What is keeping you from turning your life around?
I don't have a jaw
>>24113320
why are the pictures in reverse chronological order?
>>24113340
You don't need one
Im thin and ugly. wat do
The thing I notice about these guys is that they already have lives and girls and shit before they ever do anything.
All I can figure is that if you're fat/ugly and lonely, you will work really hard to become fit/attractive and still lonely.
>manlet
he is clearly already tall when he was a fatty
>>24113340
Then how did you say that?
>>24113464
Just bulk up
>>24113530
>say
Having some muscles didn't 'turn my life around'.
>>24113651
unless you are irredeemably ugly, muscles help so fucking much with getting a gf, self-esteem, getting jobs, etc.
You just need to get motivated enough to do it
>>24113320
>Not even hover-arming in the first pic
He was a Chad already, probably a lineman on the high school football team or some shit. If he doesn't actively repulse women, how can we look up to him as an example to follow? Compared to the average robot he's on Easy Mode.
>>24113700
I have gf and every job I've ever had has made me depressed to the point I've seriously considered suicide
Muscles aren't going to fix that
none of this works if you're a manlet though
>>24114396
those before/after pics almost motivated me and then you reminded me of that. thanks senpai
>>24114461
wew, it actually does change the word family and others into those weeb words. I thought it was just a new meme
You see his facial bones? Even when fat you can see he has potential. I do not.
>>24113320
Addiction and depression.
Also I don't know how to properly maintain a good workout routine, and every time I try, I go for about 2 months without seeing any results, get discouraged, and quit. I'd like to get a personal trainer, but I don't want to pay some roided out motivational speaker 200 dollars an hour to count how many reps I'm doing.
>>24113320
The comfort in knowing my future isn't going to be a happy one no matter what I do now in the present.
Becoming /fit/ is symptomatic of turning your life around, it's not the end goal.
I did turn my life around. Got fit, finished my degree, got in contact with my friends again and got a gf.
Not because I got fit, but because I had made a series of healthy decisions about who I am and who I want to be. Being fit was only a part of that. And it does help in the looks department and in terms of feeling better. But it's no 'magic pill'.
>>24114336
And he's also white.
>balding
>manlet
>hearing impaired
>aspie
JUST
>all these excuses in this thread
Whether you believe you can or you can't: you are right.
>>24114528
Very true
>>24114528
Can you elaborate about the process?
Did you hit rock bottom and decided it was enough, or did you just decide to improve it all one day?
What were the main obstacles you encountered and how did you decide to tackle them?
>>24113320
I'm in the process right now. So fucking hungry, want to order a pizza more than anything
When manlets do that it is seen as over-compensating and pathetic.
Lot of work for nothing.
>>24113320
I'm doing it now.
Although I'm fat as shit and my body is completely screwed. I've lost 64 lbs, but I need to still lose around 100 lbs more.
>>24113320
>ugly face
>bad bonestructure
bulking won't do shit for me
>>24114695
I'm 31 years old, so I've had MANY years of self-pity and introspection behind.
I'd given up completely on normie life and one day (or maybe during a couple of months or whatever) realized that many of the decisions and values I had made/had did not help me in any way. It was a blind alley and me acting like the way I did only reinforced my skewed view of the world and how I perceived myself.
It sounds ridiculous, but I just decided that I 'owed' myself more than that. Instead of placing blame on others or making excuses, I accepted my shortcomings and set my mind on trying to be the best I could be within the constraints of who I am/was.
>Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
>The courage to change the things I can,
>And the wisdom to know the difference.
Is a very good mantra. Stop worrying about the things I can't change. Accept them, as much as you can, make your weaknesses neutral or turn them into benefits, somehow.
>>24113320
>goes from loser to complete tool
it's like this guy can't win desuuuu~
>>24114840
It's just that...at some point, introspection and analysis won't suffice. You realize you have to act to obtain 'results' (whatever that means).
Stop thinking and start doing, set a goal and meet it. Your way of thinking will change and will bring about positive results.
Hippie, out. Ree, etc.
>>24114840
Did you find this board after the Oregon shootings?
I've been noticing a lot more normies here since then.
>>24114974
I've been here since '08, I think.
>>24114948
wouldn't mind some advice on what I just posted here.
Once youre a complete social derelict there is no way back in
The people who 'turn their life around' already had some friends and social skills, they just had some problem holding them back
I was never fat or anything, just severely mentally lacking in terms of social skills and I have no interactions with anyone
>>24113320
i'm not fat with a jewfro
desu senpaihey robie im just testing this out okay?
>>24113484
because they aren't literally keked by their internet addiction like you are
I got /fit/, but then I realised I'm an ugly fuck and it was all for nothing
But jokes on them I guess, that's how I found powerlifting.
>>24114740
how tall
robot is shit
>>24115050
>Once youre a complete social derelict there is no way back in
Not with that attitude
>>24115152
if you have to give 'advice' please say something other than platitudes weve heard a million fucking times already
>>24115143
I am5'10":/
>>24114840
>>24114840
m8 all you did was work out and finish a degree, why are you acting like you're some wise monk that overcame extreme hardship?
>>24115152
it's all your attitude breh
just b posative
>>24115213
>more excuses
You complain about life but the truth is you don't even really want to get better. You feel satisfied in your misery because it's safer and easier than you'd ever want to admit.
You could change it if you really wanted to, you know.
>>24115123
Who is the joke on?
>>24113320
>still ugly
>>24115291
>>24115213
>MY CURRENT ACTIONS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE SHITTY QUALITY OF MY LIIIIIIIFFFFEEEEEEE
fuckin' normies, eh?
>>24115143
I'm 5'4". I've seen guys my height go full body-builder and it is always, ALWAYS embarrassing. I'd rather stay skelly.
>>24115235
Kindly fuck off my man.
>>24115341
Normie's laughing at my attempts to escape the hell of the robot life by becoming /fit/ and attractive like them. I failed at this, but in doing so realised such efforts were foolish, and I should transcend the need for their acceptance buy pursuing physical perfection.
>>24115355
Honestly, I appreciate good advice, but you're just spouting the same shit everyone's grandmother does and thinking you're some kind of teacher to us.
>>24113320
a supporting gf like his
I have a 13x11 pencil dick.
>>24115336
>give meaningless
>"your advice is bad"
>SEE YOU DONT WANT TO CHANGE
every day
all day
>>24115699
I have a fantasy about something like keking a small-dicked guy. Don't want to upset you so don't read on if that already sounds bad.
I have a fantasy about my gf teasing you. She would get you close to orgasm while mocking you, then put you in a chastity cage and tease you with her spread legs, getting her pussy so close to your dick. Then I would fuck her in front of you. Then we would untie you and send you off to masturbate.
Also some crueller variants if you're down.
>>24113320
Does working out finally fix my social retardation yet?
>>24115050
this is because you let yourself get keked by your internet addiction
probably adhd.
gotta blame something...
>>24116825
Kek. You got BTFOd in the other thread with your retarded bluepilled bullshit so you move here? Retarded normie.
>>24116928
you're still mad from getting destroyed earlier?
>btfo in t-the other th-th-th-thread
keep telling yourself that. I win every time :^)
>>24117036
Not as far as logic and truth is concerned. And that's the only thing that matters.
>>24114487
self-defeatist bullshit as least try you fag
>>24117087
Is it not the truth? His change wouldn't be nearly as impressive if his facial bones were shit.
>>24113320
>tfw already skinny so no chance of being good looking when fit
you fat fucks have it easy
>>24113320
Despite my 9/11 looks I'm still a friendless kissless hugless handholdless virgin with social anxiety
>>24117130
Iktfb
>the fact that it's a long process
>>24114528
true indeed.
>Did you hit rock bottom
there is no rock bottom.
it always can (and will) get worst
>>24117495
And here I stand today, almost a year later.
Still the king skeletons but i gained 40 pounds
>>24113320
Past failures from trying to turn my life around.
>>24113320
No luck finding a good enough girl to look past my flaws and motivate me to try harder, like the guy in OP.
>>24115881
If you're letting him fuck your girlfriend you're the one getting keked m8.
>>24117674
beer gut?
>>24117674
Holy shit. Great job.
>>24117495
>>24117674
holy shit man, well done. You looked fuckn scary in the first pic and now you look like a normal guy.
Is 5'9 too short for lifting?
>>24117907
Nope, full from breakfast
>>24117674
What was your diet like?
>>24114396
it's even easier to do this if you are a manlet
short people build muscle faster and require less of it to look ripped
stop crying about being short, nothing you can do about that. best you can do is present the best self you can.
>>24117495
>>24117674
Holy shit I wouldn't believe but I'm looking right at it, man you look like a completely different person.
What caused you to get so skinny in the first place? Was it an eating disorder? Or were you trying to be a trap? I mean you look very underweight and malnourished in that first photo, almost like anorexia.
>>24117674
GET GONE YE GOLEM
>>24113320
I DON'T HAVE FUCKING WEIGHT TO LOSEOr the time to do it.
>>24114861
exactly my thoughts
>>24118118
>t. non manlet
You will never understand
>>24117495
You look like you literally lived in a Japanese POW camp
>>24118495
You're such a fucking pussy I bet you're like 5'8"
>>24118545
I'm 5'5 actually
Because life is meaningless.
>>24113340
Unless you are literally pic related (and in that case, surgery is totally worth it, start saving up), your jawline is not what's stopping you.
Go on /fa/ and purchase some clothes that don't look like shit. It doesn't have to be expensive, H&M and Gap are fine, fit is what matters most.
Go on /fit/ and start lifting weights. Again, you don't have to look like an Abercrombie model, but at least don't be overweight or a skeleton. Stop snacking on cheeze its and start snacking on carrots. It's not that hard.
Go outside and join an a group activity. If you like music, take beginner group acoustic lessons. If you like drawing anime bullshit, sign up for a group drawing class at community college. Join a running club or something. The point it not that you instantly have friends and get a gf within a week of entering the real world, the point is that you get out of the house, practice interacting with other people, and you spend less time shitposting on /r9k/ (see: crabs in a bucket).
>>24119277
The girl on the left reminds me of Quiet
>>24118128
I didn't realise I was this skinny until, one day, I looked in the mirror
>>24114528
We're all gonna make it bro.
You just got to start yesterday.
>>24114840
This is pretty much how its working for me right now. Haven't had -that- much success yet, but I see myself participating in society, not just surviving. Tons more work to do, but what I've already done has already started to pay off in unexpected ways.
>>24118128
A motorcycle accident that left me in a unconcious for a week and caused me to lose my sense of smell changed me and then I became depressed, stopped talking to my friends and dropped out of school. When I realised what I had done I became stressed and stopped eating. I'm heavier than ever now and I just started talking to this girl I used to know before the accident (she let me touch her boobs once)
>>24117889
that doesn't happen
pre-emptive blox
>>24113320
I can't grow taller.
>>24114396
Manlets are cute and fuckable
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUgQPzq6ifc
Uglies, manlets, listen up.
Fembots and anyone else who likes giving manlets and ugly guys false hope, listen up. And stop your sickening behaviour. It is NOT kind
>>24119971
Just wear shoe inserts like Tom Cruise or Robert Downey Jr.
Women wear push-up bras so it's fair play.
I no longer care about where it goes
Just stay persistent and don't give up
>>24121632
>>24115336
Why do men always turn out better than women?
>>24121678
wow you are gay
>>24115235
if you think 5'10 is bad you spend too much time on 4chan and literally had your brain keked
>>24117063
shouldn't you be busy feeling sorry for yourself :^)
>>24113320
Apathy. What's the point if I'm just going to kill myself?
>>24113320
Being fat is not the problem, the problem is that I'm not good at making / keeping friends.
>>24113320
myself desu senpai
Why do I need to turn my life around?
What objective evidence can you offer?
Dubs decides how many pushups i do
be nice, please
>>24115110
I'm not internet addicted. I could stop using it for months but those months would be lonely as fuck. I'd just be reading and watching movies and tv the entire time.
I don't have money to go to a gym, nor the transportation since there isn't one in my town.
Getting in in shape wouldn't turn my life around. I'm too anxious and stupid to fix my life in any meaningful way.
>>24117476
Wait, I'm confused, did you mean 9/11 as in the terrorist attack, or 9 out of 11?
>>24122446
Not him but pretty sure he meant both. It's a joke.
>>24122784
I see. Funny. Haha.
>>24122325
Bodyweight exercises and eating right. Done.
>>24113320
I am autistic. I have partial depth perception. My legs are not the same length. I have flat feet. I have arthritis.
>>24113320
Sticking a gun in my mouth is easier
>>24114722
just eat a banana bro
>>24115880
it shouldn't be up to anonymous posters to convince you to make positive choices you dumbfuck.
getting fit has helped me and a lot of others, if you don't believe it will help you then don't get fit and keep feeling sorry for yourself.
>>24113320
Thanks for the inspirational thread. Right now health issues are what's stopping me, but more so is the fact that I'm intimidated by the gym. I don't like going if there's other people there, which is always.
>fat manlet
>disfigured face
Nope. I dont think i can.
1. If I eat more than 1.5k calories a day I feel sick
2. I have acne
>>24123889
You're gonna make it brah
Keep it up
>>24113320
A woman jsut like in that picture. But they also want 10/10 prince charming chads that or they are hateful misandrist feminists who hate white males and sleep with black men out of spite.
I don't really know how I could.
My only real flaw is my complete lack of motivation, perspective and the resulting apathy that is growing stronger every day.
Everything else is just a byproduct of that.
But I don't see how you could fix that, I don't really see a point in anything, I just want to sleep and play video games.
>>24114663
>balding
Just shave it
>manlet
Unless you're going for a Stacy, most girls can look past it
>hearing impaired
Go to a doctor
>aspie
Try to work around it
>>24113540
How do I bulk up?
>>24126478
Eat Clen and Tren hard.
