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Not sure if this is the place to ask this but what jobs do some of the trans people of /lgbt/ have? I recently got "laid off" from my retail job because we got a new DM. (No more hours for me) I need to find something fast and I'm hoping for something other than fast food, and that gives me at least 20 hours a week. (Full time in college too) I'm only 19 and I've only ever held two jobs for more than a year. I am MtF so I need to find something that won't make me get rid of my hair either cause I still work in boymode. Thanks for any help or advice.
>>5932835
I've heard that Starbucks is a very trans positive employer. Like, exceptionally so.
Here's a list of companies that have been checked for trans positivity. Hopefully something there looks appealing to you.
http://www.masstpc.org/mediawiki/index.php?title=Employers_with_Transgender_Friendly_Policies
>>5938130
Different anon but thank you! Is the general routine to say your status before or after the interview or to HR in private? I usually put my preferred name in ().
>be me
>be at grandparents for easter
>older brother wonders what it would be like to have sister
>dad says yeah anonett why aren't you a girl
>TFW I could of came out then if I wasn't at the grandparents house
>TFW I can't come out after this and be taken seriously
>>5932321
>be me
>be lgbt
>post this
>tfw no bf
>both grandpas are dead
>only grandmothers remain
>start transitioning, out to everyone but hide it from grannies with baggy sweaters
>I come out and both accept me, one out of fear of my mother, one out of senility
>they aren't good at calling me my name
>avoid seeing them a few months (family all live close by and visit weekly)
>im always out or working
>see them today on Easter because Christianity
>my nanna is weirdly defensive over me, calls me pretty, says things are coming along well, mainly because i look like she did as a teenager only 6 inches taller
>she still calls me by my guy name
>senile grandma gets my name right but brings up the past and talks as if i was 6 years old still and asking if i remember stuff about going to places i don't remember
>get bummed out, make excuses and leave
>feel guilty
>go to work waitressing
>get called a guy by colleagues all the time because they know i'm trans but called a girl by my tables
>end up chatting to a couple who said i was great and service was excellent
>they ask when if i'm gonna go to uni
>i tell them i'm 27, finished uni 5 years ago, i'm gonna move in with my partner soon and roadtrip the USA
>they say i'm a good girl, and good luck with traveling
why are people i just meet and met since transition so lovely, friendly and just see me as me, when everyone else is just awkward at best, and a cunt at worst. i think when i move in with my partner i'll cut off the past apart from my parents and go stealth, fuck it
>>5932321
Holy fuck that image is jpeg'd to hell.
Only 3 years away from being 25 (i.e. gay death), and I have still never had a real bf (internet bf was an asshole and dumped me) and only had actual sex once during a hook-up.
>mfw someone younger and more sexually experinced than me complains about their love life
>>5931659
good news: you are one year past gaydeath
>>5931659
is 25 a death sentence for dykes too or just gay men
As a femboy, trap, or tranny, is it more degenerate to date men, or women? I can sort of understand arguments for either, but what do you all think?
>2016
>dating
Nobody dates anymore, they just get pozzed up on grindr.
>>5931652
If you identify as a woman it's more degenerate to date women because you are letting yourself be both a trannyscum and a lesbian.
If you identify as a man, more degenerate to date men as you are both a fake woman and a faggot.
>>5931652
From personal experience, women are more socially accepting of it while men are more apt to date trannies
Thoughts on Princess Jellyfish?
Yet another anime that tricked me into thinking it was about qt lesbians (not straight up porn or 80 episodes of "Ara~~~ your tie is crooked!").
One of them was a dude in drag.
Art style is qt tho.
>>5930109
nice portraits of
>NEET
>superficial views in terms of beauty and make-up
>actually interesting hobbies and interests that normally are associated with men (trains, 3 kingdom)
>stereotypical clothing for men (suits most of the time wtf)
>cross dress guy not agp, not gay, totally secure about his sexuality and gender identity
>>5930214
>cross dress guy not agp, not gay, totally secure about his sexuality and gender identity
>Totally secure
Is what his Irl inspiration ended up pulling relevant here or not?
>want to be gay
>remember that I'm black and gays don't date them
Who /forcedstraight/ here?
I heard they want you if you got that BBC
The question is if they deserve it...
>forced straight
Ha
>>5929980
Thats horrible! Who told you non-black gays don't date blacks?
>>5930011
Ok, let me rephrase
Sane non-blacks don't date blacks
As an Asian guy, am I expected to be bottom?
When an Asian walks into a room full of guys, do you assume he has the smallest penis?
>>5929716
Yes and yes.
Asians are made to be the white mans sex toys
>>5929716
That depends on your build. There is a rare alpha asian in my chemistry class. He's at least 6'2" and his arms are pretty swole, I imagine he has a decent dick
>>5929716
>As an Asian guy, am I expected to be bottom?
Yes.
>When an Asian walks into a room full of guys, do you assume he has the smallest penis?
Yes.
>>5929908
>>5929908
>That depends on your build. There is a rare alpha asian in my chemistry class. He's at least 6'2" and his arms are pretty swole
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Is it true that the life of a gay guy is over once he's 30?
It's a short hedonistic filled life.
>Implying I'll even make it to 30
You're funny..for a faggot
You just need to start doing something else. Like Milo.
What's the ideal manly physique?
I am an unpassable tranny who looks like a Greek god
I have the ideal manly physique tbqh
Men are so much more beautiful than women
>>5929022
fem muscular guys are my fetish. As long as they don't have a gay voice anyway.
Alexander the Great x Hephaestion is basically my pure masturbation material. I literally masturbated to Alexander, the movie, and that wasn't even a good movie. That's how far I'm taking this shit.
Hey /lgbt/ how do I know if I'm mildly gay. I hate women and I can't relate to them, and sometimes I see random guys and think that they are cute, but I never fapped to gay or trap porn and I don't want to be fucked in the ass.
Also I get uneasy around women because I kinda hate them, with men I can talk without being nervous at all.
Serious question.
I feel like another man will never backstab me and leave me in financial ruin or humiliation.
>>5928961
You probably aren't gay you're just retarded.
>>5928961
>I hate women and I can't relate to them
That sounds gay
>sometimes I see random guys and think that they are cute
Do you want to fuck them?
>I never fapped to gay or trap porn
Why?
>I don't want to be fucked in the ass
Many gays don't want that, they are called tops, or doms.
Tell me about your sexual attractions, anon. Whaat makes your dick diamonds?
you just sound like an MRA who hates women because they don't like you because you're an arsehole, try not being an arsehole
Hey. Twink here. I wanna get some clothes which make me look as andro as possible but i don't know where to begin. I don't want strictly female clothes, but unisex stuff tends to be just male stuff.
I live in a warm place and it's already march, so i'm only looking for shorts and t-shirts. I like light, loose clothes that allow max movement.
I was thinking of shorts like pic related. For the t-shirts I have no idea. Any tips for both tops and pants? Would wide neck t-shirts be better than crewnecks?
>>5928038
Denim short shorts and one of those really loose low cut tank tops.
>>5928043
Denim short shorts are strictly female though. And I've only seen those tops on buff guys, got any pics of thin guys with those?
The athletic shorts that are flared in the middle of the sides (don't know what they're called, like the pic in the OP basically) are androgynous. Boys wearing those make my dick diamonds
Post your voice and get feedback
https://clyp.it/faqiesxc
>>5926833
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1Zv4FepWV4z
>>5926845
hi maddie
https://clyp.it/s2fc0sel
If you could only choose one, would you rather cure your LGBTness or your autism?
But there both killing me slowly differently
>>5924769
>LGBTness
this.
>>5924769
Cure the autism because autism causes the dysphoria
I think i may have the desire to become a girl because of 4chan only.
I was a somewhat normal kid with no many issues.
But then, i've discovered 4chan. After 3 years of /lgbt/, i think the excess of information destroyed my concepts.
I don't know anything more about me, my mind is messed up.
If i never learnt about transsexualism, about all this, i would be a normal guy today, and would live 'till 50 with no worries. But not i fear living even 1 year without being a girl. At the same time i fear and don't want to be a girl.
Oh for fuck's sake.
>>5918367
>tfw the ghosts of your past have come back to haunt you
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
fucking gold
Should I infiltrate a lolita community to secretly fulfill my sissy fantasies?
Start with sissy hypno videos atleast!
http://besissy.com/threads/sissy-hypno-collected-works-video.114/
>>5916660
All the videos say removed.
It already exists as brolita and /cgl/ hates you. Comparable to bronies in autism the kinda dudes that get into it.
