if I would mind.
Now...as I said, I've been in mental institutions before, so I was seriously starting to think that he was having some kind of dissociative disorder or schizophrenia thing going on. I wanted to be a good friend and support him, but boy was it pissing me off....
So this goddess decided she would come out at red lights only.
Sounds very tumblr
>>5855615
>>5855629
(3/3)
It's been two days, and he's still referring to himself as "we" or "us". I don't know what to do. Is this normal for people who are transgender to slip into identities like this? What should I do or how should I react when these alters come out? Why is this suddenly happening after 4 years of knowing him? Was growing up with a hoarder mother that traumatizing that it give him DID?
Or is he just doing this for attention? Seriously, the thing that is pissing me off the most about this is just how fake and childish his voice acting sounds with these "alters". I would think people with DID not sound so fake? Anyone else have any stories of something similar happening with you or a friend if they are trans?
He even said himself though that he wonders if him thinking there are two beings inside his body is just his mind, but he knows it's real, and it's just a curse that is making him try to believe that this is all fake. He keeps asking me if it's okay for his alters to come out with me, and all I keep saying is I don't know. I feel like a bad friend if I don't “believe” him or tell him not to let them out around me. However, it just pisses me the fuck off for some reason.
So in your eyes, is Pearl meant to represent an AGP or dysphoric transwoman. How Rebecca Sugar really feels about trannies can be deduced from this. Discuss
>11 years old or older
>watching cartoons
I aways thought Mandy was a boy
If a trans person without dysphoria doesn't want to transition are they actually trans or just delusional?
All trans people are delusional.
>>5855295
>No dysphoria
>Doesn't want to transition
>Cis
Pick three.
>>5855307
First off, fuck you.
>>5855295
Second, no, they aren't trans. If a person feels entirely comfortable in their own body, and doesn't feel like they'd be more comfortable in the body of the opposite sex then they aren't trans.
If they still have fantasies of being the opposite sex then they could be AGP or something, but I wouldn't consider them the same as a transgender person, who feels like they HAVE to be the opposite sex.
I could be wrong, weirder things have happened, so who knows
I'm feeling pessimistic atm
Can anyone post unexpectedly successful transition timelines? None of this 'was already passing pre-hrt' bullshit
bump to delay my suicide for another few hours
There's a former navy/marine transgirl that was manly as fuck before. I dunno her name tho.
>tfw cis male who gets misgendered daily
>tfw 5'6"
S..should I transition?
If you want to
It's your life m8
Altho I gotta admit having boobs and a penis in your butt is pretty nice
Don't transition because it'd be easy for you. Transition because you want to.
If you are thinking about it though, it probably means that you do want to.
>>5854790
~Do you want to, bby~? :^)
If you do, go ahead and start. Don't do it just because no one takes you seriously as a man and you're not persistent enough fight that perception.
How does /lgbt/ feel about lesbian/gay couples adopting or having children? Especially for lesbians - would you just adopt a kid or go to a sperm bank to have your own?
i'm against because of promiscuity, childen need stable and responsible family.
>>5854643
Lesbians are among the least prmiscous eoe out there. Our steretotype is moving in too soon and not having sex after a while.
>>5854623
This is why lesbians shouldn't raise kids
https://youtu.be/ozBMFYnunrI
>seeing beautiful women and knowing I'll always be a disgusting hon
>hearing women talk about pregnancy and their kids
>being close to women and seeing just how fundamentally different our bodies will always be
>any sort of pornography that features vaginas being penetrated
I basically can't go outside or interact with women.
people who are happy
>>5854246
>pregnancy
fucking breeder
>>5854255
I ain't gonna reproduce, I'm sterile and didn't bank sperm.
I wanted kids but not the male way.
and i look like im fucking 15 cuz femboy on hrt
i know they would have no problem fucking me, but i want a proper relationship like going on dates and stuff
why did my dad do this to me, arrrh. all i want is affection from men his age
>>5854140
You are going to get banned and these feeling will fade going out and doing stuff with old men will get get you raped or worse.
i feel so shit, i cant do this to my parents
they'd be so upset if they knew since then my dad would realize how much i want his missed affection
i barely get a chance to talk to him and last time he visited me in a few month he didnt spend a day with me
>>5854144
im like in my 20s
wont get banned
I'm trying to find out how much testosterone it blocks on average at that dosage but so far no luck finding info.... Does anyone have experience with this? How much did it block for you? Did you get tested?
>>5853993
>Is 100 mg spiro enough for reducing test to female levels?
Oh god I put it as my name. I'm an idiot
>>5853996
its not, 200 at least
you can find out y doing a bloodtest
>>5853996
If you wanna stop the T forever just take a big does all at once. Try 1g and see how you feel, if you can try at least 5g in one go. I promise you'll be a woman in no time.
How to get on hormones?
>>5853902
Go to therapy get letter gib 2 endocrinologist get perscripshun
Hab titty pain by sundown
>>5853910
quality post
>>5853910
how do i get into therapy?
>>5853664
yes it is. /thread
Only crazy people disagree. Hell even gender fluid snowflakes just switch between the two.
At a push, I can stretch to neutral which mashes together the whole both/neither mess.
if you're trans
at the end of the day a cis girl will probably have an edge, she could be annoying, boring, and skilless, but she has a vagina, and she can have kids.
Men will choose her over you.
>no matter how outgoing you are
>no matter how passable you are
>no matter how many common interests you have with them
>no matter how close you are to him
and
>well i like girls so
Kill yourself AGP faggot, im talking about the real trannies. not the ones who date other effortless andro trannies who are still wearing boy clothes.
and BTW If your man has dated more then 1 trans girl hes gay. simple as that. dont even try and argue it, hes fucking gay.
>>5853616
I'd marry a transgirl over an annoying cis girl desu
>>5853616
>>well i like girls so
>Kill yourself AGP faggot
lesbian transgender women don't exist? gtfo
>and BTW If your man has dated more then 1 trans girl hes gay.
i'd like to know why you think it's gay to date a tgirl... and why is it ok to date 1, but any more than that is gay? that doesn't even make sense
>>5853674
well dating just one is half gay, so it takes two to be gay
ITT: What is your opinion on people asking, "What are you pronouns?"
I was just at a board game group where some dude had been convinced by some blue hair tumblr non-binary fuck face that asking peoples pronouns was polite.
I'm a passing transwoman who's been living completely stealth. I haven't been clocked in over a year. I got asked for my pronouns and I panicked and had leave (I pretended to be salty about losing the game we were playing).
Why do people think it's a good idea to ask these things? It's insulting as fuck. You're basically saying you're ugly and mannish. Even if I were cis I'd be pissed off.
>>5853581
i get beyond mad and immediately associate a person asking about pronouns to be sjws
What game was it?
>>5853590
Werewolf
When I think about my male body/testosterone I get the shakes and feel this sudden wash of anxiety and fear. Is this what dysphoria feels like
Note: never noticed this directly until last night when I was stoned
>>5853462
How old are you?
24, but I recognise this feeling from way back, since I was like 6. It used to flare up constantly, sometimes randomly, and make me sob uncontrollably. I started hard-core repressing it when I got older cos I didn't want my parents to think I was weird for wanting to be a girl
>>5853462
I had this issue as well growing up, but to a lesser extent. But I've essentially settled into my body. I'd be happier as a girl, but it feels like I've waited too long to make that change. 24 as well.
