Is identity innate?
No. Identity is a mask you wear to separate from your shadow.
>>5495938
>identity
What type of identity?
I don't think so. For me, I had no problem identifying as a male and thought nothing of it until I discovered my love of feeling feminine. From then on my love for this feeling helped me to create an identity which did not previously exist within myself and take on a whole new persona as a woman.
I think our identities are always fluctuating and we create them based on our interests/sexuality, or it's our sexuality that helps create our identity.
Is finding a hairy gay male bf in the early 20s on the US east coast thats versatile but mostly top on /lgbt/ a good idea, /lgbt/?
Nope, only trannies and twinks who look like they do hrt as a recreational drug here.
>>5495897
i know at least one person who fits exactl that description and goes on imageboards, anon.
i think you'll be fine.
i have a question..
I've been dating a boy for the past 2.5 years. I love him and don't want to be with anyone else but no one in my friend group or family knows about him. Every time they ask about who I'm seeing I replace, "him and I" with "her and I"
they think i've been dating a girl for years.
Question is: What the fuck do i do??
Am I a horrible person because of this?
No your not horrible. You just don't feel comfortable telling them about your boyfriend. When you are ready or when he is you could tell them.
You aren't a horrible person for this.
Would it be easier to tell a friend or family first? What are they like? Where do you live?
Do a barrel roll.
No seriously, why the fuck are you asking that without giving context?
Are you some type of PSA attention whoring faggot that just HAS to tell everyone hes gay and hes dating someone they all know?
If so then you'll have to tell them, then you can come and bitch about how they all gossip behind your back or you can come with your special snowflake family problems or how your bf hates you because you outed him.
TL;DR: Nobody gives a shit what you do and about your generic gay boy blog. Do a berrel roll.
i want gay porn, my dick is already hard
>>5495717
Call the internet support hotline.
Hey /lgbt/, gay here.
So I finally decided to tell this typical (presumably straight) jock guy that I like him. Turns out he likes me too. A lot.
He wants to hook up, but has never done anything with a guy. Most I have done is sucked dick.
How do I not mess this up?
>>5494621
>"he likes me too"
No he doesn't, that type of thing don't happen on real life, he bashed you and now you're on a coma, this is all a dream created by your mind.
Figured this would be the place to ask, been constipated for days with only liquid coming out. Already downed a bottle of magnesium citrate, and nothing. Just put in a suppository laxative, and it was a long, uncomfortable experience.
Up next is the enema, and then digitally remastered removal (i.e. lubing up and digging around up there).
How do you relax and fight through the pain? I've seen people taking gigantic dongs on the internet since I was a whipper, but not until now do I realize how impressive that is. Any advice?
>>5494209
Just do an enema and hold it in for like 10-15 mins and it will loosten everything up and it will just come out as a disgusting slop lol
Enemas are healthier than laxatives anyway. Laxatives can really fuck your shit up.
>>5494565
That's the plan if this continues on like this. Already did a bidet enema for about 5 minutes, but it may not be getting far enough up there. But with a raw asshole making suppositories hard, the enema sounds like a tall order. Hope I don't shit on the bathroom floor.
For those that have successfully made it post-transition, let's chat actual life v2.0; relationships, family, work, travel etc. What did you get up to over the break?
>>5493962
Went to a rave on NYE, had a pretty good time. Wife thinks MDMA has stopped working on her, but I rolled pretty nicely.
>>5493962
I've got the flu, shit sux because the guy I'm seeing told me I could fuck him next time we got together and I'm really eager to stick it in. God dammit. (FTM if it isn't clear...)
met bf Irish catholic family of pro trump supporters, they liked me, want me to have their sons babies.., kek
I have been thinking about picking one up but I never had a bad dragon before. I would say I'm a novice, at anal. The most I got in was about inch and a half wide pretty deep up there.
>>5492234
I say sart off with a small one of your choice.
What creates the urge for this kind of expression? It's assumed that when you go out in public crossdressed, you're gay.
Not sure what you mean, like dressing as a girl but not wanting to be one ?
I call myself a trans, but i dont really take hormones or act feminine at all, and i used to crossdress some months ago still i never did it in public, just my sister saw me, when we were alone at the house for a week
>>5491403
I'm AGP but have always wondered why gay men crossdress. I know that my crossdressing is very sexual to me, but it's always interested me to know why someone would want to crossdress outside of a sexual manner.
>>5491413
people wanna look like girls or if it's draggy shit they just wanna dress up and wear costumes and shit?
Hey senpai, how do I accept being a homo? I know I'm gay as a handbag, but I feel bad about it? Whut do??? :-(
ps love u all :^) desu
>>5491385
I noticed that many times the reason we have such a hard time accepting ourselves is because of others who do not accept us. You really need to do a little internalized searching and figure out. If this is the case, you need to learn that no ones opinion of who or what you are maters except your own. If it due to religious beliefs that is a little more difficult but you CAN come to terms with it.. Good luck Anon.
>>5491385
You just gotta give yourself a break.
It's no use crying about being gay. It's never gonna change, so why waste the energy?
Let yourself enjoy it. Find a bf (or gf, I don't know your gender) and fuck the shit out of them.
>>5491385
It all comes down to why you feel bad. Why do you?
Down to hang out?
Sure. What's the group name?
>>5491118
Sick bait
Hi everyone, I'm moving out to okinawa japan and I'm looking to meet and possibly date a transgirl. I just got out of a year long relationship (she was a pure top) because she didn't want to move with me. Thank you!
Why okinawa?
Are you in the navy?
>pure top
you wut m8
hey degeneretes , go on pol and post some of your mentall illnes
so you get the 60milion post
Why go on /pol/ for negative attention for being gay when I can just walk outside for it?
Åaypal : email : [email protected]
Hi im in alot of trouble after newyears and xmas. i brunt all my money and now i cant afford to get home to my home. was visiting family but they wont help me im a poorfag here.
can someonedonate money to my paypal som i can buy a train ticket home. otherwize im fucked.
if anye one can find it their heart to help a poor soul plz give me. i need about 1200 sek. bur only a few dollar would help.
maybe im just useless
