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my boyfriend wants me to peg him. We've never done anything close to anal, so I thought I'd come here for tips on what to do :s
Watch some pegging videos. Take it very slow when you first enter him (assuming he's never done ass play he'll be very tight) it may be a little painful. Use lots of water based lube. Have fun.
>>6506488
This. Also don't forget to prime him up with a lubed up finger or two.
>tfw no gf to peg me
Heterosexual nationalist here,
How do you feel about gay pride?
Anti-nationalist here.
Pride in something you did nothing to earn, be it being born in a certain country or being born with a certain orientation, is foolish. Pride should be taken only in things you have achieved as an individual.
"Pride" parades, though, are just protests. A "fuck you" on a political scale. They're meant as a "I double dog dare you to do something COME ON DO IT FAGGOT" in order to establish dominance and push homosexuality as normal. Ultimately a good thing as long as those who partake in them don't start actually...
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I either take pride in being or will to change.
I accept no other choice.
>>6506357
You sound like heterosexual dog shit fampai.
MtF trans plz post
>>6506209
What up bruh.
>>6506209
cookin pancakes, whatchu need?
>>6506209
pre-transition awareness bump
wassup
>not cute enough to be a /cuteboy/
>not manly enough to be a man
Haha just shoot me sensei
>>6506206
Congratz ur a normie. If you aanna stand out in anything in this gynormous indifferent world i advice u to dye ur hair pink and start identifying as a demidicktitniggertitdicksexual
>>6506267
Ok thank u for the advice a non
>>6506206
Quit being a fag and just own it. Its stupid and shallow to want to be a lable like twink, cub, bear, otter, wolf, griffin, ect..
It will make you more attractive if you know how to be your own person and you dont try to conform to other peoples standards
I've always been curious about this.
Been actively gay for about a year and looking to further explore aspects of my orientation.
Is it really a thing to do stuff with gerbils? If so, why? And how do you do it?
>>6506100
Ask Richard Gere...
I was at a gay bar once that had "in memoriam" photos of gerbils/hamsters on the wall.
I'm 90% sure it was a joke.
>>6506100
>Is it really a thing to do stuff with gerbils?
I'm about 90% certain that this is just some ridiculous anti-gay propaganda that was popularized by South Park. If it weren't, there would be videos all over the place.
hi
im looking for the non-binary/androgynous/special snowflake people
we dont have much representation here, and i dont think theres enough of us to keep a general going, so i started a skype group for us
https://join.skype.com/RiJFFbj3szxT
please join
>>6505744
Out of curiosity, how would you describe how you are non-binary?
Do you have any dysphoria? Social, gender or sex-related? If so, how does it manifest?
How do you view yourself in the context of gender?
>>6505788
i dont feel comfortable identifying as either gender
i do experience dysphoria, i dislike my male characteristics and how testosterone affects my brain and body, and i want to appear more androgynous
i dislike when people go out of their way to put me in a masculine role
It's because it's shit and unneeded
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>>6505598
night anon
>>6505595
what if i don't have any friends and haven't had any for years
Ever since i moved to bum fuck texas i have not met/had sex with a single man. I was considering using grindr but im not sure if it works. Has anyone had any success from grindr or any other sites/apps like that?
>>6505407
Texas here
I"ve had good luck with grindr and scruff. If you're in the middle of nowhere gindr may be your best option
ok my first question is why did you move to texas
>>6505407
okcupid sometimes works as well.
plenty of fish is more popular up in canada but I think it's relatively decent in the US as well.
previous thread >>6503141
tinychat com/notgaygen
tfw no gypsy bf
>>6505230
I love my self.
Is it really necessary to brush your teeth more than once a day tho
i keep opening this page and writing a sentence and closing it again.
i have never been sexually assaulted, to my knowledge. i have never
been coerced into sex or have had people touch me without my
consent.
i have had sex that is quick and uncomfortable and that i have
wanted to stop but felt deep in the heart of me "this is what i deserve,
this is all i can get"
i am reading the accounts of people who have had terrible things
done to them. i am reading the accounts of people who recount the
experience as having their body used by another body, one body
taking away dignity, mobility, freedom, from another
i am feeling sick to the pit of my stomach
every year when i go home to see my parents my mother always
cautions me to watch my drinks in bars
every time i walk home alone at night i keep my eyes on the alleys
friends tell me i'm lucky that from the back, at night, i have a
masculine silhouette
what is this reason that people take agency from others and oh god
why is it done so often to my friends, my lovers, my peers, my
inspirers
they deserved none of it
i want to buy a pair of brass knuckles and go into the street and fight
every man i see making advances to drunk girls on the side walk. i
want to punch in the teeth of every man saying that they don't want
anything romantic or physical and reneging that at night in the dark
i want to destroy what hurts and what takes away the comfort in the
body of my loved ones
i want to know what my friends could be like without that shadow
trailing behind them, creeping up, creating a tendency for panic
attacks in certain situations that nobody else will...
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>>6505035
i am seeing my friends suffering and keeping that suffering stuffed
inside them for them to remember every time someone else lays their
hands on them
there is a reason i ask before i hug, i ask before i touch, i ask before i
put my hand on someone's shoulder
there is a reason why if i didn't they would shy away and look at me
with wide terrified eyes
i am seeing people i know as vibrant and happy coming out with
stories of abuse and despite all i want to do, all my anger
i...
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>>6505028
Im cis. But thank you for that.
nobody has been able to explain non-binarism / gender fluidity / "other" genders to me without their explanation being, at it's core, "I don't relate to the female(and/or) male stereotype."
And since 90% of NB people are female, isn't third-gender shit just thinly veiled misogyny?
>>6504816
it's done by people who have somehow convinced themselves that not aligning to gender roles = not being your assigned gender, while at the same time touting that themselves being genderfluid is the destruction of gender roles -- even though their thought process is that your gender roles/norms define your gender.
It's best to ignore them.
>>6504874
I really try to, but it finds ways to leak into my life, and it infuriates me. I try to live and let live, but I feel like this sort of thing actually harms any real progression for gay or trans people.
Especially because it's pretty common for NB girls to be straight and white, like it's just trendy to be a part of the LGBT community and they want to add a label to their tumblr profile for brownie points.
>>6504816
>isn't third-gender shit just thinly veiled misogyny
No, and to suggest so is racist.
Most of the world accepts at least 3 genders.
Should Bugchasers be killed?
>>6504756
yes.
It's time the homosexual community started enforcing morals that encourage health and prosperity.
>>6504765
Why don't you go find a woman and breed if you love hetero values so much?
>>6504756
yes
they should be drug from their homes and burned publicly
My mom went to talk to a psychiatrist (supposedly one of the best in our country) because she's very worried of the fact that im a transvestite.
The guy told her the following:
All paraphillias have a good chance of hiding or supressing personality disorders/psychosis.
Transvestism atrophies social, emotional and intelectual development, completely
Transvestites are ridden with stds and commonly participate in orgies
It can be cured entirely
It is proven to stem out of fear and replaces normal sexuality by acting as an artifice...
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No, no and the psychiatrist is retarded.
>>6504384
Your mom should be seeing a psychologist, not a psychiatrist.
Psychiatrists serve almost no purpose other than to be the pill pushers of the quackery money-whore side of the logic-jumble that is modern psychology, they're one rung of diagnostic efficacy above new age crystal healing and one rung below trying to rob a pharmacy with a bubble gun and a list of symptoms.
If your mom wants you to learn anything about you or you about her, find somebody who specializes in family therapy. Both of you should be doing individual therapy sessions until you're comfortable with the therapist and with having a group conference.
there was a lot of evidence but the former president of the APA was forced out when a bunch of (mostly gay) Psychologists got offended by research.
its impossible to conduct credible studies because of the people in high up positions.
http://www.cbc.ca/beta/news/canada/toronto/pride-parade-toronto-1.3662823
SODOMITES BTFO
TOP KEK MEET YOUR NEW MASTERS
use the catalog
>>6504261
Use common sense before bowing down
>>6504249
inclusion right... its a radical thing.
ask someone who just had sex with a taxi driver anything
>>6504138
What did he look like?
How big was his dick?
Did he use a condom?
>>6504179
like a middle aged man from palestine
big
no
I had a taxi driver ask to fuck me once, too. I kinda suspected he'd have murdered me if he knew I was trans, though, so I declined.
