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as a closeted LGBT person than for your conversational partner.
>Last night
>Am in the habit of not wearing pants in the house
>As I run downstairs in sandals to get dinner, my mother starts opening the front door to take out the trash
>Quickly stop until she noticed and closes the door
>Continue running down as she starts yelling I'm going to kill myself on the stairs
>Then starts...
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>>5210613
well my dad found my girlclothes once and asked if i was a transvestite and i told him i wasn't
and my mom asked me if i was gay a lot
i was straight acting too. weird. but i get what you're saying, so here:
>watching good movies over skype with friends
>we decide to watch Life of Brian
>in the beginning there's a scene where a character named Stan tells the other protagonists that he'd rather...
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>>5210613
your mother asks you such things? maybe she wants to have sex with you?
don't worry, I won't judge
>>5210613
My parents are constantly making tranny jokes and talking about how stupid and bad trans stuff is and saying how glad they have a normal son like me (even though half the time the jokes are directed at me, my hair, etc.). It's terrifying but also kind of hilarious.
What's the point of transitioning if you'll never pass?
picture unrelated
If you have no chance of passing at all, there's little point in socially transitioning, but I've heard HRT still helps with dysphoria even if you still live as a guy.
>>5281271
>but I've heard HRT still helps with dysphoria even if you still live as a guy.
This senpai.
>>5281271
Yeah, estrogen generally improves your mood a lot if you're trans, plus you can still enjoy the reduced body hair, softer skin, etc and look less manly, even if you still look like a man
desu though if I couldn't pass I'd just kill myself
Who doesn't love to party?
Old:
>>5279615
Let's have a Christmas party!
ive never been to a party. What are they like?
tips for a beginner?
Why won't cis guys date trans guys?
>>5279458
They do though. Practically every trans guy I know personally is bi and currently in a relationship with a cis guy.
>>5279468
So I'm just personally an ugly and unlovable human being?
>>5279493
That's right. Sorry you had to hear it from us.
I have been wearing my girlfriends underwear while she was out for a number of years now. Recently she found some of my photos on my computer, since then we have had a long talk about it and she is very understanding of the whole situation. I was wondering if anybody knows where I can buy some good mens lingerie?
How long do you think it will be before she leaves you now?
>>5279258
She isn't the kind of person to leave someone for something like that and is actually beginning to accept it in out sex life.
>>5279278
She's just soft hearted and doesn't want to hurt you. In reality she's lost all of her respect for you as a man, and will eventually seek out another to fill that void you left
Two medical doctors, a psychiatrist, my mother and grandmother, my manager, and the worker in human resources have all told me to seek therapy over the course past year. I don't really want to go because it is expensive, even with insurance, and frankly I don't trust therapists. I think they are boogeymen that are out there to reprogram people to their personal belief system. I see psychology as a pseudoscience. I don't enjoy anything anymore and I just sleep all the time. The psychiatrist just keep switching antidepressants and upping the dosage every time I see him. It keeps me stable so I can work, but I am still dead inside.
I thought /lgbt/ might have opinions on this subject. Has therapy helped you? Is it helping you? Or is it a massive waste of time and money?
Hi, L of LGBT here. I've been seeking treatment for my type II Bipolar disorder for about 8 years now, and while professional therapy was mildly helpful, (a good therapist will guide you to reaching YOUR goals, not theirs), what I found infinitely more helpful was peer support. Support groups, recovery centers, etc. Talking to people that had been through similar things to what I'd been through and hearing what worked for them and how they coped was WAY more helpful to me than talking to someone that had just read about my issues in a textbook. Not to mention building...
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>>5275906
Thanks for the reply. I am not sure of any specific support group though as I don't have a lot of interests... I just sort of stay at home and don't enjoy anything.
Blah.
I had/have your run of the mill major depression. Off and on on pills though my therapist knew my goals were to stay off completely.
It helped more cause she sort of pushed me and gave me techniques on dealing with shit. Paranoia, apathy, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, etc.
I think after almost 2 years I'm better than before. I got more athletic on her advice. Run often, less standing around thinking about suicide methods of gun v jumping v poison. It helps a lot. I can feel feeling now more. Shit's neat.
http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/lgbtq-activists-call-zoolander-2-842548
>"This is the modern equivalent of using blackface to represent a minority."
>Following the release of its first full length trailer, Zoolander 2 is receiving pushback from LGBTQ activists.
>The controversy surrounds an androgynous supermodel played by British actor Benedict Cumberbatch, named All.
>In the trailer, Ben Stiller questions, "Are you...
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Why do you faggots strive to portray yourself as perpetual victims constantly? All of this victim worship shit is going to burn out the capacity peoe have to feel empathy for you. You can only play the pity me card for so long before people are over it
Trannies BTFO T B H F A M A L I A
Why do people shitpost trans here when it just reinforces the victim narrative that they think exists?
Why do people shitpost trans when it just reinforces the victim narrative that they think exists?
Don't look at the screen if you feel as if what you are reading is making you into a victim
I don't know anything about a 'victim narrative', but looking at the structure of your sentence and basic semantics, it seems probable that you're mixing up cause and effect. Turning the sentence around to resolve this and answer your question yields:
Because the 'victim narrative' exists, people shitpost trans here.
Say you went up to a straight male and you asked him out, but he asked for your positives compared to a "real woman", and would be willing to date you if you could answer him honestly.
Cause I'm having trouble trying to think of ANY positives. Dating a real woman has many benefits to the man in question that you could sort of apply to an M2F as well, but here are your negatives compared to a real woman:
-Can't rear children and continue his genetic line. Being with you is a dead end. (And saying "not all men want kids" is a pussy way...
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>>5273986
Stale pasta is stale.
I date transwomen out of charity tbqh
>Q
This kills the cause.
you mean
>T
>>5273907
GLB master race
Disclaimer: I suck at greentexting. This is going to be insanely long. Someone asked me to write this. Please put up with it.
The beginning
> 16 years and 11 months old, in June, quite depressed due to the waiting list for the gender clinic and not knowing what to do
> Talk to online friend N about being confused gender-wise, feeling like I want to be a girl but like transitioning is impossible
> N introduces me to E, who was a girl I had known who turned out to be a transgirl...
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Continuation
> The next few days we have dialogues about what it means to be male or to be female.
> I try to explain my desire to be female to him
> He can relate to it but only because he thinks women have better orgasms, and I just laugh it off as him being a pervert.
> I explain to him that I feel kind of weird because I'm so open with him despite the fact he gives off really shady vibes.
> He responds with...
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> Because he's so rude and perverted unlike other people I associated with, I felt like he was the only one I could talk about sexual interests and such with.
> We end up having fun discussions about stuff like erotic video games, relating about things that arouse us.
> Aside from sexual stuff we also talk about more mundane things, and I just talk about my day-to-day life as well.
> He never really says a lot about himself, but since...
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> I notice all the posts there are eerily very depressing yet somehow very relatable.
> I ask D what the topic of /r9k/ is and he says it's nothing in particular and just like the rest of 4chan so I stay there trying to figure it out.
> I see a thread where a bunch of perverts fantasize about locking 'anxious NEET girls' up in their homes and taking care of them and having them keep them company.
> I feel strangely fascinated.
> Reading the thread, there's also some transgirl on hormones showing off her body asking if she'd suffice too.
> I feel rather strange and uncomfortable.
> The next night I have trouble sleeping, wondering why I even do my best at education and strive for university, and why I don't just try to find some gentle master and give away all my freedom and everything that makes me myself to live a much easier life with endless games and no responsibilities other than sexual favours.
> I feel disgusted by myself.
> I tell B about it and he points out I'd have to be rather good at sex for that, and argues that I'm not a girl.
> I explain that I got these weird ideas from /r9k/ and he tells me that it's a horrible place and that I shouldn't go there.
> His words make me feel safe and protected and I stay away from /r9k/, and instead talk to him about any depressing thoughts I have that week (still getting used to the lack of anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication).
> As I recover from stopping the medication, I kind of start to withdraw from everyone and everything.
To be continued
â–¶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
â–¶Makeup Tutorial: http://imgur.com/a/JO33K/
â–¶MTF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/36HC6ZmT
â–¶Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
â–¶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
â–¶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
â–¶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
â–¶HRT...
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>>5280803
>went fulltime fem at 9 weeks of mones
filthy intersex easy mode passer get out!
![tumblr_lnth1r47ul1qcgqs9[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/JXjY8Kg.jpg "tumblr_lnth1r47ul1qcgqs9[1].jpg")
20s as fuck.
I feel like I don't understand how to girl. I feel so stupid anytime I do anything and I just mess it up. I don't even know how to present myself or basic beauty care.
Is it possible for a yandere to be gay? I found the site yandere.org but I'm not sure if I should join because I'm afraid no one there would be gay.
Anyone else with obsessive tendencies here?
Yes they do exist, they are called codependent psychopaths and they're not like in your Japanese cartoons
>>5278505
Reminder that real life is not anime
>>5278624
based anon is real af
Are there any other femanon 'chasers' that are attracted to mtfs but hate online mtf 'culture' (especially the mtfs on this board)?
Not looking for replies from transgirls
Culture?
>>5278333
>Not looking for replies from transgirls
here is your reply
>>5278333
You're probably a degenerate lesbian feminist.
Why do all mtf trannies want to have red hair and like purple or pink, big glasses?
Or more precisely, why do so many obnoxious, loud and toxic sjw transgender and allies fetishize this look?
Claire in OC is like this, and also this new Jessica U Manix Pixie webcomic stuff. Why is this so?
Are the loudest mtfs all agps? Thinking that being trans or female means buying clothes, looks and such?
>>5255562
Not wanting to sex a penis is transphobia or whatever now.
God damn people can be attracted to whatever they fucking want, isn't that one of the main selling points of this whole lgbtquiop-now I know my ABCs movement?
not sure what this comic is supposed to represent but i actually do see this alot in the feminst communities. they are dismissive or hateful of transwomen but love transmen and even invite them into women only spaces. It kinda comes down to yeah they dont see either as the gender the want to be seen as.
as for your thing, its kinda just an outcast thing, personally i do have a thing for the mousey nerdy girl but most of these people just want to look maybe because they want to look smart. as for me i genuinely have the outcast smart girl look because its who i actually...
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Is that FTM strawman saying that being trans makes him not a man?
>I'm not into guys
>well you're in luck because I'm not one
