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What if, instead of "wanting to be a woman and identifying like one", mtftrans people simply said "Yes i just want to look like a girl, fuck off".
This would make flammers go away eventually, right?
>>6218143
Some people want to be trans but other people just are as a technicality and medical fact.
>>6218143
Because trans girls aren't covered by law to be creepy fucks to have the "right" to go into the other sexes bathroom.
>>6218143
No.
Making them go away requires a change in cultural values. Playing along with the cissexist meme that our understandings of ourselves are just a costume, a facade, or an image, is a deeply self-hating action that affirms many of the common reasons for dismissing us, our care, and our experiences.
tfw no qt trans gf edition
Saaah dude
yo peeps, so do you guys watch trans porn or nah? is it weird i want a trans GF but dont like shemale porn?
>>6215775
>hate shemale porn
>hate gay porn
>hate lesbian porn
>str8 porn is okay i guess
>tfw i mostly watch cute passable white trans cam girls to get off
i just don't like shemales pumped with silicone, they gross senpai
Lesbian General.
Romantic activity edition.
Do you like to watch movies? do you have other activities? How do you accommodate different tastes in activities or genres?
Discussion about lesbian topics and issues.
>>6215258
I honestly thought from the catalogue image that this was a /y/ thread
>>6215394
it was related and truth be told most of the images I save are fantasy monsters and characters. not much in my folder for lgbt
Why should we accept you for someone who you are not? I am not bashing gays, les, bis or anything like that I myself am bi but I am talking about transgender people. Why should we pamper towards your mental disorder and why should we help you? Wouldn't it be more productive to find a cure for your disorder then pamper towards it? My old school (I graded) wasted 40k on a washroom and 100k on a change room for trannies. 140k they could of been spent on books pencils anything better. Why should we pamper towards your disorder and your illness?
>why should we ever be nice to people and help them out
>wasted 40k on a washroom and 100k on a change room for trannies
kek, should have just let us use the bathrooms that match our gender.
there is a cure it's called listen to what doctors say and let us fucking transition. It's the best and only treatment for gender dysphoria.
sage & hide. Read the FAQ.
>>6210017
They shouldn't. Its a shasme we're encouraging the funding to support this mental illness isntead of trying to come up with a medicial cure for it.
These women were all born with XY chromosomes. They were all born with testes instead of ovaries. They all have a rare disorder that causes their bodies and brains to develop like women. You would call them women anyway, wouldn't you?
Trans people have a rare condition that causes their brains to develop like the opposite gender. Is there a real difference?
How many of you (t-kids) on this board would describe yourselves as "trutrans" ?
>>6208603
Not me. I would say I'm mildly autogynephilic, because I don't quite conform to everything about the type. I wish I were trutrans so I wouldn't be associated with some of the more intensely autogynephilic.
>>6208603
i am a qt femboy on mones because they make my titties feel so sesnsitive. my daddy likes playing with them
def not trutrans lol
I would consider myself "trutrans".
I want to be a pretty girl and live on easy mode
>>6207713
>pic
wtf are you smoking to believe something like that can happen?
>>6207713
If you look at it in reverse, it looks like a bitch that got cancer.
Post yours r8 others. I totally stole this from mtfg. template posted.
>>6185093
Template
this is the worse template, the better version has indicators for giving/receiving
>>6185140
>bitches
>doesn't post
Let's do our best, boys!
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gay as hell
>>6228501
>let's do our best, boys!
l m a o
1st for I hate my life and noone will ever love me
>turn 26 this month
>still a gay virgin
I'm moving to South Korea in a few months to teach English, how exactly do i get into a gay relationship? how does gay sex actually work?
>>6227649
Are you ugly as sin?
>South Korea
>gay
Good luck anon, they're so repressed there they don't even acknowledge gay is a thing over there.
If I don't like the smell of girly fart poots does that mean I'm gay?
>>6226459
Yes.
We will contact you.
You will get your official Gay Card, your copy of the Gay Agenda and your first assignment within 7 days.
Don't worry, new-gays mostly get conversion jobs in youth centers and the easy jobs.
Now delete this thread.
>>6226459
Yep, your officially gay now friend. Start lubing your anus right now.
>>6226459
Yes
Gay guy here.
The only reason I would ever turn into a woman is to get delicious straight men inside me.
Out of curiosity, how many of you actually fuck straight men who
>Aren't ugly
>Aren't giving you the time of day to feel good about themselves
>Aren't fetishizing you because they've watched too much porn
Share any sex stories. FtMs welcome also.
>>6226007
>Out of curiosity, how many of you actually fuck straight men
None of us fucks straight men, unless we trick them and are able to hide the fact that we're trannies. If you are a man and knowingly fuck a tranny, you are in no way, shape, or form straight.
There is no debating this either, because straightness only happens with sex and attraction between cis men and cis women.
>>6226031
well said, I was wrong, not all trannies are nuts
>>6226031
I guess theoretically with an amazingly perfect transition and a great post-op vagina a straight guy could fuck a tranny? I don't know if medical technology is good enough yet. Virtually every trans woman fails to pass on some level. That's why they're unattractive to people who are solely attracted to women, because they have masculine features.
So... I just bought 50gm cypros. Currently taking 100mg, spiro daily. I plan to cut the cypro in half first to 25mg at the start. Do i need to ween off spiro first before going on cypro? Any advice will help, thanks!!
>>6225644
just take 200 mg cypro at the start and then go up to 300 mg
>>6225784
don't fucking do this
half a tablet (25mg) are enough
>>6225644
I switched from spiro to cypro myself.
Spiro has a fairly short half life, feel free to just start cypro 24 hours after your last spiro pill. It will take some time for it to ramp up in effect. In the first 2-4 weeks expect some symptoms of resurge in testosterone, increased libido, etc. However as time goes on that will decrease, and your testosterone will become nuked again.
If 100mg spiro was working for you, 25mg cypro should be enough. I myself take 50mg cypro, but I also did 200mg spiro back when...
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Are there LGBT people that aren't interested in anal?
I am a germophobe, and a previous partner helped me get over kissing, but I have no intention of ever playing with butts.
So is there any hope for me?
How would I find other people who aren't interested in anal?
>>6225491
Relationships are all about give and take, if you're not willing to give or take, or have any leeway, then it's unlikely there will be hope for you.
>>6225491
>helped me get over kissing
Wow congratulations, you are probably pozzed with Herpes now.
>>6225491
sounds like ur fvcked friend
When my partner and I started up, it was long distance... and a shit storm. They were feigning to be male on the internet, I was desperate to have a "safe" boyfriend because I was heckled about being a lesbo at school despite being bisexual as far more accurate.
Turns out they were female-bodied anyway, and I vehemently denied (deny) my attraction to men to try and make my partner - lets call them Andy - more comfortable. Since I just wanted them to stop accusing me of cheating on them with at least half the human population.
So time and an emotionally volatile relationship goes on... I realize I'm trans, Andy doesn't like this but Andy also insists on only having rp/phonesex in the guise of mutually male characters... they have even said vaginas are disgusting and during in-person visits wanted nothing to do with mine. One sided sex sucks.
I'm post-op now, nearly 5 years into a marriage that has not been consummated... in-school after delays from immigration and transition and unfortunately financially reliant on Andy. Andy, who was abused as a child and has severe PTSD, is verbally abusive, would sooner jab me in the ribs than hug me, who gets snappish and cruel if I look at them "wrong"... or seemingly at all.
I'm nearly 20hours drive from family, and so starved for human contact that my wires fritz out whenever someone is just a touchy-feely sort of friend. I feel like a mess...
What do?
>>6225048
leave andy?
what else is there to do?
you may be emotionally dependant on him but that's not healthy and over time (and maybe counselling too) you'll get over it and find a better partner
being in an abusive relationship is never worth it, and especially if you haven't had sex in 5 years
if you're financially dependent on him, wait until you're financially stable to leave, unless you want to go to a shelter or something but i wouldn't recommend that unless you're being beaten every day or something but it doesn't sound like that
i really do recommend talking this over with a counselor, it will help you to work things out in your head
>>6225048
>>6225125
forgot to ask, are you mtf or ftm?
and also, couple red flags in just what you've said:
>pretending to be male and not even telling you anything about being trans
>andy having constant trust issues about you cheating to the extent you have to lie to shut him up
>not wanting you to be happy and be yourself when you came out
>emotionally...
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>>6225125
Thank you for replying...
I can't say I've never gotten this advice before, I guess I always hope I'll hear something else, you know? I care about Andy, and I want them to have the support they need to get through their own therapy and deal with their recent emotional breakdown and PTSD.
I also feel guilty because Andy pays for the house, the food... everything... my car is my own, my school loans are only me... but Andy bailed me out when I burned up 1K in credit debt because I was binge...
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When I was 300 ibs obese, I got misidentified as a lesbian female very frequently (I'm a cis male). Until I lost weight, I hated my appearance, and even considered suicide multiple times.
Was this comparable to gender dysphoria?
Pic unrelated.
>>6224968
Ehh, somewhat. Depends really. I mean you hated your body, you at least had that part in common.
Did your mantits make you feel disgusted, gross, ashamed, embarrassed, etc.? Did you want to just hide them 24/7? Did they just feel grotesque to you and did you hate the shit out of them?
If so you maybe got a taste of what FtMs and femboys who don't want boobs yet take estrogen anyway get.
From my pretty limited experience, that totally sounds like dysphoria. I'm 6'3 and 220 because I'm a lazy fuck who eats too much, but I do constantly think about being a skinny twig.
I guess, you hated your appareance and you hated that people think you were something you arent (or don't want to be).
Kinda similar to how most trannies feel, but they are too lazy fucks to change their appareance so they rather fight for people to call them what they want.
Personally i dont care if people call me a girl or a boy because i feel good with how i look now.
