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Pride2016 edition

Have things changed for you post-Brexit?
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Might get myself a euro hubby
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I believe that Britannia is able to survive through anything so people need to stop acting like it's the apocalypse
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>>6453936
The only people who complain about Brexit are underage kids who fanatically believe in globalism and the multicultural utopia, and the Germans.
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>>6454014
The true British way is to complain no matter what happens
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>>6454016
I knew my country had some odd spritual connection with the British people, aside from the weather
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>>6453936
Of course it will survive. It amazes me that people think anything will change. Leaving the EU is beneficial for North American trade since now they're eligible for free trade agreements, and largely neutral on everything else since in the end the trade deals with europe will basically end up on par to that of the EU anyway. The EU of course had many positive effects on the economy but a US-UK free trade agreement alone would BTFO of the EU.
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Willies
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>policeman stopped to propose to his boyfriend

I would hate to have that done to me.

What fucking faggots
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>>6455576
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Bad week to be a Muslim.
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>>6456010
Good
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>tfw no bf to propose to me

feels bad man
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>>6455576
Yeah I don't understand gays that do the whole proposal thing
My ideal would be just skip the proposal and go elope in Vegas with a couple friends or something
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>>6456010
Lets make it that way for every week.
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Anyone going to Brighton Pride in August?
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I'd be mortified if this happened to me. Like, what if he wasn't out to his PD buddies? Jeez, what a bunch of fucking faggots. I cringed at the photos. Get your shit together and be professional Brit-cop fucks.
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>>6456067
>what if he wasn't out to his PD buddies?
why is he proposing to his bf in public?
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I think it's nice desu. Wouldn't do it myself desu, in the closet atm and doubt I'd ever be comfortable with any kind of public eye on me but they clearly are.
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>>6456065
Might be desu. Need to hear back from a friend about staying at theirs
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>bf hasn't posted a vid in 3 weeks
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>>6456071
I thought it was the other way round.
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>>6456205
Even if it was, he's marching with gay police in a pride parade with a rainbow flag painted on his face
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>>6456212
Could have got the face paint after. And been pulling security for the parade.
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Rather like a man in uniform desu
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>>6454332
The EU is already negotiating a US-EU free trade deal that has been protested massively for a huge number of reasons. The UK just wants to have the cake and eat it too in the form of the EEA, but the reality of it is that they'll still be paying money for access to the european free market but will lack any proper political influence over the EEA.
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>>6453881
I feel safer all of a sudden now we left desu, like comfier somehow? I'm glad we left I don't like what I see in Sweden or Germany...I just want our countries to be happy...
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I'm having a good old fashioned chuckle at all the foot-shooting from the leave camp as the house of cards falls, but I honestly do feel sorry for the people of Dover.

They voted out based on hysteria and lies of the leave campaign who targeted them specifically because they didn't like what they saw on the other side of the channel and now that we're out of the EU, Natacha Bouchart has said there's no reason for the French to patrol the Calais borders, which means the migrant jungle is going to end up right on their doorstep.

I think this is going to have to be a lesson to people to actually check their facts before they protest-vote without actually understanding the consequences.
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I hope my German uncle in Wales is OK.
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>>6456281
The US won't do a EU deal because it's a republican controlled senate/house and they prefer a US-UK deal over a US-EU deal.
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>>6456598
If he's a Turk or Somalian he'll blend right in.
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>>6453881
Proposing in public is the kind of thing that seems romantic but is actually kind of a dick move. I mean, you're putting your partner in a great big fucking spotlight, being stared at by strangers, and being put under pressure to please the crowd, regardless of your intentions. Do it in private for fuck sake.
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>>6458365
Most adults know that you don't actually propose to someone unless you already know the answer.

So, proposing in public like that was very sweet and romantic.
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>>6458365
It might come as a surprise to robot gays but most people actually enjoy attention
Why do you think people spend massive amounts of money for their wedding?
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>>6458394
>robot gays

What are you talking about
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>>6458402
r9gays
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>>6456065
normally I don't like prides but a qt boy asked me out on a date at leads pride...

>tfw I screenshot skype calls
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>>6458417
Could you at least attempt to speak English?
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Need a bf desu

>>6458422
Wew
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>>6458424
Gays who post on /r9k/ (I assume).
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>>6453936
Name one European country that isn't part of the EU and is not third world or borderline third world tier. I'll wait
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>>6458883
Norway
Switzerland

I gave two just to be generous
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>>6458878
I've never been on /r9k/. Do they not like attention?
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>>6458920
Oh, and Iceland, the home of perfect husbandos. The one that is a shithole is Ukraine and they're considering to take it to EU, not that it would be any different to other slav hellholes already in EU such as Romania.
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>>6456010
No week as a muslim is a good week
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>>6458939
Good. Needs to be worse.
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>>6456631
Why would the US prefer a free trade deal with a way smaller economy? Last time I checked it was also the democrats opposing the TTIP, not the republicans.
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>>6458927
They're mostly prison-gay shut-ins
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>>6458422
Details, please. Also, potato feet.
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>>6458422
nice x
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>>6458939
Maybe you should convert to a less backwards, barbaric ideology.
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Troye btw
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meanwhile american sheboons aren't attending pride because of cops

A M E R I C A
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>>6458883
the UK
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>>6459143
He looks a bit like the lead singer of Years & Years.
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>>6459901
Olly's not as cute though
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My future bf

https://www.reddit.com/user/greengrayclouds
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>>6453936
It'll survive, but it won't be the same. People forget what the UK was like before the EU, people were pretty convinced that Britain had ended terminal decline
Let's also not forget Scotland may well be leaving the union and there's question about NI
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>>6456067
I imagine that his fiancé knows him well enough to know that. Also it's the London Met in 2016, there's no reason for him not to be out
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>mfw
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>>6460168
;o
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>>6460128
>crossdressing
never got the appeal desu
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>>6460195
Same actually, looks like he's only just started doing it. He doesn't crossdress in any of his other posts.
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>>6460209
Good desu. I quite like cute boys but not when they pretend to be girls.
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>>6460139
Britain is so old and it has changed many times. Change ain't always bad, sometimes it's also needed. Imagine if Thatcher didn't force radical change wouldn't be the UK we know now. Would it be better or worse we don't know but it would be something else. It could be Venezuela.
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>>6460212
Same, although I have to admit I do like boys in thigh-high socks for some reason. Lingerie and suspenders and wigs and makeup and stuff like that just doesn't do it for me.
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>>6460235
>I do like boys in thigh-high socks for some reason
o rly? :3
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>>6460239
Let me guess, you've got a pair of rainbow thigh high toe socks?
Every 4chan fag with even a slight penchant for crossdressing seems to own a pair
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>>6460239
Yes. Need a socks bf.
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>>6460263
No desu, but I promised someone I would because you're right desu, it's always rainbow socks.
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>>6460276
>I promised someone I would
lucky them
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>>6459143
Yuck
How about some men instead of trans
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>>6460785
Go for it
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Post men
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>>6461665
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>>6461759
mmm that's what I'm talking about
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>>6461759

gimme dat
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Hey lads, how was your weekend?
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>>6462315
uneventful

rained almost non stop so no cycling, no sunbathing

was supposed to go to a bbq but it got canceled
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>>6458394
>Why do you think people spend massive amounts of money for their wedding?
Except there's a rather large number of people that don't, eloping is a growing trend as well.
Most people dislike going to weddings, especially if it's not open bar, so a lot of people are eloping now so they don't seem like such giant dicks to people forcing them to attend a big wedding.
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>>6462327
I can understand not sunbathing but I love cycling in the rain desu, you're missing out.

Shame about the BBQ though. I could do a double entendre involving sausages but it probably wouldn't be that funny.
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>>6462380
Not in this rain desu, biblical-tier downpour.

What I wouldn't give for some sausage desu ;)
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>it's another dream of channers night
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>>6461759
not enough hair
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fuckoff you faggots
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>>6458920
Switzerland and Norway have to pay into the European Union coffers, they have to obey all European Union laws no Norwegian or Swiss MEPs or commissioners, they have no passport checks, they have no power whatsoever, all the rules are made by foreigners
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>>6462961
Also did this
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>>6463612
Yes and Britain will go same way as Norway. Except for Britain it will be more expensive than EU membership because Britain already got privileged treatment.
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>>6459143

I could probably beat him up.
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>>6464613
I would beat you up.
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Business idea: become a gay white knight.
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>>6462315
It was a banger, I went to a house party and then after that we all went to Thorpe Park. The rides are scary as fuck but fun as hell, only one I disliked was Rush, its just weird.

Definitely going again soon, except this time I will drive because fuck trains, although it was nice to go to central London again as I hadn't been there for years. Makes me miss my clubbing days...
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>>6464613
please beat me up too
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Doing a wageslave for money that I have no-one to spend it on. Then doing a go back to my empty flat to sleep alone.
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>>6465586
:(
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>>6465730
:)
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>>6465730
Yeah

:(
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>>6465470
Nice, I haven't been to a theme park in ages. Me and my friends used to go to Alton Towers all the time. Such a good day out. :]
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>>6465454

I would beat you up as revenge.

>>6465551

I'll beat the shit out of you, bby.
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>>6466156
Imagine getting into a fight with a lad that gradually turns into aggressive gay sex.

That would be nice.
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>>6466156
already hard just thinking about it
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This >>6454014
It is clearly a good thing for Britain and people that don't understand this, have very little understanding of long term economics.
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>this football

Fuck this.

Only Sterling's even got an arse worth checking out.
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>>6466801
Adam Lallana is the only qt in the England team.
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>>6466848
this desu
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>>6466848

I quite like Chris Smalling too.
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>>6467012
>You will never get subbed off in the 84th minute after gegenpressing your heart out and get a hug and a pat on the bum from Klopp
bad feel
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>>6466224
Given we're apparently actually gunning for a "Norway style model" I think most of the leave vote are going to be disappointed.
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>>6466150
I hadn't either at that point, I think I last went there on a school trip. I know I've been to Alton Towers at some point too, but again no idea when.

For me though it was really nice being back in London, I had started to detest it but when I went back there I realised what I was cutting out of my life. Its extremely diverse there and obviously a lot of blatantly gay people about, made me wanna start going out there again more than ever.

I'm pretty sure London has an amazing array of things to offer, it's just obviously expensive to visit it often.
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>>6458991
Republicans usually push for trade deals and stuff like NAFTA.
Democrats oppose them because they don't understand how economics works.
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>>6453881
the UK should do something crazy to celebrate its newly found independance
>sort of like how you burn all the stuff that belongs to ur bf when u break up with them
you should throw all the muslims into the ocean
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>>6455973
gee mark, you just had to find a public way to say im the bottom in the relationship, smashing job....
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>>6456010
is there ever a good time to be a muslim?
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>>6467213
>newly found independance
It's becoming increasingly likely that the referendum is going to be ignored, since everyone's refusing to call Article 50.
I doubt that it'll get very far. It looks like we're going to argue to stay in the EEC, which means we'll still have to pay our membership fees, abide by EU standards, accept immigrants etc. but never get to have a vote on policy nor get any money or subsidies out.
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>>6467286
>accept immigrants
UK never had to do that anyway
http://eulawanalysis.blogspot.fi/2015/05/can-uk-opt-out-of-mandatory-eu-refugee.html

They all are Pajeets anyway and they aren't stopping
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>>6467045

I got a pat on the bum before an exam once, it was really nice.
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>>6467330
Nice
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>>6453881
I got duel nationality so I'm fine bruddah.
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>>6467330
nice
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penis
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Do you ever here other British chaps speak and think "fucking hell, do I sound like that?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ER4EAjfL6SI

>>6467648
>>6468203

It was basically the most physically intimate I'm expecting to be with another man who isn't my dentist.
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>>6468723
No, mercifully.

>It was basically the most physically intimate I'm expecting to be with another man who isn't my dentist.

Hey now, that can be remedied ;)
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having to let someone down because you're not into them but wanting to maintain a friendship is a fuckin minefield
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>>6468803
>tfw I was into him I just wasn't ready
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>>6468727
>Hey now, that can be remedied ;)

I NEED AN ADULT!
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the beard+banjofu
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It's another lonely, rainy day.... :c
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I'll be in Manchester today if anyone needs their CHAPFANNY smashing.

Damn, I ruined a genuine opportunity to meet new people by using the word "chapfanny".
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>>6470491
>Chapfanny
*tips*
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Due to the rise of racist sentiment after the leave vote, my greek and turk hair combers have refused to comb my hair in public or even at school. Unacceptable as far as im concerned
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>>6471190
>leave voters holding any racist sentiment against greek people
lel nah, i really feel for them
the turks can suck a fat arab wang though
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>>6471190
Aoowwww!
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Do you lads have good gaydar? Are you good at hiding the fact that you're a bender.
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>>6470299
mhm, comfy x
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>>6471408
Not sure if I hide it well or family just don't want to bring it up. Happy to let it lie desu.

>Do you lads have good gaydar?
Seem to
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>>6471183

the the only reply I got was an Anon posting memes.

I just wanted you guys to laugh with me.
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>>6471455
I think my parents genuinely believe I'm straight the bloody idiots. I'm pretty masc though, feel bad for really feminine lads who can't really hide it.
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>>6470491
Other side of the country sadly :(
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>>6471479
I'm not camp at least
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>>6458883
There are two that aren't EU members that are still in the trade bloc. Britain is going to be the third.

Don't worry though, you're the average citizen when it comes to knowing about EU finance.
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Willies
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>>6471604
I love them
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>>6471605
Even ugly willies with fordyce spots
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>>6471610
hmm, I suppose that would depend on the willy
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>>6471613
Thought so
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>>6471620
Well post it and we'll see
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>>6471610
>Fordyce spots
Worth googling this?
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>>6471620
I mean, it depends who it's attached to x
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>>6471488
I feel like I owe camp lads for taking the brunt of the bullying at school while I went under the radar. I'll have to shag a flamer one day to say thanks.
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>>6471903
;)
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bums
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Lewisham
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>>6453881
tax payers money at work

disgusting
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need a cuddle bf
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>>6473619
jynx
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>>6473623
not sure what that means
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my boyf's special (phallic) delivery arrived, cue 300 snapchat extremely lewd snapchat videos

conflicted about it, on the one hand I have surely corrupted him somewhat; on the other, muh dick
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>>6473899
nice x
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>>6473899
jealous.
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>>6473899
How long til you guys can see each other irl again?
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I hit my bf last night lol and he cried x
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>>6470491
>I'll be in Manchester today
Anon was this you
https://streamable.com/kzfu
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>>6473899
Bit gay
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>>6475309
Why did you do that?
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>>6474126
I'm going to visit him next week for 5 days! :))))
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>>6477234
Kinky sex that got out of hand, i only hit him once though, wasn't even thinking and it just happened
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>>6477642
issues, to be honest
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>>6477642
Literal madman. Was it just a slap on the bum or did you punch him in the head or something?
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>>6477679
>>6477716
Wasn't on purpose or anything and apologized afterwards.. it was a light back fist to the face, his lip cut and bloodied nose thats all
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>>6477444
wew

well have fun ;)
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>>6477740
>thats all
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>>6477740
(°ヘ°)
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>Can actually trade with other countries now without 2nd world EU countries like France and Italy cockblocking you
Frankly the biggest disadvantage of Brexit is the loss of a voice in EU regulations.
But realistically speaking it's not even that bad.
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>>6478196
;)
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>>6475320

No. I did call an Asian lad an arsehole, but only because he was standing, almost posing, in the middle of the cycle lane, but it wasn't racially motivated.
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cute boys
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>>6478954
where?
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>>6478972
my dreams :(
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>>6478990
ah yes, the same place as my fit lads
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post legs
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>>6456030
You will have a bf that loves you eventually anon don't worry
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>>6479451
xox
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Got my willy out
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>>6480234
pics
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>>6480234
describe willy
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>>6480237
U first x
>>6480241
Extremely suckable
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>>6480283
Such a tease
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>>6480283
nice
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How do you boys cheer yourselves up when you feel sad?
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>>6480408
I listen to songs in a major key

Doesn't always work
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>>6480408
Suck a mean dick
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>>6480411
I'll try this, thanks.
>>6480414
Could help.
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>>6480420
Please be happy soon x
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Willy is now back inside
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>>6480479
booooooo
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>>6480408
I remind myself that all those towns that relied on EU funding to stay relevant that voted to leave the EU are soon going to be derelict shitholes.
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>>6480427
Thanks, I'll keep trying xx
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Ever been fisted?
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>>6480537
Not yet
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>>6480508
*gives you a hug*

Excellent xox
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Listening to songs in a minor key
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>>6480646
which ones? want to listen as well
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Didn't really know these threads existed until the other day but I like it here, slow but decent bants
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>>6480681
They didn't really exist until like a week ago. Maybe a bit more desu, I made this one four days ago but it feels more recent.
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>>6480702
>until a week a go
something else Farrage is responsible for then
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nn lads
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>>6480742
Nighty night x
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>>6480675
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DGIRJcTO88
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Willy is making another appearance, quite frisky tonight
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>>6480797
what a nice, sad song
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>>6480834
Stop teasing us all
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>>6480837
Yeah it is quite nice. Going to attempt a play of it tomorrow
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>>6480874
cool
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>>6481028
cool that its cool
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real nigga hours

who up?
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>>6467206
>someone who literally has no idea how economics works accusing other people of not knowing how economics works

wew.

Just looking through this thread has made me realise why I never talk about economics on 4chan outside of /biz/
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>>6481587
Wish more people thought like this
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he's probably not going to get it, but it's good to know that a potential prime minister thinks we're curable
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I think I'm in love..
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>>6483842
Explain? Why do you think this?
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>>6483934
Been seeing a guy for the last 3 months or so, he has to go home for a month before he returns here and i felt my insides tug in different directions at the very thought of not having him around
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>>6484015
Aww. :) I'd say three months is the lower threshold I'd personally consider saying "I love you" (although it's different for everyone).
How are youse going to stay in touch over the month?
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>>6484015
Aww. That's so cute.
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>>6484015
Cute cute cute :)
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London lads, what's there to do in London, the key things to see and experience?

I'm meant to show a guy around London, but I've not been around it for years myself so I've no idea where to go or what to do really.
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>>6484333
go to a ket squat in peckham
do meth in a club in vauxhall and party for 3 days straight
do a bunch of coke with all the emo bankers who are scared about having to move to frankfurt
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>>6484333
also ride a boris bike. they've fixed them now so all they do is backpedal
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>>6484333
eh. museums and galleries

also pride was absolute degeneracy
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>>6484367
>also pride was absolute degeneracy
It really was. I loved it!
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>>6484378
I felt scared and wanted to make out with someone.. ._.
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>>6484367
Well museums and galleries are what we have already planned, I just wanted to know if anyone had any to suggest. I'll probably get some sort of booklet that details the stuff to see in London, must be a lot of people handing those out.

>>6484356
Haha oh my, that was a good one.

>>6484353
Naw, I don't think I'd be too up for those these days, I went to some good clubs in Vauxhall back in the day though...
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>>6484309
We'll just skype each other i guess, i don't want to seem clingy though so I'm not gonna expect calls and stuff everyday, I've never felt this way with anyone though, i just feel we get along so well, the thought of not having him around almost everyday like I've been used to for the last three months seems rather awful! He's everything I've ever wanted..

>>6484324
>>6484327
xo
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>>6484426
That's adorable but at the same time I'm seething with jealousy. Hope I'm that lucky one day.
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>>6484015
fug

that's adorable :3

it's not a great feeling :(
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Nice day today.

Would be better with a bf...
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My bf is sneaking over later to drill me - I've been distracted thinking about it all day! :3
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>>6484722
Lucky :)
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Need a dom to serve
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>>6484356
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Me and my boyf call each other 'bubb' or 'bubby' rate our pet names
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>>6484821
cute desu

I like how you always say boyf too
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>>6484827
Thanks

I didn't realise boyf was so distinctive tho ._.
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>>6484845
Maybe it is and I'm just accidentally confusing multiple people for each other :/
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>>6484333
Museums and galleries: Tate Britain, National gallery, Tate Modern, Serpentine, White Cube, Saatchi, national history museum.

Parks, walks, streets: greenwich park, hyde park, london zoo, brick lane (on a thursday or friday night), old spitalfields market, shoreditch, brixton, soho.

For gay clubs etc: vauxhall is the place. lambeth cruising yo!
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>>6484855
Awesome. Thanks for the suggestions man. Don't think we will go clubbing, but I did say we should check out the George and the Dragon in Blackheath, it seems highly rated. Pool tables too, can't wait to play that.
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>>6483828

I get the feeling that if he was clean shaven he'd look like a hideous little Goblin man.
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>>6484821
>bubby
That's what I call my grandmother!
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>>6484899
no problem. just walking around in london is good as well, buying some ice cream and finding a park buying lunch and just slacking.
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sun's out, shirts off
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>>6485018
it sounds Jewish? Hmm
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>>6485030
Yeah that's the plan inbetween the museums and galleries and what not, we just want to stroll around and take it all in.

Also, I realise this is quite a ridiculous question, but how much would a week travel card cost? As a rough estimate, if they even do such a thing anymore.

It has been a very long time since I was last in central!
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>when you're too depressed to go pick up your anti depressants

lol
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>>6484821
>>6484722
>>6484015
Stop :[
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I just fucked up one of my friendships and I don't know what to do.
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>>6486358
tell us about it :(
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>>6486375
In a nutshell:
Met this guy. Really clicked with him however I'm not looking for a relationship, which I told him.
Really enjoy hanging out etc.
He tells me he's really into me and I tell him I don't want to take advantage of how nice he is and lead him on. However I really value him.

He's stopped replying to my texts etc. Read them though.

Unsure whether to just give him space to breathe and sort it out himself or try approach the subject again.
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>>6486390
He's ugly, isn't he?
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>>6486400
Not even.
I just don't have those feelings towards him. We get on too well.
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>>6486409
How ugly is he?
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>>6486390
Definitely stick in there. He'll start talking again, he just needs to get over the fact that it wasn't meant to be.
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>>6486471
I mean, at the moment I've just sent him one text today and he hasn't replied.

Im thinking the best thing is to give him space for a few days. Maybe send a check up message tomorrow just to let him know I'm not ghosting him.
I think that's the best idea? Maybe?
Thanks for the input though.
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>>6453936
Yeah, Brits will def survive. It's the smaller EU countries that I'm concerned for (I live in one)
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>>6486495
He might not want to be friends. It's torture having to act cool around someone you want and knowing there's no chance of it happening.
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>>6486510
I think this is most likely the case here, he really likes you and you don't feel the same, so now he knows he can't have you it will pain him to be around you.

In time, he may be able to look past it, I'd try my best to stay in contact with him. It will take a while I should think, if he does start replying to you again you may find he's quite distant.

Sucks man.
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>>6486510
Yeah I know and I've explained to him that I've been in his situation and it's so hard and that's why the situation had got me angry at myself.

I'm just trying to leave the ball in his court as much as possible, while still letting him know that I do still care for him as a friend
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Its out(my willy)
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>>6486528
The solution is to give me his number x
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>>6486536
What's your number hun xxx
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>>6486504
Get em out of our general
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>>6486544
it's 03031237300 x
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>>6486561
I'll let him know hunniebun.
You into deep breathy phone calls?
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>>6486531
pics
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>>6486569
Yes :)
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Can any of you lads relate to the feeling you get when you don't have a boyfriend to cuddle?
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>>6486862
All too well
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>>6486873
I don't like it desu and I'd rather have the converse feeling.
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>>6486893
That makes two of us :(
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>>6486896
:((
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Alright benders. Just visiting from Brit/pol/. Hope you had a good Pride.
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Had two days to come out to my mum now as she's been staying with me. She goes home tomorrow and I'm going to pussy out again in the morning and continue living as a repressed homo.

Sad 2bh.
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>>6487282
It's not so bad. Though I imagine it'll happen eventually when I'm like 30
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>>6487282
It's better to do it naturally when they ask themselves in my opinion, makes it seem less forced and attention seeking.
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>>6487304
They stopped asking after I basically became a massive homophobe around them so they'd leave me alone.
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>>6487304
This is the problem I have, they don't probe about my private life at all, and when they do its to ask if I have a gf yet
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>>6487309
You kinda then put yourself into that hole then.
Also, why do they need to know?
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>>6487315
Well, hope one day that they'll joke "no gf, what, are you gay anon" and you can just reply "yes". It is satisfying to say that because it doesn't make you sound like a dickhead.
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>>6487317
Because I've done the double life shit before and it's even worse than remaining repressed and closeted.
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>>6487328
I've had opportunities like this before and didn't take them :c
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>>6487341
not that guy but me too

had it with my straight friends last week, almost said yes after they kept asking why i was dodging the question

feels bad man
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>>6487328
Yeah, still holding out for that
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>>6487350
>had it with my straight friends last week, almost said yes after they kept asking why i was dodging the question
sounds like they know or strongly suspect and are waiting for you to admit it desu.
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>>6487359
that about sums up my situation with my family too

sucks
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>>6487374
>that about sums up my situation with my family too

same. dunno if the gf question's desperation on their part for me to actually be straight desu
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>>6487379
unfortunately it is for me, and is the reason my homosexuality is repressed as fuck

only male child to an only male child to an only male child

just fuck my shit up senpai
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>>6487374
So why can't you admit it?

I don't know whether my family know; if I had to guess I'd say they assume I'm straight but just a bit awkward, but whether I felt the knew or not I'd just find it embarrassing to admit it to them. I can't talk to my family about things like that.
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>>6487394
>tfw straight normie brother
phew
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>>6487394
>only male child to an only male child to an only male child
snap

Sister has expressed no desire to have kids so it falls on me. Don't want to expressly disappoint them...
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>>6487398
see >>6487394
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>>6487398
I also feel you on the embarrassing part. At least for me, being a homosexual is unmanly and humiliating. It goes against everything my father told me (a man is a man blah blah blah).
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>>6487434
"A man is a man" so you better take it up the butt like a man.
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>>6487444
>butt

FOY
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>>6487434
>It goes against everything my father told me
boy does it

I've never been manly but he still got me to do "manly" stuff with him which was great. Why I've always though my mother would be more accepting tho. He would probably see it as his failure. Or not, I really don't know, they both might be fine with it.
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>>6487449
Roleplaying as a homophobic dad would mean no swearing...
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I wish I had the courage to go to pride. Damn the reclusion.
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>>6487459
I know that feel, anon.
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>>6487459
Same :(
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>>6487459
I don't see the attraction of Pride desu. Might go one day to see what it's all about but I doubt it's my thing.
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>>6487515
I'd never take part but the atmosphere looks great. I could use the positivity
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>>6487398
Not that anon but I don't wanna come out properly until I've moved out.
But I live in London, I'm a student and rent is mad expensive.
Such an annoying situation
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Any Londoners here got a tip for a young male virgin fag moving to London soon? I'm worried there's gonna be no qt 3.14's at my uni and I may actually have to go to some gay clubs/pubs

Tips for any good ones?
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>>6487544
Which uni?
What music are you into?
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>>6487532
Same desu, if ever
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>>6487551
I don't want to be 'that guy' but pretty much everything lad, my favourites change all the time but top genres for me are Punk (post preferably), Prog/Psych, Noise Rock/Pop, Krautrock, Post-Rock, Experimental, Art Pop/Rock that sort of thing. But love me some dance/electronic, hip hop, R&B etc too

And Roehampton, i've mentioned it on here before, and it's such a small uni that I wouldn't be surprised if i'm the only here going
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>>6487586
hat
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>>6487586
Yeah. I don't know anyone at Roehampton so I can't comment on what their LGBT society is like.
You'll end up in the cheap student haunts really I guess. G-a-y, late and heaven are the standards
But mine is fucking tragic and I have nothing to do with them.
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nu uk thred?
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>>6487607
/brit/ rules, new at 310
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>>6487605
What uni, if you don't mind me asking? Yeah i've heard of them, i'll probably check them out

Oh and tell me about it when it comes to cheap accommodation, I picked the absolute cheapest so I could have more of that m a i n t a n c e loan, but now I really want an en suite bathroom :((
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>>6487624
En suite is a nice bonus but legit sharing a bathroom is fine. I shared between 5 in halls and it wasn't bad at all
Kings.
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I miss uni and lgbt society...
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>>6487636
Me and my group of friends got exiled from LGBT society because we did drugs on one of their nights out.
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>>6487649
shit society lel

Was nice desu, met some very good friends, starting to drift apart now though since I moved away. Couldn't be doing with the militant, political side of some some members but then neither could most people. Good nights out.
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>>6487634
Nice, Kingston was one of my choices at one point, but I wanted to live closer to the centre of London. I have no idea how many people i'm sharing it with yet, could be 5, could be 10, more the merrier though

>>6487649
About 80% of my mates are at uni (i'm one year behind, fucking kill me) and all of their LGBT societies (especially my hometown uni, where my closest mate goes) sounds fucking miserable
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>>6487678
Mines just very SJW and the people in it are ugly. Unfortunately I'm shallow so I didn't even give them a chance. But their internet presence is enough to repel me
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>>6487686
>the people in it are ugly
think I lucked out
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>>6487686
Yeah I really doubt i'll be joining one because of this desu, still worth a check I suppose
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>>6487697
I would legit not fuck any of the active members of the society. I've stalked the whole Facebook group and there's only one hot guy. He didn't turn up to the one social I went to that he was clicked attending on.
That was enough for me.
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>>6487712
I moved on from it in first year but there were some very, very nice lads. A lot of munters too, and God, the state of the trans lot...
But yeah, much better to be found elsewhere anyway.
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>>6487711
Mate I can't even tell you.
they do like scrap booking socials where alcohol is banned etc.

I wanna get fucked up. Not read comics and complain about being misgendered with some social misfits
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I'd kill to go to Britain and be part of one of those haughty queer communities.

I'd get to mimic the accent at home, probably fuck a lot and take loads of drugs.

Alas, I'll let my dreams be memes.
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>>6487723
Christ that sounds dire. Used mine as a chance to meet people in first year and a discount card for bars.
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>>6487726
I'm lucky enough to already have a 'pronounced' accent (despite coming from the north, which is basically like Game of Thrones) so my plan is to secretly hide the fact i'm a peasant and become the 2nd Oscar Wilde of faggy poshness

>>6487723
>'alcohol is banned'
but i'm fucking English m8, if I can't get drunk on public premises whilst laughing at SJWs what else is the point of going to uni?
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>>6487747
BECAUSE ALCOHOL TRIGGERS ME
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>tfw southern ponce
>tfw no rough and tumble northern bf
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Thank God I went to a uni for alcoholics
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>>6487759
I grew up on a council estate and stole sweets regularly at 13

Rough and northern enough for you? ;^)
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>>6487786
Newcastle?
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Great chat lads
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>>6487801
any time
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>>6487793
Sounds good xox
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my uni LGBT soc was a mix of hardcore studying asians, campy Pakistani kids and SJWs. literally no qts. think I was the only white British male, for real, also there were no masculine laddy types; I was the only rugger bugger. glad it's behind me desu.
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>>6487841
This thread is giving me a newfound appreciation of it desu.
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Need a Southern bf desu.
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>>6487850
hello :3
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>>6487848
yeah

I ended up noshing off some paki in second year literally s m h
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>>6487855
I love you.
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>>6487874
why m8
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>>6487874
yikes :/
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>>6487934
I was kind of a mess in second year, really fucked mentally. And I was drunk as hell and went home with him. He wasn't too ugly for a paki.

Doesn't mean I don't regret it ;_;
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>>6487940
ikr ._.
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>>6487952
>shagged by a Muslim when you were drunk
HORRIFIC
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>>6487850
I need either a really posh boyfriend or really irish/scottish/welsh boyfriend, is this normal?
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>>6487968
lol.
tbf we just had a mutual noshing session.
still I admit that it was not my finest hour.
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>>6487971
I keep falling for scousers. I like the contrast I think.
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>>6487812
I expect regular lavish gifts of WD40 and Henderson Relish
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>>6487971
Probably not, but I'm with you. I personally need either a French or Australian bf.
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>>6487998
>Australian
Absolutely this
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>>6488000
I want a cute super twinky yet not femmy Australian boyf

I want troye <3
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>>6488009
this would be good
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>>6488009
I want someone dommy with a little more meat on him desu, a surfer would be good
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>>6488000
imagine having a bf with that much banter
>>6487998
Oh yeah I mean I was just talking in the UK, but European too is extra nice, French, Spanish, even cheesy Italian maybe, maybe a stronk Scandinavian
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Southern qts must post vocaroos.
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>>6488021
eh I feel threatened if I'm not the more masculine one in the relationship
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>>6488039
Different strokes for different folks x

Don't have a dominant bone in my body
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>>6488043
hot
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>>6488043
*yet
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>>6488043
I could give you one, if you know what I'm saying ;^)
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I planned on coming out to my colleagues when I started my job but I didn't and it would be weird if I did it now.

It was the perfect opportunity, too; my boss is gay and so is another one of the guys I work with. Oh well, just another group of people I'm lying to.
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>>6488083
why can't you do it now
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>>6488045
>>6488053
xox
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>>6488091
I've been implying that I'm straight.
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Apparently my bf has a chafed arse crack due to shaving
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>>6488118
talc
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>>6488119
he says he doesn't have any

sigh
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>>6488126
baka
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*does the gay voice and dresses in bright colours in the hope of attracting a mate with my call*
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God I wish I was someone else.
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>>6488167
What are you, fuckin' gay?
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>>6488200
Haha same lol
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>>6488207
>>6488200
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>>6488221
Hate being so shy. Guys seem to like it but then I can't get anywhere with them
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New thread when?
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>>6488234
I cba, I only have enough energy to make one a week
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>>6488234
alright, i'll make a new
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>>6488276
>>6488276
>>6488276

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