ITT: ask the other gender anything, I'll start.
Ladies, would you ever date a guy with a strongfat build if he physically took care of himself (assuming your personalities were compatible, of course)?
>>23558820
Self-bump.
>>23559000
>>23558820
this is a retarded question and you should feel bad you low self esteem faggot
>>23559046
Savage
>>23559046
Damn bro, chill out.
>>23558820
ladies what up with all the rape/slave type fantasies?
>>23559046
Stop being so edgy, you're scaring the children.
>>23558820
Of course. There's nothing wrong with a strongfat build at all. Some women are very into it because it gives you a cuddly look. You'll be able to find a girl for you.
Men, is there a chance you could love a girl who's gentle, loving, has a calm voice, has a 7-8/10 face without makeup, is a good cook, has similar hobbies, is a virgin, values loyalty and honesty, is easygoing with a sense of humor and doesn't play silly mind games, but used to be very fat and has quite a bit of loose skin? Or if she is able to save for surgery, would you at least be okay with a girl who has scars and stretchmarks?
>>23559249
yep, i don't care what she look like before i've met her, only present matter.
And if the stretchmarks/scars are not too big/red, why not ?
But i'm not a huge fan of virgins (i guess that's only me)
>>23559096
Idk not into it
>>23558820
Strong fat can be nice
>>23559249
That sounds top notch. Loose skin and everything else aside, that determination is godlike. Congratulations.
>>23558820
Girls, what type of shoes should i wear? Please link a pair that look really nice.
one for the guys
so scenario-
a friend, not your best friend but youve hung in groups with them, maybe hung out alone with them a few times
posts a status- obvious that they're feeling quite depressed. What do?
like it? ignore it? comment?
>>23559280
>>23559280
it really depends on what you suit and her type
Im really into this kind atm. http://s701.photobucket.com/user/nickspesia_2009/media/airwalk-fall-2009-7.jpg.html
if all else fails no one can go wrong with converse
but block colours
patterned converse look tacky as
>>23559690
Wtfff thats what all the autistic numales wear at school
>>23559646
Treat them the same as you would any other friend and pm them some support.
>>23559694
hahaha
well now you know why
i also like docs, vans and some jimmy choos
but like i said, this is just me and my friends
Learn to spit game my friends. Also money and dope helps
Girls;
Why are nails such a big deal for some girls? And as a side question, why do they often choose ones that look like claws?
>>23559725
words of wisdom here.
but dont look like that
essentially every girl is extremely shallow
we think about how we'd look being seen with you
like you're a piece of clothing or something.
We'll always go for someone better looking than ourselves- this elevates our sense of self worth in front of others
>>23559733
I seem to be the only girl here.
I found this off the front page.
I can still answer if you like though..
>>23559738
You've been pretty insightful so far, I don't see why not!
>>23559736
More chains and money always works if it doesn't then repeat.
>>23559754
you're trolling right?
money is only so helpful though.
it only makes a real difference if you're loaded.
We're basically looking at how much you can spend on the two of us together
will it make other girls jealous of me having you, etc.
being on 30k instead or 25k doesnt really make much difference.
>>23559733
>>23559746
Sorry I totally blanked on this thread.
Nails are just another piece of clothing. Another place we can 'dress up' to show how beautiful we can be or whatevs.
I personally only paint mine, but I understand why some girls go mental with the nails.
protip: fake nails = girl insecure about her appearance (like more so than the rest of us constantly are)
think I deserve another given the amount of answers Ive done.
whats the appeal in cumming on our faces seriously?
>>23559790
For me, it's almost a matter of dominance; a girl, her face covered in your juices, has submitted to you on at least some level. Seeing said submission and willingness to please has always been inexplicably hot to me.
>>23559804
ah I see..
>>23559790
I honestly don't see the appeal in it. Not because whiteknight or anything but I just wouldn't be able to stop laughing. Also, what on earth is she getting out of it?
>>23559788
So complimenting looks without being thirsty is the wisest course of starting conversation?
>>23559823
You can blame some of that on the growth of porn in the world I guess.
Lady(ies): Given you state women as being very shallow, what besides money, would you rate as desirable traits for a man to posses?
>>23559848
absolutely nothing. Girls who enjoy that never initally liked it after time they have just convinced themselves they enjoy it
also theres more to it than that.
if you say a compliment randomly (regardless of how its said) it doesnt make us like you more- we like you less, because all of a sudden you're 'in the bag' so to speak.you're just added to the list of the every boy who wants us, which honestly most of us get at least a couple of new messages a day.
you're suddenly irrelevant
and obviously we only want what we can't have
so keep her constantly guessing about whether you actually do like her. Or if you are actually 'just bored and saw you were online'.
the trick to the complimenting is doing it but within the natural flow of conversation. like for instance a guy got me the other day with one. I'd sent him a picture of my cat and there were dvds in the background of the picture. He noticed some ghibli titles and professed his love for Ghibli movies, and here's the kicker- complimented my movie taste.
yeah, it doesnt always have to be appearance either, we want to be beautiful outside sure, but inside is important too
>>23559853
height (not like a freak tho), muscles (again.. not like a freak tho), being attractive, a cool job, being sweet
and above all else being desirable to other women. like I said, you're like a limited edition dress that everyone wants but only I can have.
>>23559870
the initial attractions all stem from instinctual urges to be with the alpha male,
make yourself the alpha male.
popularity and respect from others.
protip: if you're on a nightout with a large group of friends you can feint being the alpha if you can get all your friends in on the idea
girls will swarm. well not swarm, we just sorta look at you and away repeatedly and try to get you to come over with our eyes
>>23559733
wondering the same thing since I cant stand having hands when my nails aren't cut short
>>23558820
although i've made out with fat guys, would not date them
>>23559096
I love being dominated, so I imagine some girls like to take that to the extreme and be treated like slaves. Who cares? men will always be the ones with the sick fetishes anyway
>>23559874
Interesting to hear this from an actual proclaimed female (this is the internet after all "allegedly" ).
Took me years to realize small things such as the way you carry yourself, the way you approach a room and even owning the space you occupy.
Turns out I checked more boxed than I realized and was probably too dense too read the signs.
Thanks for the reply, no questions from you?
>>23559874
oh and if you wanna know how to feint it,
have all the girls you're hanging with never stray to far from you and to try and take you with them to Bar, smoking, etc.
have every lad laughing at all your jokes.
when you catch a girl you like looking at you, dont look back, make her wait. Get a mate to keep an eye on her and ignore her for like 10-15 whole minutes.
just be engrossed in these amazing anecdotes you're telling to your mates,
after 10-15 mins 'notice her', make sure you meet eyes with her, smile, she should smile back
if you can get away with this as well (depends on the direct situation at hand) coax her to come over to you, this immediately puts her in a submissive state to you and sets you up beautifully. shes already decided she really likes you at this point without having met you.
but then obviously you have to play the part, if she comes over and you're not very attractive or youve got a terrible lisp she'll find excuses to leave.
>>23559096
You do realize most of the porn industry and hence most of the violent rape porn you see is produced by men?
>>23559887
you could give us an answer to my first Q
>>23559646
my friend sent me this whole essay about how men have it worse than women sometimes and how you can't show any sad emotion on facebook 'because its gay and everyone will lose respect for you' 'and no one will like the status anyway, and girls will think you're sad and pathetic'
which fyi on the last bit will be true if you get less than 5 'reactions' (god i fucking hate using that term) on the status in question. Our own opinions are very much swayed by what everyone else thinks
What would a lady think of my Nazi memorabilia?
>>23559906
>>23559646
>one for the guys
>so scenario-
>a friend, not your best friend but youve hung in groups with them, maybe hung out alone with them a few times
>posts a status- obvious that they're feeling quite depressed. What do?
>like it? ignore it? comment?
Two factors if honesty is key, it will depend on what their general posts are and also their gender.
Much like you have said here: >>23559906 its less socially acceptable for a man to express any sincere emotion on a public forum.
At best I would post some quirky little message of funny picture along the lines of "shit happens, keep swimming" (or something else generic) or I may ignore it.
I am infrequently on social media and would probably see it a day or two later.
>>23559887
haha just noticed that 'proclaimed' bit
id never tell anyone this stuff if I wasnt 100% this was anonymous,
girls never show their true selves when a male is present. its one of the main reasons why we like those ann summers partys and that, we can actually be ourselves
If only you could hear the conversation that goes on in the girls bathrooms.
It's all bitching and gossip.
Constantly fighting to drop the reputation of people we don't like and to elevate our own.
>>23559909
not my thing really.. if you find someone into that then great xD
but then again, if it was played right,
like you have it for ironic purposes to prank people with,
and everyone thinks its hilarious when you do.
Numbers count for so much.
>>23559924
I meant another guy,
if its a girl it's obvious we'll get support. lol
we often get like 10 messages when we post them.
>>23559941
It's amazing how conversation between men changes when a girl walks into the room as well.
By the way, speaking of bathroom conversation what do girls discuss when the guys in their company are elsewhere?
Also, there's clearly girlcode or something like it but how often do girls break it? (ie. Making a move on a guy her friend likes)
Anywho guys I've got to dash for 30 mins.
If the threads still alive I'll be happy to answer more Qs,
so you can post some questions while you wait for me.
(secretly loving this attention; self worth is high right now. Although shame the attention is anonymous and not on social media where it really matters)
>>23559948
I used to collect WW2 memorabilia, including US uniforms i have only two left of those. So it's not or was just strictly Nazi stuff.
>>23559964
haha omg does it really!?? I've never noticed.
please explain :)
i'll answer your other Q when im back sorryyy
>>23559966
I want to strangle you to death knowing you'll never be my girlfriend just so no one else can have you.
>>23559957
>we often get like 10 messages when we post them
True, but half are women that have to pretend to care for social status, four are men that want to sleep with you (or at least see your tits), and one is your mum.
But no, chances of me commenting on another non familiar acquaintance's status, is basically nil.
>>23559941
>to be a fly on the wall.
Lets get an old one out; Lingerie, who is it more for, you or him?
>>23559977
What about guys that you know don't want to sleep with you but are asking if you're okay anyway? Does him sending you a message affect your perception of him?
>>23559987
You should probably link her mate, I cannot ask answer that for you.
>>23559994
>I cannot ask answer that for you.
wow, that was smart.
I cannot answer that for you
>>23559994
It's not anyone in particular, purely a hypothetical I'm posing based on your previous answer.
>>23560012
I think the question should really be: How does altruism and compassion affect a woman's perception of a man?
girls: is it a bad things if a guy is unexperienced? how much fat can a guy have before getting ugly?
>>23559972
cheers m8
>>23559977
true true, but we never know for sure if anyone likes you.
except your besties.
and friends you had from before you hit puberty
but im never sat there worrying about it (not sure if others do)
and desu fake sympathy is better than no sympathy.
and thats a shame.. whys that?
>>23559977
Lingerie is for me.
its for me to feel sexy and high in this 'self-worth' i keep going on about.
anyone got a better word for it?
its not exactly pride... a bit different.
>>23559994
>>23560003
everyone makes mistakes chill out (you're probably super chilled now already) but still, clearly both just made small human errors- know why they're called human errors? cuz every human makes them.
>>23560103
No worries.
>>23559987
unless you're a true extenuating circumstance (relative, childhood friend, in a relationship we're confident is healthy, or like a really close guy friend (like we friendzoned you and its been absolute time) we assume you just want to sleep with us.
Well at least I do, and a few of my friends.
and nah.. if anything we like you less
yet agan it comes under that whole 'fitting it within context thing'
if you're already talking to me and you see the status, sure go nuts.
but see look! this is exactly why we think this way. You've got a girl there you admire upset about something, and you're not thinking about 'I hope she can feel better' you're thinking, 'i wonder if I'll get closer to that bj I want if I sent her a message now asking if she's okay
>>23560029
I was making assuptions based on us not knowing each other.
When we know each other it can depend on 50 gazillion different factors including really daft small stuff like if we're hungry.
if you had a specific scenario in mind I could help to an extent
>>23560157
That sucks! I wish compassion could just be taken on face value but I understand why it's not.
You've answered so many! Do you have any questions of your own?
>>23559964
sorry I completely forgot about this one.
if you can be 100% you can get away with breaking it we'd all be doing it.
the problem is you can't.
you never know if the guy is gonna tell anyone.
it's too risky.
if you're caught your rep is lowered to every girl, suddenly you're a slut. Lowered to every guy too, cuz guys will get behind anything if they think theyve got a chance out of it.
and then essentially your life is over.
you wont see it (different personalities in front of men thing) but we bully the shit out of whoever is the slut, i really dont like it but i sorta have to fit in.
we'll be super passive aggressive to her and like we might spit in her drink or some shit when no ones looking. send anonymous hate messages, etc. pretty dark.
>>23560175
ive asked like 3 haha
im really grasping at straws now.
does tightness really make a difference?
like would you go for a girl based on that knowledge?
everyones ditched the thread and now im sad.
(purposely took longer than 30 mins because it makes me feel good knowing you all waited for me... but then again most didnt.. so agh..
sick of these captchas ffs.
>>23560207
Why are you sad? you are a women you'll get attention no matter what. I bet you've got 500 orbiters on Skype right now.
>>23560193
Oh that's tricky. I mean for argument's sake if you had two identical girls but the only difference being tightness then of course guys would go for the tighter of the two.
>You could use the same analogy for cock size imo
But it's never the case that you're presented with an option like that so in the grand scheme of things, the only thing with tightness that would affect a guy's decision would be if she has a reputation for being really loose.
>>23560207
Why do some girls move on super fast from relationships? Like within a month from a near two year relationship? I never heard of a guy doing it but I'm assuming it's more prevalent in females, is it just loneliness or some shit
>>23560193
>does tightness really make a difference?
Kind of. It has almost nothing to do with your sexual activity, though. Too tight actually sucks.
At any rate, I wouldn't go for a girl solely based on that knowledge. Sexual compatibility is far more important and nuanced than that.
Source: Fairly wealthy 24 year old that sleeps around a good bit. 17 year olds in high school will tell you it matters and call me a cuck.
>>23560210
Nah, ive only got one guy messaging me atm and I'm ignoring him.
it is like 2:20 here though. everyones at work and shit.
>>23560193
yes thigthness makes a huge difference, it gives us toughts of how many dicks have been there, huge ones, small ones, none, the whole town.
fact: any girl can have a big wide vagina without having any sex, and some sluts have the tight ones, its just how your body was composed
>>23560223
ah I see. Cheers
>>23560224
We haven't exactly moved on, we're given plenty of options. the moment you become single guys get so fucking thirsty. My inbox actually floods.
'you alright hun' 'heard about the bad news...' 'im here for you if...' ahahaha
but with that comes choice too, you can meet a guy, play the whole thing as 'needing some support' he'll be hoping it works out and you're just using it as an opportunity to get to know his fit mate better.
heartbreak is less painful when you suddenly feel so desired and so free. we'll often have a few one night stands immediately because this is your 'rebound period' and you're not a slut for anything done in this period for some reason.
along the way you'll miss the guy from time to time, but you don't get swamped down in it because you can just message some other hot guy when you feel that way and reap the compliments.
>>23560231
and thanks, not sure why you had to specify you were 'fairly wealthy'... oh no wait... Yes I do.
[like even if you werent and it was relevant i've already decided that in mind now, and it'll be very difficult to get rid of that perception of you now. Just as an example.
anywho last few now gtg in a min.
>>23560271
Appreciate the words, definitely food for thought m8
>>23560275
Alright two more, it's half past twelve and I'm pretty keen for sleep (but this is really enlightening, thanks btw)
Have you ever been friendzoned by a guy? How has this made you feel and have you talked about it with the girls?
If social perception is such a big deal, how do you see an otherwise attractive guy who stays out of it? (ie. Facebook)
>>23560299
np
and with that im off.
treasure the knowledge chaps
>>23560304
ill do these haha.. one sec.
>>23560304
sure ofc I've been friendzoned who hasn't?
and it just makes me want them more. So here's what I do in this scenario in steps. if one succeeds woohoo.
1. really doll myself up for him, give hints that I want him to message me
2. try and make him jealous
3. find out who he likes instead of me because thats got to be it right!? bitch about her to my friends, start rumours, try and make her less attractive as a result of this.
4. Convince myself that the guy wasn't my type anyway and I'm too good for him. string along other men to distract me for the time being.
5. eventually the lie becomes real in your own mind and you're no longer attracted.
I have however had feelings unearth when a guy got a girlfriend 4 months after my initial attraction. in which case I went through the steps again.. more or less.
>>23560304
social perception isnt just social media.
popularity existed before facebook.
we like popular people
attractive and popular people.
its instinctual
>>23560328
>>23560333
That's really great, cheers and nice trips.
also one last tidbit.
this is just my opinion so dont tke it as fact.
Most bands only get big because of women liking the members, so we fan girl and hype them up, and go to their shows and dream of being with them. And men follow suit hoping to have something in common with us for a better chance to get with us.
If we talk music amongst girls 60-70% is about the specific members and their talents.
>>23560342
and cheers thats actually my first trips ever woot woot.
>>23560342
if you're still here see if you've learnt anything.
What am I thinking now?
>>23559249
Id give it a shot but how much loose skin are we talking? I can deal with stretch marks and if you were chubby cool but if you were 300+ and it looks like you have 10 pnds of skin hanging probably not. But pics would help.
Alright, I have another one. Does the size of a guy's social circle tie in to his level of attractiveness, regardless of how many truly valuable friendships he has (going back to the alpha male thing)?
>>23559096
I fucking love being dominated
>>23558820
Maybe, as long as he was more strong than fat, I much prefer skinny guys though
>>23559280
Brouges. Everyone should wear Brouges. >>23561070
No
Ladies: What's the process of peeing like for you? Do you just put your ass on the seat and start peeing or is there anything else you do?
And what does peeing feel like?
For ladies. Soc is obviously full of dick rate, lewd contact, oral hookup, etc. it's also always full of guys. 99.8% with .01% being actual girls, and the other .01% being guys posting girls accounts.
Do you (ladies) even lurk these?
Do you browse/post in dick rate threads? The word in sexy Skype/Kik/whatever threads is that you sometimes "just get lucky". Do you ever actually hit someone up to share pics/chat? If not is there a situation in which you would want to seek out a guy for sexy chat?
With any luck we might see fewer threads full of thirst which end up being pointless anyway and more threads that result in digital sexy times.
>>23559275
Thanks, OP.
>>23559258
>>23560609
Yeah, I was over 300, so it's going to be quite a bit.
I was mostly asking because a very sweet man likes me and I've been trying to muster up the courage to tell him he should give up. It's difficult because it's so nice to feel wanted for the first time, but I don't want him to waste his time.
Thank you for your honesty. I think I just needed to hear these to realize my selfishness.
I feel like this thread is filled with 14 year olds
>>23561347
Anonette, it's not your physique that make you "worthy", sure it can be difficult when you're 300lbs to prove your worth to people, because they're judgemental as fuck.
Anyway, you deserve, as everyone else, all the happiness in the world, don't push it away when you have the chance to be happy, grow some balls, take what you want and what you deserve in life :)
Good luck
Hey guys,
I'm a 20yr old flat chested female and refuse to get implants. Opinions? Would that make you dump me if you removed my bra and my titties were almost non-existant/smaller than yours?
>>23561810
No.
>>23558820
Yup
>>23559733
They are not a big deal for me. I hate fake nails. Natural and not painted
>>23560048
No it's not. Bad habits are worse. Obese.
>>23561070
Only if he has no friends. It's somewhat alarming if they have very little because it implies something is off about their personality or can't get along with people
>>23561175
Shit and pee. Whipe and done. Feels like relief
>>23561206
Yes I am a real girl.
I think those dick rate threads and all the other "crude" threads are a hilarious hypocrisy example of when the men here call girls crazy or whores. The men here are worse than any crazy girl any day.
>>23561175
You turn away from toilet, pull down pants and undies, and sit on seat. Nothing too complicated. If you have to go reeeally bad it almost can feel as good as a mini-orgasm (which is why the two feelings are compared), but otherwise it just feels like a warm release of fluid? Idk. Like stress relief.
femanon here! this is a genuine question so don't rip me a new one.
I've only been in monogamous relationships with straight men before. all of them have been standard and nice. I've recently started seeing a very successful, older, charming guy. at first he was really dominant and confident and I'm quite smitten.
a few weeks into us talking he disclosed he is into cuckolding. he wants me to fuck black men, keep him in a chastity device, slap him, humiliate him. the typical cuck stuff. this is very new to me because I'm super submissive and I've never dreamt of being mean to a partner.
I see a lot of shit about cucks/beta men being awful/undesirable etc. etc. what's really so bad about being with one? I'm worried all the cuck jokes are a huge red flag I'm missing. is being with a guy into cuckolding embarrassing? I don't understand the disdain, help soc.
>>23561898
Just keep it on the down low. There's nothing inherently wrong with it as long as both partners are into it.
The reason it's looked down upon is because
-Most societies are monogoamous and things outside the norm are ridiculed or attacked
-The average guy doesn't really want his partner fucking anyone else
-A lot of people see it as it's done against the guy's will, but he doesn't have the spine to stand up to it so he just takes it.
-A lot of people see it as the man's incapable of satisfying his partner, and that he's this worthless beta who holds onto an empty relationship just so he can say he's in one
-It's fucking hilarious to think about a guy who will literally just sit there and watch his partner fuck someone else then go get orange juice and hot towels for them afterwards.
tl;dr - it can theoretically work with the right people, keep it a secret or you'll (more specifically your partner) forever be the subject of ridicule among the general public. If he's into it, give it a try
>>23561898
Assuming that you are submissive by nature, then how long do you think the "fun" would last assuming a role that is not you? Furthermore, are you willing to fuck strangers that you have never met, where they can be total dregs. I'm not a cuck, but i once had a girl who wanted to have an open relationship and i sent her ass packing. She dated a guy who was in to that dumb shit. Needless to say she wanted me back.
The disdain for cucks comes from the simple fact that it is not normal to want to watch your women get fucked by another man. I bet you will find that he is a closet porn addict who prefers to watch people get fucked than actually do the fucking.
My turn, women what is the big deal about firearms? I haven't met a woman yet who enjoys shooting as a hobby. I am one of the most responsible and safest firearms owners you would ever meet. Maybe it is a regional thing, but i haven't been able to figure it out yet.
>>23559249
I always stand by the nobodies perfect thing for finding a mate, if you genuinely like someone it really doesn't matter. I cab honestly say I'd be with a woman like you but I'm also not exactly top quality specimen. Its all relative.
>>23559646
Depends on how good of friends and if they're the type to over react and shit. Here's a for instance tho, my buddy I met through a mutual friends dad passed away last year and its hit him kinda rough, one day I saw a depressed status of his so I messages him to see if he was alright. Ended up drinking some beers and talking it out that night and have been pretty good friends since, if you plan on intervening always message rather than comment, its more genuine and private.
>>23561810
Eh, more of an ass guy so wouldn't really bother me, if some guys close enough to seeing your tits he's not gonna care about the size of your tits
>>23561810
NEVER GET IMPLANTS
EVER.
Especially if you're flat. Silicone domes are the literal worst. Just wait until science can shoot lasers at them so they can grow naturally.
No joke I'd probably break up with a girl if she took off her bra and the boobs were fake.
My wife's son, who is a senior in high school, came out as gay last night so I let him know that when he turns 18, he can either move out or start paying me rent.
I've decided to spend his university tuition to treat myself to a new toy. Does /cuc.k/ have any ideas on what kind of nice car I can buy for myself? I have about $8k saved up
>>23559733
'cus we can scratch out your eyes with them.Honestly, I feel it's just a part of caring about how you look, though I'm not a fan of the whole claw thing.
>>23559853
> Being smart
> Having ambition
> Being confident
> Making you laugh
Pretty much this.
>>23560048
Nah it's kinda cute. I personally don't like too chubby guys. It depends on the build you got tho.
>>23561206
I usually only browse threads where other girls post lewds, dick's rate threads are sort of boring to me.
for a long time I thought I was only gay and surpressed my bisexual fantasies. but I actually want to have experiences with women.
I actually have women hitting on me, because I don't look so gay and am attractive enough.
but how could I approach it, what would be the best way?
what to femanons think about this
what would you think if I told you this openly?
>>23558820
Yes
Guys: how can average girl find interesting man for long term relationship when there is so many smart hotties?
>>23562599
A unique talent or hobby that you're into goes a long way; drawing, cooking, writing, etc. are all neat things that make you look passionate about something. No matter what he may say, every guy likes a girl who's passionate about something in life.
>>23562599
By being interesting.
>>23561810
Lots of people like small breasts
>>23561898
I don't see what's so bad about it if you're interested in it
>>23559790
I don't really find it appealing
>>23562599
Find something that you're passionate about. Anything that makes you excited and you can talk about will work well to get guys interested in you.
>>23561810
Of course not. Titties are great at every size, and a relationship shouldn't be ended over something as superficial as how big your breasts are.
>>23560359
>What am I thinking now?
Probably about something some other woman did on social media and how you can elevate your own perceived status there in.
>>23561105
>Brouges
Too formal for all day or casual jeans/shirt.
>>23561810
Like everything else in life, it is all relative.
>that being said, they are probably smaller than mine then (dips and flyes ppl).
>>23562081
>No joke I'd probably break up with a girl if she took off her bra and the boobs were fake.
Thats very insecure on your part mate, for all you know she had legit medical reasons for them and now you have just given her a complex; for shame.
>>23562599
>how can average girl find interesting man for long term relationship when there is so many smart hotties?
Much the same way many average men land attractive ladies; punch above your weight with confidence. Once you have made the effort to approach people you consider 'hot' then half the battle is done and you can start (hopefully) let them see you as more than a number / 10.
Okay then: Ladies, do you prefer (in a relationship) a man that just listens to your issues and comforts you, or someone that actively engages you and tries to help or provide suggestions?
Guys, does it turn you off if your girl wants her pussy eaten.. a lot? Multiple times a week, up to multiple times a day? Also, if we're dying to sit on your face how do we bring it up and get you to say yes??
>>23564123
This is totally depdent on the guy. This is my dream situation but I know a lot of guys who are disgusted by it, are indifferent or just do it as a matter of course. The only way to know this is to talk to your partner and find out.Just keep bringing it up and if he seems pretty indifferent to it, he's probably not that into it.
>>23562599
>how can average girl find interesting man for long term relationship
By going for an average man who interests you. Don't fall for the disney prince meme.
>>23564123
As>>23564132 said it personal preference.
That being said, its your responsibility then, to keep hygiene standards.
So far as face sitting goes, sometimes you can just take the initiative an mount a guy (dependent on your relationship) or if not then bring it up next time you have any form of sexually relative talk and gauge a reaction.
Personal experience is that you dont want a heavy girl to face sit. Besides the jokes about not being able to breath (some people may like that), it becomes physically taxing on both of you.
>>23561832
but do you lean forward when you pee? and does it tingle your labia when it comes out?
How does eating pussy as a girl feel? Having the same genatelia an advantage or disadvantage? How did you decide you wanted to try it?
Fems, do you like the way dicks smell and taste? Do you enjoy giving head overall?
>>23565595
Amazing. Nothing like tasting a girl you're in love with for the first time and making her scream your name. Yeah, I think I'm pretty good and knowing exactly what I'd want done to me helps.
Because I'm bi.
Question for femanons
What's more important in a guy
Personality and Appearance or Social/Financial/Career status
>>23560193
>implying tightness doesn't vary greatly based a host of factors.
>>23559790
It's definitely doesn't have universal appeal. I have no problem cumming all over my GF, but not on the face. Too messy and impractical, plus I'd rather not rub my nose in my own cum when I kiss her (in case I'm warming up for a second session right afterwards).
Do you agree?
>>23565666
For me, both.
They go hand in hand, especially for choosing a mate.
>>23565912
But if given an ultimatum which would you choose
Someone Who has a good apartment, job and car but is kinda boring or a dick
Or someone interesting, attractive, but still lives with parents, doesn't have a good job
(talking about people aged 18-24 where it's still somewhat acceptable to live with parents or not have a job)
White fems, would you date a qt Latino boy?
Latina fems, would you date a qt white boy?
>>23565965
It's not so much he doesn't have a job it's WHY doesn't he have a job, is it because he is lazy and just feels like being a freeloader? If that is the case then no, I am not interested.
If he is in school, applying for work but just hasn't found anything yet then it's no issue with me.
Ladies, will you shit in a public bathroom if you have to go?
Dude here. Are girls ok with being a side chick? What would you say if a guy you are talking to tells you he has a gf but still want's to get with you?
>>23559790
For me nothing feels as good as coming inside a girl sometimes I pull out and come on my gf's tit's just because it's fun and we both enjoy it.
>>23559968
Guys have raunchy/weird/random conversations among themselves. If a girl is around (that we are interested in) we keep it much more PG for the most part. Don't wanna seem like the weirdo pervs that we actually are. Also the shit talking gets toned down some.
>>23560193
It does a little. But I feel like, unless you are super loose or tight it's all about the same. Unlike dick size, girls can actually make themselves tighter by doing exercises.
>>23561810
I like all size breasts. Small tits are especially hot on a thin girl.
>>23561898
It's not my thing but it's just another kink. If it doesn't bother you and you like the guy, give it a shot. Like the other anon said though fucking randoms is probably not a great idea.
>>23562599
No one is average. Were all weird and awesome in our own ways. Just meet a lot of people and find someone who is into you.
>>23564123
I'd be down as long as we are also fucking as much as I want. Personally the hottest thing in the world is getting a girl off. With my dick or my hand or my mouth, I'm all about it.
Are there any ladylike women who don't use words like dick and cock?
>>23565978
Latina fem: hell yes I would. I feel like most of us go for white guys than any other race actually
For the female posters/lurkers
I often get complimented or told I'm attractive from bi/gay guys but I never really get anywhere with women. I've been told a lot of discouraging types of things from them regarding my looks that just don't seem to match up with what dudes are saying. Do I just have a really gay face? I certainly don't believe mine is overly feminine but still, in never getting hit on or anything from girls so pls lemme know thx :)
>>23558820
Guys, when you meet an attractive girl do you think about what kind of panties she is wearing?
>>23569396
All the fucking time desu
I love it when the elastic shows over a girls jeans
>>23569034
cool, what kind of Latina are you?
>>23569396
yes, I appreciate all kinds of panties though
thongs are preferred, but if I like a girl, even seeing her in briefs would get me rock hard
>>23566881
I avoid it at all costs. Only shit I take in a public bathroom is absolute "I will actually shit my pants in 30 seconds" emergency and I will go to extreme lengths to find a "one stall" bathroom. Or I will hold it in as long as possible until whoever's in the bathroom leaves. Then I'll get it over with as fast as possible and leave that crime scene before anyone can see my shame.
But frankly I also avoid pissing in public bathrooms whenever possible too. I don't like sharing my private moments with strangers. Plus they're all usually pretty gross, I'd rather shit where I know some herpes ridden crack whore didn't just smear her vagina puss all over the toilet seat so I don't have to squat over the toilet while trying to shit Jap style.
>>23565978
Possibly. (Light skinned) Latinos are hit or miss with me, but its about 50/50. Azn is my personal aesthetic, and sometimes I see Latinos that share some of the traits I like in azn men.
>>23567592
I don't share personally. However I'd hope your gf knows and is ok with you getting strange on the side. Because if you told me that the first thing I would do is tell her. Cheaters don't deserve to be in relationships. Cut her loose if you don't want her.
>>23565666
Honestly its a balance. I need to have a connection and be physically attracted to my partner, but I also refuse to financially support another human being. If I wanted that I'd spit out a hell spawn child and let it suck all the money and dreams out of me, not some grown ass man. But you in no means have to be wealthy. If you can support yourself (or at the very least have the drive and tools to soon be able to) you're date-able in my book. Thats how I see it in a realtionship, you support yourself and I'll support myself and we'll have a mutual understanding of having eachothers back if something goes wrong temporarily. Ah, modern love. We'll basically be single but single together.
>>23569601
south america/peruvian
>>23558820
Dude here: But pretty much any question about "Would you go on a date with..." is going to be a stupid question automatically, because the criteria people use for partners is a lot more than aesthetic. You're going to be someones type, and you won't be other peoples type. It's not a big deal.
>>23559096
Pretty much as old as time. I don't know any research off handily, but from the women I've talked to usually its just an extreme version of "turning someone on so much / making them want you so much that they cannot help themselves". It's less rape, more harlequin romance 'bodice ripper' style. The idea that you have such a powerful effect on a person that you revert them to base and masculine urges.
>>23559249
Same as the first comment, honestly. Not my cup of tea personally (just because of loose skin, assuming you mean actually hanging off your frame), but there are going to be people that dig it. I personally have zero issue with scars, a LOT of my partners have been fairly heavily scarred.
>>23559280
What style are you dressing to? Wear something that is clean and works with your outfit. Another anon suggested brouges; those are a pretty solid general purpose shoe - but will look very out of place if you have frumpy casual clothing.
>>23559646
I usually engage people when I notice such things. Find out what's going on, see if I can help them find a center point.
>>23559736
Honestly I raise an eyebrow at if you're even female. Yeah, that's true to an extent .. Not a universal truth necessarily, but that's not really a gendered trait. People want to be with people they find attractive - and attraction is going to be subjective. I hook up with a lot of women who are subjectively FAR more attractive than I am.
>>23569644
I take it you haven't dormed at college yet, all those bathroom fears go out the window pretty quickly.
And what is your ethnicity yourself?
>>23569660
nice, are you from Queens?
>>23569725
other side of the us actually
>>23565602
Not really. I think anyone who says they actually like the smell/taste of any genitalia is just lying. We do it out of love, or hopes of reciprocation, though. I personally hate giving head mostly because I have a small mouth and overcharged gag reflex. And the sound of it. The god awful slurping gross ass fucking noises that come from oral on either sex. It's a huge turn off to me. But I've always had an extreme disgust for facial fluids though. Snot, spit, even tears, they all gross me out to no end. But I can deal with shitty diapers from the kids I work with all day. My priorities are fucked.
That being said, I'd like to try getting eaten out one day. I've only ever had partners who expected me to blow him but got really grossed out by the idea of licking pussy. Again though, I don't like sucking dick all that much either so I'd never ask.
>>23565595
I wish I knew.
>>23563969
Depends on the issue. If it's something that can't realistically be fixed or its not that big a deal and I just want to rant about it for a minute, I'd rather just have the sympathetic ear. If I'm actually looking for advice or it is something major then yeah I'd love to hear some ideas.
Most shit doesn't actually bother me enough to do anything about it in the long run to be honest, but I still want to let off steam about it in the meantime and maybe just have the conversation of "Man becky at work is a cunt" "Yeah honey, she's a real cunt" "Thank you for letting me call Becky a cunt. I don't care about Becky anymore now that someone's heard me call her a cunt, lets have sex now"
Ya know?
>>23563969
I'm just curious, what the fuck actual medical reasons require fake tits lmao. Like name one problem where getting fake tits is life saving and not just purely for aesthetic? Like even I'd say its justified to get fake tits, say after getting a Mastectomy for whatever reason, but it's still just for the look of it. It doesn't help their health at all.
>>23569742
Cali?
>>23569743
do you like giving handjobs at least?
>>23559725
>>23559754
You must pick up really, really, REALLY fucking douche-y women if you're relying on dope and chains. Money works as an enable in the sense that it allows for experiences, and experiences go a LONG way, but if you're picking up people JUST because you have money you're getting outright used.
>>23559790
Personally I am pretty neutral to that. I've only had a few partners I've ever done that with and it was outright by their request. My current most active partner I absolutely fucking *destroy* in that sense, and it's hot because of how much she revels in it. What dudes tend to find really hot is people engaging in the moment and not worrying about how they look or what noises they are making. There's nothing wrong with hangups, but they aren't sexy.
>>23559848
Some women get off to it. I would venture though that, yeah, the majority of women are just doing it to please their partner. Some might get vicarious enjoyment ("I'm getting off on this because my partners getting off on it"), but yeah, a lot of people seem to do it out of duty/obligation.
>>23559848
With compliments you're GENERALLY best off complimenting things that aren't genetic. Compliment hair, clothing, make up, taste in books/music/movies/whatever-the-hell-have-you, because those are things she SPECIFICALLY has cultivated / chosen to do. Complimenting genetics is empty. It *CAN* work out well if you make non traditional compliments, or compliment someone on something they are insecure about, but that's a bit higher risk. Just compliment them on *who they express as*.
>>23559874
Alpha/beta/whatever shit is bullshit. Absolute bullshit. It has never applied to humans, and it never even applied to wolves.
Honestly, I always shake my head at dudes that go out with a group of dudes to pick up chicks.
>>23559909
That's a kind of risky thing to be broadcasting. Also massively depends on what you look like, and how you go about showing it off.
>>23561206
Definitely lurk in here and occasionally check the rate threads but usually minimize the dick rate threads. I like to browse the thread with the fill in chart of the ideal person the most but I only contact if they/or I match and both usually dont.
>>23569734
Yeah
>>23569764
Yeah, damn hard to reply on here to multiple on mobile so messed up above post...
>>23561206
I lurk in the oral hookups every now and then, but I live in the blackhole that is the midwest so I've never even seen anyone within 1000 miles of my location looking for the same thing.
I only go in dick threads when the thread picture is a really abnormal dick and I wanna see the freak show.
>>23561175
Yeah, thats about it. Sit down, start peeing. Only thing other thing I'll say is as a roastie sometimes I gotta position myself right or I'll get piss all over my ass.
>>23560048
To me yeah, but thats because my body is fucked up and I can rarely experience any sexual pleasure anyways, even from myself. So I tend to prefer more experienced guys who have a general clue what they're doing if I'm hoping to get even a slight tingle that night. But if you can at least pretend like you know what you're doing I probably won't even notice.
As for fat, idk how to describe it. My personal preference is non muscular skinny bois, but if you don't have a gut/ you have a flat stomach I think you're fine.
>>23569822
haha, how do you avoid peeing on your ass?
>>23560193
Tightness making a difference? Yes and no. I've been with people who were so insanely tight I could barely get my dick in at all, and I've been with people who were so far in reverse I could barely feel it. For the MOST part though, it's within a fairly narrow range - the vagina is a muscle after all, and it's going to more or less conform to the penis that is in it. Plus things like kegels. Awesome.
Honestly, it's kind of wonky. My most frequent partner can take bad dragon sized dildos, and is also fucking tight as hell. Its a delightful surprise.
No I wouldn't go for a girl on the knowledge she's tight. I never end up hearing that kind of discussion much, to be honest.
>>23560224
Dudes will do that too. For the most part though, to follow stereotypes, post relationship women will fall apart .. And then have a support network that they can fall back on to help them back on their feet. Dudes will act like they are on top of the world and they don't need relationships .. And then collapse because their partner was their only source of emotional release. So it builds up and they blow up further down the line.
People moving on super quick can be for a lot of reasons.
>>23560260
You say that tightness indicates how many dicks have been there, and then point out (accurately) that it's a genetic thing? What. However, yes, the last bit is right - tightness or looseness is not "caused" by anything. It's a muscle.
>>23560349
Welcome to pop music?
>>23561810
I don't give a shit if you're flat. I've had a number of super small chested partners. Whatever the fuck. I however, on the other hand, am not a fan of implants and would find them a turn off.
>>23561898
Do what you want to do. Don't give a shit about other people.
>>23562081
You can get some remarkably good implants. I do agree generally thought that I do not find implants attractive.
fems, describe your ideal penis
>>23569764
I actually love handjobs. They're so much fun, and I love being a huge tease (mostly because I want it to last as long as possible.) I can jerk off dicks all day really. Hell with my last bf I'd want to jerk him off even when I wasn't in the mood for having anything done to me. Like I said, I just find it fun.
>>23569725
Oh no, I did 2 years of dorms in college. I lived suite style though so my toilet was only shared with 3 other girls (and even that was hard because they were fucking disgusting). I refused to do community style. Call me a stuck up rich bitch, because I am lmao. Now I have a private bathroom in a house I rent out with 2 other people. I actually get stage fright in public bathrooms so to speak lmao. I'll be mid explosive diarrhea and I hear a door squeak open suddenly my anus is water tight until they leave.
I'm white.
>>23569861
I used to be like you but between dorming community style, then being a garbageman, I had to just suck it up, then I stopped caring. Honestly, it would take some getting used to, but it's nice knowing that you can relieve yourself.
But even suite style you'd still have to shit around other girls, right?
And good that you like handjobs, I would be okay with my gf not liking head as long as she gave handjobs and was sexual.
>>23562599
Be interesting. Aesthetics will get me to go and talk to someone, but I stick around for my interaction with them. If I have good chemistry with you and like you as a person, you rapidly will begin to get more attractive in my eyes. Same goes in the other direction - if someone grates on me, I can very rapidly pick out their flaws.
>>23564123
No. I am notorious for eating an insane amount of pussy. For partners that want oral, they usually just .. Either outright tell me they want oral, or they start things up / making out with me to get the mood up. Oral is fucking fun.
>>23565965
These are false dichotomies. People don't have to choose either or; there's lots of dudes out there that have personality/appearance/social/financial/career status.
>>23565978
One of my friends pretty much exclusively fucks "qt latino boys" and twink-ish guys.
>>23567592
I'm non-monogamous and super fucking open about it. I've had a few people that aren't interested in being a partner because of it (annoyingly), but I've never had any explosions.
Be up front and honest about what you're doing. Don't cheat on your girlfriend.
>>23568772
Dude, you pop up all the time. The fuck is with you.
>>23569074
I swear to god I will choke you with a rake, Brandon. Fuck off.
>>23569396
No.
>>23569743
I legitimately enjoy going down on women. I am neutral to positive about smell/taste because its .. Just pussy, it's not like its offensive or bothersome or really .. Anything. It's just pussy. I do not do it out of love / hope for reciprocation, I do it because I seriously get off to my partner getting off.
And oral gets people off with flying colors.
>>23569816
it's all good, haha
>>23569836
Like if my labia is positioned a certain way, the piss just runs off it and onto my ass, if my stream is weak enough. If that makes sense. If I adjust the labia it doesn't happen.
>>23569841
average size to slightly below average, cut, proportionate head and balls, clean. Idk I don't have much of a preference really.
>>23569885
Nah, it was its own room. It was basically an apartment. As long as the toilet is in its own enclosed room and its not a multiple stall type deal, I'm fine. Even in public bathrooms, if there's no stalls then I'm good. Nobody can be in the same room as me, and being separated by a thin half wall of metal doesn't count as its own room.
But I'm also like a once or twice a week shitter myself anyways. I don't usually run into the shit problem out in public. And like I said, I don't like peeing in public restrooms due to the cleanliness of it, but I'll do it much less begrudgingly than shitting.
Oh yeah I getcha. And I do go down out of love. I blew my ex quite a few times just because he really wanted it. I swallowed once just to try it but nearly threw up immediately. So now my rule is if I am blowing you, you cannot cum in my mouth. Or I'll bite lol. You can cum on my tits all you want, though I'd prefer not in the face.
>>23569895
Alright, I can appreciate that. That's kind of 80% of what I love about giving handjobs, is watching him cum and the satisfaction of knowing I made him cum. But I still stand by that nobody is actually going "Man I want a perfume that smells like pussy/dick so I can smell it all the time" lol. Its at best like you described, just a smell that's not bad but not fresh baked cinnamon rolls either lol.
>>23569950
do you adjust the labia with your hands or by sitting a different way?
have you had uncut before?
The bathroom in my suite before I flunked out was single stall, but other people could use the shower or sink at the same time if that makes sense.
I can understand not liking the taste of cum, that shit probably tastes awful. But I'd like you to finish me off with your hand rather than having me jack off.
>>23569981
Either. idk how to describe it most of the time all it needs is a little booty wigglin before I sit down to situate itself. The ass piss problem usually only happens if it gets tucked or pushed back, usually from tight panties/pants.
I'm officially 50/50 on my cut to uncut ratio. However I've only touched 2 dicks before so that's not that impressive. Idk if it was just because the cut was my first, but i dunno I just liked it better. I think it's because since I liked to tease, I like just lightly running my fingers up the shaft. With the uncut guy it just wasn't the same since it was more like dragging skin than running my fingers across it.
Oh I getcha. Ours were like, you had this tiny 6x6 "lobby" in your room, with 4 doors. 2 leading to 2 different bedrooms, and one leading to a shower, and the other leading to the toilet. We had sinks in our rooms. But even if it was set up like how you're describing it I'd say fuck you guys and just lock the door. Nobody needs a sink or shower that bad to do so while I'm on the can lmao.
Oh yeah, I'd take over too if thats what he wanted. My ex just liked to finish on my tits, so that's my common frame of reference. I just don't like cum in my mouth much. Like I'll barely put up with the precum.
I've been in a predicament for a while now. It's been 4 years since that guy, going on 5. I have yet to find anyone interested in actually dating, so I've been dabbling in hook ups. But I don't want to have actual penetrative sex with strangers, and I wouldn't mind a blow/handjob combo if it werent for the STD scare. I think it'd be hella weird to blow a dude with a condom on though. So I've been keeping it with handjobs only, but the market is rather scarce. idk what to do hah. I'm sexually starved but too nervous to do anything realistic with strangers.
>>23570029
the uncut shaft skin isn't as tight so I can see that being the case, although I'm pretty sure you'd be able to run your fingers across mine. It seems like having more skin to play with would be a plus, though.
hahah you'd be out of luck, the main door didn't lock.
A lot of guys would be happy just getting handjobs (as long as you're actually good at them) until you get to know them better. But at some point you gotta step it up, haha.
>>23570069
Yeah it was like playing with one of those little jelly tube toy things from the late 90s. Like they always joked it was teaching kids how to jack off, and now that I've jacked off an uncut dick I believe them completely.
Sigh, I know I just need to either find an actual date/bf or at the very least a long term fuck buddy. I just can't get comfortable with a dude I've only known for a single night, but goddamn I've hooked up for some heavy petting and make out/handjob shit with multiple guys totally intending to do it again sometime just to never get contacted ever again. IDK maybe I just suck at it lol or they didn't think anything could ever build up. I dunno. I'd rather not be in a actual relationship with a dude but just fuck around semi consistently than just doing these dumb 1 night stands.
I'm just gonna have to wait until my late 20's-30's. I'm just in that age where dudes are realizing they dont need to date chicks to get sex and can get a new chick in their bed every night so whats the point. They'll reach a quarter life crisis eventually and start thinking "shit I need to settle down" and that'll be my time to strike.
>>23570114
that's what I would want to, friends with benefits lol. I don't want comittment, but I hate never seeing people again that I like.
I wish it was that easy for me, haha. I would like to think I'm somewhat handsome but I'm a short dude and don't always spit the best G. But I almost had got laid last year after knowing this chick for 10 minutes, I was too drunk to remember what I said but it must have been pretty good lol.
Yo how do you guys find Qt's?
specifically Qt Weeb girls?
and not normies that pretend to be weebs.
Also how to hit on them?
thanks.
t.Pls help
>>23570267
they're all fucking chad
or actual autistic girls are going to run away from you in fear
>>23570280
yeah then where too meet the autistic ones?
>>23570314
r9k except they have 50 orbiters
>>23570341
Absolute shit. I'm not gonna waste time on some silly shit like that. Fuck that.
>>23559864
>>23559891
Women are absolutely disgusting
this coupled with this >>23570341
and >>23570280
has totally turned me off women.
>>23570114
It works if you just wanna fuck them, what about those of us who actually wanted a real relationship?
We are totally boned, and no way am i gonna settle down if i get hitched at that point. i'm prideful and being used like that is disgusting.
>>23565812
Hope this is true, justice is truly delivered in this case, all those all those abusers will get screwed over and rightfully so.
22,f
How many partners is too many to consider me as a gf and how do you feel if I tell you openly that I went through a really terrible slut phase
>>23570471
>How many partners is too many to consider me as a gf
1
would any males date a 20 year old, 5'2 130 lb nerd who still wears her middle school pokemon shirts? i'm very introverted and i honestly think i just fade into the background.
>>23570481
yeah :D
>>23570481
I would date you as long as you're nice
>>23570486
i wouldn't talk to you first though
>>23570512
i am but not super good looking or anything, very plain
>>23570481
No you have a bunch of orbiters already. Waste of time, ain't no one got times for silly games.
>>23570572
i honestly have zero friends, i can go a solid week without talking and that would be normal.
>>23570551
that's fine to me, maybe I would think you're very pretty anyway
>Yo how do you guys find Qt's?
>specifically Qt Weeb girls?
>they're all fucking chad
>would any males date a 20 year old, 5'2 130 lb nerd who still wears her middle school pokemon shirts?
>i wouldn't talk to you first though
life on easy mode :D
>>23570590
i'm too scared of screwing any chance of a cordial relationship up with words, anon.
>>23570602
I'm sure you fucked some 6'1" gymrat this weekend
>>23570602
I'll be your friend
>>23570609
only thing i have had up there is a tampon. also prefer chubbier guys
>>23570579
Oh i'm sorry about that, i'm just in a pissy mood. Yeah you sound datable, ive seen alot worse, and to be frank i would'nt say any of that is bad 130 on a 5'3 is okay? Im not too sure but i can tell its not an exsessive amount.
I don't think it'd be too hard for you, just go out, but be careful or you might attract unwanted attention.
Girls, how likely are you to show casual affection towards male friends? Things like sleeping on/against, kisses on the cheek, sitting in lap etc
One of my female friends is like this towards me and I'm not sure what to make of it.
>>23570632
i have a little belly but not a roll, would probably work my ass off if it got to that point.
>>23570615
where are you from? I'm down south and it's super rainy, which is just horrible.
>>23570590
Yep
i can't bully those who are kind even if this is true.
But if it turns out shes just a attention seeking whore than i hope she realizes how little meaning she'll get out of this ans how much of an uglier person it makes her on the inside.
>>23570642
ah I'm in New York, I was hoping you'd be closer
>>23570648
no down south, is it still cold up there? used to live in the snow and sometimes i miss it but mostly i don't...
do any boys wanna be sung to via Skype
>>23570678
South like in texas. Or like miami. Thats such a vauge term.
....or like brazil?
>>23570678
no, it's starting to get warm here
do you have any way we can keep in touch?
>>23570688
texas. not originally from here but the weather is humid and i like it!
>>23570703
Question specifically for you, so lets say i meet a girl whose introverted etc.
What would be the best way too aporach her without coming on too strong?
>>23570703
Oh and where do shy introverted girl congragate?
How do you put up with all the woman-hate
>>23570626
Do your friends know you're a virgin
How do the crazy memes about all women are whores make you feel
is it feasible that a girl has ever liked me
>>23570784
You're still alive!
Bro don't worry about it, I am pretty sure one whore out of the millions will like you, just don't give up hope.
>>23570784
Of course! Life is a constant quest for self-improvement, though; perhaps there are changes you could make to your appearance and/or personality to make more girls like you?
If a girl posted in a dirty Kik thread. And a guy the same similar age and not a total neck beard replied. What would be the perfect first introduction from the guy? Obviously. Just. Hi. Is dull and lame as fuck.
>>23570471
Anything over 3 is a red flag, a guy that would accept you, hold onto him and don't cheat
>>23570411
Not sure I understand what you're getting at.
I'd prefer an actual relationship in the long run too, but finding a guy in their early 20s who wants more than just a quick fuck for one night and then never wants to see you again after is like finding a needle in a hay stack. It's just the age. What I was saying was waiting until all those "quick fuck" guys get a little older and start deciding they actually want a relationship is when I'll actually get my relationship. Because we'll finally be in the same mindset, not that I'm trying to trick them or anything.
I'm not looking to use anyone. Sounds like you've had a bad experience and are projecting on everyone though. I mean, the last dude I was with told me I was just the "ugly chick" to practice on so he could get "you know, actually attractive women" to sleep with him. I'm not saying all men are monsters like him though.
>>23570632
>>23570642
I've got the same stats, 5'3 (though op I think originally said 5'2), been shuffling around between 125 and 130 for the past 6 months or so. From what I've gathered, 130 is the max in our height/weight range. we should be between 115 and 130, 115 being in danger of being slightly underweight and 130 being in danger of being slightly overweight. I describe it as chubby personally, but too many people think chubby and fat are synonymous these days. But I too have that stubborn little pouch of stomach fat that always makes me look fatter than I actually am, so I feel ya.
>>23570267
First off, calling people weebs and normies is going to generally work against you. Honestly though, you can meet them through any shared interests. Or, the best way is through friends that have mutual interests. I end up with a lot of partners that are super antisocial, and its usually because friends introduced us, or I bumped into them somewhere and we started talking.
Hit on them the same way you would anyone else - get to know them, and flirt them up. If you want an easy meetup/date, invite them to hit up a coffee shop or cafe with you. Super low key date means super low pressure.
>>23570411
You want a relationship eh? I would suggest losing the whole "women are disgusting" misogynistic bullshit view then, because who the fuck would want to date you?
>>23570471
Doesn't matter. Do you practice safe sex? Are you responsible with your sexual health? Do you practice the campground rule (leave partners better than you found them) and have good communication? Then I do not give a shit. I don't care about peoples partner counts.
>>23570481
In theory, yes. I say "in theory" because its not like that is much of a descriptor of you - just some vague physical traits. The pokemon shirts might be a turn off, potentially, but it depends on how they look on you. Who you are as a person is a bit more important than what shirts you wear though.
>>23570639
Talk to her about it then. Some people do that, some people do not. Depends on her comfort zones.
>>23570645
God, you seem like such a catch.
>>23570745
At home. Or at things relevant to their interest.
>>23570639
If I'm close, pretty likely. idk depends on the personality of both the chick and her friends. I have a gay friend whos ironically rather affectionate. We give eachother cheek kisses and cuddle all the time, platonically. But I have other guy friends (gay and straight) who aren't ok with getting that close.
If you're trying to see if she's into you, I guess the best measure would be watch and see if she does that to others. It's not surefire though because again, she might have just decided your personality matches the acceptability of that behavior whereas it doesn't on other people.
Femanons, are black guys actually bigger, and does it feel better? Like, actually?
>>23570684
skype?
>>23571743
no, they are pretty much the same and feel the same
>>23571823
Not to get too personal or anything... but how much of a study have you done?
>>23571827
3 black guys
5 white guys
>>23571841
What race are you?
>>23558820
guy asking ladies.....when your sitting on a guys face and really getting into it. is it ok to eat your ass too? or more just kinda lick it a lil? 2 girls now , completely stopped me when i did it. made things awkward
>>23571844
im white
>>23571849
mm idk i never actually sat on someones face, but if usually in they are doing a good job it wouldnt matter to me, ,next time you should wait for climax maybe?
>>23571863
Was the biggest you have had black or white?
>>23571849
What I have has success with is teasing back that way, then they usually move so your tongue ends up in the ass....
>>23571863
well not actually sit. but like 69. hmm might just hold off and ask them next time :/ ....seems to be a niche topic
>>23570759
Realizing it's fake and just 4chan sheep mentality and that they have sad sad lives.
>>23571871
cheers anon.......oddly i cant seem to find anyone really into it. keep meeting shy grills
>>23570639
I wouldn't say kisses on the cheek but if I'm comfortable with someone then I will lean/lay on them. Put my feet under their butt if they are cold. I don't read it as anything sexual at all.
first post?
>>23558820
k femanons......on average how many "sexy time dreams " do you have in a week/month? being a guy i tend to have say 1 per week, usually involving co workers or someone sexy in my life.
>>23571871
like 7
>>23571873
yeah idk i personally wouldnt mind it, maybethe other girls are a bit insecure about it
>>23570639
im pretty flirty irl, but usually if i touch the person in anyway then im interested.
>>23571882
thats just stupid, and youre the reason guys think less of women
>>23571899
very rare
>>23571915
really? wow......thought it was a mutual thing both guys and gals did.
>>23571911
yeah think i need to meet someone more adventurous
>>23571927
it only happens to me if i dont masturbate/have sex for a long time
>>23558820
what do women really think of gay guys?
>>23571937
I love them, my best friend is gay
>>23571849
Butt stuff of any kind is an instant lady boner killer for me. I'd get turned off immediately, so for me no. I mean, yeah its an awkward conversation but I think you just need to know your partners opinion on butt stuff before you do anything. Idk why you'd want to eat shit but to each their own.
>>23571899
Hardly ever. I'd say maybe 10 a year.
>>23571911
>thats just stupid, and youre the reason guys think less of women
Someone's mad lol.
>>23571937
They're men who like other men. I treat them like I would any of my other friends, male or female, straight or otherwise. I personally don't put people in my life in categories based on shit like that, but rather by relationship. They're either in the friend bucket or the potential mate bucket. They all get treated the same within their own class.
>>23570471
There is no such number. This stupid double standard slut shaming bullshit needs to stop. All that matters is that you're faithful to me
>>23571899
Guy here. Are you talking about wet dreams? I've only actually ever had one in my life.
>>23561968
>My turn, women what is the big deal about firearms?
I think many associate them with war and violence, and as a peaceful beings dislike them. In my coyntry most people who have guns use them to hunt and some think hunting is wrong (imo if you actually use the meat it is much better than eating domesticated animals).
>>23565595
I think it is fun, tastes good too. It is usually an advantage, seems like many guys have no idea what feels good but also you might think something you really like feels good to all girls when actually we are all a bit different. Im more into girls than boys so I guess eating out a girl was one of my first sexual fantasies.
>>23565602
Dicks just taste like skin unless you are dirty? Cum tastes horrible though. I like giving oral
>>23565666
Personality and Appearance ofc
>>23565812
I think males peak would be lower, closer to 30 but yes.
>>23566881
Girls dont poop you idiot! But seriously yes if I really have to
>>23567592
I was a side chick once because I really wanted sex but felt really bad for the gf. Would not do it again
>>23568772
Idk. Are men really bothered by such language?
>>23558820
i'm bi but i feel like whenever girls find out they're turned off by it
how do i get girls/act straighter to improve my chances at hooking up/dating w/ girls?
>>23564123
I'm sort of submissive, so please sit on my face whenever the fuck you feel like it. Not even an exaggeration.
>>23571982
yeah wet dreams (guys or gals)
>>23571968
i dont know maybe im thinking to logical. thought a girl who likes a dick /finger in her ass would like it being eaten too....guess i was wrong. why are women so confusing (rhetorical btw )
>>23570471
>gf
doesn't matter, sky's the limit. your purpose here is exclusively sex, though, and even then only men without self-respect will want you.
>wife
3 max, all of which must have exclusively been with men you genuinely loved and intended to stay with.
the biggest sin of feminism is telling women that they can fuck around and still find a good husband. the only thing you're worth now is your vagina, dear, and that's got an expiration date of 30 years.
i know a lot of girls that did a lot of slutty stuff because they thought it would make them "cool". i just shake my head. and no, there's nothing you can do to remedy this. the damage is already done. your options are to either settle for a beta or die alone.
>but muh double standard
this is 100% fictitious. men who fuck around aren't husband material either. they aren't respected by their peers. only dudebros think that shit is cool.
>>23569841
Has no diseases. Idk all dicks look the same to me and dont really care about piv sex
>>23570267
On the internet and anime cons. Hitting on them might be hard as many I know are shy around males
>>23570639
I dont even like to do stuff like that with female friends, I avoid touching my male friends at all. She might be interested in you
>>23570759
I find it funny really, bitter guys act just like the feminazis they hate most
>>23571849
Some do like it but if they dont want it there is nothing you can do about it.
>>23571899
Couple of times in a month.
>>23571937
Just like any other guy, I just dont try to get the D
>>23570639
Only if we've known each other for a long time or if I actually have a crush on them. I usually would never kiss on cheek though unless I like them but it's different depending on what is culturally acceptable from where ever this girl is from; in the us so i'd only do that if I really liked the guy and I knew he probably liked me back.
>>23571899
About the same. I love having those dreams, or just any dreams, so I try to provoke them if I can. I usually go once a week but if I haven't spoken to anyone new I won't for at least 2 weeks sometimes even a month. Had one last night and was fab but then had to wake up.
>>23571937
Nothing other than that they are friends. I like that I won't have a chance with them so I never fall for them, which can happen a lot. Good stuff, most of my guy friends are gay and it's the best.
>>23572066
Oh I misunderstood, if you were with chicks who were into anal and shit to begin with then yeah, I'm not sure what the aversion to a tongue in the ass really is. But idk, everyones got weird little hypocritical things in their kinks. Like I for one am really submissive and have a kink for being treated like a slave or just a fuck toy, but I don't want him to cum on my face because I find that too degrading. But please tie me up and fuck me senseless while reminding me I'm just a living fuck doll.
Its backwards, I know, but it is what it is. Probably be better off getting an answer from someone who likes anal than me though, because I can't even begin to wrap my head around the appeal of it, especially from a woman's standpoint since we don't even have prostates to have fun with.
>>23572075
wait you don't like vaginal sex?
>>23572071
>the only thing you're worth now is your vagina, dear, and that's got an expiration date of 30 years.
lolz
I agree with some of it but that one, hahahaha no
>>23572167
I'm not her, but statistically 70% or so of women get nothing out of penetration anyways. I'm one of them. I'm 100% clitoral. sticking a finger or dick in me is all for you, not me. If you wanna get me off you're going to have to touch my clit.
>>23572189
confirmed ignorant
you're not worth anything at 30 because you become far more infertile and your children are far, far more susceptible to birth defects.
meanwhile, younger women are more attractive, much more fertile and generally attracted to older men. males can always date down but women have this very short time-frame to find a good husband before they have to settle.
i didn't make up the rules, girl.
>>23572214
lol so an infertile woman in her 20s is garbage too then right? And she will never find anyone to date or have sex with? lmao
If we're all about purely breeding that is.
>>23572201
every woman i've heard this from, i've proven wrong.
i don't want to be crude but i think the men you've been with are just selfish and bad at sex.
>>23572230
hey, if having sex is your end goal then by all means, be totally unrestrained. just don't expect any man to want to keep you.
if your goal is love, you have until 30 and (max.) 3 chances at it.
if you don't want kids, though, i don't see why any of this matters. to be perfectly frank, you may as well not even be alive because you're clearly an evolutionary dead end.
>>23572252
>implying most women don't fake orgasms all the time either.
Here's one article on it https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stress-and-sex/201209/female-orgasm-time-stop-shoulding-ourselves
For the record, I've never had a dick in me, but even fingers, even my OWN fingers, and dildos do nothing for me. Its actually uncomfortable more than anything. I guess I'm just selfish to myself then? lol.
>>23572266
What I'm saying is relationships are more than just breeding. We actually have connections with other human beings, we have a wide range of emotion. It's not about spitting out babbies otherwise why date at all? Why aren't you just grabbing women off the street and impregnating them the same way feral cats do?
Love itself is completely unrelated to physical appearance or the ability to spit out kids. Love is the emotional connection, not the lust.
>>23572266
Also
>if you don't want kids, though, i don't see why any of this matters
Because again, we want the emotional connection, not just to be baby factories.
>>23571849
Communicate with your partner. Some women will be super into it, some women will be super disgusted by it. Find out what [your] woman likes.
>>23571911
That's fucking stupid. People can touch each other without it being a big deal in the slightest bit; there's no significance to something like leaning on/laying on someone unless you make it significant.
And the only people I know who make it significant are the guys who don't ever seem to interact with girls.
>>23571982
Yeah, as another guy, I have zero knowledge of ever having a wet dream in my life. I've had partners tell me before that I've had them at LEAST once, but otherwise no knowledge. For women there's a hell of a lot less "evidence" of wet dreams unless they wake up mid orgasm or distinctly remember the dream.
>>23572071
Alpha/beta stuff is fucking stupid. It doesn't apply to humans; hell it doesn't apply to wolves. Having sex with people doesn't "damage" them. There's nothing wrong with wanting someone who hasn't been promiscuous, but you better be applying the same standard to yourself or you're a bit of a shit.
Though you kind of come across as a bit of a shit all the same to be honest. People are worth more than their genitals.
>>23572252
That's nice? Except that's what the actual data says - and it's 75%+. Some sources have gone up to 90%.
>>23572296
Pure curiousity: Ever had any response to heavily directed g-spot stimulation?
>>23572313
I'll give that I'm rather inexperienced, so no I havent. But mostly because I can't even get that far in without extreme discomfort or pain. I couldnt use tampons as a young girl because they hurt too much, I don't use penetration in masturbating because every time I tried it was just uncomfortable if not painful. No amount of lube helps the discomfort at least, while it can help the pain. But idk how to describe it, it just feels yucky when somethings in me. Like touching a texture you don't like, you just feel like "Elugh" I really think it is actually a texture thing. I just do not like the feel of it and its enough to actually turn me off.
>>23572167
No. It can feel good if you hit the right spot but not as good as stimulating clit or even anal. Also fear of pregnancy makes it bad mentally
There's a girl I met from out of town who's DTF.
I don't want to tell her I'm a virgin, I don't want her to know. I'm in my mid 20s.
Lurking threads I've seen girls say not knowing how to put on a condom is a tell-tale sign. What are other things you notice that make you suspicious?
>fake it till you make it
>>23572427
why you would use a condom .
Girls how do you close the deal when trying to get some?
I feel like I can get to second or third base quite often. I am not great looking but I have girls sometimes come up to me to talk at bars/clubs. I have tired whipping it out a few times and that only worked once.
>>23572338
Have you ever had your GP examine you for vagismus or what not?
And texture issues generalize to also other folks fingers and to toys?
>>23572313
I disagree, there is a social norm, and going outside the norm can rightfully be labeled at flirtly, putting feet on butts, and laying on people? sure it its a joking matter, but im assuming you mean as if it were casual.
>>23572446
Kiss my neck, try to foreplay a bit, if you're at third base, then you should be able to go home imo
>>23572296
>Its actually uncomfortable more than anything
that really doesn't surprise me. the women i've been with who have confessed that they don't like penetration were like that too -- couldn't enjoy it while masturbating and their past men sure as hell couldn't do anything pleasurable. in fact, the last girl i was with had a complex about it... until we had sex.
it's all about the logistics. i don't want to be crude but if you're interested, i can tell you more.
>What I'm saying is relationships are more than just breeding
that's exactly what i'm saying, too. but breeding is absolutely part of it, it just doesn't make sense unless the kids will have good parents. the entire emotional component is a mechanism selected for during our evolution because it produces better parents and better parents produce better kids. our entire psychology is built around optimizing and increasing the quality of our reproductive abilities. you not wanting kids doesn't change that -- a good father will always be a good husband because those are the traits women find desirable.
the same is also true for women, as well as the reverse: bad mothers will be bad wives. women who have slept with a lot of men tend to be shitty mothers, cheat on their husbands and disproportionately initiate divorces vs women who haven't been with many men. there's even a saying: never try to make a whore into a wife.
i hope that makes sense.
>>23572313
>Having sex with people doesn't "damage" them.
except that's wrong. see image.
>Alpha/beta stuff is fucking stupid. It doesn't apply to humans
in its strict interpretation, sure but you should also be aware that no one uses it like that. hell, no one even knows the strict interpretation of what an alpha or a beta is. it's just an arbitrary categorization of people based upon behavioral patterns and to that end has incredible utility. for example: women are, as a rule, more attracted to men displaying "alpha" behaviors and repulsed be "beta" behaviors. protip: that's because whether or not the opposite sex is attracted to them is the criteria for categorization.
>That's nice? Except that's what the actual data says - and it's 75%+. Some sources have gone up to 90%.
and i'm sure the number of guys who are terrible at sex closely represents that same statistic.
but again, i'm just basing this off of personal experience. call it an abundance of self-confidence.
>>23572511
Except that's wrong, and the author of the paper specifically says that it should not be interpreted in such sense. Taking it out of context makes it look like it fits your argument, but the reasoning for it is removed. Women with higher partner counters were more likely to have suffered sexual abuse as children, and are more likely to have children from a prior partnership.
Children from prior partnerships were the number one cause of unstable/unhappy relationships.
Correlation is not causation.
As for alpha/beta: It's still a fucking stupid term, and you can find better descriptors. Whenever I see people drop alpha/beta terms, I've noticed a strong tendency for them to be tied to MRA/redpill/chuck-fuck stuff like that.
Anecdotes do not overrule data.
>>23572511
correlation doesn't imply causation, this could just as easily be explained as seeking out extramarital partners being a symptom of underlying emotional state
