Penpal thread: What am I doing with my life edition
Join the fun and talk to foreign qts.
>how is your penpal doing?
>get help making penpals
>have you skyped them yet?
>post any related updates or questions
>show off any cute messages or ads
>call me a fag for talking to a cute asian girl
>I wanna see you tomorrow
This could be you, robots. Imagine that feel when a girl wants to see and talk to your hideous face.
I want to hear from the bros who are hunting Christmas Cakes. I'm not having any luck so far.
Maybe I made the thread too early today. Here's a bump for Christmas cakes.
Currently talking to an Australian meme-poster, I honestly thought it was all a joke until I actually talked to one.
jesus christ
but shes pretty funny I guess.
>>24427448
I see the interpals gen on /int/ a lot. What do you get out of this? Companionship? Validation?
>tfw no one wants to exchange real letters
I just want a traditional pen pal, with envelopes, stamps and everything. If I wanted to chat I could just go to Omegle
>>24428315
>>24428356
Companionship I guess. It's just nice having someone to talk to on a slightly more intimate level instead of random fags on omegle. It's more like having a friend. You should talk to them through digital messages first and once they become more comfortable, then ask about real letters. I and some other robots have done it. Besides, giving away your address and shit to strangers is scary. Exchanging letters and gifts isn't too unheard of.
>>24427627
Did yous Skype today then?
>>24428514
Later today. Maybe at night, depends when. Normally one of us stays up until 2am, but I'm not sure about this time. It's 5:30am in Japan right now, so probably not for a while.
>>24428315
Frustrated attempts to learn a language that lead to nowhere because you have nothing to talk about.
>>24428495
>giving away your address and shit to strangers is scary
True. Still, exchanging real letters seems super awesome
>>24428559
Have yous video chatted yet? If so, what was it like seeing each other first time?
still no luck, i guess i'm doomed to loneliness forever
>>24428725
Yeah we've done it a few times already. The first time we were both kind of shy and nervous. She was super cute though. I knew what she looked like beforehand, but she was much more attractive in video. She was also real cute because she was kind of shy and was doing that hair brushing thing you see in movies and cartoons and shit. I showed her some guns I have and my dog and things like that. We speak for about an hour just updating each other on our lives and what we'd like to do in each other's countries and stuff.
You guys can have nice things like this. Just message girls and I'll help you.
>>24428757
Keep trying, anon. I believe in you.
>>24429028
Nice brah, nice to hear a feel good story
>>24429028
>I showed her some guns I have and my dog
You're the most white trash zipperhead I've ever talked to, quail. Keep doing god's work.cakebump
>>24428581
>>24428495
Honestly, I should take it up. I suck at talking to women and keeping as many pokers in the fire as possible would help. Plus it'll give me some validation and all that good stuff. Come hang out lads
>>>/int/51062765
>>24429166
I know /int/ has threads like this and are probably nicer in many ways.They're more normie getting nudes and shit. Fucking Chads defiling my pure qtsI chose to bring these threads to /r9k/ hoping to inspire more robots to get penpals and making life suck a little less. How often have you seen ">tfw no qt asian gf" posted? The very first thread I made about my penpal got a ton of replies of people saying they wish they had what I have, so I decided to try and help other people share in the experience. Does /int/ know about these threads? I may post there once in a while, with or without trip, I don't know. I want these threads to be more about you guys getting penpals and enjoying having a qt to talk to and making friends and shit and slowly move away from "ask quail questions about his penpal."
>>24429102
Those are some good ass Christmas cakes. Also, I'm not white. <3
Anon here who complained about ADHD bitches wanting IM, and when not getting it, losing interest instantly.
Status update: it happened a few more times.
Seriously, why does nobody want proper thought out messages... WTF is these bitches' thought process like?
> he's cute, I'll message him
> he's cool too, I like him a bit
> better demand IM so I can have instant validation from him whenever I wish
> you can never have too many orbiters in your portable attention machine
>>24429602
You have the weirdest luck. That happens, but not every single time.
This post is a shameful self bump.
>tfw falling for penpal
I didn't want these feels, I just wanted a new friend
>>24430547
Message a whole bunch more, Anon. Get plenty of conversations going and it'll help you from falling into oneitis.Of course, I'm specifically looking for lonely Cakes, so take my advice for what it's worth.
>>24430547
Fap and rethink your feelings with a clear mind. Maybe it was meant to be.
>>24430625
I'm honestly surprised how popular cakes are here. Not that it's bad. They're cute too.
>>24430547
I have fapped and the feelings stay. She is just so cute
>>24430625
I have 3 penpals do you think that is enough?
>>24430796
Save up your pennies, sell blood plasma, sell any junk you have, and visit her. Maybe she will develop feelings and you can mate. You should wait for a long while and see how you still feel. You'd be risking something nice if she turned you down.
>>24431282
>and visit her
Speaking of which, any progress in your own plans to visit yours?
>>24431386
I'm trying, but I won't make it by Christmas. It'll have to be another time. I worry about making the money all the time and it stresses me out more than it should. My penpal specifically told me not to worry so much about it. Someone asked me to check on their house and take care of their many pets over Thanksgiving break. They said they'd pay me which is something of a start. They're a wealthy family and the know I know and have kept a lot of animals as pets. If only they'd pay me $2,000. Lol I can dream, right?
>>24430796p-pics of qt
>>24431497
where does she live?
>>24431576
I cant save or else she get a notification that I saved it
>>24431650
They have spy apps for snapchat, for android atleast
>>24431497
Sounds like you need to get to hustling, son.
/biz/ sometimes has good threads on Sales and Freelancing you might check out. Best advice I can give you is learn about sales in general, and the world is your oyster. It's basically the art of making people want to give you money. I'll give you a start, go download the following books:
Dale Carnegie - How To Win Friends and Influence People
Education of Millionaires - Michael Ellsberg(this one is important, it will give you more resources to hit up)
Zig Ziglar - Secrets of Closing The Sale
Honorable mention to The Art Of The Deal by Donald Trump
>>24431686
It isn't snapchat but I figured it out
>>24431790
I'd probably fall for her, too desu
>>24431650
Japan. She's living by herself right now and said she wants me to visit her on Christmas. I know. I know, I fucked up big missing out on the opportunity. I kick my own ass over it.
>>24431758
I'll give the books a look more out of my own curiosity. I don't think I could make $2,000 in a month. I don't even know if you could buy airplane tickets that sudden. I have a minuscule amount of money right now and my parents would probably pay some if I showed I had a chance of raising a large portion of the money.
>>24431790
She's cute, anon. I don't know how long you've known her, but I feel like you should still wait some time and get to know her and stuff before considering a relationship. Definitely post updates in here though. I'm curious about how this will end up for you.
>>24431920
How much are flights to japan? Maybe you could try and get a deal?
>>24432051
They are about $2,000. They price rises around holidays too, so it's probably even more. I didn't even take food and stuff into consideration. She'll almost certainly let me stay at her house though.
>>24432125
Is she qt?
>>24432125
i know a cheaper way for you to go desu
>>24432172
Absolutely.>>24429028
However, she has short hair and I like really long hair. It's not a deal breaker at all or anything, I just don't like repeating myself so often and thought I'd throw this tidbit in. She's really cute both in looks and personality, although I feel like there is still a lot about her personality for me to learn.
>>24432223
Sucking dicks is not an option.
>>24432283
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_wheel-well_stowaway_flights
just get your stealth up and sneak onto runway
>>24432320
I don't have any stealthboys and I'm all out of caps though. Also American airports shoot you for doing anything unusual and sneaking in a bunch of warm blankets to keep me from freezing to death sounds hard.
Do they respond to 3rd world non-white guys?
>>24431920
>I don't think I could make $2,000 in a month
Probably not, but it'll give you the skillset to start making money longterm. If you want it bad enough, read what I've given you and start making money to go see your qt. You can do it, quail, I believe in you.
>>24432465
I'm sure there are cargo ships, pay a dock worker to let you hitch a ride across the Pacific
>>24432520
I should have made this the "Don't stop believing edition"
>>24432528
That actually sounds like a lot of fun, but I don't know how much that is, or long it would take. Do people even do that? How would you get back? I don't think that will happen as cool as it sounds.
>>24432502
I'm not white but I live in America. You can try and report back. What country are you from?
>>24432628
Argentina.
Brown.
I was planning on attempting to get one, any tips/how do I start where do I go please help the loneliness is crippling
>>24432654
>Argentina.
>Brown
Pick any ONE
>>24432699
Try using this guide. >>24429028
If you have more specifc questions I'd be more than happy to help. Just remember to message a few at a time because a bunch will stop talking to you for no reason.
I'm writing emails with a 27-year old Japanese college administration worker. We've been telling a bit about each other's lives and she's complimented me which felt nice. It's been a while since she answered my email but she told me she was very busy this month so I'm just hoping she's doing some crazy hours I've been told Japanese people sometimes have to do. I'd be a bit sad if she stopped responding altogether.
Also signed up to that Interpals and got to talk a bit with a Malaysian chick, I felt like we were conversing well but then I got busy for a few days and didn't come on and when I came back she had deleted her profile.
Overall It's not been a good experience because I just really, really suck at smalltalk and I feel like I'm just perpetually trying to find things to talk about. I'm just not good at conversation really.
>>24432628
Riding a cargo ship is probably illegal, but it would be fun. It's kind of one of those things you could do if you had no other choice I suppose. You could get on the wrong ship and go to a completely different country, or get dropped off on the opposite side of the country. Getting back would be especially hard, maybe you could just take the ship there and plane back.
>>24432771
Okok I'll try it soon, its just that, like the image said, I do worry that I have nothing to talk about. I'm a shut in with social awkwardness who does nothing but play videogames, plus I find it hard not to reveal my power level because I have nothing else to talk about, so I resort to all I have left. I guess I do have very "shallow" feelings for some things, like the outdoors, and learning new things, but is it enough to have a vague liking for something instead of having a passion for something? I have passion/motivation issues so I haven't done anything substantial in my life
>tfw dont want to put a profile picture because uggo
>>24433018
Like Eggman-tier ugly? If nothing else, try to use a picture of you doing something cool.You do get outside and have hobbies, right? :^)
>>24433221
no not eggy-tierdoes vidya count
>>24432972
Vague stuff should be ok. You'll think of something. Or maybe you will get the opportunity to ask about her hobbies and stuff. It's possible you'll end up talking about your countries and cultures more at first.
>>24433018
Japan-guide requires no picture.
>>24433538
Alright, what's the harm in trying r-right?
>>24433784
Be prepared to send a lot of messages and receive little.
>>24433900
Hey hey! That's like how it was for me in highschool! At least I'll be in familiar territory. Any idea why this is btw? I've actually been trying to get away from this way of life, but its better than being lonely, I guess
>>24433988
The women probably get way more messages than men and don't take the time to go through every message and write a response. Then once they find someone interesting, they stop reading new messages. Maybe they already are friends with an American and want someone from another country.
>>24434078
Makes sense, I shouldn't get my hopes up then. Still no harm in trying at least. Also, a stupid question. My computer is dead atm, so I'm using my phone, the penpal sites are mobile friendly right?
>>24433538
Do Japanese speak coherent English?
>>24434342
The Japanese woman I'm talking to speaks decent-to-good English, but tends to use basic sentence structures.
>>24434342
Their profiles will usually say what languages they speak somewhere. Some speak English very well, some don't.
>>24434120
Yeah you'll be fine. What website isn't mobile friendly?
>>24434556
I've only spoken to one person who was a non-native English speaker and they were very hard to communicate with.
I went on japan-guide and it just looks like a travel sight, is it not penpal oriented like interpals?
>>24434606
Eyyyy I'll see what I can do then, go friends! Wish me luck.
>>24434766
I need to update the guide. Scroll to the bottom and click on Japan Penfriends. Then you'll see some ads and shit people have posted. Then make an account and start messaging.
>>24434797
Thanks senpai, I was clueless for a moment
>>24434622
But you speak to non-native English speakers everyday on 4chan?
>>24434797
Eyyyy is it only Japanese ppl? Or can u chat with other countries there as well
Please contact me. 18/m/US extremely lonly looking for qt friends
Twitter.com/21y8L4VYr0R9 we can dm
>>24434823
In person, is what i meant
Please contact me. 18/m/US extremely lonely
Twitter.com/21y8L4VYr0R9 we can dm
>>24434897
Posted twice thanks captcha
>tfw internet qts skype and send you packages
>tfw irl qts ignore you
>>24434826
>wanting to speak with non-japanese people
Just go the fuck outside nigga
This is something I kind of want to do, but I'm scared.
>>24434980
Me too, man. I've got pretty bad social anxiety. How the fuck am I supposed to message some random Japanese girl?
>>24434966
There's no Aryans out there tho senpai
>>24434980
>>24435010
Here is an instructional video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTz93Y-qeq0
>>24434826
Yes there are other countries, but it's mostly japs.
>>24435110
Shia LaBeouf isn't gonna help me mate.
How the fuck do you just up and start a conversation with a random stranger from a foreign country?
>>24435323
First, say hello.
>>24435443
OK, then what?
>>24435478
If they only respond with a greeting, comment on something on their profile. If you're lucky they will respond with a conversation starter.
>>24435497
What is I'm not lucky?
>>24435542
Just comment on something they said in their profile or say something about their picture. Try to be somewhat self-aware when talking so you don't look like a sperg, but at the same time don't overthink what you are saying. I'm sorry that my advice sucks as, but it is hard to give directions on an abstract thing like socializing
>>24435478
Just introduce yourself and tell her some of your interests and that you would like to get to know her and her culture. Keep it brief, like a paragraph or two. Leave some other ways for her to contact you too. Ask about some of the things she may have listed for her hobbies like "Oh, you like reading? What's your favorite book?" or "I saw you like how American's eat a lot of cheap food. I can teach you about the foods we eat." It doesn't have to be an elaborate life story.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvPszUSl3RY
>>24435586
Thanks mate.
>>24435620
And thank you too.
I don't really have anyone to confide in or share any feels with. Except primarily this one american guy whom i knew through this shitty board. He has been staying in japan for almost a year i think? And he's staying for half a year more. Now we exchange real letters and gifts sometimes too. it gives such heartwarming feels.
He used to be like a lot of you guys - couldn't find a good girl to date. Since i knew him i've always been explaining whatever cultural differences to him and i still do this now to resolve his quarrels between him, and his really pretty and kind girlfriend. He also blossomed from dressing like a dork to an absolute chad.
I hope more arcanine folks will message me on interpals ;_;
I won't let your thread die, quail.
>>24431790
That bitch is gross.
>>24436518
Thanks.
I may skype with my penpal either in just a few hours. Possibly less. I'm not sure if I should message her and ask about it. I don't want to sound too pushy or whatever.
This has to be some of the most autistic shit I've seen, even for r9k.
>>24436630
How's your first few days here, reddit? Finding any cool dank maymays?
How can you faggots possibly be this needy for attention?
Get the fuck off this board, all of you are literally no better then the women who search for and get attention just because they have slightly moist holes between their legs.
>>24436677
t. namekek
I guess you need all the (You)s otherwise you realize how fucking pathetic you are.
The mere fact that you need other people in real life to validate you for your own satisfaction fucking sickens me.
Kill yourself.
>>24436630
>>24436682
>>24436715
Someone's mad.
>>24436682
>>24436715
>on part of a website notorious for betas and losers
>this board is known for lonely people shitting and pissing in bottles and being NEET
>somehow shocked when something even mildly pitiful is posted
>hurr how beta and pathetic can you guys be?
>ha you're so dumb talking to women! Talking to women is stupid and you're desperate for doing it
You guys really sound like you're new as fuck if this is the saddest thing you've seen here. You don't belong here. Go post about bbc and tendies somewhere else.
>>24436885
This fucking tripfag has been hovering over this thread for fucking hours, bumping even though it's a shit thread, and all so that he can get some fucking attention.
>>24436888 need to kill yourself.
>>24436962
>>24436994
Why don't you fuck off to the hole you came from?
>>24436962
Each time you post and I reply to it, the thread gets bumped again. Think about that for a moment. The entire board is filled with racebait, gay steam threads, "fembots", dank reddit maymays, and yet the one thread that's trying to help other robots actually talk to and meet girls is the one that cross the line for you. Makes sense right? If I wanted to attention whore more I'd post in each of those threads so more people would see me and my posts. Instead I post her, in my own thread that no one is forced to read.
>>24436994
At least they can properly post underneath their reply direct.
Could someone please come to my house later tonight so that I can watch you fuck my girlfriend? I find this kind of stuff really sexually stimulating, but if you don't want me watching, that's still okay; just lock me outside while you fuck her. I'll still enjoy it.
>>24437051 are an idiot.
30+ jap girls messaged me
nothing in my profile other than my name and pic
got bored and stopped talking to all of them
:^)
protip: if you have to message girls they don't like you
>>24437088
That's not my trip, silly. How mad are you that you are compelled to do this? I've rustled you hard without even doing anything.
>>24437088
>he doesn't know how tripcodes work
>>24437088
How fucking reddit can you be?
>>24427448
>tfw too socially inept to be able to send a letter once a month
what the fuck am I even supposed to write
my life is repetitive, dull and void of interesting events
>>24437088
Look at how mad he is! He made a whole thread about me!
>>24437207
>>24429402
fair enough. if you have the time and drive, you could make these threads a regular and successful thing.
>>24437413
Take photos of your surroundings and include them in the letters.
>>24437520
I've been posting them every weekend, sometimes wednesdays too. Penpal messages don't happen too often, at least not with interesting content, so I only make them one or twice a week. This has been going on for a few months. Slowly catching on. Slowly.
>>24437430
We know you posted that yourself. You are one sad faggot.
>>24437566
>dead small village
>forests nobody really enters
>fields nobody walks through
I think it'd be really fucking depressing
>>24437622
Take pictures of the fields and forests and just say it's the local nature or park or whatever. Where she lives, the environment is probably way different. It's better than nothing. There's got to be at least a few notable things that happen each month. Holidays are a good topic too since her country may celebrate it differently.
>>24427448
I like furries and magic the gathering, and am obsessed with undertale but not to the tumblr extreme
I also like writing and roleplaying but have no one to roleplay nice stories with anymore
I also draw but it's very basic and I am not very great at it
Does anyone wanna be my p-pen palpls respond
>>24437675
nobody really celebrates anything here
christmas and midsummer are most notable, you chop downa tree and drag it inside during christmas and burn a bonfire during midsummer
not a lot of traditions in a dying village that stems from a culture that had to do everthing just to stay alive a hundred years ago
maybe I should start going to meetings discussion the old faiths so I'd atleast have folk legends to tell
>>24437746
No, dude all that is perfect. Just leave out the "nobody really celebrates anything here" or atleast downplay that part. Then go into more detail with the rest. That doesn't sound exciting for you, but it's new to them. Embellish it and make it sound as cool as you can.
>>24437746
You're being too negative.
Whatever seems boring/mundane/uninteresting to you is the opposite to her because she's from a totally different world
Just do it
>>24437795
Your a fucking psychopathic normie.
Just look at the shit your saying.
>>24437795
>>24437811
Eh. I guess I'll try, then
I imagine only some hikki >10m citizen citydweller would find the depressing cold north interesting though
>>24437832
>having good writing skills and trying to focus on positives is bad
You read my posts where I said I was trying to help robots, right? Also, it's "you're," and not "your."
"girls in my country can't stand me, so I'll try talking to girls trying to learn English that haven't had a chance to figure out how much of a pathetic excuse for a human being I am yet!"
>>24437877
You're telling people to lie like a fucking psychopath, which I guess is easy when it's you've ever done your whole life.
Case and point here.
>Also, it's "you're," and not "your."
You realized just how horrible it sounds to say what you did, so you try to get off topic with that pointless bull shit.
You're a fucking psychopath.
>>24437925
you're waaaaay out of line here. there's literally nothing wrong with adjusting what you describe to make it sound more exciting
bait?
>>24437852
If you really think about it, there must be some nature - plants and animals - unique only to where you live. Where's your penpal from and is she surburbian or metropolitian?
>>24437911
>>24437925
In case anyone is curious, it takes about 2-3 months of posting with a trip in your own threads to obtain a large amount of haters. I wasn't even trying to ruse you guys and yet tonight you all come at me like this. Maybe I should reply to less angry posts.
>>24427448
I was on interpals for a while and this girl from thailand was messaging me, but eventually i ran outta things to talk about and i sperged out and deleted my account
might make a new one and start over
>>24437675
Why are you telling a dude to lie to strangers? That's fucked up.
>>24439063
If you wrote a paper for that city, you wouldn't start with "nothing happens here."
this is scary quail, give me some inspirational words
>>24439550
You might, if you were about to lay down some cowboy wisdom, you faglord supreme.
>>24427658
I'm too young to get a christmas cake.
>>24432502
This is what I'm worried about myself, but if the answer is no it'd just destroy me forever so I don't even want to try.
>>24440124
I'm out of the loop.
What is a "Chritmas cake?" Apart from, you know, an actual cake.
>>24440187
In east asia women used to expire after age 25 and become 'unwanted goods'
Although rn i feel like the expiry age should be 30 or so.
>>24440187
Unmarried women older than 25 (I think, some i've heard is 27). It seems kinda dumb to me, getting married before 25 seems like hubris, but apparently it's a thing in Japanese culture.
>>24440215
>>24440220
Thanks lads.
>>24440187
>>24440220
>>24440215
"Unwanted after 25."
A bit like how Christmas Cake isn't wanted after the 25th.
>>24439931
>>24439931
What is it, my boy? What troubles you this cold night? Pay no attention to this plague of haters and listen to my words!
>>24440397
nobody replies to my on interpals ;_;
Any advice about starting convos? I've got an account set up, but I don't know how to open with anyone.
>>24440170
Just steal a picture from /soc/ or something unless you plan to visit them. There's plenty of 'rate me' threads for you to find a picture of an attractive white man in.
>>24440769
openers aren't hugely important. just pick something and go
it's more a numbers game, eventually you'll find that chick that digs you and rolls with it
>>24440819
>just pick something and go
real helpful, e-chad.
Any examples?
>>24440845
comment on something in her profile, or something from her picture. don't comment on her looks, she gets plenty of that.
>your profile has been viewed 0 times this month
http://www.interpals.net/Wrinty
>>24440807
I don't want to make a friend that I'll have to lie to.
>>24440962
It's that kind of attitude that puts people on /r9k/. Nobody's going to like you for who you are, much less people on the internet. If lying gets you to the minimum for conversation and puts you above the hordes of other brown people, where's the harm in it? You have to fight for your qts.
>>24441019
If I just wanted to talk to random people about random stuff without ever making a connection because I am a lie to them then I'd just stay in 4chan.
>wanting to talk to girls
sure is reddit in here
>>24440950
hey quail, can you give some tips on my profile?
>>24441072
use your real picture then. fucking think about shit instead of just complaining
>>24441378
Since when is /r9k/ so fucking confident and not lonely at all? Jesus.
>>24440950
I viewed it, enjoy your 1.
>>24441481
i dunno, I ain't ever been weak. being a robot doesn't mean shit to me
>>24440950
nice irl qts. enjoy your profile view
>>24440719
>>24441302
Hey I'm sorry it's really late right now. I just got done with my skype call and I'm real tired now. If this thread is still up I'll be sure to check out your profiles and stuff. If you want to ask me questions, go ahead I'll answer, but I may fall asleep soon.
>>24441881
How was the skype call?
I-is there a guide?
I want to talk to be a qt jap salarymanand then marry him.
>>24442202
>>24429028
Here's the guide.
>>24441913
It was great. I taught her a few words and some cuss words, which was funny for both of us. She is as cute as always. I'm excited for our next conversation since she briefly talked to a few friends.
What sites do sites do you snobs use I need to know I've been wanting a Japanese pen pal for ages.
>>24429028
>don't you dare mention anime and vidya
W-What if they have "Anime, Games" in their interests.And you're a girl.
White girls who have anime in their interests are cute, r-right?
>>24442754
To japanese men? Have you no seen anime yourself? That's the worst a girl can do.
>>24429028
So the answer to someone saying they arent interesting is to be interesting. The things im not allowed to mention are my only hobbies
>>24442754
Be my waifu then pls
>>24443192
My point was when I made that is that you guys are more interesting than you give yourselves credit for, you just need to think about it a little more and in different ways.
>>24443316
I'm reaching Christmas Cake. Since everyone here is always 21 and under, I'm too old for anyone on 4chan anymore. It feels bad.
>>24443501
Are we too young for you or do you fear being too old for us?
>>24443501
Idk man, i have a huge christmas cake fetish and i know at least a couple of people on here that do as well.
>>24443487
still haven't fallen asleep there? night
also nice guide btw
>>24443501
I am 24 so it is okay I guess
>>24443518
Both? An older woman and younger guy just... weirds me out. I'm probably just projecting since I like older guys.
Is it possible to be penpals with someone in the same country, or is that considered weird? I'm currently staying in Japan but circumstances prevent me from actually meeting anyone, and so I have no friends or anything.
>>24443813
I'd say go for it. Say that you have busy schedule or some shit but you still want someone to show you around and tell you about the culture or something.
>>24443824
Alright, I'll do my best!
Do people on Japan-Guide penpal section just never put photos on their profiles? Not one I've seen has except me...
am I nailing this or what
>>24443813
>but circumstances prevent me from actually meeting anyone
is it r9k
>tfw nobody replies to your "hello!"
>>24437727
What's your user profile?
It's been about a month since I went searching for qts on JapanGuide. Any interesting profiles lately?
>>24445764
How is someone so perfect.
>>24445459
No, it's a Mormon aunt who's hosting me here.
I'm tempted to try this but honestly, I can't lie even on the internet.
How am I going to sell myself as a NEET who still lives with mommy.
I don't want to be dishonest either, in case I do hit it off with a girl I don't want to have a nasty lie hanging onto my butt.
So maybe I pass until I have a job.
>>24446412
In Japan living with your parents until you get married isn't uncommon.
I had a profile for two years but I deleted it because I formed no long-lasting/meaningful relationships
I've been really lonely and depressed lately, should I create a new one?
A penpal would be cool, but I would like to send letters, pen and papers. I never get letters other than bills. There's a bit more charm to that and you put some more thought to what you're writing.
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>>24427448
Keep this shit on /int/ jesus.
