Anyone here just genuinely not interested in getting a gf?
If I actually had money, I'd rather spend it on things I've wanted to buy for years instead of blowing $200 on a single night out with a girl.
>>25099467
What if you got sex that night?
>>25099491
You can find whores for less.
Nah m8. I'm 25, my chances of ever finding a virgin are long gone.
I'm not, but I've been in relationships before.
I prefer being single over having to deal with the fluctuating emotional state of girls any day. Sex just isn't worth it for the shit you have to put up with in the long term.
>>25099508
As someone who's actually taken a girl's virginity, count yourself lucky. Popping a girl's cherry is actually kinda traumatizing.
>>25099434
This desu. I'm mostly just interested in getting laid.
Just go for some slutty bitches with low self-esteem. You can find some that are actually a legit 7/10 maybe 7.5/10.
There's literally nothing good about having a gf
>having to pay a shit tone everytime you go out
>she'll expect expensive presents and shit
It's just not worth having to deal with women's bullshit only for that sex..
>>25099491
Not him, but no.
Western society, and the entire process of dating is a fucking joke.
I'm in such a pathetic state right now, I need to get my life together before even considering sex or 'gf'. Not that I want either right now, I even have to force myself to masturbate because it feels so pointless.
fuck 3dpd women
>>25099499
Not legal ones.
>>25099540
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE GET OUUUUUUUT NORMIEEEEEEEEESSS REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I am but only if she
>solid 8/10 or higher
>independent and rich and educated, yet humble and feminine
>drives me around everywhere
>spoils me
>is not a cumdumpster
>doesnt expect to recieve anything in return from me
Sadly there is no girl like this...
>>25099434
>live by myself, small apartment, work very casually
>most days I do nothing
>obsessed with Rome and the Roman Empire
>Have robes that I wear around the house to reenact Roman life
>Pretend to be in the senate having heated debates about the Punic Wars, or conquests in Gaul
>Sometimes pretend to be a slave
>Sometimes pretend to be a merchant that travels the waves to scrape a living
>Dream of Rome every night
>Room is covered in SPQR drawings
>Bookshelf is all Roman history and latin books
>Mutter to myself at work about Roman things
Don't think I'll ever find myself in a relationship fellow citizen.
>>25099491
I'll take "shit normies say" for 800, anon.
>>25099434
Grew out of it I think.
Now I just make out and sometimes bang sluts at parties/clubs and occasionally visit a prostitute.
>>25099620
Move to a decent country.
>>25099685
>I was only nine years old... I loved Rome so much that I would have all the merchandise and seasons
>>25099682
This is the dream, anon. They're out there. We just need to hope we're lucky.
>>25099712
>Caesar is love. Caesar is life.
>>25099434
It's really not worth it anon they require all your time, energy, expect you to spend your money on them and do "cute things for them", bitch at you the second u don't give them enough attention and then find it in other males, and most of the time they end up cucking you. Whether it's while you are still dating or fucking one of your best friends a week after you break up, destroying a friendship and cucking you all in one. Millennial women are vile.
>>25099508
>I'm 25, my chances of ever finding a virgin are long gone.
I'm nearly 27 and I boned a 16 year old last night.
>>25099540
>traumatizing
Traumatizing for you or the girl? If for you, please explain.
>>25099869
Blood. Everywhere. She started talking about how it hurt, then I looked down and thought I legit ruptured her sex organs.
I don't think anyone's ever content with it. It's our biological purpose, but we feel so helpless about that that we manage to delude ourselves into thinking otherwise. However, underneath, the pain is always there; it gnaws at you each day as you contemplate how it all went so wrong.
>>25099818
MMMMMMOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDSSSSSSS!!!!!!!! OC comment.
Sometimes I am lonely and missing out on something the entire rest of the human race takes for granted makes me feel very weird and defective. However I know I'd be even more unhappy if I had to put up with another person constantly. I don't even like being obligated to visit my friends very often (all two of them).
I'm working towards a certain goal and I feel that a relationship could throw me off the path which I have spent years planning.
>>25099951
The thing is, thanks to porn, we don't need to have a gf to fulfill our biological needs. I can focus on what makes me happy rather than waste my life on a woman who will most likely divorce me at some point.
>>25100052
Pretty much this. Every ">no gf" poster is a pussywhipped faggot with fragile fee-fees. Face it, you're no different from the same retard normies who "suffer" from "depression" because they haven't been in a relationship for two whole weeks.
>tfw too robotic for real life but too norm for /r9k/
>>25099434
Honestly you're not missing out much. I for one, would rather jerk it than have to do foreplay, nice words, get naked, do all the work and cum only for her to start babbling.
To find someone who has the same level of lust and willingness to be proactive in bed is pointless.
In 8 years I've only found 2 girls who were amazing, both crazy and jealous as fuck.
So... I keep on setting a new one just to fill the void temporally and I can't help but to look at the wall, smiling nervously and muttering I do too, when she says: I love you.
So... Yeah. Not much.
>>25099434
i dont see the point, and I think most guys don't but they just do it to fit in
seems like a huge waste of time and energy, not to mention most marriages are miserable
>>25099434
Here I am.
Never been so interested in having a gf, 5 years ago I found my only oneitis.
After a couple of years I understood she was a crazy psycho bitch, like all the others... so never again
>>25101001
I don't think they do it to fit in. I think they genuinely want an emotional companion. The problem is, they don't realize how much of their life they're really sacrificing.
>tfw schizotypal and completely uninterested in anything but my elaborate fantasy world
I do want one, but I know it will never happen. I should become a monk and embrace sad life.
>>25099682
kek good luck anon
Right here.
It wouldn't work, anyway. Being a schizoid, it'd be too much about me.
>>25101090
I have gf who feeds me fewd, blowjobs and laughter.
She's like my best friend and I can have farting competitions with her and talk about anything.
I know what my life was like before her. One night stands, blowing money on going out and also more freedom, but at this point in my life it's worth it.
Also I'm homeless in this country and she lets me sleep in her house so that's great
tl:dr they are an emotional companion, and a source of comfort/support, a platform from which you can jump off and try to fulfill your dreams without fear that she won't be there to catch you if you fall. It's much more frightening doing it alone.
I think it would be nice to have one but it's not necessary. I also think a girlfriend isn't what I need in my life right now.
>>25099434
Rather not have a girl from this generation, thanks.
And there is no reason for me to give up all my money, that i can just spend on myself.
>>25099434
Yep, not interested at all.I want to be the gf
>>25101464
GET THE FUCK OUT OR /R9K/ NORMIE FUCK
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Jm_eUQSYAk
>still caring about sex and vapid whores that want you to be a rich clown for them
>Not being smug and comfy enjoying your hobbies with some friends to catharsis
>>25099491
So spend large amounts of money for a chance to fuck? Gambling is illegal, anon.
>>25099682
>independent and rich and educated, yet humble and feminine
Unfortunately that's a contradiction for women nowadays. Enjoy your whoreslut liberated to suck a million dicks without repercussion.
>>25099818
Which very original content country?
>>25100030
That second part is me, and it's even more so with a girl. Unless she's shy and cute and into most of what I like to do, it'd only be a burden to keep up a relationship. Unfortunately most girls surround themselves with a million orbiters for validation which is quite disgusting.
>>25101018
That feel when. Thought she was different bit last oneitis four years ago has made me see the childishness that is in most girls so I haven't cared since then.
>>25099434
>tfw never had a gf because i never asked anyone out
To people who have gone on dates, wtf do you do?? How do I ask a girl out? Where? I don't know any places - should I just ask to hang around or to people only go to restaurant/cinema/park etc. dates? If I don't know any places should I just ask her for her preferences or should I google around for places in my area? I don't have car, what should I do and how do I bring that up? How do I get accross (or understand) the formality of the date and what I should wear? Do I pick her up or agree to meetup and how do I get that accross?
I managed to avoid all these issues by simply relying on the hope that maybe one day in class, a qt grill will start talking to me, and since I seem to have a fairly likeable personality we'll get along, and then get a small friendship and I'll be able to casually turn that into a date proposal, and we'd be open enough with eachother and shit that I'd be able to ask her those questions easily and get a date going or maybe just hang out and netflix and chill. Now I'm done with highschool and barely ever see any new grills in classes or have chances to talk to them, I know this is hopeless and I will soon enough die alone.
>>25099690
>Move to a decent country.
Such as?
>>25099434
I do suffer from tfwnogf, but what I want is a fantasy. Looking at it realistically, almost everything about having a gf sounds awful.
>>25102319
I have a friend who went dating several girls and got completely rekt each time. Tbh I don't see the need to have a gf. They have fights all the time and he gets some reward. Ffs you would get less trouble from a whore.You're gonna die alone regardless of who's beside you when you die. I don't understand all the fucking degenerates saying "oh I'm sad and have no gf" You're not missing much. My friend will most likely get dumped in a few months guaranteed and he will bitch about his bitch. Nothing like the single life where you only care about yourself because fuck everyone else.
Why the fuck normies are so obsessed with their GFs? Mate engaged a conversation with me and when his GF came, he just stopped and refused to listen, pretending that I am invisible or whatever. Having ended the conversation (well, it wasn't ended at that moment, it was interrupted in the middle), he left, said nothing. Another mate found her breeding sloot and was standing in front of the staircase, preventing me and other people to pass by.
Why are they so retarded?
>>25102915
because you hang around with orbiter losers, you loser.
>>25102938
If they were orbiters, they would've been chasing the roasties all along and whining, - "M-muh %grillname%, she is so kind, I want to gift her a present", but no, this doesn't happen.
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>>25099434
I'd prefer getting a fuckfriend desu.
I'm starting to realize that I don't really want a gf. I don't want to go out and do things or spend money.
>>25102872
see how angry and bitter you are?
Having friends is fun and love. Having a girlfriend is like having a friend all the time.
Isolation is an inevitable path to the dark side and Sith wizardry, not to mention a life of sadness to look back on
>>25099434
I always knew i was an unattractive loser so i've never tried to get a gf in my life.
>>25101110
>tfw I invented 6 alien languages each with over 8000 words and functioning grammar and designed a planet with each different culture and its history.Do I need help yet?
>>25103159
Same senpai. I've traveled enough to know I hate it. I hate just about everything that has to do with being outside. I also run out of things to talk about in zero time.
I'd rather be a wizard.
>>25099434
Me
People in general don't really interest me, especially not women. Men are more tolerable, but most of them are normies anyway
every time I had a gf I always regretted it
the sex is not worth the loss of free time and sanity
>>25099818
yes, FBI? I want to report a sex offender
>>>25102872 (You)
>Having a girlfriend is like having a friend all the time.
Yeah till she breaks up with you and crushes your hopes and dreams.
What's it like to have to depend on someone else for happiness? Must be pretty shit.
>>25101018
>>25102295
Yeah, it's so sad.
I had 3 crushes in my life: one during the highschool, one during my early 20s, the last one (and I really mean LAST) two years ago.
When you realize they are exactly as any other woman, it's a destroying feel
>>25103374
You need an audience, Mr. Tolkien!
>>25103374
post it famalot
>>25103613
I'm not dependent. Both parties obviously have to be willing and cooperative. It's about being partners and maximizing each other's pleasure.
I'm happy alone but happier with her. You're sad alone and wouldn't know what to do with a girl if you somehow got one.
Human society was built on being social and cooperation. Relationships are the logical step in growing as a human being. Y'all are the outliers.
>>25103707
>>25103749
I will probably never release this as that world is really dear to me and even a bit of negative criticism towards it will hurt me a lot because of all the effort and emotion I put into making it. And god forbid if it got popular and got rule 34. In that caseme=dead.Just no.
But if you are really curious I could post some samples I made when I was 9 that started this.
>>25104006
either you're lying and none of this is real or you need to grow up
then again i seriously doubt this post is real as someone this autistic could not possibly comprehend the english language or the internet or how to communicate with other human beans
I like spending my time chilling out alone and I have lots of money to do that with.
I was thinking earlier how if I had a gf I'd have to spend most of my free time entertaining her, spending money on shit for us to do, all for the pleasure of having sex a couple times a week.
Doesn't sound worth it, when will I have my time to be alone?
>>25099818
Where are you from? Bongland?
>>25104515
do you think you are not?
>get gf
>she thinks my life should revolve around her
>mfw
Have a hobby? "HONEY WHY AREN'T YOU PAYING ATTENTION TO ME" because she isn't interested in mine
Going out with friends? "OH CAN I COME ALONG TOO, I DON'T HAVE ANY OF MY OWN" and then complains about where we go to
Doing some work on the computer? "ANON DON'T YOU SPEND ENOUGH TIME ON THAT THING" when I have lots to do and she spends half her time playing Facebook games when I'm not using the PC
>>25103374
Make a game already. That's good for RTS, or Tomb Raider-like.
>>25099434
I would be, if I could get all the benefits with out the negatives.
>>25104807
>there are people with this problem
Most of the time, it's my gf getting drunk, going clubbing and dancing with random Chads. I've always been the needy one.
>>25104866
Thing is, she absolutely hates alcohol because of her father. I mean, it's good for her... but not good for me since I like to sometimes have a casual drink with other people. She can't fit in.
>>25104929
I don't drink. Can I have her? Post pics.
>>25104955
Sorry man, I'm not a cuck.
>>25104980
At least not voluntarily.
>>25105034
But seriously, she's cute. I can put up with her.
only thing that i love in this world is my computer and i will never let any roastie whore go between me and it
>>25101110
>tfw schizotypal and completely uninterested in normal society, but want to live an idealized hero life in line with my fantasies.
>mfw it works and gets me far because most people I come into contact with are anxiety ridden and don't know themselves.
DELUSION IS POWER.
>>25099434
Here.
I had a girlfriend a couple years ago. Before that I had a fuck buddy for a while. Girls make me feel suffocated. I still get horny, and I still have times where I want companionship, but at 24 with a good job and comfy life, adding a gf just sounds like a pain in the ass. I honestly wonder if I have something wrong with me because my lust isn't strong enough to encourage me to pursue a woman, but it's probably the only abnormal aspect of my life.
I am totally open to the idea of having a girlfriend -- I even have a tinder -- but I am not going out of my way to find one. She'd have to be someone really special.
>>25104006
nig people will always criticize, but i'm willing to bet if you've been working on it for years it's far from unimpressive.
