Today I finally came out to my brother that I'm "gay" or at least seriously in love with an extremely cute guy online. He kind of reacted like I knew he would, totally accepting, totally fine with it.
Cried because I was so happy. Was happy to finally explain these feelings to someone close.
I really, really like this guy - he's about 6 hours away and moving across the country, so I know things are not going to work out into anything magical. But I have never been this desperately attracted to a member of the same sex - absolutely what I would call love. I don't want to "fuck" this guy, I just want to hold him and be with him.
Falling in love with him has taught me a lot though - a lot about myself. Still coming to terms with being out about this with anyone. But my feelings for this guy are so strong, I had to say something to someone.
My family is ultra-Christian and raised us all in pretty sheltered lives. My father is 70 and I have no intention of trying to explain to him why his 31 year old son is still "single" after all this time. I honestly think it's better that neither of my parents know, and I know I don't want to be open about this with everyone in public yet.
Not my personal journal, I know, but I'm just happy I was able to be honest about it with someone.
lol fag
congratulations! hope things work out for you and your bf
Good for you. That's exciting. :)
>open grindr
>filter: twinks, looking for right now
>1 no pic, 1 hellspawn, 1 old bald dude, 1 landwhale, 2 non twinks and 1 literal alien come up
explain this crap
Det er fordi de tror at "tribes" betyr hva du leter etter og ikke hva du tilhorer.
I had a lot of fun matching your descriptions
>>5906646
You're drunk, Michael. Go to bed.
Is there any way to make sure you're completely clean for anal without the need for enemas/douches?
I've heard frequent use of them isn't good for your butt, but I want to masturbate/have sex every day. My diet is OK in fibre and stuff but that's not enough for 100% cleanliness like an enema.
>>5906523
Just eat pure fiber. Replace meat with lentils and beans and corn. Replace snacks with oats and bran. Replace water with more oats.
I got a big dong
How do I come out as bisexual in a subtle manner; what I mean by this is that I don't want to straight up say "I like dicks and chick" but rather create a scenario. Which would lead people to assume that I am bisexual.
>>5906279
let ur mum catch u fappin 2 chiks with diks
Bisexual bump
>>5906279
come to my house and we fool around ;)
Today after the attacks on Brussels or whatever and my country going into its final state of alert-ness, I come home to check facebook for once in a while. I find a message of the most qt and popular girl and in it she basically asks everyone if it's okay if she wants to be a guy. I feel jealous because I'm too closeted to do the same.
What do?
Both of you should have gotten caught up in that explosion.
nothing, live your life and don't care that much about people and their beliefs
oh and everyone is different, don't compare yourself to others, it doesn't make any sense
Second anon, thats great advice thank
>be me, femboy as fuck
>hanging out with gf and female roommate
>gaycation comes on vice, the one about Japan
>they start talking about yaoi and rotten girls
>female roommate: omg I love yaoi lets watch some
>....ok
>moetube
>boku no pico
boku no pico had such a bad ending
>>5906021
I thought it was ok but it left a few loose ends
>>5906032
10/10 well memed
Hi, MTF here. I am not on HRT yet (have to go through small psychology therapy, should be okay afterwards) but I realized the thought of being girly with this body scares the shit out of me. Like wearing a dress for example. Is it normal?
Also that applies to pronouns when I talk to people IRL about it. I am just quite never sure but my body screams and it hurts.
TL;DR: I want to be girly but somehow I am scared the shit out of it and want to wait for HRT to take effect.
Transitioning is a process, one that takes time. I have heard of some people that come out and present female straight away (even before hormones) but I've known more that wait, take hormones and take gradual steps toward presenting more female.
I believe it is normal to be afraid of being 'girly' in a body that was poisoned by testosterone, has been treated male it's whole life, viewed as male.
So when you make the switch yeah it's gonna be terrifying, you have to worry about if everyone is looking at you and knows, encounters that were normal before can become shitty, but it gets better (slowly).
And no one is saying you have to wear dresses, wear whatever you want really.
It's normal to be scared of massive changes in your life... and, although I'm going to get shit for this on /lgbt/, desu you don't actually have to be girly after transitioning. The purpose of transitioning is to help manage dysphoria. You may be transitioning to a girl, but the great thing about feminism is that there isn't really anything specific you have to do to be a girl. Dresses, painting your nails, makeup, etc. Those are things imposed upon being a woman by society, but these things do not actually define being a woman.
If you want to wear baggy tshirts and jeans instead of dresses, that is perfectly ok! And if you want to slowly change over time until you're more comfortable wearing feminine clothing, that's ok too. You don't have to do everything at once.
And the pronouns thing is normal. It feels like people are mocking you when you clearly don't pass but they're like 'omg you go girl!'
What? Twi actually sensible and coherent answers? Am I still in 4chan?
ITT: Sum up /lgbt/ in one picture
>>5905171
That's hot as fuck
Solo I'm 18
Mtf in denial and it will be months before I may be out and more months before I go on mones since of the shitty country I live in
rly androgynous except for jaw (squarish but I've seen girls with a squarer jaws than me), jew nose and height cause I'm 1.76m (basically no adam's Apple, delicate skin, no brow lift and really girly eyes)
When I transition I may have loads of money for FFS cause of a distant relative who is dying and will leave every penny he has to me
What I wanted to ask is
Since I want to redo my jaw and nose and stuff
When you do a FFS can you take pics of girls and say like "I want to look like this one" being that they are your same height/similiar face dimension but you know, different jaw/nose/chin and stuff?
Cause I basically have zero money problems and I was wondering how much can I chance of my face if I want
Random girl in pic who basically has got my jaw lol
FFS isn't a video game character creator. The people mutilating your face try their best to "feminize" it while still trying to keep you looking human.
Here's what the average FFS look like
>>5904962
>here's what the average ffs look like
When you're over 60 with shitty skin
I plan on doing ffs around my 21 years tops
I look like I'm 16 and my skin is better than loads of my female friends, also not hairy
Does that help?
Bi curious guy here
how typical is it for a gay man to have an asshole the size of a pickle jar?
last couple of dudes I was about to fuck had humongous assholes. Like gaping. Is that normal?
bump for curiosity
>>5904765
Stop going out with sluts
>>5909107
>implying you can be gay and not a slut
Anyone just gonna repress their gayness? I figure life can't be so cruel that I have to suck dick or play in man ass to be happy, so I just don't. Sometimes I'm tempted, but I've been going strong for 24 years.
If it starts bother you, take a libido lowering drug
Spend your time on something more useful
Good on you
For once op was not a faggot
>>5903740
I don't get what the big deal is, we repress impulses all the time, why should sucking dick be any different than someone who wants to stop eating cake?
>>5903730
I repressed for years. I even tried having hetero relationships. Now I am 26, ugly, fat, lonely, depressed, and suicidal. Why are you repressing?
I actually have no fashion sense at all.
I wear either tan shorts/blue jeans and the same 15 shirts/hoodies the entire year.
I feel like I'm letting my inner gay self down.
What do?
>>5903314
/fa/ is your friend.
Honestly I don't know why, when you have a fashion question, that you didn't just go to >>>/fa/
>>5903314
The only way you can make your inner gay happy is to go to a pride parade not wearing anything more than a thong
An new upsurge of love and tolerance!
http://www.reuters.com/article/us-indonesia-gay-rights-idUSKCN0WB02Z
>>5903018
tbqh i have no idea where indonesia is
Hey /lgbt/ Anons
For a long time ive felt like a chick, but long story short, Im embarassed about it to tell my family or how to ease into looking morr like a girl.
My mother knows and she wasnt supportive, but my father doesnt know.
Itd seem really dissapointing for him if I tell him. I dont know what to do.
How did you handle telling your family about it, if you did?
i think i mentioned it when i was blackout drunk
>>5902113
here's the best thing to do for becoming more feminine:
>cryopreserve semen if you want kids. donate it if you don't. this is also good fuel to use if people aren't accepting enough
>start HRT, electrolysis, and hair growth
>always clean shave
>progressively pluck eyebrows thinner
>come out (or don't & play dumb) in boymode and play it down.
>stay in boymode as your body changes
>use male voice, but practice/ get coached on female voice
>change name & sex legally (but don't tell anyone unless they ask ofc)
>progressively wear more and more makeup
>andro is good in this period of time
>crossdress in public, but not around social life
>get FFS at this point if you have zero chances of passing w/o it
>fulltime passing girlmode. play it down, you were pretty much 85% a girl at this point anyways.
as for coming out? I don't know what to tell you; coming out is coming out. They will either accept you or not.
>Have a friend or two with you (who already know).
>be ready to answer (uncomfortable) questions
>try to convince them this is a good thing for you and everyone
http://strawpoll.me/7147521
>>5901407
All man here.
Although I admit I get a little adventurous after like 8 drinks.
>>5901407
>no neither option
>no both option
>>5901570
Go post it on tumblr, here I'll do the hashtags for you for brevity.
#patriarchy #truscum #cisprivilege #delusions #triggered
