Does having a gf and playing vidya regularly even go together?
I feel like that would be impossible for me.
>>334944869
Not really
unless you two play games while with each other
If you find one who likes games/anime it can. However the whole point would be the two of you being together.
New restaurant? Party? Getting drunk and having sex all night? It all replaces gaming time.
But where do i find vidya playing gf
Don't have a gf, play all the vidya you want. Simple.fucking normies i swear
>>334944869
Mostly depends on priorities of you and her respectively.
>Does she like vidya
>Then you can chill with some games and shit
>Does she not?
>Then you can chill while she does whatever on occasion, but mostly you're gonna be doing stuff with her you both like or she likes.
I fall into the former, thankfully.
>>334945487
Not at bars or the local comic store with that one loud overweight guy who's always there.
>>334945487
/a/
>>334945487
Best situation:
You find her through online dating and she's close.
Worst situation: You end up latching onto a "Gamer girl" in your area.
Could go either way:/soc/
My gf plays video games and watches anime with me
The problem is she gets to shaky when she plays games because she's competive
Depends on how you define regular.
Regular like a NEET won't ever be achievable.
My gf never played videogames before she met me. She loved Kirby's Epic Yarn, now we play Kirby games and other accessible/co-op games like Yoshi's Woolly World, Smash Bros, and Mario Kart together, and she has recently decided to tackle the Shantae games by herself.
The thing is to find the right "gateway game" and not be pushy about it.
When we're off work we just get on the couch, I play vidya and she reads on her Kindle. Easy.
I dunno, I wouldn't really mind having a grill who doesnt play vidya.
But i would feel really sorry if i couldnt make so much time for her
It doesnt. Girls hate video games and attribute them with losers.
My gf fucking hates when i play and i know shes judging. Makes it hard to play ds3 rn
>when she gets home from work tired and horny and she gives you head while you play
Even if she doesn't like playing as long as you play games that are fun to watch it's chill cuz she can just hang in the same area. Just don't play bad games, op.
Pussy doesn't work well with vidya mostly.
Same reason why most girls can't into games.
Its not really that hard depending on how much you work. I usually end up playing at night, when my gf is in bed reading.
My gf only likes fucking sims.
But if that means that we can do something together I'll happily play it with her
>>334944869
My best relationship was with a chick who thought games and things were stupid. Of course, this was before smart phones, so I'll bet nowadays she's always on the facebook being an attention whore, but she didn't ever use a flip cell phone to constant txt msg her bff jill.
Just get one that has her own hobbies, preferably a gay artsy fartsy one. You tell her her faggot painting or sculpture or sewing looks good and you're envious of her talent, and she lets you play your stupid games.
>>334944869
Go to bed a little later or wake up a little earlier, boom you have time for any hobby you want.
No, because girls play shitty games like dota 2, and they want you to play with them every fucking hour. Avoid them like a plague.
>>334945487
don't do that to yourself
>>334944869
Depends. Last girl I dated I tried introducing to Dark Souls but she was terrible at it. She did enjoy watching me play games though. Girl I dated before her was a psychotic abusive chick
I met through NA who would never give me some alone time to play games and constantly insist I come over to her house until 2 in the morning to listen to her bitch and moan about how much her life sucked and how terrible the world is.
Basically date a chick who's into games and you'll have time for games. Date a chick who's either not into games or overly clingy and obsessive and you won't have time for games.
>>334948091
these fucking shrek thumbs
every time this dirty nigger makes me feel sick
>>334944869
They can go togueter if your GF isnot real
>>334948253
>girl can be pretty and play games
Pic is unrelated, I guess.
>>334948253
>>that blue rib beer
>someone actually called it that
>>334948253
This.
Gamer girls mostly suck. I actually prefer if they're not super into it and have hobbies of their own that I can experience with them.
Of course they at least have to tolerate my hobby.
>>334948091
>idk my bff jill
why the fuck do i still remember that AT&T commercial?
>>334948253
What's this twisted grimace every gamer grl has when they take pictures? Is it supposed to make them look goofy or hard?
>tfw no quirky not-your-average-girl girlfriend who has larger than DD breasts
>>334948559
>Of course they at least have to tolerate my hobby
Thats aint gonna happened. At least not witha girl with options
I just want a qt to play DKC2 with.
>Or KOF '98.
>>334948713
Yeah she's hella random, CRAZIEST gamer guuurl you'll ever meet, you don't want to see her pissed off, seriously you don't like even know.
>>334948826Yeah, I know.
>>334948713
I've wondered this too also why are they all so proud of playing games?
If they have played all there life why now to brag about it like they cured cancer?I have a few friends who are grills and don't do this at lest.
>>334948559
>they have to at least tolerate my hobby but if they like games fuck them
How hypocritical anon.
>>334948559
Listen up, /v/irgins. You need to get over this "she should accept me" stuff. If you think you're grown up and adult enough for relationships, you need to accept that she is now your life and she calls the shots. You are lucky enough to have a girl willing to be with you, and you're asking for MORE? Thank your lucky stars, no, thank HER for being with you and having the patience to deal with you. Christ.
why do you think girls hate vidya?
they view vidya as competition
>>334944869
I have a friend who's on steam all the fucking time playing shit. When he had a longtime girlfriend he was there, and now they're married and he still plays more than I do.
My boss is married with two kids and manages to finish games all the time
Here's a good rule of thumb. Anyone that's really proud of something as bottom of the barrel as consuming media is probably a worthless person.
>>334948976
I think I misworded my point. By "gamer girls' i mean the ones who sit on LoL and Shitrim all day long and not much else. It's cool if they're modestly into it or are into more respectable titles.
My point is that I don't demand it from them.
>>334944869
Unless you find a grill that equals your vidya passion, or is susceptible to conversion, they really don't mix. I'm actually just seeing this, that image has a lot of truth to it.
>>334949043
>>334944869
Just establish early on (through actions not words) that you take time for your hobbies, and don't let the relationship define everything you do. Your interests don't have to fully overlap, as long as you have things you both like to so together some of the time.
Don't date a girl who is weird and likes to spend all spare time together
I want a girlfriend who is into 4chan more than vidya.
>>334949097
Its really easy if you play in the morning and late at night.
![FNF-Stardust7[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/hhqczLh.jpg "FNF-Stardust7[1].jpg")
>>334948886
I wonder how old that bottom image is. It strikes me as odd that you'd have a stock image site portraying a woman in the "angry gamer" role in a time when CRTs, joysticks, and jewel cases were still common.
>>334944869
Maybe find a gf who likes vidya you stupid ponce
Maybe find a gf who doesn't disrespect you and your hobbies
Maybe find a gf who isn't a vapid cunt
>>334949367
you sure those are jewel cases?
>>334949024
yes they should just bend over and thank the stars anyone would want them
Ahh if that isn't love.
>>334949414
Imuposiboru
>>334949230
yes
attention is like crack to bitches. they crave it constantly
>>334949024
Please tell me that you are baiting and you are not such an omega.
>>334949230
>I've been here, ignored, while people discuss their hobbies with each other
>waaaah feed me attention
>>334949469
relationships aren't about love. this is why girls pick and choose who they're with and guys are lucky if they get one who decides on them. she can leave you for somebody better at any time, so you better treat her right.
>>334948559
>I want them to like games but not as much as I do because that would suck
>>334945192
This. I've been playing dark souls 3 while my girlfriend plays the sims and old gameboy games
>>334949424
I could be wrong, but it looks like there's an organizer filled with empty jewel cases to the immediate left of the monitor. Maybe a stack on the right.
>>334949024
Wow, this bait is incredibly sad. There's some poor guys out there who actually think like that.
Fucking betas lmao.
>>334944869
bit of a "can not win" scenario
>dated qt blonde, turned out she was a super christian
>when she was over, wouldn't play vidya, but she would insist i play vidya while she watched tv
>when i would play vidya she'd say she was bored and wanted to do something else
>>334949230
>I dont get any attention anymore!
Maybe you weren't worth attending in the first place, lady.
>>334949414
Women who like male hobbies tend to be insane. The best you can hope for is one who tolerates it, or just likes it because you do.
>>334948253
> Girls acting like girls playing video games is something rare and unheard of
This annoys the shit out of me. An older chick I dated used to play Warcraft 1-2 and WoW a lot when she was younger and as far as I know still plays Lego games from time to time. Shit, even my mom used to play Myst and was really interested in Bloodborn's gothic victorian atmosphere and setting (though she'd never play it because she's really unsettled by blood and gore). There's literally nothing new about girls playing video games and nobody gives a shit about it anymore.
>>334949230
>she didnt increase her owning noobs ability
>>334948826
>At least not witha girl with options
If you don't give off the idea that you also have options then you basically surrender yourself to her.
The moment she thinks that she's doing you a favor by staying together you're fucked.
>>334944869
my last girlfriend loved video games
we would buy shit like new pokemon games and go through it together, trading pokes and having battles
my gf before that was really into dark souls and we would coop the shit out of that
get a good gf you dumb tard
>>334947094
>she is horny and gives you head
implying
>>334944869
Enjoyment and relationships never go hand in hand. If you want leisure time then don't get a girlfriend. If you want sex hire a hooker.
>>334948553
>trusting anyone but yourself to heal
no one does this.
>had girlfriend
>she only played the sims
>only had the first one, no expansions
>felt bad
>went and downloaded and installed some expansions for her
>she was so happy
>at her place a day later
>looking at her custom house
>three stories
>every room is decorated perfectly
>she named the family after me and her and...our three kids?
>get weirded out
>told her this was strictly fun and not some kind of heavy relationship
>leave
>never talk to her again
We never actually broke up so I wonder if we're still together
>have Asian wife who plays video games
>loves Ratchet and Clank and FF10, some other stuff like Borderlands
>terrible at most games but pretty good at games she does like
Thank god, my ex wife hated games and bitched at me constantly.
>>334949549
You patronizing condescending little fuck You think everyone you talk to here is a kid who doesn't have vaguest idea what a relationship actually is? Do everyone a favor. Go to your parents (if they indeed still are together) and ask them if their relationship isn't about love. Or if their raising you wasn't about love. Let's see where that gets you. Just because you were raised in an age and culture of superficiality and materialism, does NOT mean everyone else was. Some of us remember the days when people actually had integrity.
>>334949024
The most extreme beta. This might even be the most pathetic thing I've ever read.
Don't share hobbies, at least not main ones. It's nice and cute to start but eventually it gets annoying.
>>334950079
You had it you dumbass. You had it and you let it go because of some fictional kids in a SIMS GAME.
How are you doing now anon?
>>334950148
I see you haven't had a relationship in some time. Go date a girl and see how long it takes for her to get bored and get with somebody else. You could be handsome or rich or have a nice wiener, and they'll still get tired of you and leave. It's what they do, they don't like or love you, they're with you because that's just how they feel right now.
>>334948253
she isn't wrong though. most gamers (like your average /v/ poster) treat girl gamers horribly
>>334950083
>getting married twice
Masochist.
>>334950148
Fucking grade A post, anon. Accolades.
>>334950079
Goddammit you tard. You totally fucked up, spilled your spaghetti over her erotic friend fiction.
>>334948253
>See that blue rib beer...she is serious!!
I don't normally use this word, but this writing style honestly triggers me. What do you even call it and why do normalfags type like that?
>>334950351
I see you make vague assumptions. Listen son, just because you think you have it all figured out does not necessarily mean you have. Trust me on this when I say you know jackshit about relationships and are giving some of the worst tips you can give anyone right now.
Your tips WILL end up with the girl dumping you exactly because you're not interesting enough or have no pushback.
This is exactly why I know you are the least qualified here to give anyone dating advice as if you're some playboy dating guru.
Get over yourself, son.
>>334949024
you're onto something even though this post is fucking retarded.
people on /v/ and roneryfags have 3 problems: narcissism, no confidence and high expectations. they demand the girl they're with put up with all their bullshit and neediness without offering anything in return. nobody - NOBODY - wants to be with a whiny little fuck. they want someone who's open, cool and fun. that's literally all you need to be to attract women. and take care of yourself for gods sake.
and be more forward. if you're getting along with a girl ask her out to coffee or invite her to your place. BE CHILL. be confident. act like you're not some pathetic faggot on 4chan who cries about being a virgin.
>>334950532
These retarded little fucks literally think we should just roll over and never push back. Like that's not going to get you dumped eventually. Thanks anon.
>>334949289
This to be honest. I want someone who has no problems shitting on my opinion and who can take the heat back.
>>334950148
This, I wouldn't marry somebody I couldn't see taking care if me if I got a terminal illness.
These niggas don't know the kinda shit a woman will do for their husband in that kind of situation.
You fucks wanna know what love is? Look at married cancer patients and their widows.
Yes? It's very easy when you're an adult and not 16
>>334950079
>Tfw make female version of my friends to piss them off and even when I have kids with them they take it as a joke
You are an idiot.
>>334950351
Sounds to me like you got cucked by Gerome and now you're basing all your relationships around your GF fucking the local negro.
>>334951104
I just want someone with a darker than average sense of humor without devolving into lol so randum internet culture. People who browse 4chan tend to be smarter in that regard while still understanding le memes and besides if someone actively comes to 4chan for at least half a decade they are bound to know a few things about vidya and anime.
How is one meant to get a GF when no woman is ever single for more then a day or two?
>>334952032
>when no woman is ever single for more then a day or two?
Your female friend pool is filled with sluts. I've met really cute girls who go without boyfriend for years but I feel like they do it for the attention to be honest.
>>334950239
I don't see why, as long as you can be clear about the fact that you still want to play games alone.
>>334944869
Currently married to a girl who doesn't play vidya.
I really don't have a strong urge to play while she's with me but she works night shift so I get to binge on vidya on nights she works
>tfw you meet a qt who likes vidya
>she's not out of your league or hideous or anything
>you can both be awkward sometimes but you generally have a good time together>tfw she'd rather be single than be with you
>>334952190
This, girls don't admit they sleep around like guys do, so they'll call shit a relationship to save face around others.
That's just caused by Western purityfag guys and crab-culture girls.
Talk about slut shaming, girls do it to each other.
>>334950837
Can this man be any more based?
Please don't leave /v/ we need more people of a mind with you.
>>334946176
Wife and I are very similar
>>334948559
Landed myself an awesome girl who tolerates my vidya hobby. She likes to be outdoors and exercising so I also get to stay in shape and be all outdoorsy and shit with her.
All while I still get to play vidya
Life is good
My girlfriend and I live together and she doesn't mind if I play games at all. She plays games sometimes but not a lot. We do a lot of fun stuff together, and it isn't like games are my life like some people on /v/. I'm also not a loser who needs to play games for hours and hours every day. I usually only play for a long time if she's at work and I have the day off, or after she goes to bed.
>>334952524
>That's just caused by Western purityfag guys and crab-culture girls.
The second point I can agree but purity is important.
Not that important but important nonetheless. I'm not a virgin myself but I wouldn't want to date a clubslut.
>>334950961
I can tell we're both above the general age demographic of this thread. Some knowledge only comes through experience, I call that wisdom.
