Do tiny/average sized girls even go after bigger guys?
I'm 5'10", 255 lbs., and when a pretty girl or small girl flirts with me, I figure they are being nice and If I try to hit on them back I'm just a perv.
Granted, if I think they are hitting on me, they must be somewhat interested in me.
What do you guys think?
>>23921008
Need honest opinions.
>>23921008
FAT
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>>23921065
Thanks for being honest.
>>23921054
you have a very interesting body, albeit not in a good way, but it is fascinating to see because i'm about the same height and have an extremely similar frame.
Anyway I have known smaller girls that are more fine with overweight men than a lot of the people on here are going to say they might be. contrary to popular belief, an enormous amount of attraction is personality-based than anything, so particularly if you are working to lose weight and such I would say that it's not out of the realm of possibility.
>>23921091
I've lost about ~100 pounds in the past twelve months. I'm plateauing currently and trying to gauge my progress.
Thanks for the advice.
>>23921054
The way your boobs hang and side is a bit scust.
I dont think anyone would enjoy that sight.
>>23921008
I'm a fat guy. (Ex jacked farm-boy turned MMO player. LOL muscle.)
I've had little girls that loved it, but most don't.
Though having a 4'10", 95lb brunette climb me like a kitten shimmying up a tree was basically the only good moment of my life so far.
>>23921173
interesting. How big are you?
BUMP
>>23921113
this is really sad dude please leave these girls alone. Never green text or use 4chan lingo when flirting.
>>23921346
lol. that's not me, just a random picture from a cringe thread.
>>23921173
>having a 4'10", 95lb brunette climb me like a kitten shimmying up a tree
life goals
They won't just stop looking for one and hit the gym, I'm doing it.
Nobody likes fat/chubby/husky guys.
Well, gays like them, but girls ? maybe only 1% are attracted to someone chubbier than average and even so, she'll prefer a skinny/toned/muscular guy over the fat one.
t. an husky hairy guy.
Fat as fatass guys are gross, so no. Some girls like guys who are a little chubby, but you're past that man. Lose more weight.
>Do tiny/average sized girls even go after bigger guys?
Yes. Masculine men and feminine women are the most desirable. If you lurk the short girl threads they're always making snide comments about how they'll "never have to settle for a short guy". A pairing of a girl just around 5' with a guy around 6' is normal. They like feeling small.
>>23922454
I believe he meant fat big, not height big.
>>23922454
>If you lurk the short girl threads they're always making snide comments about how they'll "never have to settle for a short guy".
Bitter short guy detected. I've never seen anyone making snide remarks like that.
Honestly, 75% of short girl threads are guys
>i'm a tall guy btw
>as a 6'3 guy I love short girls
>did I mention how tall I am
>>23922531
Don't know what planet you live in but women despise short guys.
>>23922587
"despise", it's too strong bro, they don't like guys shorter than them, but 90% of girls irl will not give a fuck if you're at her heigt or a little more
>>23922607
If they see you're shorter than the guys around her you can say your chance with that girl good basically.
>>23922616
at this point it honestly depend if you're good looking, charismatic and confident. If the different guy as the same qualities as you have, then yes, she'll probably take him instead of you, but if he's a weeb lanked with no confidence his height won't save him.
>>23922643
*lanket
>>23922643
Not really, I know lots of guys getting girls while having shitty personalities or having no charisma. You have to compensate shit tons to level the playing ground.
>>23922655
you may not get it, but they're probably more charismatic to girls, more flirty and more confident than they look...
Anyway, i'm only 173cm (5'8) and never had a problem with dating, at least i was never rejected because of my height.
>>23922669
I'm not short, I'm around 5'11" I guess bit still got told I was short by girls. They can get absolutely ruthless about it sometimes.
>>23922680
the girls who said that to you are just being bitchy, average is 5'9 so you're not short at all. Don't listen to them.
>>23922685
Well not like my height is the problem anyways, was just talking about how it is.
>>23922691
maybe you're surrounded by the wrong type of girls, but honestly, unless it's for ONS, girls are not that shallow.
Come to Europe, maybe you'll score more ^^ (probably)
>>23922695
Nah I'm still fat >>23922247 and I'm trying to fix my depression not a relationship materia at all and I'm ugly anyways so yeah. What is ONS BTW?
>>23922716
One night stand.
>fat
>depression
>ugly
well then buddy, you know why girls reject you, it's not because of your height.
Good luck with all this anyway, iktf
>>23922735
Guess I can fix the fat but can't fix my awfully shy personality and ugly mug ;_;
>>23922756
ah it's you Turkish boy.
Keep going on your weight loss and start lifting, you're actually way less ugly than you think you are.
>>23922830
Oh kek you know me, nah man I had people straight up told me I'm disgusting IRL. Gotta k ow who you are.
>>23922837
im frenchanon, you know, with the santa's hat ?
Anyway, you're starting doing this shit on EVERY thread, the more you post the more you look like Brandon, and do you think Brandon have a good personality ? no, he's a whinny little bitch.
Just don't be like him bro, keep focused on things that matter : your happiness. You need to get slim to be happy ? Then do it, it'll take some time sure, but don't be hopeless, girls, sex and stuff will come after that, it's just a matter of time when you already have the motivation.
People said you were disguting ? They're just mean and don't deserve your time, again, don't care about all the assholes, care about the ones that're kind to you. And you have to accept that you can be loved/apprecied/considered sexy by everyone, you'll meet haters/mean people, that's how life works, just deal with it and fuck them by not giving them the privilege of vexing you.
Dude, you already lost 100lbs that's 45kg, 45 fucking kilograms, i need to lose something like 15-20 kg, and you lost already more than twice that, i respect and admire you bro, but don't give up now you made the hardest but not the longest yet (the last 10kg will be a pain in the ass i imagine).
>>23922847
>And you have to accept that you can be loved/apprecied/considered sexy by everyone
*can't
>>23922847
It just gets so fucking frustrating man, I can't handle being alone anymore I gotta let it out one way or another. Problem is no one loves me/considers me attractive. I lost all my motivation to do anything, no girl will take an inexperienced 26 year old guy with a depressing personality and doesn't know what to fuck to do in relationships. I just want to blow my fucking brains out lately, everything feels so fucking hopeless.
>>23922873
because you think that being in a couple and having sex is like, the summum of the happiness, wich is not, that's a bonus, for sure, but you don't NEED to be in a couple to be happy.
Focus more on what make you happy, your hobbies etc, the day you'll stop caring about what other think about you it'll be better.
>>23922873
I think you're very handsome, and have a hot body, but I'm a man. I also think you could rock a beard
>>23922970
I know what I'm saying is that I feel left out from something happens naturally to other people. Makes me feel alienated and a piece of trash. Humans were not designed to be alone, it fucks up your mind.
>>23922979
Haha thanks m8, I get it from man all the time. Not sure why gay people like lardasses like me so much.
>>23923051
but it WILL happen, anon, only when you'll be ready mentally and physically, that's how it works, i'm sorry but nobody want to date sad people, unless they have a savior complex and it's not healthy anyway.
One thing at time bro.
Lose weight > focus on hobbies > be more attractive > get girls.
>>23923236
I know how this shit goes, just frustrated because I don't feel human and not like I'm getting younger.I missed out on every good thing in life and will probably miss more shit because I'm lazy piece of shit.
I'd love having a tiny gf. I really need to go to the gym though.
>>23921008
I'm a really petite girl (5'2" 98 lbs) and I personally find chubby guys the most attractive. They're also considerably comfier to cuddle with! My boyfriend is 5'10" 180 lbs (he has a cute belly and not a lot of muscle) so smaller than you, but still on the edge of "overweight" and he is my ideal. Your size would be my upper-limit in terms of preference, but definitely not a deal breaker for me if you have a terrific personality. Hell, even if you were bigger than that I'd date you if I liked you enough as a person.
This is just me personally though, a lot of girls wouldn't date anyone who is even slightly medically overweight. But we do exist and we're out there. I really only care about how you treat me and make me feel, good looks and other perks are just that, perks. Like extra credit.
>>23922405
You can speak for yourself only. Don't tell me what I find attractive.
>>23922587
You can also speak for yourself because I literally have no height preference whatsoever.
>>23922756
huh
i think you're cute actually
but to answer op, i'm average sized and my favorite types of guys are chubby guys or builtfat bear-looking guys. and preferably shorter than 6'
tfw no average/petite qt to cuddle the shit out of :(
>>23924513
Well thanks for that, really made me feel better.
>>23924513
S-so... Something like t-that ?
I'm 6'2" 215lbs and hit the gym regularly lost 40lbs so far but have yet to have any luck at all lol I don't have a specific taste in women but as a big guy there's just a random attraction to short girls but there seem to be none around here lol
>>23924759
Always get hit with the "you're cute" but never get anywhere
>>23924747
yes! :)
i'm not going to lie tho, i used to be in to the lanky prettyboy thing, but once i hit like 23 i turned in to this bearhunting monster out of nowhere. so maybe if you guys aren't having much luck, it may have to do with the girls' age too
>>23924953
Hmmm i guess it's kiiiind of true but still, girls have so much choices in dating that even when they're past 25, they still prefer handsome /fit/ guys.
Source ? I'm 27 and i have a lot of females friends who are 25+
But yeah, the ones that are past 27-28 start to settle with less good looking but greater personality type of guys.
>>23922756
Turkish too, huh? That baklava man, shit will get ya
>>23921008
Some do anon. I'm about your size and had a 100 pounds 5'6" gf who absolutely loved my size. It helps a lot if you feel comfortable about yourself and have self-confidence though.
>>23925522
Haven't had any in a year
