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I'm going on a date with a trans girl is there any general advice you can give me ?
Tell her you wear a cock ring.
Tell her your name is Mr Snrub, yes.. that'll do.
>>5891708
Don't turn up
I still don't know if there is any merit in using Okcupid. I mean they indefinitely store your pics, share your data with all the subsidiaries of the same company that owns Okcupid, bots claiming to "like" you but to see their profiles you have to upgrade first hence making you share your credit card info with them which is all fine and dandy except what do you get in return?
I mean is it even worth creating an account there? All men in my location are either
1) old
2) total uggos
3) creepy looking (possibly murderers)
4) shady foreign exchange...
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>>5890990
>Anyway, does it help emblazoning your profile with labels like "Sapiosexual demiautism-presenting queer straight-leaning bi woman" instead of simple outdated "straight woman" if you are a tranny who is into men but want to pander to the widest audience?
Certainly not.
Dating sites and apps are not worth it unless you pay to get the full use of the site, or you could be a woman, some sites offers full functionality to women from the get go.
How do you market yourself without misleading someone who wouldn't be interested in you otherwise? Nothing worse than a humiliating date.
I'm seriously done with the drama that accompanies being Bi
I'm sick of girls freaking out when they learn that I like to fuck men
I'm done with the insecurities gay men project onto you when they can't handle the fact that you also like pussy
I've decided to just cheat. And even if he finds out, Its not like there is any shortage of drunken college twinks that want to bounce on a hard cock
its your own doing, you only have yourselves to blame for being treated this way
>>5894837
>I'm playing with the feelings of a person who trusts me
>It's their fault
just kill yourself
>>5894847
>>just kill yourself
>>5894849
>>>>kill your justself
>gay men that are into transwomen/watch shemale porn
>>5893070
>gay "men"
>>5893070
Met one once
Really cool dude
You seem upset op
lots of straight porn actors that never takes dicks otherwise usually gets fucked in tranny porn, the tranny is just the unfortunate pay-off.
I made a Grindr less than an hour ago, at 5AM on a weekday, with no profile, no picture, not even a display name, and I've already been propositioned for sex by two guys. The fuck's up with you people?
>>5886808
Simple: guys, in general, are horndogs. Being gay just means you can get it from other horndog guys instead of going through all that bullshit wooing a chick.
>>5886817
if only women were bros
wait a minute...
>>5886830
>no traps in my area
;_;
Self med on the down low?
I'm in the Marines (stupid fuck yeah I got it) but does anybody know if they check for Spiro on a drug test? Or is it just going to be THC and shit like that to catch all the potheads?
I'm thinking if I get on a really light level of spiro I'll be able to quietly start a transition so I'll be at least a little bit ahead when I get out. See link related.
Thoughts on this?
Fucking shit forgot the link. https://www.inhousepharmacy.vu/p-1116-spiractin-25-spironolactone.aspx
>>5898956
U could caultide.
That seems like a tight spot you're in. IDK if faye could help.
>>5898956
Drug tests just have illicit drugs on them. Just don't eat poppy seed muffins and you'll be fine.
The American College of Pediatricians releases a statement regarding gender identity and sexuality.
I'm in no way interested in reading anything straight people have decided.
>>5891430
Link:
>http://www.acpeds.org/the-college-speaks/position-statements/gender-ideology-harms-children
>>5891433
>i'm in no way interested in facts or reality
what kind of life is this?
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first for the sake of being first
>>5898424
Life doesn't scare me too much :3
Hi y'all! Hope you're having a nice day!
I hope everyone here dies alone and in pain. I deserve to have sex and party, but oh no I can't because only pretty wealthy people are allowed to.
I present to you.
The Apex Pill.
You will never cry again. You will never know loneliness. You will never feel gay, you will never feel dysphoric.
>you will never know fear, pain or anguish
>you will be attracted to the proper sex and be comfortable in your own body
>you will be normal, you will be happy.
Take the pill /lgbt/
>>5898195
that's dxm for me
>>5898195
No thanks senpai
>>5898195
it's cyanide isn't it
How does /lgbt/ fell about "they" as a personal pronoun?
If you're a proponent, do you know anyone who uses them? Is it you? How much do you know about the reasoning behind it? What are your own personal reasons?
It you're an opponent, why? I know there's lots of push back and it has to do with hatred of transtrenders -- but isn't it possible someone has dysphoria with some aspects of their gender and not others?
Discuss.
>>5895964
I think it's dumb, mostly because it doesn't even exist in my language. All pronouns are gendered, and there aren't even gender neutral words. Like, "chair" is a femenine word, "floor" is a masculine word, to give an example
English isn't my first language but it feels "natural" to me, probably because I read a lot of academic stuff. Also it reminds me of German which uses Sie (they) as a polite form of Du (you), so it's not as artificial as it may look to some people.
>>5895964
I use "they" as a singular pronoun in writing when I don't know the gender of the person who it's going to refer to or want to leave it obviously ambiguous. My English teachers in high school hated me for it.
I guess I do it in speech too.
That being said, if I know who it's referring to I need to pick one. I don't care which one it is, but he or she it. Pronouns are a cultural thing because language is a cultural thing. You can't just add pronouns and "they" doesn't...
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Im attracted to children. I feel like q monster. Maybe LGBT isnt the thread for it, but im MTF and bi, so i only frequent here. What do i do? Im 18 and i have had this for a while now, but sometimes i kind of just remember it. Now i cant forget it and its been in my head for a few days eating me up. Maybe its because i was molested as a kid, idk. I just dont know what to do.
Acknowledge it, integrate it, do not act on it. Maybe find a partner who's into roleplay.
People are not monsters for being attracted to children. You don't decide who you're attracted to. People are monsters when they sexually abuse children or coerce someone with no understanding of the repercussions or the power dynamics in play into sex.
>>5897193
I know how you feel.
I have OCD, so I'm constantly having pedophile and beastiality images run through my head. You don't need to feel bad for it, you can't help it. You're only a monster and a bad person if you go out and actually rape a kid.
>>5897193
I'm pretty sure that if you tell a therapist they can put safeguarding actions into place.
Lesbian love is the purest love there is
Prove me wrong
>tfw no qt short haired gf
Why live?
>>5897155
Femboy on femboy is the purest, most noble love, period.
Prove it wrong if you can
i just want someone to hold me and make me feel small and safe
Why can't you all be nice to each other for a change? The amount of internal conflict in the queer community is really ridiculous, like good job shitting on other people in the same boat as you.
>>5897062
fuck off
We're not in the same boat, we are in at least ten different boats that someone has tied together forcing us to run down the same stream.
Yeah, people need to chill. Lots of bitter cunts among sexual minorities.
Why do fem gay guys get offended when they get rejected from a gay guy who doesn't want them because they are feminine? Last time I checked a guy who is gay only has interests in men which means they are attracted to masculine traits not feminine ones.
Internalized homophobia. They feel ashamed for being fem.
>>5896535
It's like guys are okay with being gay they just get turned off by a guy who acts and dresses like a girl.
>>5896524
Bad attitude, they think their interest trumps your lack of interest.
Guys like Davey Wavey just reinforce this fallacy; if someone doesn't want to have sex with you the reason is irrelevant, it's not happening.
Well, I'm 29 and reached the point of my life of self-fulfillment/non-critical activities. I recently went to my high school reunion and talked to a gay kid that I bullied back in high school. He told me how much my shit hurt him and how he nearly killed himself over it. It really hurt and shocked me - things I thought were simple banter and high school shit really had an impact on him.
I do want to atone for my shit and think I'll volunteer for some LGBT organization. Does anyone have experience with this? Are there any groups that need more help than others like transpeople compared to gays/bi's/lesbians? What's the most reputable organization you know of in the US?
Pic unrelated.
>>5895890
You are a good person
>He didn't kill himself
You suck at bullying
>>5896191
>>He didn't kill himself
And I'm glad. I spent 4 years in the Army and every act of violence takes a piece of your soul until there is nothing left no matter how evil the bad guys are.
