What are your red flags in a potential partner? Male here, I'll list mine.
>Obese
>Radical feminist
>Dumb
>Generally slutty behavior
>Rude to cashiers or waiters
>Mental illness, particularly BPD
>Pothead (to the point where they don't want to do anything with their lives, recreational use is okay as long as they have direction)
>Weeb or furry
That's it for me. What are yours?
>>23604394
>Is an OP of red flag threads
>>23604394
Bad with money
That is literally the ultimate turn off for me. How the fuck do you knowingly blow through a whole paycheck
>>23604409
My ex-sister in law was terrible with money. Thank God she's out of the picture now.
>>23604394
Your red flags are stupid.
-Selfishn
-Irrational
-Holds grudges
-Stubborn
-Quick to dislike people over superficial shit that shouldn't matter
>video game shirts
>if they have any buzzfeed-worthy pizza quotes they say
>art majors
>horror film fans
>hunts
>taxidermy
>has cheated on a girlfriend in the past
>has had many girlfriends in the past
>plays LoL
>gets angry easily
>dislikes animals or children
>only watches moe animu
>is a picky eater
>drinks a lot
>does drugs at all or has had an issue with it in the past
well, I guess some of these have deal breakers mixed in
>doesn't spay/neuter their pets
>bad pet care in general
>listens to PUAs
>extremely right wing
>trumpfag/edgefag
>camofag
>no ambition in life
>doesn't have life goals
>bad with money/always borrowing money
>is belittling/condescending
>elitist about shit that doesn't matter (videogames, music, anime)
>violent temper
>is in a band
>genwunner
>is a brony
>posts on/browses r9k seriously
>sheep mentality/gullible
>faps to hentai more than regular porn
>thinks bad childhood excuses bad behavior
>complains about "normies"
I think that's about it. I'd say it's not too unreasonable
>>23604523
Plays LoL is a huge one
>slutty
>an idiot
>does drugs
>does'nt have conservative values
>is a douche
>doesn't have pride
>Has a kid (basically the immediate deal breaker, I'm not dealing with you and your old whore's bad decision.) Or wants kids with me one day for that matter.
>low self esteem
>autism
>cheated before
>smokes anything of any kind
>does any illegal drugs
>has a criminal record (unless you got a real good story on how you were framed)
>owns guns/hunts for fun
>is submissive in nature
>bi
>overly political one way or another
>anything more than a casual weeb
>doesn't want to travel or is intolerant of other cultures and shit.
>doesn't like cats or dogs
to name a few.
>>23604583
>Wants kids with me one day for that matter.
I think that's a reasonable desire if you're in a serious relationship with them. Why is that a deal-breaker?
>>23604523
I smoke weed every day and somehow manage to have graduated in computer engineering, make 70k a year within a year of graduating, part time grad student, and I've been dating the same girl completely committed for 3 years.
so don't be so judgy
>>23604596
>falling into the notion that it's reasonable to want kids
>Not a virgin
>Racist
>wants kids
>disloyal
>feminist
>cares about politics
>goes to clubs
>believes the sexual revolution was a good thing
>uses any chan-like site or tumblr
>>23604611
>Being so bitter and selfish that you despise the notion of having or adopting children.
Whew, lad.
>>23604596
I have no interest in being a parent in any way shape or form. Don't get me wrong, I like kids, I just don't like kids 24/7 for the rest of my miserable existence. I like to be the aunt, have fun with the kids for the day but pass them off onto someone else when they get annoying. From this statement alone I don't think anyone wants me to be a mother anyways, as I'd probably be a horrible one.
I'd have to reeeaallllllly REEALLLLY love him to let him talk me into adoption/surrogacy, and that's as far as I'd go. I'm not ruining the body I spend so long trying to make halfway decent for something I never wanted in the first place.
So if he wanted kids, at the very least to physically have kids with me, it would not last anyways so I'd consider that a deal breaker. Rather not even get attached you know?
>>23604705
>2016
>still falling into the notion that you should want kids and whoever doesn't is selfish
>>23604528
get out normalfag. Go back to fucking chad
>>23604745
This guy gets it
>>23604754
>complains about normies
ding ding ding
>>23604539
Ha! Glad someone agrees.
>>23604608
I have a problem with anything that causes people to act differently. It's from my parents both being alcoholics and drug users growing up. If this wasn't a world that thinks you're a party pooper and a weirdo because you don't drink, I would have also said "drinks alcohol at all" as one of my red flags because I'm actually terrified of it and worry another person I care about will hurt me or die because of their addiction.
Not saying I wouldn't be friends with someone who smokes sometimes (I actually am friends with one), but I just can't be with a man who does and especially if I plan to have children with them.
Also, that smell! I don't know if all types smell horribly, but holy hell, man!
