Well fellas, It's good to be back. Pic related, how I got cucked this evening.
So, are you gonna break up with her? You better, life is too short to suffer though that sort of bullshit.
>3%
your not gonna make it my man
>>27146655
how did u respond? pls tell me u blew her off
>>27146666
Nice quads bro.
Yeah of course, I was seeing her for a few weeks then she went all quiet on me for 2 weeks and this happened. Not surprised, just sad. But that's life and I love my R9K brothers anyway.
>>27146655
>Esther
Dodged a fucking bullet there
>>27146698
Haha she even tried calling me before.
How'd I handle it bros? Apparently I'm the selfish one.
keep ignoring her, fuck her
>>27146744
Selfish to a woman means 'you didn't do exactly what I wanted you to when I wanted you to'.
Go completely no contact.
>dated for literally a few weeks
>2 week silence in which you're obviously dumped and she's obviously gonna be meeting other dudes
>claims to be cucked
Can't even get cucked right, smdh.
sorry
she seems like a cunt
>>27146744
whys she work so hard but uses a free txt app?
>>27146774
Thanks man. I actually feel terrible, really liked this chick but thanks for the support.
>>27146787
that's the plan bro. Maybe she'll come crawling back, we'll see.
>>27146744
No she's just projecting. Don't fall victim to that bullshit bro. You're in the right! Stay stronger than those dumb psychological traps!
>>27146801
It's just normal iPhone SMS.
>>27146804
thanks man, I fucking love you guys.
>>27146744
Not your bro, you dumb normie cunt.
>>27146655
>"would of"
Into the trash she goes
>>27146744
>ive been working so hard
it requires literlally NO EFFORT to send a guy u are talking to some fucking texts here or pictures there.
bro PLEASE do not respond.
>>27146801
The who called text is from OP's carrier. Where in NZ are you from, OP?
>>27146804
>No she's just projecting
I really, really hate when people do this shit
The worst is that the retards can never tell they're projecting
>>27146810
Yeah alright. first girl I've dated in 5 years, but the normie standard is low nowadays
>>27146744
What the fuck is her problem, fuck this bitch
>>27146744
if you've stopped messaging her there you ended it fantastically man. stay strong and don't let her make you think you're the bad guy, she's just trying to justify her actions to herself so she can feel better
>>27146823
Auckland.
>>27146820
I'm wondering if I should fb unfriend too? fuck knows man. just feeling like shit tbqh
Bitch sounds fucking retarded. Dont reply, otherwise just tell her to fuck off already and delete her without letting her reply
You need to tell her you have other bitches you can hang out with even if it's not true chick's love the pursuit god speed anon hopefully it's not to late and this guy isn't balls deep in her right now.......make it seem like it's fine and you will just reconnect with Jessica
>>27146744
>your
She should have been in the trash ages ago
>>27146794
Yes because it should just be taken as a given if someone goes silent they're "obviously meeting other dudes", heaven forbid she keeps her fucking legs closed longer than a day
Good job bowing down to roastie logic dumb faggot.
>>27146837
Always FB unfriend, otherwise you'll be seeing her shit all up in your timeline forever. Move on entirely, it's not like you built a life together.
>>27146744
Seems like she likes you. And was testing you by mentioning going on a date with a different guy. She was hoping that you would have cared and been upset (meaning that you cared about her). Instead you were like "ok we are done".
She wasnt happy about that.
Basically she seems like someone into passive dramatic games. Instead of asking you whats up, she plays games instead. Maybe you are young, if not get out.
Sounds like too much drama for me - but drama can be hot if you are in an office job.
>>27146837
>just feeling like shit tbqh
aw shit
that sounds ur lonliness is going to give in and if u dont get any pussy anytime soon, u are going to come running back to her.
fb unfriend her too, please do it. there is no question about it, she will cuck you when the opportunity presents itself.i have a feling you wont take my advce though
>>27146860
This is nuzild brah, statistically most promiscuous women in the world. Two weeks of silence? Gotta be realistic.
>>27146655
Why do girls always try to justify cheating and play it as them being the victim
>y- you're being too jealous!
>y- you're being selfish!
>b-big baby!
>u didnt give me ur benis!!!
Literally every cheating thread its some girl playing victim card, justifying themselves or just plain lying even when anon's father already admitted to fucking his girlfriend multiple occasions. Cute traps > Girls
>>27146866
Yeah hopefully you're right anon, but I doubt it. this bitch is just looking for an excuse to see the other guy. I'm not surprised really, she's probably a 6/10.
>>27146873
thanks, I unfriended her just now. im gonna stay strong. shits hard.
>>27146744
Maybe I'm not "mgtow by necessity" enough, but I'm more inclined to believe her and think she has just been doing normie stuff and you are a paranoid self conscious faggot
You cucked yourself by getting too feelsy that response is so cringy and needy like would you rather maybe get some pussy or spaz out like a fuxking spaz......so what she's fuxking someone else your not even dating your already showing her how needy and jealous you are before you sealed the deal you cucked yourself and took the advice of all these neet virgins you should have played it cool think James Deen like you weren't even that interested and you have other options hopefully you'll learn a lesson op never be the needy one.....u need to fallback play the field even if that means fapping and Vidya
>>27146873
The way you type makes me want to hunt you down and fucking kill you. When I was trying to read your awful words I could feel my brain transforming into shit.
>>27146896
Who fucking gives a shit? She sounds like a stuck up cunt, I would've left the minute she started with that martyr complex even if she was 100% telling the truth.
>muh werk hard
>at my useless chair force office job
>>27146897
Esther pls go
>>27146902
lol idk why your post made me crack up so much.
lol im sorrty.
>>27146897
are you 16 years old senpai?
>>27146897
>getting too feelsy
>so cringy
>get some pussy or spaz out like a fuxking spaz
>.so what she's fuxking someone else your not even dating
>you should have played it cool think James Deen
If I could kill you through the monitor I would
>>27146897
Kill ureself esther
>>27146744
>try to cut ties politely and nicely
>still get viciously attacked
Why are women so toxic? You're completely in the right, fuck this bitch. Chances are she's just trying to make you feel bad because she hates how well you're handling this.
If I were you I'd try to piss her off as much as possible. My personal way of doing that would be to keep responses short and uninterested. "Goodbye." etc. Don't appear angry at all, even if you are. If you take a mature high ground and make her think you hardly care, it will drive her nuts. Just make sure to keep replying so she still has that slight hope of getting you back
>>27146744
Women are absolute freaks. What even made you attracted to this person? She writes like she's a 5th grader.
>>27146896
>>27146897
>>27146794
>girl cheats
>makes up excuses
>other people make up excuses for her too, even on 4chan, even on /r9k/
What a world.
>>27146896
you're probably right. I am a paranoid self conscious faggot. trying to work on it.isnt that why we're all here?
>>27146897
yep, no pussy for me man.
>>27146938
thanks anon. that's honestly great advice.
>>27146744
tell her "lose my number" and then block her.
only way to handle this.
>>27146897
roastie detected.
any guy with any self respect would drop a girl in a second if she did this. especially knowing that they were talking with intentions of getting in a relationship. if he would have responded negativly, it wouldve been drama heaven, if he would have responded positively, there would have been a cuckfest every night.
the best thing to do was to blow her off, you dumb fucking roastie.
>>27146912
>implying op isn't the one with the martyr complex
>>27146951
reckon I should send another text now? I thought my last one was a pretty good last text.
>>27146958
Seriously just kill yourself.
>>27146744
you do realize she's trying to keep you as her beta backup right?
>>27146963
Please don't send another message. Any message you send will give her the impression you give a shit and that is the last thing you want. It was a great last message anon, leave it at that
>>27146950
You're welcome anon.
Can you screenshot the convo and keep us updated? There's nothing I love more than seeing roasties getting toasty
>>27146970
Yes. I realize that anon
>>27146975
Got it. I agree desu
>>27146963
NO. it's too late to take the other anons approach.
just let it go. you did good
>>27146950
Don't listen to those fucks defending her.
She literally admitted to just casually going on a date with another guy like that's ok. You were 100% to cut off all ties. That bitch is toxic as hell.
>>27146897
Can we make this a new copypasta?
>>27146984
Youre doing great buddy just dont lose it.
>>27146948
you can't get cheated on when you have been casually dating for 2 weeks, they aren't official. Plenty of people date around.
>>27146986
Yeah thanks. everyone thinks I handled it well. Just trying to get over the fact it's gonna be hard as fuck for me to find another girl being the shy bastard I am irl.
>>27146982
havent heard anything since that last text sorry. I don't think she'll message me again.
>>27146952
Maximum spindoctor.
Yes I'm mad, mad that scum like you exists that will stop at nothing to lie to themselves, to lie to others, scum like you that can vomit out their retarded biased opinions and not feel an ounce of shame in hindsight so you just continue being the disgusting filth you are. Of course the most heinous bi-product of your miserable existence is that if people fold and give you an ounce of right to your idiocy then the greatest of harms is done to peoples perception of reality because suddenly, the victims are at wrong for being alive for forgetting in blisfull ignorance that we're not living in 1500's or Africa anymore where all life is uncertain.
This is the raging anger I carry for individuals such as you, the corrupt shameless liars that stop at nothing to be a hero in their own eyes of some divine logic they carry in themselves cause all others are wrong and beneath you.
No, fuck you assclown. Anybody can see through your bullshit, why even bother being this idiotic.
>>27146655
>3%
CHARGE YOUR FUCKING PHONE REEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>27146998
Get on tinder m8.
>>27146995
>dating for 2 weeks
>dating
>can't get cheated on
>dating
???
?????
>plenty of people date around
Plenty of shitty people
>>27146995
3 weeks, went on about 5 dates, she stayed over at my house twice (no sex but was planning to last weekend until she did this).
>>27147012
would do, but I'm ugly as fuck anon.
>>27147015
see above
>>27146984
At least you're not as pathetic as: >>27146232
>>27146995
>Plenty of people date around
This is 110% an Americoon thing (that's apparently spread to ANZAC, not surprised since they love slurping americoon cum so much). This is not normal behavior anywhere else in the world.
>>27146998
You can do it.
Until then hang here with us. We'll have /comfy/ threads and post forced memes and watch the wageslaves and NEETs fight all day long. It'll be great.
>>27146686
We are not your brothers you fucking normie faggot. Not seeing the cucking from a mile away shows you were never a robot.
>>27147019
I'm no looker myself, just got to be realistic about your standards. You can still pull a 6/10 off tinder
>>27147026
thanks anon. I stayed off r9k for a while and missed all this shit. didn't expect such a friendly welcome back though from an almost normie.
>>27147043
lurk more, I've been here since the board first opened. some of us are actually able to get dates sometimes.
>>27147026
>>27147043
Two very different posts
>>27146655
CHARGE YOUR FUCKING PHONE YOU NORMIE FUCK
>>27146963
Leave it as it is. You won the war, leave the battlefield while you still can.
>>27146744
>Dating 2 guys
>I was too busy and sick to do ANYTHING, I avoided everyone
>Except this other guy, you're being selfish and weird
Dude GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN
>>27147005
Go back to tumblr.
This chick literally cheated on him and you're defending her.
What the fuck are you even talking about in this run on sentence.
This shit is so edgy and white-knighty its disgusting.
Everything you write is so cringy and stupid sounding, it sounds like you read a couple books I highschool and think you're fucking Shakespeare.
>raging anger
>most heinous
>ounce of right
>greatest of harms
>>27146744
You did good anon. Straight to the point. Direct. Fuck this flip-flopping bitch and move on. Plenty of chicks out there.
>>27147066
>>27147063
Failed normies and robots share the same habitat, its a natural clash.
>>27147072
see.
>>27146744
>>27147082
Yeah I missed the warning signs I guess. probably just blinded by the fact I wanted a relationship for once.
>>27147086
thanks anon
>>27146744
You did good dude, exactly how id handle it
>>27146744
Classic deflection and manipulation.
It used to surprise and confuse me how women can make themselves the victim in literally any situation.
Any.
>>27146803
>Maybe she'll come crawling back
What part of "no contact" do you not fuckin understand?
It is over.
If she does try to come back, you stay away from her. You wanna be a revolving door of cucktastic spineless faggotry?
>>27147119
Nah you're right anon. I'll stay away from her, it's for the best.
I don't know how the fuck girls learn these manipulation skills. I can't naturally play people like that :/
>>27146950
just reply with "k".
Or just with a reaction pic.
you got cuckoulded!!!
You did good OP. You'l probably have some weak moments when you'll think
>"oh yeah she likes someone elso but at least we had some nice conversantions, I re-add her and we'll talk again! (of course, deep down you just hope that they broke up and you'll have another chance)"
I'll tell you in advance : you won't ever have a chance with her. He just met a guy and already head over heels with him when you are just an annoyance and emotional tampon to her. There are plenty of roaties in the roastie pool. No one of them worth more than the initial effort of tryting to get a date from her. None of them.
>>27147230
thanks anon. that's really encouraging to hear.
feeling like this fuck right now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfU5uJIaRBI
>>27147138
>I don't know how the fuck girls learn these manipulation skills
>learn
They're built in, kid. No learning necessary.
Imagine you're born as the more reproductively valuable sex, with a hole that boys and men will want to get into, eggs for their sperm to fertilize, and tits and ass they want to fuck and feel. You instinctively leverage this. The world throws resources and validation at you just for being. Teachers, also mostly female themselves, give you better grades for the exact same work as they guys. You think you're interesting, cute, smart and funny, but you're probably not. The law and culture blame your wrongdoings on others. You cheat, your boyfriend is in the wrong by default. If he's your husband, you can divorce him against his will and be handed half his shit, plus interest, while fucking you new boy-toy in the house he still pays for..
You've spent your whole life mistaking accidents of birth for personal virtue.
Try NOT being a manipulative scheming conniving blame shifting cunt after all that.
Most women are shit because there's no pressure to be anything BUT shit.
Expecting women as a whole to be nice to men as a whole these days is like expecting slave owners to be nice to the field hands; it'll happen once in a while, but don't put money on it.
>>27147154
>Or just with a reaction pic
kek replying with memes drives them up the walls.
Heh I cn see straight through the screen into her cold heart. She wants two guys fighting over her. She wants you to say 'don't do it' but you didn't. Good job. More NZ bitches need to learn.
wait you've only been dating 3 weeks?? why do you fucking care, were you a wizard?
>being this beta
kek
>>27147308
post bloxxx desu
>>27147308
Yeah it's pretty fucked up man. thanks for all that, you've opened my eyes a bit I think. Any other advice while you're here?
>>27147323
:-)
>>27147328
Well texting for for a couple weeks first, then went on like 5 dates, slept over at mine twice. you know man, I got really attached and it sucks being in this position.
>>27147262
Sadly I speak from experience. I chased this one roastie for more than 2 years. Deleted her many times then softened up, re-added her only to find out I still don't have a chance. Of course, it was my fault for the damn undying hope that I'll get her once. That's why I tell you, it doesn't worth it. I learned a lot from it, I became stronger emotionally, but at some points, it was hell. You know, when you can't even sleep because you think of her. Nowadays I'm pretty content with myself, I still have her as a fb friend and never ever contact her. Sometimes she asks whats up and I just say nothing without asking back. Feels pretty okay man.
>>27147343
how old are u bro?
>>27147370
22.
>>27147358
Being able to learn from experience is the wisest thing you're able to do. glad you were able to get experience from it, sounds like a nightmare. I guess I've learnt a bit of a lesson here too.
in a similar situation. Trying not to worry or think about it, I find going the gym helps. Grit your teeth, stay strong.
>>27147464
thanks. Think I'll do the same
>>27146686
The same thing happened to me a few months ago man. She said she wasn't looking for a relationship which killed me because she seemed perfect in every way. We made out and I fingered her and then a week or two later she said she met a guy and things are going great with him. I knew it would happen I just didn't think it would be so quickly after meeting her.
>>27146655
At least that bitch said anything at all before leaving you.
>>27147308
this isbwoman's number one trick
"yeah i had sex with hunfreds of men but it wasn't a *real* relationship so ig doesn't count"
or "I'm a fembot :((. yeah tons of guys and girls talk to me and hang out with me on a daily basis but they aren't *real* friends. so lonely :((((("
>>27146866
dont ever give advice to anyone
>this whole thread
>no gf :'( :'(
>posted from my normiephone
Die in a fucking fire
>>27147533
OP here.
This is EXACTLY what happened here wtf. Timings are different but the rest, exactly.
>dating women from NZ
Why?
>>27147589
Because I'm from NZ anon, come on. Ain't got a whole lot of choice here.
>started acting weird and accusing me of shit
Explain?
>>27147343
>other advice
I know I'll get shit for posting this guy, but he's right on some shit, and women is one of them.
The Irrational Boner
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rW6tP-YjMaw
Virus of Female Responsibility Avoidance
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSV3R5hwMsM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdmY8lznwAE
he has others too.
Good luck.
>>27146655
Hey Oliver, you're a faggot
>>27146744
>>27146655
Double dubs!
But for real nigga you cucked yourself, even if you're "dating" a girl you can still easily get cucked, it's a sad truth but that's why you don't get attached. Also kinda you're fault for being a bit autistic about it, like how she said you accused her of shit, and even then you shouldve just replied "ok"
>I would of
Also she's obviously a dumbfuck so no point in getting sad or anything
>>27146655
>oli
There's your problem right there.
>>27146686
chin up brother, on to the next bitch
>>27146655
>cucked
Did she agree to be exclusive with you? It's not really cuckoldry if you're not officially together.
